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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:10 PM Original message |
Serious question: How do you deal with conservative friends? |
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trumad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:11 PM Response to Original message |
1. I simply don't discuss politics with Kool-Aid drinkers. |
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Initech (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 03:07 PM Response to Reply #1 |
38. Same here. |
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water (504 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 05:26 PM Response to Reply #1 |
57. You aren't going to change their minds by being insulting and arrogant. |
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trumad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 10:05 PM Response to Reply #57 |
67. huh? |
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shenmue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:14 PM Response to Original message |
2. Lately I just try to get out of there as soon as I can. |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:15 PM Response to Original message |
3. I bombard them with facts. The end result is that they won't |
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HereSince1628 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:15 PM Response to Original message |
4. Talk baseball during football season. |
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Mayberry Machiavelli (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:17 PM Response to Original message |
5. Tell him he needs to back off. You disagree about politics, and him becoming louder and more |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:22 PM Response to Reply #5 |
15. I think this might have to be my next step. |
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Mayberry Machiavelli (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:38 PM Response to Reply #15 |
27. Here's the context. Even though most wouldn't admit it to you, many Republicans recognize that |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 06:57 PM Response to Reply #27 |
64. I think you're right. |
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Glorfindel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:17 PM Response to Original message |
6. DO NOT discuss politics with them if they're truly friends |
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GardeningGal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:19 PM Response to Original message |
7. My two cents worth.... |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:26 PM Response to Reply #7 |
20. That's a really good idea. |
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porphyrian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:19 PM Response to Original message |
8. I don't have conservative friends. |
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gratuitous (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:19 PM Response to Original message |
9. I dunno |
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pinto (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:19 PM Response to Original message |
10. Depends. Usually try to stay objective, w/out personalizing our politics, or, |
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Akoto (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:19 PM Response to Original message |
11. I treat them like my friends. |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:27 PM Response to Reply #11 |
21. We always have before, that's why this is so weird. |
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ConcernedCanuk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:20 PM Response to Original message |
12. trumad nailed it - don't discuss politics, it's the only way. |
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dorkulon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:21 PM Response to Original message |
13. Conservative.... friends? |
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NoGOPZone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:21 PM Response to Original message |
14. Usually with "Reply All" and a snopes link. nt |
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sellitman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:22 PM Response to Original message |
16. If they can't stand the heat..... |
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mcscajun (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:25 PM Response to Original message |
17. I have one Republican Friend. I've posted about him many times here... |
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Richard Steele (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:25 PM Response to Original message |
18. At some point, it's not about "political differences" anymore; it's about being a friend. |
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Binka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 03:07 PM Response to Reply #18 |
37. You Took The Words Out Of My Mouth n/t |
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Stuckinthebush (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:26 PM Response to Original message |
19. Be patronizing and then dismissive |
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SpiralHawk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:35 PM Response to Reply #19 |
26. But they are not 'conservatives.' Name one conservative thing about republicons? |
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Stuckinthebush (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:40 PM Response to Reply #26 |
28. Indeed, SpiralHawk |
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orleans (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:29 PM Response to Original message |
22. i was in a similar situation in 2004--this woman would send me her |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 03:05 PM Response to Reply #22 |
35. That's so sad. I can't understand why she didn't respect your boundaries. |
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Occulus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 03:16 PM Response to Reply #22 |
43. reply-all |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 05:13 PM Response to Reply #22 |
54. Sounds like you gave reasonable warnings to her. |
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orleans (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 10:26 PM Response to Reply #54 |
71. that is just bizarre! (what your friend did) yuck. what did his wife think? |
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MedleyMisty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:30 PM Response to Original message |
23. I don't have conservative friends |
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abluelady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 11:27 PM Response to Reply #23 |
76. I Feel the Same Way. eom |
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Blarch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:33 PM Response to Original message |
24. I don't associate with those fuck wads |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 03:07 PM Response to Reply #24 |
36. Um, no. My core principal is to respect and love everyone, including conservatives. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 03:15 PM Response to Reply #36 |
42. living in the panhandle of texas, coming from calif, hardest thing was the intolerance |
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Blarch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 05:21 PM Response to Reply #36 |
55. LOL |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 06:52 PM Response to Reply #55 |
61. I can respect fellow human beings, yes. |
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Blarch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 06:56 PM Response to Reply #61 |
63. It is clear as day |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 07:00 PM Response to Reply #63 |
65. I don't think run-of-the-mill Republicans want to shred the Constitution, though. |
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Blarch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-22-08 10:36 AM Response to Reply #65 |
87. Oh please. |
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Djinn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 11:39 PM Response to Reply #61 |
82. but your children havn't killed anyone |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-22-08 10:33 AM Response to Reply #82 |
86. I thought I made it clear I wasn't talking about politicians. |
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Alexander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:34 PM Response to Original message |
25. I say "How's it going, Hillary?" |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 11:36 PM Response to Reply #25 |
81. LOL! |
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ayeshahaqqiqa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:47 PM Response to Original message |
29. Don't talk politics |
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hisownpetard (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:48 PM Response to Original message |
30. "Conservative friends" is an oxymoron. |
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midlife_mo_Jo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:53 PM Response to Original message |
31. Well, I recently told a good friend |
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rucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:55 PM Response to Original message |
32. Respond to the next one with "nice email, Hitler" |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:57 PM Response to Original message |
33. i have STOPPED talking politics with most of them. all the males in family are NOT |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:57 PM Response to Original message |
34. I don't have friends who are that at odds with my values. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 03:09 PM Response to Reply #34 |
39. wow, and i dont have a single family member, or person in this area |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 04:54 PM Response to Reply #39 |
46. Ah well - family members is another story. |
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Liz7 (55 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 03:09 PM Response to Original message |
40. it varies depending on their level of ignorance |
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SteppingRazor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 03:12 PM Response to Original message |
41. I've got a couple of friends who are very conservative... |
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MadHound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 03:17 PM Response to Original message |
44. First of all, I treat them like friends first, conservative or liberal come lower down on the scale |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 03:35 PM Response to Original message |
45. With Snopes. -nt |
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fascisthunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 04:55 PM Response to Original message |
47. I Fart and Make them Smell It |
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lonestarnot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 11:41 PM Response to Reply #47 |
85. Cough |
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mdmc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 04:57 PM Response to Original message |
48. I have many con friends, including a fundie girlfriend |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 05:38 PM Response to Reply #48 |
58. i married a rw texas nra card holding catholic conservative who voted KERRY |
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mdmc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 05:45 PM Response to Reply #58 |
60. nice |
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LSK (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 04:58 PM Response to Original message |
49. I have moved away from them in the past few years |
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LittleClarkie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 04:59 PM Response to Original message |
50. I've gotten pretty good at speaking neutrally to my Conservative friends at the pub |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 05:01 PM Response to Original message |
51. I cut them off entirely. |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 05:02 PM Response to Original message |
52. We don't talk politics. |
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CANDO (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 05:08 PM Response to Original message |
53. My own brother is a wack job right winger. |
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kevinbgoode (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 11:34 PM Response to Reply #53 |
79. You should be laughing at them. . . |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 05:24 PM Response to Original message |
56. "Big Brother"? You mean like the people who want to outlaw the Birth Control Pill? |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 06:56 PM Response to Reply #56 |
62. That was pretty much my reply. |
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Chovexani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 05:44 PM Response to Original message |
59. I avoid politics at all costs |
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trashcanistanista (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 07:02 PM Response to Original message |
66. I don't have any. Not an issue, never will be. |
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debbierlus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 10:07 PM Response to Original message |
68. Tell them you do not want to discuss politics PERIOD |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 10:09 PM Response to Original message |
69. I simply go silent whenever politics comes up. |
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LucyParsons (938 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 10:09 PM Response to Original message |
70. I don't have any |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 10:44 PM Response to Original message |
72. Stop talking to them. |
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krabigirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 11:20 PM Response to Original message |
73. Avoid political talk. That being said, a "friend" dumped me because of my politics. |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 11:22 PM Response to Original message |
74. I don't |
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Cabcere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 11:24 PM Response to Original message |
75. I don't talk politics with them. |
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cynatnite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 11:29 PM Response to Original message |
77. I've got family who are RW bush lovers... |
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Djinn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 11:34 PM Response to Original message |
78. Easy I don't have any |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 11:35 PM Response to Original message |
80. It's very easy! I don't have any conservobot friends! |
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lonestarnot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 11:40 PM Response to Original message |
83. Easy, I don't fucking befriend zombies. None of them can be a REAL friend. |
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Hoof Hearted (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 11:41 PM Response to Original message |
84. Blow darts. |
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marlakay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-22-08 10:53 AM Response to Original message |
88. Your right things have gotten nasty |
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Proud Liberal Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-22-08 11:32 AM Response to Original message |
89. Be playful |
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Tyler Durden (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-22-08 11:37 AM Response to Original message |
90. I have no Neoconservative Friends. |
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