any psychics have any insight on this

[Callie McAllie]

A young woman on my staff, Sarah, had a cousin, Jason, who died unexpectedly last summer. She is very emotional lately, crying about his death, and has been to see a psychic who told her Jason was worried about her. She has smelled his cologne in her car and in her house at odd times and for no apparent reason. She's happy to think he's nearby, missing her too, but she's concerned about what the psychic said and concerned that maybe he can't get where he's supposed to go.

(Actually, as her boss, I feel really lucky that she knows she can discuss this stuff with me.)

[MorningGlow]

1. That interpretation sounds correct, Callie

She should remember that time is of no consequence to Jason now, and if he wants to watch over her while she goes through the harder parts of the grieving process, it won't compromise his "future". But she's also correct that it's best not to want him to hang around when he should be moving on sooner or later. If she clung to him for years upon years for her own comfort and didn't care about his spirit's progress, that would be selfish. But she realizes she shouldn't hold him back. If I were in your shoes, I would tell her that Jason is watching over her because he loves her and doesn't want her to grieve at his passing. When she's ready to let him go, all she has to do is speak to him and tell him that she's ready and he should be ready to move on too, then she should tell him it's okay to go to the light (and help him see it if he's lost his way).

There's also the possibility that he has successfully crossed over yet returns for a visit to check on her.

Either way, when she's ready to accept that he's moved on, she should tell him so.

[Shallah Kali]

2. I think he is ok

at least that is my impression ('the dudes OK, she isn't' was what jumped into my head). he just wants to help her since she took it so hard and is confused & frusterated that his signs that he is still alive outside of body has shook her up worse. don't know what garbled stuff the psychic passed on, maybe s/he mostly picked up on the concern :shrug:

and tell her whatever she is blaming herself for it isn't her fault.

[ayeshahaqqiqa]

3. Something similar happened to my grandmother

about 3 years after my grandfather died. She had wondered if there was life after death and was a bit depressed. Grandpa came to her while she was asleep, kissed her (she felt his lips brush hers), and told her he was fine. When she woke, she smelled the medicine he had had to use on his face for a skin condition, something that hadn't been in the house for three years.

I would say that Sarah and Jason still have a link. She should, like Grandma, take comfort in his visit, and feel that she can move on with her life.

[southerncrone]

4. It could be that he is worried about her because of some other aspect

of her life now, not because of her grief from his passing. I would encourage her to look at ALL areas of her life. Especially relationships. He could be trying to warn her of someone who does not have her best interests at heart & that is why he is hanging around.

[Callie McAllie]

5. Thanks for the insights!

I appreciate your help.