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Edited on Wed Mar-16-05 02:35 PM by Technowitch
The usual argument goes as follows: "If same-sex marriage is legal, then children won't grow up knowing that being gay is wrong, sinful, and immoral."
In truth, many of these folks wouldn't be satisfied until homosexuality itself was made a crime. Just look at the outcry when the SCOTUS overturned Texas' anti-sodomy laws.
Taken to its logical conclusion, they'd like the whole country to be a "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" zone. Public displays of affection between a same-sex couple would be ruled obscene (and in many places, it actually would get you arrested anyway). It would be illegal for gays and lesbians to come into any regular contact with children -- thus you'd never see a gay or lesbian teacher, daycare worker, camp counselor, etc. Nevermind being allowed to raise a child. Furthermore, they'd like to make open discrimination perfectly okay and legal. As in, "Why should a landlord be forced to allow a gay couple to rent an apartment?" Or, "Why shouldn't I be allowed to fire that lesbian because she offends my religious beliefs?"
And yes, I would add that they'd like very much to make any sort of same-sex sexual contact illegal.
Once we were marginalized to that extent, and made invisible, there'd be no more gays or lesbians around -- to their thinking. You'd have to be crazy to be 'out of the closet' under these conditions.
And those who were? Well, as with the military, simply saying that you're gay or lesbian is taken as evidence you engage in sexual relations as one -- and they'll boot your ass out.
For us civilians, in the fundamentalist hyper-religious nation these people would have, any of us who did come out would be imprisoned. And probably treated as 'insane' -- since these folks would also love to have homosexuality reclassified as a dangerous psychological pathology deserving of involuntary treatment.
The same-sex marriage thing is simply part of their agenda. Even when we called it a 'civil union' or 'domestic partnership', they object on religious and 'tradition' grounds. Why?
Because how DARE we pretend our 'lifestyle choice' is normal and okay!
These bigots are desperate to make sure that we are lonely, isolated, sexless, and persecuted freely.
Anyway, my ultimate argument is and always has been, "This issue about same-sex marriage about all those civil rights and responsibilities you hetero couples get, not about whether your church will perform the ceremony. We already HAVE churches that'll marry gay and lesbian couples -- and have for decades now. What we want is the so-called SECULAR government to give us the same civil rights you people have."
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