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TheMightyFavog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 04:20 AM Original message |
Online "underground railroad" helps deadbeat dads to flee country. |
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sweetheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 04:23 AM Response to Original message |
1. brilliant idea |
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wakeme2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 04:33 AM Response to Original message |
2. I like it |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 04:39 AM Response to Reply #2 |
3. correct me if I am wrong |
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wakeme2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 04:44 AM Response to Reply #3 |
4. Read the article it is about Courts telling Fathers they had to pay |
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Violet_Crumble (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 04:47 AM Response to Reply #4 |
6. And if they can't see, they run like fucking cowards... |
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sweetheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 05:00 AM Response to Reply #6 |
9. indentured servitude and slavery are banished |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 08:06 AM Response to Reply #9 |
27. and they should get a vasectomy, right? |
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sweetheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 12:16 PM Response to Reply #27 |
35. europe has a falling population, it needs fertile men |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 05:28 PM Response to Reply #35 |
55. I agree with part of what you have said but I also believe in |
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sweetheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 05:53 PM Response to Reply #55 |
57. In the perfect circumstances |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 08:24 PM Response to Reply #57 |
64. Are you an American? |
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sweetheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 09:38 PM Response to Reply #64 |
67. Yes, i am |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-12-06 08:08 AM Response to Reply #67 |
73. I get it now! |
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wakeme2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 05:09 AM Response to Reply #6 |
12. No but they should not have to pay either |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 06:19 AM Response to Reply #12 |
18. I think you might have a chip on your shoulder in this discussion... |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 07:12 AM Response to Reply #12 |
22. Because child sexual abuse is SO unheard of in this country, right? |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 08:58 AM Response to Reply #22 |
30. and women NEVER lie in divorce proceedings... |
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Occulus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 02:01 PM Response to Reply #30 |
41. I live with one whose ex wife made him a sex offender |
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Mythsaje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 03:03 PM Response to Reply #22 |
51. It happens all the time... |
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Le Taz Hot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 08:37 PM Response to Reply #22 |
65. Actually, they do. |
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elehhhhna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 10:25 AM Response to Reply #12 |
31. Yeah. Abuse your kids = get out of paying support. Makes sense |
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wakeme2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 12:15 PM Response to Reply #31 |
34. I you really abused your kid you should be in Jail not paying support |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-12-06 08:53 AM Response to Reply #34 |
76. Meanwhile, back here in reality that's not going to happen. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 05:45 PM Response to Reply #4 |
56. No they don't. They don't have custody of their kids. |
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Violet_Crumble (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 04:45 AM Response to Reply #3 |
5. Sounds like that to me... |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 05:00 AM Response to Reply #5 |
10. that's the thing |
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Porcupine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 04:55 AM Response to Reply #3 |
7. It's a fight that many cannot win. Have no hope of winning. |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 04:59 AM Response to Reply #7 |
8. problem with abandoning your kids though |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 07:53 AM Response to Reply #8 |
26. a consideration brother thought about for 7 yrs that tore him up. |
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rainbow4321 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 06:57 PM Response to Reply #8 |
60. Exactly... |
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yasmina27 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 05:20 AM Response to Reply #7 |
14. I don't want to sound aggressive |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 01:56 PM Response to Reply #14 |
39. It can be |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 07:36 AM Response to Reply #3 |
24. my brother 180k down and 7 years of hell fighting for his daughter |
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guruoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 08:27 AM Response to Reply #24 |
28. Good point.... |
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zreosumgame (862 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 02:47 PM Response to Reply #3 |
48. most of them HAVE fought for access and custody |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 06:17 AM Response to Reply #2 |
17. Not necessarily... |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 07:02 PM Response to Reply #2 |
61. Bullshit |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-12-06 08:47 AM Response to Reply #2 |
75. What if you are an abuser, or a molestor, or have a history of violence toward Mom? |
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AtomicKitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 05:06 AM Response to Original message |
11. Legally, the two are not connected. |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 06:35 AM Response to Reply #11 |
19. Children Can Refuse Visitation, Too |
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AtomicKitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 02:26 PM Response to Reply #19 |
43. not in California |
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Megahurtz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 03:36 PM Response to Reply #43 |
52. 13 years of age in California |
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AtomicKitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 04:16 PM Response to Reply #52 |
53. Here's the scoop. |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-12-06 01:21 AM Response to Reply #53 |
70. That Was My Understanding... |
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AtomicKitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-12-06 01:25 AM Response to Reply #70 |
71. and seriously |
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Blue_Roses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 10:38 AM Response to Reply #11 |
33. I agree |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 05:54 PM Response to Reply #11 |
58. exactly and thank you |
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Mythsaje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 05:20 AM Response to Original message |
13. Oh, I can see a flame war starting here... |
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Clark2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 10:30 AM Response to Reply #13 |
32. I don't know - ask the woman with the children who is |
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Mythsaje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 02:37 PM Response to Reply #32 |
46. Nice eyeroll... |
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Mugu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 01:36 PM Response to Reply #13 |
36. What about men that are ordered to pay support for kids that aren't theirs. |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 02:02 PM Response to Reply #36 |
42. Old family law |
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Mugu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 02:32 PM Response to Reply #42 |
45. You are correct and stories like your ex-f-i-l's are cause for hope. |
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PreacherCasey (717 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 04:41 PM Response to Reply #13 |
54. Good point about perjury being "expected" |
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Le Taz Hot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-12-06 03:43 PM Response to Reply #54 |
77. $750.00?? |
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cornermouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 05:26 AM Response to Original message |
15. Easy solution. |
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AtomicKitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 05:47 AM Response to Reply #15 |
16. yahtzee |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 07:07 PM Response to Reply #15 |
63. bingo |
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Selatius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 06:51 AM Response to Original message |
20. My big issue here is that not everybody who is made to pay child support can pay it. |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 07:13 AM Response to Reply #20 |
23. Are these the men going to Europe? I think not. |
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Bridget Burke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 08:29 AM Response to Reply #23 |
29. The founder says he was an emergency room physician.... |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 01:46 PM Response to Reply #20 |
37. Men should be helped to be fathers |
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azurnoir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 07:06 AM Response to Original message |
21. Unfortunately, there is need |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 02:29 PM Response to Reply #21 |
44. Reimbursing welfare funds |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 07:39 AM Response to Original message |
25. this is one of the issues i have watched such abuse and lack of fairness |
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earth mom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 01:52 PM Response to Original message |
38. These men do not deserve to see their kids! |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-12-06 06:09 AM Response to Reply #38 |
72. What's this? A post given to us by a sane person? |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-12-06 04:42 PM Response to Reply #38 |
78. Bingo. |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 02:00 PM Response to Original message |
40. It will be interesting to see what happens if they ever want to return. |
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CanonRay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 02:41 PM Response to Original message |
47. Good riddance |
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Marie26 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 02:50 PM Response to Original message |
49. Proving how much they care about those kids. nt |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 02:58 PM Response to Original message |
50. "PAFE claims to have assisted 250,000 men start new lives". Uh-huh. Now tell me another one. |
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rainbow4321 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 06:37 PM Response to Original message |
59. UK: Website to 'shame' absent parents |
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sweetheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-13-06 11:03 PM Response to Reply #59 |
79. The criminalizing fathers thing looks like the future |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 07:05 PM Response to Original message |
62. Good riddance to bad rubbish |
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Dastard Stepchild (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 09:17 PM Response to Original message |
66. I know VERY LITTLE about custody and visitation... |
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rainbow4321 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 11:36 PM Response to Reply #66 |
69. From what I heard going thru my divorce |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-11-06 10:20 PM Response to Original message |
68. Why is it that men get by with that while women always |
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sendero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-12-06 08:29 AM Response to Original message |
74. Another thread... |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-13-06 11:31 PM Response to Original message |
80. Women get punished with child support too |
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