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Binka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-02-06 04:45 PM
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OMG! I Just Remembered Bev Young Visited Ben At Bethesda.
I just saw a picture of Bev Young and I had an OMG moment. It was the woman who barged into Hinkhouse's room while Ben was visiting. I thought her name was Bev Thomas but now I remember it was Bev Young. I digress let me set the stage here...

Ben and Hinkhouse were blown to shit on October 8th and were transfered to Bethesda from Germany mid October. Hinkhouse is Ben's buddy who suffered massive head injuries and had his right leg blown off, he is 18. I came to the states on October 30th. Ben was getting better, Hinkhouse was not. Hinkhouse had more surgery to his leg which had another five inches removed. Ben had not left his room and really wanted to see Kade(Hinkhouse). On the 2nd of November some Congress critters were going to be around for a visit, out of respect Ben said "sure" they could stop in and visit him. Later that day Ben asked to see Kade. It was an ordeal to get Ben in the wheelchair, it took almost 30 minutes. When we left the room he told his roomie Zach to tell any visitors he was sorry he wasn't available because he was going to see Kade. Kade did NOT want any visitors and had a sign by his door stating such.

In a morphine haze these two boys held hands while Ben recounted to Kade what happened, Kade had no memory of the explosion or Germany or ANYTHING. Kade's Mother & Father and girlfriend Sue (who as an aside, poor thing, Ben told me Kade had shown everyone in Iraq including Iraqis his porn video taken with Sue, I cracked up every time I saw her, because Ben kept threatening to go up to her and say "I've seen your Hoo Hoo." anyway back to the story) wanted a break so it was just Ben, Kade, and I in the room.

A few moments later in comes this Navy Commander and this sorta disheveled, kinda slatternly woman. She was wearing jeans, and cheap sneakers, and a giant flag sweatshirt, she appeared a bit tipsy and she stunk of ciggies. I was thinking WTF is this? But Ben cool as shit looks at her and says "yes?" The CDR introduces her as Rep Young's wife and again Ben says "yes?" Like why the shit is she in here. Now Kade is getting agitated because he can't lift his head up and does not know what is going on. She then proceeds to ask them how they are and are they with the 2/2. Ben says "No ma mn, we are with the 3/7 and this is the first time we've talked since the IED and my friend here doesn't want any visitors." You could see the hatred in her eyes for Ben. At this point Kade is starting to yell and Ben is telling him "It's cool Hinkhouse it's cool." Mrs Young all pissed off and feeling slighted walks out of the room with her head stuck in the air. Nary another word.

Kade needs the nurse because all the thrashing messed up the position of his leg, at this time he was not aware that he lost a limb, it was fucked up. So Ben and I wheel to the hall and he says "Fuck I need a cigarette." So I go get a blanket and take him outside where he asks me "Mom WHAT THE FUCK WAS THAT?" I say "Well it appears that we didn't get a Congress critter we got his wife." "That woman is married to a Congressman? Fuck where were the pearls and the cardigan? Who dressed that beast?" he wailed. "What an asshole she was, how dare she intrude like that." "Man she must have been bombed Mom" he said.

I had TOTALLY forgotten about that whole ordeal because it was only one of 1500 moments of weirdness following Ben's injuries. But seeing her picture and remembering what a complete bitch she was combined with her scene at the SOTU (if it happened, this woman is a con artist) brought all the horrid details back. She was SO inappropriate, and so unconcerned, and so phony, and full of her own bullshit, she doesn't give two squats for the troops. And if I saw her walking down the street today I'd tell her" BEV, YOU AREN'T WORTHY OF LICKING CINDY'S TOILET WITH YOUR TONGUE. OR BEN'S OR KADES!"

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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-02-06 04:47 PM
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1. thanks for the story Binka, what a bunch of idiots
Edited on Thu Feb-02-06 04:57 PM by uppityperson
And Hiya Binka, hope you guys are doing, well, ok.

Edited to add, Binka, I just read the other post of this with the "sexist" headline. So sorry about it all. Kade is unfit for duty and cut off because of his injuries? How the hell can they do that? Thanks for all the pictures of your sweet boy. Dayum. hugs to you all.
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blogslut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-02-06 04:49 PM
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2. thanks for that
I'm sorry you and you family have to go through such crap.
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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-02-06 04:57 PM
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4. Hiya, blogslut!
Good to see they are letting you keep that name;)

In light of the locking of the other Binka thread, that is.

When I read "slag", I thought of "slag heap", you know, useless bits and pieces.

Oh well.


Fun screen name at any rate:)
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blogslut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-02-06 05:26 PM
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17. I didn't know
my name was that big a deal.
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JuniperLea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-02-06 05:49 PM
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20. I didn't either... thought it was funny
But when I saw the other thread locked for what was determined a sexist word (slag? sexist?) I had to chuckle even more at your name.
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blogslut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-02-06 05:51 PM
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21. definition of slag as per webster
Main Entry: slag
Pronunciation: 'slag
Function: noun
Etymology: Middle Low German slagge
: the dross or scoria of a metal

I don't get it. I guess I just can't keep up with the kids and their wacky slang. ;-)
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Stephanie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-02-06 04:49 PM
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3. link to old thread with many comments >
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bobbieinok Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-02-06 05:09 PM
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7. everyone should read this thread...it was locked after ca 90 posts
b/c of a sexist term in title
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txindy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-02-06 05:12 PM
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10. And 36 votes for the Greatest Page
Does this mean we get to send both to the Greatest? We should, just in case one isn't counted.
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Stephanie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-02-06 05:14 PM
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11. good idea!
K&r :)
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caligirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-02-06 04:59 PM
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5. Binka, thanks for the dose of reality, what a pos Bev is for that.
And thanks for updating us about your son. I saw a post of yours yesterday I think and wondered how he was doing.
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OzarkDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-02-06 05:00 PM
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6. She seems very strange
I thought something was up when the article said she bragged of taking bottles of Jack Daniels to soldiers in the hospital. Thats not just in poor taste, but very irresponsible. Good Lord!

Christening a taxpayer funded pleasure boat with Budweiser?

I wouldn't put it past this woman to make up a phony story about being thrown out of the SOTU.

I hope they interview her on all the talk shows.

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Binka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 04:17 AM
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33. Considering The Powerful Meds These Kids Are Taking
Any talk of any alcohol is beyond foolish it's DANGEROUS. She is a very weird woman.

Would you offer this guy booze?

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txindy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-02-06 05:10 PM
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8. I'm very glad you reposted this
And I'm trying to wrap my mind around the reason why it was locked in the first place.

Keep on telling the truth about what happened, Binka. :patriot:
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Binka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 05:18 AM
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35. The Mods Let Me Re-Post Though So It's Cool
Thanks Mods :loveya: :yourock:
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LittleClarkie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-02-06 05:11 PM
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9. Well, that's certainly a counterpoint to the earlier puff piece on her
Visiting the troops whether they want her to or not. No wonder she kept offering the boys dip and whiskey. Sounds like she's a bar fly in her off hours.
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mitchtv Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-02-06 05:17 PM
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12. slatternly !
great word I haven't heard it in years:yourock:
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Binka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 05:11 AM
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34. Hi Mitch! Good to see ya buddy!
I can't believe it was only a year ago Ben was graduating from MCRD. He looks like a baby in this picture.

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fooj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-02-06 05:17 PM
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13. Thanks for the first-hand account, Binka!
Edited on Thu Feb-02-06 05:19 PM by fooj
My impression of her...quite the mouthy, rough-around-the-edges kind of gal. Now I know that I wasn't far off...

Peace.


BTW- That's one, fine young man you raised, Binka! You must be VERY proud.:hug:
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LincolnMcGrath Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-02-06 05:20 PM
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14. K & R
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Ilsa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-02-06 05:22 PM
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15. Wow! Great memory, Binka. Glad you had "that moment". I'm emailing
this one out to a couple of Dem friends. What an ahole that woman was!
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TacticalPeek Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-02-06 05:24 PM
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16. K & R
:kick:
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xultar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-02-06 05:26 PM
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18. @ First I thought she was Paula Jones. She's married to that old dude?
There wasn't any infidelity there.
Nope.
I don't think so.
Not a thing.
No sex outside the marriage.
Nope.
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Stephanie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-02-06 05:27 PM
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19. Pictures!
Please put the pictures back in! :)
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txindy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 01:39 AM
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26. We need to ask her again after morning arrives in Sicily
Then I can make myself sick with envy over where she gets to live, too. ****sigh****

;)
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Binka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 02:28 AM
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28. Pictures You Say Here Ya Go
Ben and Hagee



Ben looking at his Purple Heart



Ben Wearing the Purple Heart

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Binka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 02:33 AM
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29. More Pix
Edited on Fri Feb-03-06 02:33 AM by Binka
Ben and The Mamasitas



Ben, Gardner & Hinkhouse



Ben with Miss America's crown

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Binka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 02:40 AM
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30. Pix
Lon Burnham & Carol Burnham(Texas Rep & Friend of Crawford Peace House) Visit Ben



Ben, Kade & The Nurses



Mom & Ben

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Binka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 02:45 AM
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31. Pix Random Shots
Taoromina in January (Mt Etna)



A Butterfly on Peyton's Head



Princess Peyton

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lyonn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-02-06 06:01 PM
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22. Your post always put a bunch of reality into what this war means
The games that are being played, the behind the scenes of what real recovery means to these soldiers. Missing limbs, serious head wounds, damn, and it is damn well happening daily. And the idiot leader has no idea, incapable, of what is really going on. We are not winning the war and yet these kids are paying the supreme price, not him.

So very glad to hear Ben was spared the really horrific injury, hopefully he will be nearly whole. It is hard to imagine how hard it must be for him to deal with the losses of a friend and the serious condition of another. Does he have plans?

Our media doesn't get close to telling the hero's story. How sad.
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Scout1071 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-02-06 06:09 PM
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23. Binka....you, Ben, and all the men and women in Bethesda, Germany
and elsewhere truly are my heroes.

Thanks for sharing. I'm a big believer in kharma. It will come around to that woman like a boomerang one day and smack her upside the head.

Hang in there. You and Ben are in our thoughts and prayers.
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txindy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 12:49 AM
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24. A kick for Ben and Kade
:kick:
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deadparrot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 01:00 AM
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25. Thanks for the update, Binka!
:hi:

I hope Ben, Kade, and your entire family are doing well. :)
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LittleClarkie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 01:42 AM
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27. One question: Why do you think there was hate in her eyes
for your son minutes after meeting him? Was it more like annoyance that they weren't all cheerful to see her? Just wondering about motivation.
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Binka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 02:50 AM
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32. It Was Weird Clarkie She Was Already Pissed Off When She Came In
Before she even opened her mouth you could see she was agitated and anxious. She did not want to be there. I think the fact that Ben was controlling the situation and was totally unimpressed with her presence just hacked her off. BIG TIME. This is a person who has to get her way. IMHO. Not a nice woman. AT ALL!
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joanski0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 06:34 AM
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38. Could she have been pissed off because she
went to Ben's room first, and he wasn't there. Like, how dare that soldier leave the room when he knows I'M coming. Then she had to track him down and show her stupid ass.

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Binka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 06:40 AM
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39. Highly Probable
Like I said it was ALL ABOUT BEV. She had the air that reeks of narcissism and privilege even if she was was dressed like a fish wife!
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jbnow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 07:24 PM
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48. I could be OK with the fish wife look
and even understand if she went into the wrong room, not noticing the sign. But once she knew he didn't want to be disturbed...someone who was there because she cared so much would have kindly and humbly apologized, thanking them and wishing them well as she promptly left.

I'm glad your son is recovering.

I hate this war. Sad for his friend with the head injury. I keep thinking how besides the deaths and the physical wounds...there are countless others. Those with head injuries who struggle to remember, those with PTSD that can't forget.

I hope they get the rehab they need. Traumatic Brain injuries takes years of good rehab and much longer follow up.

I worry how we care for them all in the long term once they get home.
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T Town Jake Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 06:12 AM
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36. Certainly worth further investigation & exposure...
...this post, and its' (locked) predecessor, cries out for action; and I plan to provide it.

I intend to forward a copy of both, along with a covering letter conveying my outrage, to Congressman Young this weekend. I'm going to demand an explanation.

I also intend to forward the entire correspondence/printed posts/truth as presented in your post to The New York Times, The Washington Post, The Dallas Morning News, The Los Angeles Times, and several other major newspapers at the same time. CBS, ABC, NBC, CNN, MSNBC, and even Faux news will be e-mailed scanned copies of the same, also.

Unless, of course, you have some problem with me doing so.

It's a tale that makes the blood boil, so let me know quick. I'm anxious to get on the case.

Thanks.
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Binka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 06:29 AM
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37. My Son Is Still An Active Marine
The Young's are asshats and THIS would be a she said/she said kind of deal(I would not expect Ben or Kade to be part of this). So I appreciate your zeal and concern but I do not wish to make my child part of a controversy that would cause him great pain and distress. These people destroy people who do not play their game, look what they are doing to Cindy. This is a story for my friends at DU. Please do not take Ben's Kade's and my story any further. Thank you. PM if you want to discuss my feelings further.
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Citrene Donating Member (231 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 07:10 AM
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40. Damn. Just Damned it all, Binka.
Is Ben ready to leave yet?

I'm sorry, it's all just so wrong I can't help but want Ben and all our soldiers out of this nightmare now, not now, but right the F now!

Sorry for the rant.
Peace
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Binka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 07:18 AM
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41. Ben Is At 29 Palms CA
His unit comes home the end of March. I am afraid he will be redeploying with them in December.:cry:
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txindy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 08:43 AM
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42. After all of that and he's going to be redeployed?!
After suffering those injuries? Unbelievable. Just.... OMG.

From my family to yours, Binka. :grouphug:
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Binka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 08:54 AM
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43. Who Knows?
I posted some photos for you.....:loveya:
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txindy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 10:11 AM
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44. I saw those!
I esp. love the Miss America's crown photo!
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jackster Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 01:51 PM
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45. another thing about the glowing story printed about the slag...
did anyone else notice that she was working in Young's office, he divorced his wife, and married her. Now maybe it's all very innocent, but methinks she was the other woman. Would explain a lot doncha think?
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Gelliebeans Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 03:42 PM
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46. Very interesting, Binka
Sounds like a con-artist, I wonder if that is why they chose her for the stunt?

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txindy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Feb-03-06 06:58 PM
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47. Supplying alcohol to patients in hospitals isn't the brightest maneuver,
She has no idea what drugs those patients are taking and if alcohol will be safe or not. I'd have to add ignorance to the list of her 'charms'.
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