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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 12:00 AM Original message |
I'm a straight, white middle class American who can acknowledge my own privilege and latent bigotry |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 12:02 AM Response to Original message |
1. Well, unusual. Refreshing. Yeah, I suppose it's wierd. nt |
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illinoisprogressive (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 12:05 AM Response to Original message |
2. honesty. how new and nice. |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 12:07 AM Response to Original message |
3. Seems to be a rare thing here |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 12:27 AM Response to Reply #3 |
8. yup |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 12:11 AM Response to Original message |
4. Congratulations. |
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TomInTib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 12:13 AM Response to Original message |
5. Maybe we could start our own site. |
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SammyWinstonJack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 08:44 PM Response to Reply #5 |
72. Braggarts R Us? |
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MoseyWalker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 12:15 AM Response to Original message |
6. Sounds like a lounge thread to me! |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 12:21 AM Response to Original message |
7. "latent"?? |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 12:29 AM Response to Reply #7 |
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LostInAnomie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 12:30 AM Response to Reply #7 |
11. Ha Ha! |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 06:15 AM Response to Reply #11 |
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LostInAnomie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 04:57 PM Response to Reply #20 |
54. "hateful/flippant sexist hypocrite" |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 08:16 PM Response to Reply #54 |
67. refuting sexist bigotry is not bigotry |
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LostInAnomie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 08:39 PM Response to Reply #67 |
70. You'd be right, if that is what you actually do. |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 10:10 PM Response to Reply #70 |
78. your actions and attitude indict you |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 10:12 PM Response to Reply #70 |
79. !!!!! |
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Miss Chybil (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 12:27 AM Response to Original message |
9. People should not be discriminated agains because they have a bit |
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karlrschneider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 12:30 AM Response to Original message |
12. Not to put too fine a point on it, but if you acknowledge it, it isn't latent. |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 12:36 AM Response to Reply #12 |
14. Del Capo Al Fine |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 06:42 AM Response to Reply #14 |
24. refuting sexist bigotry is not bigotry |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 06:13 AM Response to Reply #12 |
19. if you don't acknowledge it, you're a bigot in denial |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 01:22 AM Response to Reply #19 |
90. Let's see if I've got this right. |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 02:49 AM Response to Reply #90 |
97. There's two kinds of people |
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smoogatz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 12:33 AM Response to Original message |
13. Do you feel guilty about your white male privilege? |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 06:19 AM Response to Reply #13 |
21. i can recognize privilege on a scale beyond my personal life. guilt is beside the point. |
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smoogatz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 10:34 AM Response to Reply #21 |
25. Well, of course you can. If you're aware that it exists, you're obviously |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 01:11 AM Response to Original message |
15. I've been lower class myself |
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spoony (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 03:57 AM Response to Reply #15 |
18. What? You mean |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 06:22 AM Response to Reply #18 |
22. ever watch COPS? |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 11:40 AM Response to Reply #22 |
30. What does that mean? |
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tomreedtoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 01:50 AM Response to Original message |
16. Not weird. It's pretty standard around here. |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 06:34 AM Response to Reply #16 |
23. why does the OP statement have to be associated with guilt and fear? |
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Zhade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 02:55 AM Response to Reply #23 |
98. Being a bigot isn't cause for guilt? |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 03:28 AM Response to Reply #98 |
104. The OP doesn't endorse "being a bigot" |
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Morgana LaFey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 04:30 PM Response to Reply #16 |
48. Pretty standard around here? |
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Tyo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 02:08 AM Response to Original message |
17. I'm a gay asian queer |
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Marrah_G (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 10:44 AM Response to Original message |
26. Excuse me? |
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Unvanguard (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 10:56 AM Response to Reply #26 |
28. Not EVERY. Never EVERY. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 02:03 PM Response to Reply #26 |
33. Deleted message |
noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 02:06 PM Response to Reply #33 |
35. lol |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 02:24 PM Response to Reply #35 |
38. i could never- it's just exasperating, this BS victim mentality that SOME white people have, LOL.... |
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Marrah_G (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 03:27 PM Response to Reply #38 |
43. Victim mentality? |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 03:45 PM Response to Reply #43 |
45. except the OP doesn't say all- YOU say ALL- you read it wrong and blame the OP fer your FUCKUP |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 10:57 PM Response to Reply #43 |
81. I did not "insinuate that all white people have 'latent bigotry' " |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 01:32 AM Response to Reply #81 |
91. aha, but if not every white person has it |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 02:40 AM Response to Reply #91 |
96. Maybe it's a problem with not being familiar with history |
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Zhade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 02:57 AM Response to Reply #81 |
99. Ah, but you'd have to prove that all people have bigotry. |
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Marrah_G (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 02:18 PM Response to Reply #33 |
36. Ah yes name calling |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 02:21 PM Response to Reply #36 |
37. nope, it's because you make up bullshit and think no one will call you on it |
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Marrah_G (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 03:23 PM Response to Reply #37 |
41. Screw you |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 03:44 PM Response to Reply #41 |
44. the post does not say what you claim it does. so it's bullshit, end of story. |
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Marrah_G (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 05:15 PM Response to Reply #44 |
57. Self-delete |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 02:05 PM Response to Reply #26 |
34. Every person raised in this culture |
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Morgana LaFey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 04:39 PM Response to Reply #34 |
51. Exactly right |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 06:45 PM Response to Reply #34 |
61. that was very well stated |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 08:09 PM Response to Reply #61 |
66. I meant for it to point at the culture |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 11:50 PM Response to Reply #66 |
83. for oppressed people to perpetuate their own oppression |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 01:17 AM Response to Reply #83 |
89. disagreeing on a couple points |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 03:01 AM Response to Reply #89 |
101. it is not entirely about class oppression either |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:17 AM Response to Reply #101 |
106. I am not on board with that, sorry |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:56 AM Response to Reply #106 |
108. it is certainly not about protecting white guys |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:43 AM Response to Reply #108 |
109. Except nobody has argued that poverty needs to go on the back burner |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 09:10 PM Response to Reply #61 |
74. lwfern rocks and you provided something else very well stated: |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 01:05 AM Response to Reply #74 |
88. sure, all I provided well stated was a quote from Macintosh |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 02:06 AM Response to Reply #88 |
93. I think you are too |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 04:07 AM Response to Reply #93 |
105. I do not see the discussion of societal factors |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 12:37 PM Response to Reply #105 |
119. Thank you, friend, for going there with me. |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:16 PM Response to Reply #119 |
193. where have we gone? |
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Marr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 10:55 AM Response to Original message |
27. Rather than just congratulating you, every poster who agrees with you |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 11:15 AM Response to Original message |
29. Is this all you must do, or do you owe something to anyone |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 03:48 PM Response to Reply #29 |
46. "owing something" is not "oppression." |
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AspenRose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 04:39 PM Response to Reply #46 |
50. Excellent post |
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MedleyMisty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 04:46 PM Response to Reply #46 |
52. I think I love you |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 07:51 PM Response to Reply #46 |
64. I'm a straight man who couldn't care less about showering with a gay man. |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 08:17 PM Response to Reply #64 |
68. It's the same sense of entitlement, just a matter of degree |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 09:01 PM Response to Reply #68 |
73. Well, if you want to stop people on this planet from lustily looking at members of the opposite |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 09:27 PM Response to Reply #73 |
75. Again, it's a matter of degrees |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 03:02 AM Response to Reply #75 |
102. Again, as you say, matter of degrees. |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:35 AM Response to Reply #102 |
107. It's not acceptable, even IF there's no verbal or physical assault |
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GaYellowDawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 11:40 AM Response to Reply #107 |
116. None of these are examples of your first post. |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 12:25 PM Response to Reply #116 |
118. Not all of those cases were photos "made public" |
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GaYellowDawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 03:31 PM Response to Reply #118 |
136. True. |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 04:03 PM Response to Reply #136 |
144. I am indeed trying to prove a point with those questions |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 04:56 PM Response to Reply #144 |
154. it is really tough convincing guys how it feels when it's all day long- you'll have guys |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:15 PM Response to Reply #154 |
159. If her point was about groups of men making catcalls, shouting, harassing, etc |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:09 PM Response to Reply #159 |
187. do you remember the seinfeld thing about cleavage- you glance and loook away, LOL? |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 09:22 PM Response to Reply #187 |
243. I agree with everything you say. |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 10:37 PM Response to Reply #243 |
258. Lol, it's an interesting topic, i ususally can bear a lot more than a lot of women i know |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:12 PM Response to Reply #144 |
158. All your examples use security cameras or other surreptitious surveillance devices. |
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Starbucks Anarchist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:22 PM Response to Reply #144 |
161. Technology and the hidden voyeur are the differences. |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:40 PM Response to Reply #161 |
169. No. You are never allowed to glance at a woman's ass, ever again! |
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Starbucks Anarchist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:40 PM Response to Reply #169 |
170. Damn, how will I pass the time now? |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:43 PM Response to Reply #170 |
171. I've found "yahtzee" helps. |
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Starbucks Anarchist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:44 PM Response to Reply #171 |
172. Nope -- guess I'll try Sudoku. |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:45 PM Response to Reply #172 |
174. I was quite a sudoku addict, then I got a GF. |
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Starbucks Anarchist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:47 PM Response to Reply #174 |
175. Yeah, I need one of those, too. |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:50 PM Response to Reply #175 |
179. It cuts down on the sudoku time. |
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Starbucks Anarchist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:04 PM Response to Reply #179 |
184. Fair trade. |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:14 PM Response to Reply #184 |
190. More than fair. She's way better than sudoku. |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 09:23 PM Response to Reply #179 |
244. You should see what a wife does. |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:48 PM Response to Reply #161 |
176. Your reply assumes two things |
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Starbucks Anarchist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:01 PM Response to Reply #176 |
183. WTF? |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:52 PM Response to Reply #183 |
209. the 11 year old is to elicit some empathy- and perhapsthink of to use as |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:54 PM Response to Reply #183 |
211. I misunderstood your point about the cam guy |
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Starbucks Anarchist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 09:34 PM Response to Reply #211 |
246. The 11-year-old is a strawman. |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 09:59 PM Response to Reply #246 |
249. myopic male perspective in your post |
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Starbucks Anarchist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 10:31 PM Response to Reply #249 |
255. Yikes... |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 11:24 PM Response to Reply #255 |
269. Some comments from me, and then an email from a man I'm friends with |
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Starbucks Anarchist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 11:57 PM Response to Reply #269 |
276. Okay... |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 10:16 PM Response to Reply #246 |
252. not at all, my niece was getting comments and attention at that age |
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Starbucks Anarchist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 10:43 PM Response to Reply #252 |
260. Commented on by whom? |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 10:53 PM Response to Reply #260 |
261. grown men.....not realizing me walking 15 feet behind her as guardian, it's disturbing isn;t it? |
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Starbucks Anarchist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 10:56 PM Response to Reply #261 |
262. That is extremely disturbing. |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 11:09 PM Response to Reply #262 |
265. well she is a way smart cookie. |
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EvolveOrConvolve (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:39 PM Response to Reply #144 |
167. Those are two separate things entirely |
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GaYellowDawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:50 PM Response to Reply #144 |
178. So far, the only real point has been to try to win points. |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:45 PM Response to Reply #178 |
205. I'm actually NOT trying to paint all men with a broad brush |
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GaYellowDawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 07:03 PM Response to Reply #205 |
216. Great post!! |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 09:30 PM Response to Reply #205 |
245. The "ubiquitous male gaze". Good grief. |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 09:59 PM Response to Reply #73 |
77. I took lwfern's point to be about |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 03:20 AM Response to Reply #77 |
103. As always, OM, your thread is a thought-provoker. |
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me b zola (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 08:35 PM Response to Reply #46 |
69. ! |
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stop the bleeding (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:18 PM Response to Reply #46 |
195. Dumb question here.... |
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Karenina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 07:21 PM Response to Reply #46 |
222. OOOLALA! |
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demrabble (500 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 11:44 AM Response to Original message |
31. Good On You |
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mongo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 12:01 PM Response to Original message |
32. I bet you're humble and loveable too |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 02:36 PM Response to Original message |
39. Now That You've Acknowledged It, Hopefully You'll Take The Steps Necessary To |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 12:01 AM Response to Reply #39 |
84. Acknowledging latent bigotry IS the step to overcoming it |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 12:21 AM Response to Reply #84 |
85. Not Sure How A Direct Quote Could Be Misinterpreted. |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 01:05 AM Response to Reply #85 |
87. Not a "direct quote" -- Not sure how you always manage to misinterpret |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 11:03 AM Response to Reply #87 |
115. You're The One Who Made The Declaration, Yet Now You're Acting Embarrassed By It Or Resistant To It. |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 12:49 PM Response to Reply #115 |
120. The objection is to your unwelcome reitieration of the post and misinterpretation of its meaning |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 03:15 PM Response to Reply #120 |
132. What Are You Talking About?????? Paraphrased Version??? It's A One Line OP!!!! ROFLMAO!!!!! |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 04:45 PM Response to Reply #132 |
152. A one line OP that's not limited to your stunted version of what it means |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:08 PM Response to Reply #152 |
186. Not Sure Why Your Own Admission In The OP Has You In Such A Tizzy, But Whatever. Not My Problem. |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:37 PM Response to Reply #186 |
203. Your tizzy, your problem |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 07:08 PM Response to Reply #203 |
219. Still No Idea Why You're So Defensive Towards Your Own OP. |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 08:26 PM Response to Reply #219 |
236. baloney |
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loyalsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 02:51 PM Response to Original message |
40. Only weird if you decide it's okay to let it loose |
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Karenina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 03:52 PM Response to Reply #40 |
47. Those who understand what you've written |
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loyalsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 04:38 PM Response to Reply #47 |
49. Thanks |
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Karenina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 06:10 PM Response to Reply #49 |
60. THAT is a very astute, courageous |
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aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 03:26 PM Response to Original message |
42. not weird, but very 1980s liberal art college, |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 04:56 PM Response to Original message |
53. Deleted sub-thread |
cgrindley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 05:12 PM Response to Original message |
55. That's not particularly helpful |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 05:13 PM Response to Reply #55 |
56. " My wife makes more money than I do" |
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cgrindley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 05:29 PM Response to Reply #56 |
58. I have 8 more years of education |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 05:32 PM Response to Reply #58 |
59. Hey, that's the field you chose to go into. She went into another one. Not her fault and not your |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 12:32 AM Response to Reply #58 |
86. education does not make you intelligent |
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cgrindley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 09:37 AM Response to Reply #86 |
112. Who said anything about intelligence? Learn to read. |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 12:55 PM Response to Reply #112 |
122. And that is flat out wrong. Sorry, but the world doesn't work that way. |
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cgrindley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 03:29 PM Response to Reply #122 |
135. So you'll be telling your kids to avoid college? |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 04:36 PM Response to Reply #135 |
150. "I DESERVE to make more money" |
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cgrindley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:28 PM Response to Reply #150 |
196. Nonsense |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 07:03 PM Response to Reply #196 |
215. standpoint theory |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 11:44 PM Response to Reply #196 |
274. "they deserve it"? So that is why a person gets educated, to make more money? |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:00 PM Response to Reply #135 |
155. It depends on what field you go into. |
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cgrindley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:30 PM Response to Reply #155 |
197. Yeah, most likely |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 06:48 PM Response to Original message |
62. Could you pleeeez start explaining some of that priviledge so some of those |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 07:10 PM Response to Reply #62 |
63. To understand that privilege |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 08:00 PM Response to Reply #63 |
65. Great thread. THANKS TO ALL for the insights and for keeping it going |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 01:41 PM Response to Reply #63 |
123. Or, you can get to the right side of your brain, and help folks understand |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 08:41 PM Response to Original message |
71. Findings on Inadvertent Gender Bias in the Evaluation of Candidates |
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jeffrey_X (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 09:31 PM Response to Original message |
76. Not at all. |
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Hidden Stillness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 10:14 PM Response to Original message |
80. All Individuals and Groups are Bigoted--All of Them/Us |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 11:35 PM Response to Reply #80 |
82. Well HS, you've put your thumb in the eye of the storm, the central point |
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spoony (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 01:43 AM Response to Reply #82 |
92. Because groups are made up of individuals |
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MedleyMisty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 10:41 AM Response to Reply #92 |
113. I'm white |
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alittlelark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 02:10 AM Response to Reply #80 |
94. Go to bed..... You'll feel better (and make more sense) in the AM |
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Zhade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 02:58 AM Response to Reply #80 |
100. Speak for yourself, unless you can offer evidence for each of us. |
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alittlelark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 02:24 AM Response to Original message |
95. We could have used in in a thread a few days ago.... |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:56 AM Response to Original message |
110. Black children prefer white dolls |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 07:10 AM Response to Original message |
111. Does that keep you from trying to be a better person??? |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 12:10 PM Response to Reply #111 |
117. If you read the thread, you'll see that question is unecessary |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:37 PM Response to Reply #117 |
166. I see it as very necessary. |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:47 PM Response to Reply #166 |
206. Not if you read the thread. |
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GeorgeGist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 11:00 AM Response to Original message |
114. Not really... |
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bryant69 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 12:55 PM Response to Original message |
121. Why yes - you should feel proud of what a special person you are |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 02:11 PM Response to Reply #121 |
124. it seems simpler than a choice between pride and paranoia |
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bryant69 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 02:33 PM Response to Reply #124 |
127. I suppose I feel i have enough reasons to hate myself without |
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Beelzebud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 02:11 PM Response to Original message |
125. I'll not engage in self-hatred to make others "feel good". |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 02:27 PM Response to Reply #125 |
126. Well that's a bizarre interpretation but part of the unanswered question |
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Beelzebud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 02:44 PM Response to Reply #126 |
128. Or maybe I just don't feel the need to apologize for my sex and race. |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 02:52 PM Response to Reply #128 |
129. the OP was about acknowledging the advantages- which does not imply you needed to "do" anything |
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Beelzebud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 03:10 PM Response to Reply #129 |
131. You don't even know me. |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 03:16 PM Response to Reply #131 |
133. an overweight hippy freak woman with roseaca is in bigger trouble than you, bub.... |
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GaYellowDawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 03:36 PM Response to Reply #133 |
138. Hm. |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 03:50 PM Response to Reply #138 |
141. if you believe yourself to be an exception- than why do you still avoid acknowledging how |
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GaYellowDawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:25 PM Response to Reply #141 |
163. Well, that's rather unfair. |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:42 PM Response to Reply #163 |
204. i only know you're another man claiming exception to what studies have shown to be true for years |
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GaYellowDawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 07:27 PM Response to Reply #204 |
224. Bzzzzzzzzzz. |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 09:14 PM Response to Reply #224 |
242. wow, you want an award for reading one book... |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 03:54 PM Response to Reply #138 |
142. Silly fellow. Men aren't judged by their weight or clothing. |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 04:06 PM Response to Reply #142 |
145. wow, what is the deal with all the hyperbole? it adds nothing an makes you soun like a defensive |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:07 PM Response to Reply #145 |
185. Well, so much for "open discussion." Even when I agree with you, you insult me. |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:12 PM Response to Reply #185 |
189. you totally lost me with the women have big vaginas rant, but good luck to you! |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:15 PM Response to Reply #189 |
192. I didn't lose you. You were already lost. |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:17 PM Response to Reply #192 |
194. i found the penis and vagina tangent pointless and silly - your obsession but of no interest |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 04:51 PM Response to Reply #138 |
153. Statistics on obesity and wages support bettyellen's position |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:01 PM Response to Reply #153 |
156. stats be damned, these guys won't care till they are the BIGGEST BENEFICIARIES of discrimination!!! |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:51 PM Response to Reply #156 |
180. Deleted message |
bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:57 PM Response to Reply #180 |
182. i'm not being sarcastic, that's the rationale behind quite a few of these posts.... |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:15 PM Response to Reply #182 |
191. Deleted message |
bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:32 PM Response to Reply #191 |
199. actually what you did was reply sacrastically to me (Riiiight) and accuse ME |
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GaYellowDawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 07:21 PM Response to Reply #199 |
223. Wrong again. |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 07:40 PM Response to Reply #223 |
225. i was pointing out how people avoided the OP. but you were among them, so it's no stretch you'd |
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GaYellowDawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 07:49 PM Response to Reply #225 |
228. You know as well as I do... |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 08:05 PM Response to Reply #228 |
231. if you need to resort to more name calling, please bother someone else |
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GaYellowDawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 08:14 PM Response to Reply #231 |
233. No problem |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 09:10 PM Response to Reply #233 |
241. another personal attack, how lovely of you! |
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GaYellowDawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 11:20 PM Response to Reply #241 |
266. ... |
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GaYellowDawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 11:23 PM Response to Reply #241 |
267. .. |
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GaYellowDawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 11:24 PM Response to Reply #241 |
268. So much for shutting up. |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 11:28 PM Response to Reply #268 |
270. i can't believe that BS post took you five attempts. that would have to be a record. LOL. |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 11:29 PM Response to Reply #268 |
271. Very Well Said. |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 04:13 PM Response to Reply #129 |
148. acknowledging the advantages on a broad scale without fear |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:26 PM Response to Reply #148 |
164. if i learned one thing from this thread- is that people want to believe that they are the exception |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 03:02 PM Response to Reply #128 |
130. It's like "Original SIn" ... even being born again won't help on DU. |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 03:17 PM Response to Reply #130 |
134. how is an acknowledgement of how society works such a sacrifice? |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 03:47 PM Response to Reply #130 |
140. Deleted message |
Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 04:08 PM Response to Reply #140 |
146. Deleted sub-thread |
omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 03:33 PM Response to Reply #128 |
137. who asked ya to? |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 03:46 PM Response to Reply #128 |
139. "things you never did" is part of the problem. |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 04:01 PM Response to Reply #139 |
143. i was more trying to get an acknowledement on how they benefit without doing a darned thing being |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 04:12 PM Response to Reply #143 |
147. That's true |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 04:21 PM Response to Reply #147 |
149. every man here who avoids the heart of this discusion by insisting HIS LIFE IS UNFAIR |
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LostInAnomie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 04:45 PM Response to Reply #149 |
151. It's hard not to personalize an issue when the claim is that by your birth... |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:08 PM Response to Reply #151 |
157. all aspects of social life being equal, the premise of discrimination is undeniable- unless you're |
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LostInAnomie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:24 PM Response to Reply #157 |
162. I wouldn't say that all aspects of social life are equal though. |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:32 PM Response to Reply #162 |
165. It's not a phenomenon you can actually study without "equalizing" other factors |
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LostInAnomie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 07:43 PM Response to Reply #165 |
226. I wasn't aware I was making any excuses. |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 08:01 PM Response to Reply #226 |
230. it's not a "maybe " that payscales for women are 70% of what men's are - |
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LostInAnomie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 08:49 PM Response to Reply #230 |
239. Where did I say anything about affirmative action? |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 09:07 PM Response to Reply #239 |
240. well the materialist view is for me, something nice to HOPE for.. in the meantime |
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mvd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:20 PM Response to Original message |
160. Yes I acknowledge the problem, but it also has to be.. |
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mvd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:45 PM Response to Reply #160 |
173. Another thing |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:52 PM Response to Reply #173 |
181. Absolutely, thanks for seeing it's a bit more complicated than these knee jerk deniers |
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mvd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:58 PM Response to Reply #181 |
213. Thanks back- I'm glad to see some agreement.. |
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Stu DeBeouf (144 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:39 PM Response to Original message |
168. How's that self-hatred working for you? |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:48 PM Response to Reply #168 |
177. seeing society for how it functions and admitting it's given you a leg up equals self hatered to you |
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Stu DeBeouf (144 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:47 PM Response to Reply #177 |
207. Assuming guilt for things you have not done... |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:53 PM Response to Reply #207 |
210. thers's no guilt except maybe between your ears kid. interesting you read it that way... |
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Stu DeBeouf (144 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 08:01 PM Response to Reply #210 |
229. Huh? |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:10 PM Response to Original message |
188. re: "latent bigotry" |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:30 PM Response to Original message |
198. It's weird to start a self-congratulatory thread about it |
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SurpriseImaNinja (5 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:34 PM Response to Reply #198 |
200. cant believe... |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:37 PM Response to Reply #200 |
202. Welcome to DU. I wish I could say this sort of thing was unusual |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:37 PM Response to Reply #198 |
201. what's interesting is all thesuper defensive personal reactions- |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 07:08 PM Response to Reply #201 |
220. Fascinating. How many is that now? |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 07:11 PM Response to Reply #220 |
221. what was removed? creepy misogynistic shit or fear of penis judgement paranoia? |
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B Calm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:51 PM Response to Original message |
208. I'm a straight, white, valuable working class American who is working |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:55 PM Response to Reply #208 |
212. again, your point is.....? |
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B Calm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 07:02 PM Response to Reply #212 |
214. what you mean, again? I only posted once! |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 07:07 PM Response to Reply #214 |
218. no, but your post echos everyone else here who feels themself not enough of the opressor, LOL... |
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B Calm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 10:04 PM Response to Reply #218 |
251. Who appointed you the Judge! |
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Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 07:03 PM Response to Original message |
217. Define weird. |
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matcom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 07:47 PM Response to Original message |
227. Is Anna still dead? |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 08:11 PM Response to Reply #227 |
232. Deleted message |
matcom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 08:15 PM Response to Reply #232 |
234. i really don't understand your post |
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Stu DeBeouf (144 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 08:27 PM Response to Reply #234 |
237. Check... |
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matcom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 08:32 PM Response to Reply #237 |
238. I heard Britney shaved her head |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 08:16 PM Response to Reply #227 |
235. Yep. Not only that, but concerns about her body's appearance have been allayed. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 09:47 PM Response to Original message |
247. Deleted message |
TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 10:02 PM Response to Reply #247 |
250. "second head"?? |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 10:21 PM Response to Reply #250 |
253. that post owned you at "emasculated" |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 11:36 PM Response to Reply #253 |
272. Again, you resort to sleazy insults and vicious snark. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 11:44 PM Response to Reply #272 |
275. Deleted message |
TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-20-07 12:15 AM Response to Reply #275 |
278. That's a despicable, vicious slander. (Why am I not surprised?) |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-20-07 12:30 AM Response to Reply #278 |
281. so what was your point about how big vaginas can stretch? were you praising women for this? |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-20-07 12:38 AM Response to Reply #281 |
282. Deleted message |
Marrah_G (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-20-07 12:05 AM Response to Reply #272 |
277. Stop banging your head against a wall |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-20-07 12:21 AM Response to Reply #277 |
279. driving away those who incorrectly read the OP and turn it into a blanket bigoted statement |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 10:35 PM Response to Reply #250 |
256. But They're Always The Answers To Questions No One's Asking LOL |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 10:35 PM Response to Reply #250 |
257. I noticed that it popped up in the thread |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 10:31 PM Response to Reply #247 |
254. Some thoughts |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 10:58 PM Response to Reply #254 |
263. Thank you |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 11:05 PM Response to Reply #254 |
264. thanks Iwfern- for your posts here and the very interesting stats |
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leftofthedial (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 09:52 PM Response to Original message |
248. it appears to me that anyone who is not gay |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 10:38 PM Response to Reply #248 |
259. Well, if you read the entire thread |
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leftofthedial (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 11:41 PM Response to Reply #259 |
273. so it's worse than even I (a cynic) feared |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-20-07 12:29 AM Response to Reply #273 |
280. I'd say the purpose is: |
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Broken_Hero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-20-07 12:39 AM Response to Original message |
283. Locking |
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