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but the Wills don't specify anything like that. Mostly they indicate who your executer/rix is, who gets your stuff, and who takes care of your kid if you both go. We also drew up Living Wills and Health Care Proxies naming proxies and stating what kind of lifesaving measures we were willing to suffer through.
I plan to have any accounts, insurances papers, stocks etc. all organized (this is a project I'm working on--simplifying everything)--so that my son or husband won't have any problem dealing with it all. I also am thinking of having something set up already at a funeral home (for cremation) and place for our remains so he is not pressured at the vulnerable time and blow all the insurance proceeds.
Even though I am a horrible Catholic and am on a spiritual path that is not well marked by any organized religion, I am not acquainted well with Wicca. If you were my sister, I would look it up and consult with your coven (if you have one). When I spoke of a "pagan" funeral for my dh, I was thinking along the lines of an Irish wake (which, I think, has roots in paganism). Therefore, if I were you, I'd set things pretty clear on what you do want before some devout catechism-hooked relative sends you before the Holy Tabernacle and has a full Mass said over you.
Just as an aside, at my father's funeral mass, my youngest nephew took his place in line and received communion (even though he has not made the sacrament and has not be raised in the church), he sat down and spit it out and said "this tastes nasty" (and how his voice carries!). Totally scandalized my uncles who were raised in Catholic schools by sadistic nuns. I honestly think I saw one nervously look up for lightening. We had a good laugh about it. I told little David that he is right, they should make them sweeter, after all, it is supposed to be Jesus.
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