|
Printer-friendly format Email this thread to a friend Bookmark this thread |
This topic is archived. |
Home » Discuss » Archives » General Discussion (1/22-2007 thru 12/14/2010) |
hedgehog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 07:29 PM Original message |
Why not have civil unions for all committed couples? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 07:32 PM Response to Original message |
1. Isn't that how much of Europe does it? It would be fine with me. n/t |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
hedgehog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 07:35 PM Response to Reply #1 |
8. I think in France you end up with two ceremonies if you wish. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 07:37 PM Response to Reply #8 |
11. You do in many countries. You can make it a ceremony, going to town hall to register. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
pscot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 07:47 PM Response to Reply #8 |
20. I was married in Germany |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Lance_Boyle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 12:20 PM Response to Reply #8 |
91. same in Holland n/t |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 10:38 PM Response to Reply #8 |
103. Same thing in Japan |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
helderheid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-24-07 10:52 AM Response to Reply #1 |
61. That's how it's done in the Netherlands. I like it. n/t |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
havocmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 11:13 AM Response to Reply #1 |
81. Mexico too. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 07:32 PM Response to Original message |
2. i am more than willing to use the term civil union and since i wasnt |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Pushed To The Left (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 07:33 PM Response to Original message |
3. That might be one way to handle it |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
KAZ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 07:34 PM Response to Reply #3 |
4. Completely agree! n/t |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
OffWithTheirHeads (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 07:34 PM Response to Original message |
5. Works for me. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Clark2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 10:42 AM Response to Reply #5 |
76. Goats can't consent |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
jgraz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 07:34 PM Response to Original message |
6. Why do you hate the baby jesus? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 07:42 PM Response to Reply #6 |
17. seeing how i am christian, i will take the chance to offer opinion. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
silverweb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 07:34 PM Response to Original message |
7. I've been saying that since the issue first started. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 07:44 PM Response to Reply #7 |
18. But the "solution" is purely semantic. Whether you call it a Civil Marriage or Civil Union |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
hedgehog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 07:48 PM Response to Reply #18 |
21. I think that if we offer straight couples a marriage license and |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 07:49 PM Response to Reply #21 |
22. I'm not suggesting that. A civil marriage is basically a civil union - I don't see the |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
silverweb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 08:17 PM Response to Reply #18 |
32. I agree. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 08:22 PM Response to Reply #32 |
34. I'm afraid I think renaming marriage "civil union" is a far more uphill battle than |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
silverweb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 08:30 PM Response to Reply #34 |
37. Offical versus common language. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 08:47 PM Response to Reply #37 |
40. But it's not just ceremonial and moot. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
silverweb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 09:02 PM Response to Reply #40 |
45. "Let everyone get married. Problem solved." |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 09:11 PM Response to Reply #45 |
49. But it is giving in to the bigots. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
silverweb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 09:14 PM Response to Reply #49 |
51. Well put. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 09:17 PM Response to Reply #51 |
53. Thank you. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 08:54 PM Response to Reply #37 |
41. Respectfully, that will not happen in the next 20 years, if ever. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
silverweb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 08:58 PM Response to Reply #41 |
42. I truly hope you're wrong. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 08:59 PM Response to Reply #42 |
43. I think it will happen sooner than that, through equal marriage. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
silverweb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 09:05 PM Response to Reply #43 |
46. Good! |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Mojambo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 07:35 PM Response to Original message |
9. That would be exceedingly reasonable |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
killbotfactory (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 07:36 PM Response to Original message |
10. I would prefer that |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Tesha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 07:37 PM Response to Original message |
12. That's fine by this committed (hetero) couple! |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 07:38 PM Response to Original message |
13. It's a fine idea, but it's not gonna' happen. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 07:38 PM Response to Original message |
14. You could even call it marriage...civil marriage, as opposed to HOLY MATRIMONY! nt |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
silverweb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 09:15 PM Response to Reply #14 |
52. Methinks you may have something there! |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
kdmorris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 07:38 PM Response to Original message |
15. Fine by me |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
DaveJ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 07:39 PM Response to Original message |
16. Because of Republicans. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
annabanana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 07:46 PM Response to Original message |
19. I think it's th best solution. . . |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 08:26 PM Response to Reply #19 |
35. Why? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
...of J.Temperance (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 07:50 PM Response to Original message |
23. Yeah get the government OUT of the marriage business |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
TheDoorbellRang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 07:55 PM Response to Original message |
24. Sorry. Too simple and sensible |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
bonito (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 07:57 PM Response to Original message |
25. That piece of paper or ring doesn't mean squat |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 07:58 PM Response to Reply #25 |
26. It means rather a lot where legal recognition is concerned, which matters. NT |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
tammywammy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 07:59 PM Response to Original message |
27. I've always thought this is the way it should be |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Booster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 07:59 PM Response to Original message |
28. Did I read that Arnold and Jerry Brown were thinking about |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Swamp Rat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 08:01 PM Response to Original message |
29. Why not let Americans be free to marry whomever they want, without your or my opinion? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
MedleyMisty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 08:04 PM Response to Original message |
30. I don't get the whole thing with words |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 08:14 PM Response to Original message |
31. I'm married. I didn't get married in a church. I'm no less married than the people who did. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
flowomo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 08:20 PM Response to Original message |
33. I wrote my weekly newspaper column about that on 3/11/2004.... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Lilith Velkor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 08:27 PM Response to Original message |
36. Why do couples have to have legal recognition? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 09:01 PM Response to Reply #36 |
44. I can think of a lot of reasons - especially once kids enter the picture. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Lilith Velkor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-24-07 01:11 AM Response to Reply #44 |
56. Single people have kids all the time |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-24-07 07:25 AM Response to Reply #56 |
57. I don't realy give a shit about the tax rate. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Lilith Velkor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-24-07 10:50 AM Response to Reply #57 |
60. Yes you did, you mentioned a partner's sibling getting your house if he dies |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-24-07 11:20 AM Response to Reply #60 |
62. That's not a BENEFICIARY. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Lilith Velkor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 09:50 AM Response to Reply #62 |
63. Read the first fucking sentence of my post. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 09:53 AM Response to Reply #63 |
64. I read it. Glad you figured it out. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Lilith Velkor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 11:02 AM Response to Reply #64 |
80. OK, cool. n/t |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
silverweb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 09:08 PM Response to Reply #36 |
47. There are many reasons. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 09:10 PM Response to Reply #36 |
48. It's not just a question of taxes, but inheritance rights, property rights, |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 10:43 PM Response to Reply #48 |
104. Rights to make medical decisions... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
crispini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 08:30 PM Response to Original message |
38. I completely agree, but |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 08:39 PM Response to Reply #38 |
39. No one is taking my marriage status from me. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Lurking Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-24-07 08:26 AM Response to Reply #39 |
58. But how fun it would be |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 09:55 AM Response to Reply #58 |
65. But the contractual obligation is all the government IS involved with. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Lurking Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 10:00 AM Response to Reply #65 |
66. I want them |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 10:03 AM Response to Reply #66 |
68. Very good. I support that. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Lurking Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 10:13 AM Response to Reply #68 |
70. Cheers! |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
bpeale (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 10:46 AM Response to Reply #39 |
78. terms |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 12:03 PM Response to Reply #78 |
85. "Holy matrimony:" think about it. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 12:08 PM Response to Reply #85 |
86. I haven't been to many wedding, and no civil marriages, so perhaps you could help |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 12:17 PM Response to Reply #86 |
90. I was about to edit the earlier post but I'll answer it here. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 12:21 PM Response to Reply #90 |
94. Okay - that's about what I thought. So long as the civil act does not involve |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 12:26 PM Response to Reply #94 |
96. It doesn't and shouldn't in this country. That's the point. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Lurking Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 12:09 PM Response to Reply #85 |
87. Hell, just the word "sacrament" |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 12:15 PM Response to Reply #87 |
89. I may be totally ignorant on this, so I'm seeking answers. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Lurking Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 12:36 PM Response to Reply #89 |
100. Not that I am aware. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Blue-Jay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 09:12 PM Response to Original message |
50. Hey, I have a better idea! |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 09:18 PM Response to Original message |
54. Fine with me, but call them civil marriages. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
bpeale (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 10:48 AM Response to Reply #54 |
79. i can sign on to this concept. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Bill McBlueState (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-23-07 09:27 PM Response to Original message |
55. the people who oppose gay marriage hate this idea, too |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
KharmaTrain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-24-07 08:42 AM Response to Original message |
59. I Have Two Marriage Licenses |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Marrah_G (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 10:02 AM Response to Original message |
67. Civil Union sounds so cold and impersonal |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 10:04 AM Response to Reply #67 |
69. Especially since the same fuckheads against same sex marriage will not be appeased by this |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 12:21 PM Response to Reply #69 |
93. I've seen some polls that suggest otherwise. n/t |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 12:25 PM Response to Reply #93 |
95. I'm certain there are SOME people who would be okay with civil unions but |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
bryant69 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 10:14 AM Response to Original message |
71. I've supported this theory for a while. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
IndianaJones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 10:28 AM Response to Original message |
72. we could have called african americans "non-voting citizens" nt. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
bpeale (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 10:35 AM Response to Original message |
73. i got married in a judge's chambers |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Lurking Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 10:36 AM Response to Reply #73 |
74. My husband refers to it as |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
sniffa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 10:39 AM Response to Original message |
75. pretty much because |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 10:43 AM Response to Original message |
77. I've been saying this for years. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
havocmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 10:14 PM Response to Reply #77 |
101. Wow! yardwork for president! Nailed it all! |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 11:15 AM Response to Original message |
82. I'm married. I'm not civil unioned. The word marriage is far too deeply entrenched |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Dora (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 11:16 AM Response to Original message |
83. Marriage is a civil union. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
CK_John (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 11:19 AM Response to Original message |
84. All you need to do is convince 48 other states to do like VT and MASS. IT IS A STATE ISSUE. n/t |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Dr. Strange (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 12:13 PM Response to Original message |
88. More and more, I find myself leaning that way, BUT... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 12:21 PM Response to Original message |
92. Part of the deal could be to include non-sexual relationships as well. n/t |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 12:27 PM Response to Reply #92 |
97. No one knows if you're having sex or not in your marriage. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 12:33 PM Response to Reply #97 |
99. Sure. Something I didn't realize a long time ago... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Zookeeper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 12:30 PM Response to Original message |
98. A legal union should be available to everyone regardless.... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
TimBean (103 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-25-07 10:31 PM Response to Original message |
102. Pretty much the way to do it |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
DU AdBot (1000+ posts) | Thu Apr 25th 2024, 07:26 PM Response to Original message |
Advertisements [?] |
Top |
Home » Discuss » Archives » General Discussion (1/22-2007 thru 12/14/2010) |
Powered by DCForum+ Version 1.1 Copyright 1997-2002 DCScripts.com
Software has been extensively modified by the DU administrators
Important Notices: By participating on this discussion board, visitors agree to abide by the rules outlined on our Rules page. Messages posted on the Democratic Underground Discussion Forums are the opinions of the individuals who post them, and do not necessarily represent the opinions of Democratic Underground, LLC.
Home | Discussion Forums | Journals | Store | Donate
About DU | Contact Us | Privacy Policy
Got a message for Democratic Underground? Click here to send us a message.
© 2001 - 2011 Democratic Underground, LLC