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BlackVelvet04 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-23-08 07:36 PM
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Where we are and where we've been....
Violence against women is certainly not an unusual event nor has it ever been.

# Nearly one-third of American women (31 percent) report being physically or sexually abused by a husband or boyfriend at some point in their lives, according to a 1998 Commonwealth Fund survey.4
# Nearly 25 percent of American women report being raped and/or physically assaulted by a current or former spouse, cohabiting partner, or date at some time in their lifetime, according to the National Violence Against Women Survey, conducted from November 1995 to May 1996.5
# Thirty percent of Americans say they know a woman who has been physically abused by her husband or boyfriend in the past year.6
# In the year 2001, more than half a million American women (588,490 women) were victims of nonfatal violence committed by an intimate partner.7
# Intimate partner violence is primarily a crime against women. In 2001, women accounted for 85 percent of the victims of intimate partner violence (588,490 total) and men accounted for approximately 15 percent of the victims (103,220 total).8

#As many as 324,000 women each year experience intimate partner violence during their pregnancy.11

# On average, more than three women are murdered by their husbands or boyfriends in this country every day. In 2000, 1,247 women were killed by an intimate partner. The same year, 440 men were killed by an intimate partner.
# Women are much more likely than men to be killed by an intimate partner. In 2000, intimate partner homicides accounted for 33.5 percent of the murders of women and less than four percent of the murders of men.
# Pregnant and recently pregnant women are more likely to be victims of homicide than to die of any other cause18 , and evidence exists that a significant proportion of all female homicide victims are killed by their intimate partners.

Nationwide legislation for women's property rights wasn't achieved until the early 1900's. Some states had limited property right laws before then.
In English and American law, coverture refers to women's legal status after marriage: legally, upon marriage, the husband and wife were treated as one entity. In essence, the wife's separate legal existence disappeared as far as property rights were concerned.

Under coverture, wives could not control their own property unless specific provisions were made before marriage, they could not file lawsuits or be sued separately, nor could they execute contracts. The husband could use, sell or dispose of her property (again, unless prior provisions were made) without her permission.

Consider that for many years in this country women had no birth control available and a husband had the right to demand his conjugal rights. Many, many women died simply from having too many children. Women had no right to say no and certainly no right to abortion. Some were simply bred to death.

Even today the Catholic Church as well as other churches deny women the right to birth control and abortion.

Black men got the right to vote before women by 45 years.

Sexism is still much more acceptable than racism. At a Clinton rally when a heckler yelled out "iron my shirt" it was taken as rather amusing. Can you imagine the outrage had someone yelled "shine my shoes" at Obama. Did you know there is an anti-Hillary website entitled Citizens United Not Timid? http://www.citizensunitednottimid.org/ Can you imagine the outrage if there was an equivalent website for Obama? There's been no outrage about the anti-Hillary website except for that of a group of women. Even on liberal boards the terms cunt and pussy are used to denigrate.....if slang terms for blacks were used there were be an outrage.

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kikiek Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-23-08 07:57 PM
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1. Thank you for a well written and informative post. We have a long way to go don't we.
Edited on Sat Feb-23-08 07:58 PM by kikiek
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BlackVelvet04 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-23-08 09:55 PM
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4. We do indeed....
I think too many people have become immune to the violence perpetrated against women every day.
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NMMNG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-23-08 08:11 PM
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2. And right here we have people using blatant sexism
as a means of pushing their candidate forward. I could scream.
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BlackVelvet04 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-23-08 09:55 PM
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3. I know....
and the homophobic language is bad as well.

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UALRBSofL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-23-08 10:22 PM
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5. BlackVelvet That's because they consider me a 2nd class citizen
And something I wouldn't have expected on DU.
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rodeodance Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-23-08 10:38 PM
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7. pay the idiots no mind. you are 1st class here. oh -wait-women are 2nd-so you are
3rd.

just joking
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BlackVelvet04 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-23-08 10:43 PM
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8. I'm so sorry.....
you know I was almost 30 years old before I was around anyone that was openly gay. I grew up in a town of 5,000 people and was so naive. I moved to Key West and I'll be honest that it was a shocker at first. BUT I found a wonderful group of GLBT people and had an epiphany about how tough life was for them and just how wrong our country is for discriminating. One night at an Al-Anon meeting I held a young man as he poured out his heart crying for his dying lover....I cried with him and my heart melted as I felt a little tiny portion of his pain and grief. I vowed never again would I not speak up for the GLBT community.
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-23-08 10:26 PM
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6. I'm one of those women.
That's why I'm as vocal as I am now. It wasn't my fault, though I thought it was at the time. Yet some of the posts here on DU nowadays seem to think that women like me "deserve it because they ask for it."

I'm so sick and tired of the crap.
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BlackVelvet04 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-23-08 10:46 PM
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9. Oh, sweetie, I'm so very, very sorry....
it hurts my heart to know what my fellow women have gone through.

I remember a friend in high school who had an illegal abortion and it was horrible. She almost died and ended up sterile.

I've had friends who were victims of rape and some who were victims of incest and some who were victims of domestic violence. It's so damn sad.


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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-24-08 09:16 PM
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10. It's sad
but still accepted by some as "par for the course".

I swore I'd never be a victim again and I've kept my word.
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