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BeeBee Donating Member (480 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 12:42 PM
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My partner of 17 years and I...
will be getting married as soon as we can.
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skooooo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 12:44 PM
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1. oh..
At first I thought you meant your partner was 17 years old...lol.
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BattyDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 12:44 PM
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2. Congratulations!
:hug: :toast: :hi:
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truedelphi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 12:45 PM
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3. Congratulations! May your marriage be as happy as all the best days of your
Partnership, rolled into one.
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Oceansaway Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 12:45 PM
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4. TOUCHE !!..n/t
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urbuddha Donating Member (266 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 02:02 PM
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29. My partner of 13 years and I will be, too !!!
Congratulations on 17 years and all the best to both of you !!!
:party:
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Marrah_G Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 04:09 PM
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35. Congrats!!!!
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deadmessengers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 12:45 PM
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5. Congratulations!
This is a truly wonderful day for everyone - gay & otherwise!
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dbackjon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 12:48 PM
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6. Awesome!!!!
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babylonsister Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 12:50 PM
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7. Many congratulations to you both! nt
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 12:53 PM
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8. yay
:woohoo: :party:
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madmax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 12:54 PM
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9. Congratulations!!!
Wishing you both many years of happiness. I think you've passed the critical 1 year and 7 year itch ;-)

:toast:
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kestrel91316 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 12:54 PM
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10. Congratulations! And best wishes for a happy future!
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Ian David Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 12:54 PM
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11. Congratulations!!! n/t
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aquart Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 12:56 PM
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12. Congratulations. May you have a lifetime of happy anniversaries.
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jgraz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 01:00 PM
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13. Congratulations!
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Warpy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 01:01 PM
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15. Mazeltov! Congratulations! Best wishes!
and may you enjoy a long and happy life together.
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Chulanowa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 01:04 PM
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16. Too many "Congratulations" so, allow me to contribute a "Fucking awesome!"
Glad to hear it, may you have many, many more happy years ahead.
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sniffa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 01:06 PM
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17. Congratulations
:toast:

K&R for the lovely couple. :bounce:
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yowzayowzayowza Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 01:11 PM
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18. Fantastic!!!
Congratulations!!! :toast:
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Prophet 451 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 01:12 PM
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19. Too many "congrats" so, baxt hai sastimos tiri patragi!
Traditional Roma comment, means "May you both have luck and good health", our version of congratulations.
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Chovexani Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-17-08 02:57 AM
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68. Opre Roma!
Not meaning to hijack, but I just had to say it. :hug: :hi:
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rurallib Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 01:12 PM
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20. A little touch of reality - with marriage comes in-laws
But what the Hey? Bets wishes!!!!
:woohoo: :woohoo:
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Irishonly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 01:23 PM
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21. Congratulations
Best wishes and dang, it's about damn time.
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CanonRay Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 01:27 PM
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22. My wife of 25 years and I are getting divorced because gays can marry.
:sarcasm:

Wouldn't that be about the stupidest statment possible if it were true?
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Rowdyboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 01:34 PM
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23. When I first read your post I didn't know about today's ruling....
Now it makes more sense! Congratulations!
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IndyOp Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 01:36 PM
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24. Go! Go! Go! I can't wait to see the pictures of lots of happy couples. (n/t)
:hi:
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A-Long-Little-Doggie Donating Member (895 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 01:49 PM
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25. Congratulations!!
:toast:
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sinkingfeeling Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 01:57 PM
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26. Have a great wedding! Happy Days are Here Again!!
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shireen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 01:58 PM
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27. awesome!
congrats! it's about time CA courts came to their senses.

:bounce:
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BeeBee Donating Member (480 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 02:37 PM
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30. THANK YOU EVERYONE!!!
As I mentionned before, we've been together for 17 years. We were scheduled to get married in San Francisco in 2004 but this same Supreme Court stepped in two days before and stopped the marriages. I know the fight isn't over yet, but we're going to enjoy this victory.

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XOEnterprises Donating Member (99 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 02:41 PM
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31. Congrats!
May you and your partner have many happy years ahead of you!
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TechBear_Seattle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 02:47 PM
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32. This calls for dancing rodents


Conga rats!

:toast:
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mitchtv Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 04:06 PM
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33. Partner and I have 31 years in sin
we will probably wait to see if this survives the constitutional amendment attempt in Nov. Then have a biggie , or should I say fabulous wedding. We are already RDPs
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BeeBee Donating Member (480 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 04:12 PM
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36. I think we should be married as soon as possible.
The reason being that I think it will be a lot more difficult to undo LEGAL marriages if the amendment does pass.
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Marrah_G Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 04:59 PM
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37. WOW...31 years... I am in awe.
I think the ruling will stick, like here in Mass.
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Marrah_G Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 04:09 PM
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34. Congrats !!!!
Let me just say 17 years.... you have already won!

I am so happy for you both.
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xchrom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 05:38 PM
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38. congrats!!!
:applause: :woohoo: :applause: :woohoo: :applause: :woohoo: :applause: :woohoo: :applause: :woohoo: :applause: :woohoo:
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cally Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 05:48 PM
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39. Congratulations!!!
This is the second time today I've gotten teary eyed. The first time was when I heard the ruling.
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 07:20 PM
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40. I'm so happy for you! Congrats!
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Politicub Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 07:22 PM
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41. Yay!! Congratulations!! :)
:toast:
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Tyler Durden Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 07:28 PM
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42. I wish my SO and I could witness every one of those cermonies!
What joy and what pride! I could not be more excited!
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bliss_eternal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 09:22 PM
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43. Congratulations, BeeBee...!
:toast::bounce::party:

I'm thrilled for you both!
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Rhythm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 09:40 PM
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44. Congratulations to you both!!!!
:hug:
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goclark Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-15-08 10:53 PM
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45. Where and when? This is fantastic!
"hug:

Congratulations!
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yardwork Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-16-08 02:40 PM
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46. I just burst into tears! I am so happy for you.
Best wishes!

We need to ask the Admins to add some smileys for weddings - we need at least three - one for women marrying women, one for men marrying men, and one for men marrying women.
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Chovexani Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-16-08 11:43 PM
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47. Congrats!!
I am so happy for you. :hug:
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davidinalameda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-17-08 04:02 AM
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48. congrats!!!!
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porcelain_doll Donating Member (124 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-27-08 02:54 AM
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49. Congradulations!!
Edited on Tue May-27-08 02:55 AM by porcelain_doll
:)
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lightningandsnow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-27-08 06:20 AM
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50. Congrats!
That's awesome!

:hug:
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DarkTirade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-27-08 02:27 PM
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51. Oh wow, I just realized I never actually hit 'post message' and commented on this.
Congrats! Looks like it's comin' soon! :)
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Strathos Donating Member (713 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-27-08 06:37 PM
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52. Congratulations
Hopefully all of us can one day. I've been with my partner for 15 years.
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pinto Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-28-08 01:06 AM
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53. Congrats.
:party:
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Behind the Aegis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-28-08 02:05 AM
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54. Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
:hug:
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Strathos Donating Member (713 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-07-08 09:51 AM
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55. Can non-California residents get married in California?
My partner and I, together 15 years, would love to be married.

Will they allow out of state people to get married?
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LeftCoast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-07-08 12:04 PM
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56. Yes, you can come and get married
No in-state requirement. In fact, SF's already gearing up for the (expected) huge influx of tourism because of this.

:hi:
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LeftCoast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-07-08 12:04 PM
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57. Congrats! We'll be doing the same!
:toast:
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Falcon_Lights1916 Donating Member (69 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-07-08 12:14 PM
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58. Conratualtions, BeeBee!!!!
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uberllama42 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-07-08 07:37 PM
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59. Congrats n/t
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BeeBee Donating Member (480 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 10:30 AM
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60. UPDATE...
Thank you to everyone for your nice wishes. It really means a lot. We have a date: we're getting married this Saturday, June 21!
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question everything Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 02:57 PM
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62. Best wishes for long and happy life together
filled with cherished memories.
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Oeditpus Rex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 01:37 PM
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61. Mazel tov!
:toast: :hug:



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readmoreoften Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 03:15 PM
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63. yay!!!
:bounce:
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Karl_Bonner_1982 Donating Member (701 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 05:30 PM
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64. I'll toast to that (with cider)
How big will the audience and the reception be? Are you going to have a more "traditional" wedding format or something totally innovative?
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Tektonik Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 07:17 PM
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65. Congrats!
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 08:02 PM
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66. Congrats!
:toast:
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-16-08 09:22 PM
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67. Congratulations!
I hope it is a wonderful ceremony, and a very long and happy marriage. :hug:
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Chovexani Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-17-08 02:57 AM
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69. Very happy for you two.
:)
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ronnykmarshall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-17-08 02:16 PM
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70. G'on!!
We are as well.
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BeeBee Donating Member (480 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-17-08 02:30 PM
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71. We'll have a double wedding...
yours down south and ours up north!
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Q3JR4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-17-08 06:00 PM
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72. Congratulations to you
and to all Californians who have been deprived for so long.



May the rest of us one day join you!
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David Zephyr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-19-08 12:11 AM
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73. Congratulations.
My companion and I go back to the early 1970's. We're still together. I don't know that we will ever, at this late point, take the step you and your beloved are, but having said that...

I'm very proud of you and congratulate you for those 17 years.
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BeeBee Donating Member (480 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-23-08 02:27 PM
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74. Another Update
We got married Saturday afternoon at the Sonoma County Clerk's office. It was very emotional. It still hasn't sunk in all the way. We're legally married!
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