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DuaneBidoux (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 11:57 AM Original message |
Do you consider New Jersey civil unions to be a victory for gays and lesbians? |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 11:59 AM Response to Original message |
1. It's a victory, but it still says that gays are 2nd class in NJ. You've already asked this BTW. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 12:22 PM Response to Reply #1 |
10. Yup, I'm wondering why the OP felt the need to ask this -- AGAIN |
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DuaneBidoux (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 06:53 PM Response to Reply #1 |
48. Is this hostility? I don't recall asking anything about a specific ruling on civil unions in a... |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 07:15 PM Response to Reply #48 |
53. You posted the same basic question November 16, 2006 |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 07:18 PM Response to Reply #48 |
57. It was the exact same question, just not framed about the NJ ruling. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 07:19 PM Response to Reply #57 |
59. Although it happened after the NJ ruling and during lots of GD threads |
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DuaneBidoux (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 09:04 PM Response to Reply #59 |
69. If you do this with friends I'd love to think what you would do to enemies. |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 09:16 PM Response to Reply #69 |
72. She treats her friends quite nicely. Take that for what you will. |
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JackBeck (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 12:00 PM Response to Original message |
2. It's a partial victory. |
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RaleighNCDUer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 12:06 PM Response to Reply #2 |
6. I'm not sure I really get it -- |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 12:07 PM Response to Reply #6 |
8. Legally, you are not married. Straight people are married in the eyes of the law. |
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RaleighNCDUer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 01:22 PM Response to Reply #8 |
15. "Legally" is meaningless. If you have the same legal rights |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 01:53 PM Response to Reply #15 |
17. a lot of federal rights are associated in marriage. |
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sui generis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-27-07 01:08 PM Response to Reply #17 |
90. isn't it funny how that argument is always greeted with silence? |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 02:22 PM Response to Reply #15 |
18. Well, marriage is a both a civil and religious institution in this country. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 02:23 PM Response to Reply #15 |
19. Because it IS a two-tiered system, Whether or not you want to admit it |
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RaleighNCDUer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 02:58 PM Response to Reply #19 |
20. Again, show me how this results in discrimination against you |
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sniffa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 03:12 PM Response to Reply #20 |
21. DOMAsayswhat? |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 03:14 PM Response to Reply #21 |
22. I love it when they come into the GLBT forum just to say our feelings and rights don't matter. |
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sniffa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 03:15 PM Response to Reply #22 |
24. mmmm, intimacy |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 03:16 PM Response to Reply #22 |
25. Yes, especially when they come to |
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RaleighNCDUer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 04:50 PM Response to Reply #22 |
44. Who's spitting? |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 04:59 PM Response to Reply #44 |
46. We have a LEGAL RIGHT to have a civil union. We do not have a LEGAL right to get MARRIED. |
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DuaneBidoux (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 07:10 PM Response to Reply #44 |
51. This is my post. I don't care what "their" hang up is. It is. That is enough. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 07:13 PM Response to Reply #51 |
52. You asked this same damned OP months ago |
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NMMNG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 07:27 PM Response to Reply #44 |
62. Why are you asking *us* why the word "marriage" means so much? |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-22-07 08:19 AM Response to Reply #62 |
78. Best answer on this thread n/t |
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DuaneBidoux (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 07:04 PM Response to Reply #22 |
50. I hope that is not what you think that I (the poster) did. |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 07:16 PM Response to Reply #50 |
54. It was actually a general statement, basically aimed at those who believe seperate but equal is okay |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 07:18 PM Response to Reply #54 |
56. Why, gosh, more links and facts |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 07:19 PM Response to Reply #56 |
58. They fuck up the truthiness some believe. That's for damned sure. |
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RaleighNCDUer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 03:20 PM Response to Reply #21 |
27. As a matter of fact, in the unlikely event that I ever do enter into a |
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sniffa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 03:21 PM Response to Reply #27 |
29. DOMAsayswhat? |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 03:26 PM Response to Reply #27 |
31. Nope, it would be a civil MARRIAGE, according to US law, since presumably your 3rd MARRIAGE would be |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-22-07 08:20 AM Response to Reply #31 |
79. Yup |
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JackBeck (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 03:15 PM Response to Reply #20 |
23. It's "double taxation." |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 04:00 PM Response to Reply #23 |
35. I didn't know it cost more! |
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JackBeck (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 04:14 PM Response to Reply #35 |
37. I stand corrected. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 03:20 PM Response to Reply #20 |
26. Because it's not the same. And, there is no reason for it not to be the same. |
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RaleighNCDUer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 04:27 PM Response to Reply #26 |
41. Who says that a civil ceremony has to be in a dingy office with |
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swimboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 03:25 PM Response to Reply #20 |
30. So you've decided civil unions is good enough for us, unless we can prove to you otherwise |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 04:38 PM Response to Reply #30 |
42. Exactly, swimboy. |
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swimboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 04:55 PM Response to Reply #42 |
45. Thanks, midlo. |
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IntravenousDemilo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-22-07 07:37 AM Response to Reply #20 |
77. It's not really so much a question of "feelings", but of justice. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-22-07 08:20 AM Response to Reply #77 |
80. Very, very nice post -- thanks |
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moose65 (525 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-22-07 08:25 AM Response to Reply #77 |
81. Thanks for that post! |
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JackBeck (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 12:08 PM Response to Reply #6 |
9. Like I said, |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 12:24 PM Response to Reply #6 |
11. Because it's not being called the same thing |
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swimboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 03:27 PM Response to Reply #6 |
32. You don't have to "get it". You've already got it. |
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terrya (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-24-07 10:53 AM Response to Reply #2 |
89. Correct answer |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 12:00 PM Response to Original message |
3. It's a step in the right direction, but it's not actual equal rights |
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no_hypocrisy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 12:01 PM Response to Original message |
4. Yes and No. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 12:25 PM Response to Reply #4 |
12. Exactly! |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 03:21 PM Response to Reply #4 |
28. You nailed it. |
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moose65 (525 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-22-07 08:27 AM Response to Reply #4 |
82. you're correct! |
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SteppingRazor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 12:01 PM Response to Original message |
5. I think this is just a fairly weak stepping stone. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 12:26 PM Response to Reply #5 |
13. At least the NJ law is the must equal of separate but equal civil unions |
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DainBramaged (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 12:07 PM Response to Original message |
7. As a straight old man with Gay friends, it is a victory |
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samq79 (170 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 12:31 PM Response to Original message |
14. An interesting question... |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 01:52 PM Response to Original message |
16. its a consolation prize. |
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OregonBi (136 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 03:31 PM Response to Original message |
33. baby steps |
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swimboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 03:42 PM Response to Reply #33 |
34. Welcome to DU, OregonBi! |
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Siyahamba (890 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 04:13 PM Response to Original message |
36. It seems backward at this point. |
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kitkatrose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 04:15 PM Response to Original message |
38. I have a question, if someone doesn't mind answering. |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 04:24 PM Response to Reply #38 |
39. No. NJ will recognize civil unions and same-sex marriages (as civil unions) from other countries |
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moose65 (525 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-22-07 08:31 AM Response to Reply #39 |
83. Interesting.... |
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moose65 (525 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-22-07 08:36 AM Response to Reply #83 |
84. My 2 cents |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-22-07 09:11 AM Response to Reply #83 |
85. Right, as far as I know, they aren't automatically recognized if you move from NJ to VT or CT, etc. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 04:24 PM Response to Reply #38 |
40. No, because of DOMA |
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kitkatrose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 04:43 PM Response to Reply #40 |
43. Thanks Haruka and LostinVA. That's what I thought, but wasn't really sure. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 06:44 PM Response to Reply #43 |
47. That's because we're evil soul twins! |
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foreigncorrespondent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 07:03 PM Response to Original message |
49. What equal rights would that be? |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 07:17 PM Response to Reply #49 |
55. Oh,FC, stop being so overly sensitive |
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DuaneBidoux (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 07:26 PM Response to Reply #55 |
61. Can you point to one post where I have taken you to task? |
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foreigncorrespondent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 08:39 PM Response to Reply #55 |
65. I'm sorry, LVA... |
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DuaneBidoux (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 07:23 PM Response to Reply #49 |
60. I'm not spinning it. Give me a friggin break! I am NOT YOUR ENEMY |
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foreigncorrespondent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 08:37 PM Response to Reply #60 |
64. Oh God you are so clueless... |
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DuaneBidoux (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 09:02 PM Response to Reply #64 |
67. Where did I state: |
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foreigncorrespondent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 09:22 PM Response to Reply #67 |
73. Right in your OP! |
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DuaneBidoux (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-22-07 10:46 AM Response to Reply #73 |
86. I will concede half a point on this and claim only that my writing could have been better. |
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foreigncorrespondent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-22-07 11:13 AM Response to Reply #86 |
87. Oh please! |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 08:42 PM Response to Reply #60 |
66. Why keep asking the same question? |
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DuaneBidoux (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 09:03 PM Response to Reply #66 |
68. Can you please point out where I told other people how they were supposed to feel? |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 10:03 PM Response to Reply #68 |
75. It's what I'm hearing implied in the endless repetition of the question |
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TechBear_Seattle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 08:00 PM Response to Original message |
63. Jim Crow marriage is not a victory |
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DuaneBidoux (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 09:06 PM Response to Original message |
70. From OP, can mod please lock? This has apparently been provocative. I will post here no more. |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 09:12 PM Response to Reply #70 |
71. Oh please, you come into here to start flamewars (I posted links above linking to those threads) NOW |
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foreigncorrespondent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 09:25 PM Response to Reply #70 |
74. Why is it... |
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JeremyWestenn (372 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-21-07 11:13 PM Response to Original message |
76. Yep. Next best thing to what we want. n/t |
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Divine Discontent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-24-07 02:30 AM Response to Original message |
88. heck yes! n/t |
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