the only thing that is "yours" to begin with-
Yourself-
i've lost much sleep in my life. but i refuse to relinquish my soul in exchange for "revenge"-
It is a very poor trade.
Darkness cannot drive out darkness- hatred cannot drive out hatred- only love can.
The man who shared this thinking with us, gave up his life rather than become a part of that which destroyed him.
he also said:
"Through our scientific and technological genius, we have made of this world a neighborhood and yet we have not had the ethical commitment to make of it a brotherhood. But somehow, and in some way, we have got to do this. We must all learn to live together as brothers or we will all perish together as fools. We are tied together in the single garment of destiny, caught in an inescapable network of mutuality. And whatever affects one directly affects all indirectly. For some strange reason I can never be what I ought to be until you are what you ought to be. And you can never be what you ought to be until I am what I ought to be. This is the way God’s universe is made; this is the way it is structured.
John Donne caught it years ago and placed it in graphic terms: "No man is an island entire of itself. Every man is a piece of the continent, a part of the main." And he goes on toward the end to say, "Any man’s death diminishes me because I am involved in mankind; therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls; it tolls for thee." We must see this, believe this, and live by it if we are to remain awake through a great revolution."
--Martin Luther King, Jr., Remaining Awake Through A Great Revolution
The man who killed himself, obviously didn't understand this concept- and now he is dead- You and I have a choice to make- We can choose to look at others who act in ways which hurt us, or anger us, and respond in a way that diminishes who we are- If we do that then we have indeed lost.
I'm not saying this man should have walked free- He should have been brought to trial, and if found guilty have had to face the consequences of his actions- Joking about his death, labeling others who 'we' have chosen to hate as the ones who bear the responsibility for all the malice and ugly actions in this world, is pretty ego-centric, and hypocritical don't you think?
hate is an equal opportunity destroyer
i wish you wisdom and peace~