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verse18 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 09:52 AM Original message |
Should I be offended? |
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skipos (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 09:55 AM Response to Original message |
1. If she asked if you spoke Swahili |
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verse18 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 09:57 AM Response to Reply #1 |
2. Why even ask if we knew Swahili? |
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skipos (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:13 AM Response to Reply #2 |
24. The same reason people ask me if I am related to someone |
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Clark2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:14 AM Response to Reply #2 |
27. Because of the last names and because she wanted to exercise |
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elehhhhna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:52 AM Response to Reply #2 |
69. verse, I'm a six foot blonde woman and when in Holland (or Aruba) |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 09:58 AM Response to Original message |
3. Offence is a subjective, emotional state. |
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Igel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:44 AM Response to Reply #3 |
61. One should always leave open the possibility-- |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:49 AM Response to Reply #61 |
66. I don't think a feeling can ever be wrong in any meaningful sense. |
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Igel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 01:45 PM Response to Reply #66 |
117. Not reasonable, surely. |
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EstimatedProphet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 09:58 AM Response to Original message |
4. I really don't know |
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demnan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 09:58 AM Response to Original message |
5. I think we are often somewhat sensitive |
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Nimrod2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:00 AM Response to Original message |
6. No, don't be offended. I am brown and have black hair, people ask me everyday |
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OmmmSweetOmmm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:05 AM Response to Reply #6 |
12. My Dad had jet black hair and when tanned very brown. It was remarkable how |
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Nimrod2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:36 AM Response to Reply #12 |
58. Same here, I must look like your dad (in the hair), starting to get some grey |
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OmmmSweetOmmm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 12:02 PM Response to Reply #58 |
79. He passed over almost a year ago, and still had some black in his hair at 87. :) |
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mockmonkey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:00 AM Response to Original message |
7. Nobody |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:01 AM Response to Original message |
8. Actually, I Think What She Did Was Perfectly Fine And No Cause For Offense At All. |
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trumad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:08 AM Response to Reply #8 |
17. Do you speak idiot? |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:12 AM Response to Reply #17 |
21. Sorry, I Couldn't Understand Your Post. What Language Was That Anyway? |
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Nederland (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 03:40 PM Response to Reply #17 |
131. Ummmm |
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alcibiades_mystery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:26 AM Response to Reply #8 |
33. I really don't get your stance on race |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:40 AM Response to Reply #33 |
40. You Realize I Have No Idea What You're Talking About, I Hope. |
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alcibiades_mystery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:54 AM Response to Reply #40 |
41. We're all equal |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:01 AM Response to Reply #41 |
42. Oh By No Means Can You Throw It Away. Lord Knows Racism, Sexism, Bigotry And |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:36 AM Response to Reply #33 |
57. I hope you keep your kids out of freepish households too! |
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Madspirit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 01:39 PM Response to Reply #57 |
114. Really? |
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Crazy Dave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:03 AM Response to Original message |
9. I don't think so but I'm not you and I wasn't there |
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NavyDavy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:03 AM Response to Original message |
10. since she didn't come up and just started talking in |
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mainegreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:05 AM Response to Original message |
11. Hard to tell without having been there. |
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helderheid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:06 AM Response to Original message |
13. People ask me if I speak Dutch when they see my married name - if it was totally based on your name, |
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verse18 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:10 AM Response to Reply #13 |
19. But why specifically Swahili |
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MonkeyFunk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:14 AM Response to Reply #19 |
26. because |
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helderheid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:27 AM Response to Reply #19 |
34. Well, people are ignorant. Some people ask if I speak Danish because I lived in Holland instead of |
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verse18 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:06 AM Response to Original message |
14. What I'm trying to point out is that we were singled out. |
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helderheid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:07 AM Response to Reply #14 |
15. See post 13 - I am singled out for my name too. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:10 AM Response to Reply #14 |
18. She may have simply thought you looked Swahili. For a few years I was regularly |
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verse18 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:12 AM Response to Reply #18 |
22. How does one look Swahili? |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:25 AM Response to Reply #22 |
31. Same way I look Arabic or Italian. |
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Madspirit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 12:54 PM Response to Reply #18 |
101. You can't look it... |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 01:03 PM Response to Reply #101 |
105. But you can look like the people from the region where it is used. |
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Madspirit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 01:35 PM Response to Reply #105 |
112. Mondo Joe |
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gratefultobelib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:12 AM Response to Reply #14 |
20. I can see why you would be offended, but really the woman was just showing her ignorance. |
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karlrschneider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:19 AM Response to Reply #14 |
30. By the way, you have exposed your own stereotyping in the OP |
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alcibiades_mystery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:32 AM Response to Reply #30 |
37. Saying that a name is traditionally associated with a culture or region seems different |
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karlrschneider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:38 AM Response to Reply #37 |
39. Well, duh - that is precisely my point! The OP fails to grasp it. |
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Dora (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:07 AM Response to Original message |
16. It's not a matter of your offense, it's a matter of her racism. |
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verse18 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:12 AM Response to Reply #16 |
46. Actually, she did have a German accent |
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Dora (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:25 AM Response to Reply #46 |
50. See, now that's a different aspect to the story. |
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demrabble (500 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:31 AM Response to Reply #50 |
54. What? |
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Dora (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:46 AM Response to Reply #54 |
64. Wow. I'm not suggesting any such thing. Neither am I stereotyping. |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 03:34 PM Response to Reply #50 |
129. Does tthe intent of the question truly change |
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Totallybushed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 04:12 PM Response to Reply #50 |
136. You |
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1monster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 12:12 PM Response to Reply #46 |
84. For years, I worked in the touist and retail businesses. We always |
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Marrah_G (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 01:09 PM Response to Reply #46 |
107. this makes no sense |
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karlrschneider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:13 AM Response to Original message |
23. I have been asked thousands of time if I speak German because of my name. |
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Turbineguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:13 AM Response to Original message |
25. When I am in a place where I wear |
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NoSheep (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:16 AM Response to Original message |
28. I really wouldn't have been at all offended. Check this idea out: |
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The Flaming Red Head (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 12:16 PM Response to Reply #28 |
85. Always better to be under estimated |
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NoSheep (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 12:59 PM Response to Reply #85 |
102. That's so true. I've had to put some fancy people in their places |
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Totallybushed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:17 AM Response to Original message |
29. Frankly, you're |
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alcibiades_mystery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:28 AM Response to Reply #29 |
35. You think the OP would go up to two blondes and ask if they spoke Swedish? |
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MonkeyFunk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:38 AM Response to Reply #35 |
38. If they were tall and blond |
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Totallybushed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 01:45 PM Response to Reply #35 |
116. No, but she |
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alcibiades_mystery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:25 AM Response to Original message |
32. I don't think it's a question of "being offended" |
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SmokingJacket (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:28 AM Response to Original message |
36. Not really. She saw the name tags, made kind of a silly assumption... |
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npincus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:01 AM Response to Original message |
43. Nah... chalk it up to ignorance, not mean-spritedness |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 03:41 PM Response to Reply #43 |
132. Hah... |
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demrabble (500 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:02 AM Response to Original message |
44. "Old White Woman" |
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verse18 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:33 AM Response to Reply #44 |
55. No, it doesn't make a difference. I was just describing the woman. |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:44 AM Response to Reply #55 |
62. Hey I once gained weight quickly due to medication |
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demrabble (500 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:49 AM Response to Reply #62 |
67. The OP Says Differently |
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demrabble (500 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:46 AM Response to Reply #55 |
63. Anyone? |
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verse18 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:07 AM Response to Original message |
45. This post is aimed at the absolute race experts at DU. |
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demrabble (500 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:12 AM Response to Reply #45 |
47. Do You Mean Like Singling Someone Out.... |
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verse18 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:23 AM Response to Reply #47 |
49. I used the word "old" to describe the woman. |
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demrabble (500 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:28 AM Response to Reply #49 |
53. You Could Simply Have Said |
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karlrschneider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:27 AM Response to Reply #45 |
51. Condescending? Wow, you need to get your irony meter calibrated. |
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verse18 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:38 AM Response to Reply #51 |
59. How is this condesending? |
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karlrschneider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:52 AM Response to Reply #59 |
70. I am not a white male christian. |
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demrabble (500 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:55 AM Response to Reply #70 |
73. Are You Old or Young? |
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karlrschneider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:58 AM Response to Reply #73 |
76. I'm 64. Is that old or young? |
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Bluerthanblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:49 AM Response to Reply #45 |
65. No, Verse18- the only thing you need |
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Marrah_G (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 12:34 PM Response to Reply #45 |
92. So you really aren't asking anything |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 12:41 PM Response to Reply #45 |
95. Personally, I Think She Was A Very Nice Woman Of Which You Are Unfairly Attacking. |
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verse18 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 12:47 PM Response to Reply #95 |
98. How did I attack her? |
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lapislzi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 03:10 PM Response to Reply #45 |
127. You didn't mention "condescending" in your o/p |
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blonndee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 03:40 PM Response to Reply #45 |
130. And it appears they have come around to do so, huh? |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:13 AM Response to Original message |
48. No need to be offended - You edumacated her |
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Bluerthanblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:28 AM Response to Original message |
52. don't 'should' on yourself- it is |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:34 AM Response to Original message |
56. She should not have spoken to you at all |
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verse18 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:40 AM Response to Reply #56 |
60. I never said she was racist. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:49 AM Response to Reply #60 |
68. What I believe you missed is that assumptions are made about people |
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demrabble (500 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:53 AM Response to Reply #56 |
71. She Also Should Have... |
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ecstatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:54 AM Response to Original message |
72. LOL. That's nothing. One time I was given "maid" instructions at my folks' timeshare |
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demrabble (500 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:58 AM Response to Reply #72 |
75. Ageism is NOT Pretty |
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ecstatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 12:11 PM Response to Reply #75 |
83. I was always taught to respect my elders? |
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demrabble (500 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 12:19 PM Response to Reply #83 |
86. In Other Words, Because This Woman Was Old.... |
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Rosemary2205 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 12:06 PM Response to Reply #72 |
81. Been there done that too |
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The Flaming Red Head (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 12:38 PM Response to Reply #72 |
94. I'm a nurse and I do maid work in rich people's houses on the side |
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Marrah_G (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 01:19 PM Response to Reply #72 |
110. Now that is racist. |
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Rosemary2205 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:57 AM Response to Original message |
74. Just consider all white people offensive |
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demrabble (500 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 12:00 PM Response to Reply #74 |
78. I Thought the OP was Offended Because the Person Was Old. |
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verse18 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 12:23 PM Response to Reply #74 |
87. My sister's last name isn't Swahili. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 12:31 PM Response to Reply #87 |
91. She might have not recognized the region the name is from. |
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verse18 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 12:42 PM Response to Reply #91 |
96. She should have recognized the name wasn't Swahili if she spoke the language. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 12:46 PM Response to Reply #96 |
97. Or she speaks it some but isn't an expert. Or she's a nazi racist. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 08:39 PM Response to Reply #96 |
138. Oh for goodness sakes - it's spoken by over 50 million people. |
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ecstatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:59 AM Response to Original message |
77. Regarding your post, it could just be a case of Ugly Americanism |
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demrabble (500 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 12:03 PM Response to Reply #77 |
80. The Only Example of Ugly Americanism I See in the OP |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 12:08 PM Response to Original message |
82. I'm Irish and people are always asking where me Lucky Charms are at |
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Rosemary2205 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 12:27 PM Response to Reply #82 |
88. Well? Where are they? |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 02:00 PM Response to Reply #88 |
118. You'll never get me Lucky Charms! |
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CBGLuthier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 12:29 PM Response to Original message |
89. yet another stupid time wasting thread |
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verse18 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 12:38 PM Response to Reply #89 |
93. As filed with hate and defensiveness of these threads? |
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Bluerthanblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 12:54 PM Response to Reply #89 |
100. why so defensive and negative? |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 01:00 PM Response to Reply #100 |
103. As you say above, "and you alone, are the only one who who has |
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Bluerthanblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 01:09 PM Response to Reply #103 |
108. that is right Mondo Joe- glad |
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The Flaming Red Head (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 12:30 PM Response to Original message |
90. People hear I’m from Louisiana |
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petronius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 01:00 PM Response to Reply #90 |
104. That's funny! I spent 8 years in LA, and it was a bit of a revelation |
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Hosnon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 12:48 PM Response to Original message |
99. The way you describe it makes it seem like you didn't even give her a chance. |
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Madspirit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 01:07 PM Response to Original message |
106. Wow |
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Bluerthanblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 01:16 PM Response to Reply #106 |
109. I appreciate reading your perspective, and |
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Madspirit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 01:34 PM Response to Reply #109 |
111. ...and I appreciate your response. |
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Igel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 01:39 PM Response to Original message |
113. Nope. |
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Starbucks Anarchist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 01:40 PM Response to Original message |
115. No. |
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Lisa0825 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 02:06 PM Response to Original message |
119. It's reactions like this that make people afraid to reach out. |
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Bluerthanblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 02:30 PM Response to Reply #119 |
121. while it was unintentional, or |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 02:27 PM Response to Original message |
120. One time somebody assumed I was greek and started talking |
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mainer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 02:32 PM Response to Original message |
122. Is it in insult to think you speak Swahili? |
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stranger81 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 02:46 PM Response to Reply #122 |
123. Seems like the insult is the assumption that someone who |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 03:00 PM Response to Reply #123 |
125. I am constantly asked where I am from. Usually right after I |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 03:46 PM Response to Reply #123 |
134. What happens if you are white, but from some other country |
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Bluerthanblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 02:48 PM Response to Reply #122 |
124. If you were Asian would it insult you to have someone ask you |
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stranger81 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 03:06 PM Response to Reply #124 |
126. Absolutely -- I'd find that as insulting as my BF does. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 03:44 PM Response to Reply #126 |
133. There is one significant difference. |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 03:19 PM Response to Original message |
128. If you were offended, you were offended.... |
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TZ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 03:52 PM Response to Original message |
135. obviously ignorant |
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Marie26 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 05:31 PM Response to Original message |
137. That's your decision |
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baby_mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 09:04 PM Response to Original message |
139. I'd take offense, but handle it carefully. |
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