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Buddyblazon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 02:48 PM Original message |
Same-sex marriage/civil unions...I don't understand something. |
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meegbear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 02:50 PM Response to Original message |
1. ... |
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Buddyblazon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 02:53 PM Response to Reply #1 |
4. I hope you're not inferring that I am in some sort of way a bigot... |
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meegbear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 02:55 PM Original message |
No .... |
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JackBeck (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 02:56 PM Response to Original message |
10. We're right behind you. |
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DU9598 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 03:04 PM Response to Reply #10 |
24. We are right behind you too |
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JackBeck (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 03:05 PM Response to Reply #24 |
26. That's right! |
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TlalocW (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 03:18 PM Response to Reply #4 |
37. Implying, not inferring. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 02:51 PM Response to Original message |
2. They don't work and separate, but equal, is not equal |
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MissB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 02:53 PM Response to Original message |
3. Marriage automatically conveys all sorts of rights and privileges. |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 02:53 PM Response to Original message |
5. there are hundreds of laws that define the perimeters of marriage |
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Tesha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 02:57 PM Response to Reply #5 |
12. Why not? |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 03:00 PM Response to Reply #12 |
17. They tried that in NJ -- companies and hospitals are still getting around it |
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Tesha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 03:07 PM Response to Reply #17 |
30. If you write your law in an obvious-enough fashion, no one "gets around" it. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 03:09 PM Response to Reply #30 |
32. They DID write the laws that way -- some companies incorporated outside of NJ were skirting the law |
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Tesha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 03:11 PM Response to Reply #32 |
35. This goes back to my point about the need for matching Federal legislation as well. |
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JackBeck (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 02:54 PM Response to Original message |
6. It would be a lot easier to ascribe |
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libnnc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 02:54 PM Response to Original message |
7. Because not all states recognize civil unions |
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Tesha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 03:09 PM Response to Reply #7 |
34. They won't all recognize gay marriage, either. |
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libnnc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 03:46 PM Response to Reply #34 |
46. Individual companies are already trying to "skirt" around CUs |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 05:52 PM Response to Reply #34 |
58. marriage is not a religious institution -- i don't get you're |
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Tesha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 06:14 PM Response to Reply #58 |
65. Don't be obtuse: "Marriage" is both a religious and a civil institution. |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 06:18 PM Response to Reply #65 |
68. marriage under the law IS NOT religious. |
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Tesha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 07:00 PM Response to Reply #68 |
75. Only *YOU* are conflating religious marriage with civil marriage. |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 07:16 PM Response to Reply #75 |
77. show me where the legal clauses are in federal marriage statutes that refer to religion? |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 06:42 PM Response to Reply #65 |
73. here ya go |
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TommyO (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 08:42 AM Response to Reply #65 |
83. Nobody is trying to affect any church's position on marriage through legal means |
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ourbluenation (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 02:55 PM Response to Original message |
8. they're not the same in terms of rights and priviledges, but it's a common mistake people make. n/t |
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Tesha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 02:59 PM Response to Reply #8 |
16. Federal nicities aside, in what way are they different? |
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ourbluenation (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 03:43 PM Response to Reply #16 |
45. The OP didn't ask for the difference. To me it's ALL about the federal differences... |
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Tesha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 06:16 PM Response to Reply #45 |
67. I agree. And we need brave legislators, something we're sorely lacking. (NT) |
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Tesha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 02:55 PM Response to Original message |
9. I've thought for quite a while that we would do some good by popularizing the term "civil marriage". |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 05:54 PM Response to Reply #9 |
60. marriage is already not religious. except that you say so. |
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Tesha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 06:15 PM Response to Reply #60 |
66. As I said above... (NT) |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 06:19 PM Response to Reply #66 |
69. marriage under the law is not religious. nt |
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Buddyblazon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 02:57 PM Response to Original message |
11. Okay... |
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MissB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 02:58 PM Response to Reply #11 |
13. Separate but equal was wrong then and it is wrong now. |
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JackBeck (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 02:59 PM Response to Reply #11 |
15. Equality should not be measured in bits and pieces. n/t |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 02:59 PM Response to Original message |
14. Because separate but equal is not equal. |
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Buddyblazon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 03:01 PM Response to Reply #14 |
19. Then don't.... |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 03:02 PM Response to Reply #19 |
20. What? |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 03:02 PM Response to Reply #20 |
23. I'm confused, too |
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Buddyblazon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 03:07 PM Response to Reply #23 |
29. Don't say, "I've been civil unioned for......" |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 03:02 PM Response to Reply #14 |
21. Yep -- Haruka and I are married, not civil unioned |
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leftofcool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 03:01 PM Response to Original message |
18. Marriage has always been a state institution |
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JackBeck (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 03:02 PM Response to Reply #18 |
22. It's also Federal. |
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Buddyblazon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 03:04 PM Response to Original message |
25. I am afraid to say this because someone is going to go off half-cocked on me... |
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JackBeck (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 03:06 PM Response to Reply #25 |
27. The point is that we should have learned from that mistake. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 03:07 PM Response to Reply #25 |
28. Only after it was deemed unconstitutional. |
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MrsMatt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 03:08 PM Response to Original message |
31. I think so many of the objections to according |
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Buddyblazon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 03:14 PM Response to Reply #31 |
36. Exactly... |
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MrsMatt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 03:28 PM Response to Reply #36 |
40. I'm a straight, married woman so |
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TommyO (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 08:47 AM Response to Reply #40 |
85. Religious and civil marriages are already separate entities |
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Bluenorthwest (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 04:28 PM Response to Reply #31 |
51. Well I take issue |
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MrsMatt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 05:08 PM Response to Reply #51 |
57. Broad brush |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 05:58 PM Response to Reply #51 |
63. marriage -- under the law -- is not religious -- |
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Hydra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 03:09 PM Response to Original message |
33. Most RWers have problems with the fact that the people are allowed live in the same house |
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MuseRider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 03:25 PM Response to Original message |
38. "AND IT IS A COMPROMISE." |
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Buddyblazon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 03:29 PM Response to Reply #38 |
41. That's the best opposing view point in this thread... |
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MuseRider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 03:33 PM Response to Reply #41 |
43. Thanks |
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FreepFryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 03:39 PM Response to Reply #38 |
44. Seconded. Glad you wrote it first. (n/t) |
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LeftHander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 08:53 AM Response to Reply #38 |
87. ding ding ding. nt |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 03:27 PM Response to Original message |
39. I think there's a difference between accepting that an incremental |
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Buddyblazon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 03:30 PM Response to Reply #39 |
42. Yes... |
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upnatom65 (12 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 03:53 PM Response to Original message |
47. the marriage right I want most |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 03:58 PM Response to Reply #47 |
48. NJ recognizes your marriage in Canada |
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catnhatnh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 04:05 PM Response to Reply #47 |
49. I think you made the whole thing up.... |
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upnatom65 (12 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 05:55 PM Response to Reply #49 |
61. lol...thanx |
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JackBeck (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 04:05 PM Response to Reply #47 |
50. Welcome to DU! |
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upnatom65 (12 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 05:57 PM Response to Reply #50 |
62. appreciate the advice |
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Occulus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 04:33 PM Response to Original message |
52. I think the answer to your question lies in the "full faith and credit" clause |
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JackBeck (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 04:39 PM Response to Reply #52 |
53. Which makes this whole argument of making all marriages "civil unions". |
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Occulus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 04:52 PM Response to Reply #53 |
55. Actually, according to the clause, |
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JackBeck (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 04:55 PM Response to Reply #55 |
56. Let's wait a few years on that challenge. |
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Tesha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 06:22 PM Response to Reply #56 |
70. Ya gotta admit, it would be somewhat-entertaining to see Scalia argue that the FF&C clause... |
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JackBeck (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 06:28 PM Response to Reply #70 |
71. I didn't find his dissenting opinion in Bowers v. Hardwick very entertaining. |
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cboy4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 04:47 PM Response to Original message |
54. Here ya go buddyblazon. Fair question: |
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bicentennial_baby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 05:53 PM Response to Original message |
59. 1138 |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 06:01 PM Response to Original message |
64. just a reminder for everyone -- marriage under the law is not religious. |
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Booster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 06:33 PM Response to Original message |
72. I like Jerry Brown and Arnold S's answer to this problem. Take |
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LynnTheDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 06:44 PM Response to Original message |
74. Why are civil unions ONLY not good enough for straights? |
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Tesha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 07:03 PM Response to Reply #74 |
76. Actually, some of us believe they *ARE* good enough, your huge type notwithstanding. (NT) |
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Occulus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 07:25 PM Response to Reply #76 |
78. Constitutionally, they're not enough |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 07:40 PM Response to Original message |
79. I don't understand why civil rights should be subject to compromise. |
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and-justice-for-all (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 08:46 PM Response to Original message |
80. Civil Union does not equal marriage. |
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JackBeck (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Mar-04-08 10:26 PM Response to Reply #80 |
81. And there we have it. |
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and-justice-for-all (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 06:48 AM Response to Reply #81 |
82. No problem... |
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Echo In Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 08:43 AM Response to Reply #80 |
84. Agreed |
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LeftHander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Mar-05-08 08:52 AM Response to Original message |
86. The question for you is why is marriage too good for gay people?nt |
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