Psst.. Meet me at the Paris Hilton in Hanoi

[SoCalDem]

Vietnam is having Paris Hilton moment

By BEN STOCKING, Associated Press Writer Thu Oct 25, 8:03 AM ET

HANOI, Vietnam - Vietnam is having a Paris Hilton moment.
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20071025/ap_en_ot/vietnam_sex_scandal_4;_ylt=An77w1lZXH9nDhUWd2BO5vzlWMcF

An online sex video featuring a popular celebrity has riveted the nation for more than a week now, much as Hilton's clip seized the attention of Americans when it hit the Internet several years ago. But unlike Hilton, the 19-year-old woman at the center of Vietnam's sex scandal won't be able to capitalize on her newfound notoriety. Hoang Thuy Linh's show has been canceled and the actress has made a tearful farewell on national television.

"I made a mistake, a terrible mistake," said the doe-faced teen, who had cultivated a good-girl image. "I apologize to you, my parents, my teachers and my friends."Her fall from grace has highlighted the generational fault-lines in Vietnam, a sexually conservative culture within which women have been taught for centuries to remain chaste until marriage and stay true to one man — no matter how many times he cheats on them.

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But for many in communist Vietnam, new ideas about free love are much harder to accept than the free market. And unlike men, women who break the old sexual taboos are not easily forgiven. "Kids today are crazy," said Nguyen Thi Khanh, 49, a Hanoi junior high school teacher. "They often exceed the limits of morality. They have sex and fall in love when they're much too young."

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"A good girl must keep herself clean until she is married," Khanh said. "Thuy Linh should be condemned. If I ever see her again on TV, I will turn it off, for sure." In "Vang Anh's Diaries," Thuy Linh portrayed an earnest high school girl, modern and stylish but determined to uphold the traditional virtues of "cong, dung, ngon" and "hanh," which promote women as tidy, charming, soft-spoken and chaste.

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On Thursday, Hanoi police detained four college students accused of posting the sex clip to the Internet. They could face charges of "spreading depraved cultural items," which carries a sentence of six months to 15 years if convicted. Police identified the man in the clip as 20-year-old Vu Hoang Viet, who is currently studying overseas. They said a friend copied the film off of Viet's laptop, and passed it along to other friends who then posted it online.

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"People will forgive him, but not her," said Tran Minh Nguyet of the Vietnam Women's Union, which promotes gender equality. "Vietnamese think it's OK for a boy to have sex at that age, but not for a girl. It's absolutely unfair." The video has been the talk of Vietnam. Even members of Vietnam's National Assembly were overheard gossiping about it last week at the opening of the new legislative session.

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"Vietnam is changing quickly, but there's no way Thuy Linh will be forgiven," Nguyet said. "That will take another generation."

[Bucky]

1. 19 is too young to fall in love?

I'm an old fart and a bit of a prude. But the fact that a 19 year old is having sex strikes me as being a bit ordinary. I have no idea why you'd want to tape such a thing. That's weird. But then, everyone under the age of 30 is weird. What a stupid culture.

NB: I still think bombing the smithereens out of them was wrong, of course.

[SoCalDem]

2. All those decades of Chistianization succeeded too well

and in times past, the girls probably married in their mid teens.. They are experiencing the elongation of adolescence...like we have :)

If girls are to "remain pure" until amrriage, it made sense (in an odd way) to marry them off young..but if girls are to grow up and make their own lives and postpone marriage, it's unreasonable to expect them to remain chaste until they are 30 :)

Cultures clash..unpleasantly, for the older folks.

[Bucky]

3. I think the south was where most of the Christians were. Hanoi is pretty Buddhist.

Not that Buddhists are any less sticks in the mud about teenage sexuality.

[SoCalDem]

4. They've been re-united for 40+ years now..and weren't the French all over the place?

They set up Catholic schools everywhere they went :(

[Ghost in the Machine]

5. eh.. no big deal. Just another "boy eats girl" story....