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For a good long time now, I have felt that I have lost my 'power' in life by being significantly overweight. I feel invisible to others. They treat me differently than they treat others. I do not garner the same respect that they bestow on others. Somehow, I feel that were I a normal weight, they would look at me and treat me differently. Has anyone else ever experienced this? Its almost as if, because I am overweight, that I must have no opinions, no intellect, no feelings, be invisible, and therefore treated with no respect. Right now, I am very hurt and mad all at the same time, as friends, or those I thought of as friends, today treated me all day this way. This has been going on for some time, and not just with these friends. It seems that most everyone I run into, in the course of everyday life, treats me this way. Perhaps this is what I need to confront my weight issue: getting mad enough over the way I am treated to do something about my weight, and turn the tables on them all.
I have to believe that if I were a normal weight, I would not appear to be 'invisible' and people would listen to me. I don't know if I am making any sense, or just venting, but I am very hurt and upset right now, by what happened today. Its not just today, but today was kinda the coup de gras, as it were.
I just want to get real about my weight problem, and turn it around, make positive changes, and have people see the real me. Somehow, I feel that gaining all this weight, has made me lose some sort of power that I once had. Does anyone understand this?
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