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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 11:21 AM Original message |
For Everyone Who Thinks Civil Unions are the Solution |
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helderheid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 11:23 AM Response to Original message |
1. I am for Civil Unions but not for the reasons you state. I think it should be Civil Unions for ALL. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 11:25 AM Response to Reply #1 |
2. The problem is that the word marriage is deeply ingrained |
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helderheid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 11:28 AM Response to Reply #2 |
4. I understand where you're coming from and I agree with you - mine is an idealistic view having lived |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 11:33 AM Response to Reply #4 |
9. I believe it is the same in France as well. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 12:37 PM Response to Reply #9 |
35. It's still like that -- in quite a few countries, actually n/t |
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annabanana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 09:14 PM Response to Reply #2 |
53. I think the certificate you got from the State. . (or City Hall) |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-01-07 12:49 AM Response to Reply #2 |
59. If I Had a Choice, I'd Have a Civil Union License, Not a Marriage License |
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aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 11:27 AM Response to Reply #1 |
3. Civil unions for all as far as the government is concerned |
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dkofos (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 11:29 AM Response to Reply #1 |
5. and what of the millions who don't belong to a church?? |
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helderheid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 11:31 AM Response to Reply #5 |
7. What of them?? What's your point? |
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helderheid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 11:42 AM Response to Reply #5 |
14. I reread what I posted - I see where you got confused. I am saying CIVIL UNIONS FOR ALL. |
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ktlyon (733 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 08:51 PM Response to Reply #14 |
49. the problem is the word "married" was used in all the laws |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 12:15 PM Response to Reply #1 |
28. And since there are so many fighting against civil unions for gays NOW what makes you |
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helderheid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 12:56 PM Response to Reply #28 |
36. Did I say they would? |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 03:26 PM Response to Reply #36 |
44. No, you didn't - sorry. I was expecting solutions - my error. |
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helderheid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 03:32 PM Response to Reply #44 |
47. The only solution I see is continuing to fight for equality - and I am 100% on your side. |
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ourbluenation (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 09:10 PM Response to Reply #1 |
50. that is the only solution...leave marriages to private ceremony. |
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kdpeters (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-01-07 12:10 AM Response to Reply #1 |
55. Serious question, are you yourself civil unioned? or at least waiting to find the right person? |
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shadowknows69 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 11:30 AM Response to Original message |
6. What we need to do is call all "marriages" civil unions |
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Lone_Star_Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 11:35 AM Response to Reply #6 |
11. Exactly |
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Maraya1969 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 01:02 PM Response to Reply #11 |
37. In Florida all you need is a license and another person as a witness |
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Lone_Star_Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 01:54 PM Response to Reply #37 |
40. I have no problem with that |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 11:41 AM Response to Reply #6 |
12. I guess I'd rather be "uncivil-unioned" than "divorced." Maybe it'd be called "seceded"? |
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shadowknows69 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 11:43 AM Response to Reply #12 |
15. Seceded has precedent |
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MamaBear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 11:44 AM Response to Reply #12 |
16. Civilly disunited? |
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helderheid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 11:45 AM Response to Reply #16 |
17. I absolutely love that picture |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 11:46 AM Response to Reply #16 |
19. 'Tweren't all that civil. |
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MamaBear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 12:18 PM Response to Reply #19 |
29. I only made it as far as disengaged. |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 12:25 PM Response to Reply #29 |
32. I sometimes call it "re-singled" |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 12:14 PM Response to Reply #6 |
27. Yeah - try to get that passed. What makes you think those fighting civil unions |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 11:32 AM Response to Original message |
8. No, I don't think gays and lesbians should be content with |
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Apollo11 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 11:34 AM Response to Original message |
10. The experience in Great Britain |
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shadowknows69 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 11:42 AM Response to Reply #10 |
13. My only advice is |
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johnlal (974 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 11:45 AM Response to Original message |
18. In Kentucky Civil Unions are treated just as Marriage |
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Tierra_y_Libertad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 11:47 AM Response to Original message |
20. My wife (a Catholic) and I (an agnostic) got married by a Presbyterian minister. |
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bryant69 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 11:48 AM Response to Original message |
21. Make Married Straight people get Civil Unions |
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johnlal (974 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 12:00 PM Response to Reply #21 |
23. I'm straight, and I had a civil union. |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 03:31 PM Response to Reply #23 |
46. I did too |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-01-07 11:58 AM Response to Reply #46 |
69. You have a civil marriage, not a civil union. And yes, the semantics are important when... |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-01-07 11:57 AM Response to Reply #23 |
68. No, it's a civil marriage. It's legally considered a MARRIAGE not a civil union. |
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shadowknows69 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 12:02 PM Response to Reply #21 |
24. hear hear |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 12:21 PM Response to Reply #21 |
30. Lovely ideal. Now tell us in practical terms how that's going to happen, and how |
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Maven (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 12:32 PM Response to Reply #30 |
33. For that matter |
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bryant69 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 12:33 PM Response to Reply #30 |
34. oh it won't ever happen |
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BlackVelvet04 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 11:54 AM Response to Original message |
22. Isnt' this typical of life in the United States today? |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 12:07 PM Response to Original message |
25. They aren't the solution, but not for the reasons you say. |
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gravity (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 12:12 PM Response to Original message |
26. It should be called marriage but |
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Selatius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 12:23 PM Response to Original message |
31. You're still stuck at square one |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 03:28 PM Response to Reply #31 |
45. And yet there are many DU posts - even right here in this thread - that |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 01:03 PM Response to Original message |
38. I'm for educating negroes. Just don't call them "schools." |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 01:33 PM Response to Original message |
39. Perspective from a retired Fam Law Atty: |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 02:11 PM Response to Reply #39 |
41. It's really stunning to me that this isn't just common knowledge. |
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NMMNG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-01-07 12:36 AM Response to Reply #39 |
57. Bingo |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-01-07 08:30 AM Response to Reply #57 |
61. That is exactly why.... |
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robcon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 02:16 PM Response to Original message |
42. I think the title thread misses the point |
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johnaries (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 02:20 PM Response to Original message |
43. If a Justice performs a wedding, isn't that technically a Civil Union? |
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Thothmes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-01-07 08:41 AM Response to Reply #43 |
62. Civil Union |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-01-07 08:50 AM Response to Reply #62 |
64. The clegyman... |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-01-07 08:44 AM Response to Reply #43 |
63. Like I said... |
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ktlyon (733 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 08:46 PM Response to Original message |
48. I think we should have religious marriage and civil marriage |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 09:13 PM Response to Reply #48 |
52. You might as well wish for the moon. Some of us don't have the luxury of tossing |
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ktlyon (733 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-01-07 11:36 AM Response to Reply #52 |
67. say what? |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-01-07 12:11 PM Response to Reply #67 |
72. I'm a person for whom this issue is more than an abstract. |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-01-07 09:00 AM Response to Reply #48 |
65. Actually, legally there would not be two types of marriage... |
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ktlyon (733 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-03-07 08:24 AM Response to Reply #65 |
74. Yes legally marriage is marriage |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 09:11 PM Response to Original message |
51. Woohoo! Separate but equal! Separate but equal! |
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Liberal Veteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-28-07 09:26 PM Response to Original message |
54. Let's just be honest. The opposition to gay marriage has NOTHING to do with.... |
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foreigncorrespondent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-01-07 12:20 AM Response to Reply #54 |
56. BRAVO!!! |
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NMMNG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-01-07 12:38 AM Response to Reply #54 |
58. Indeed |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-01-07 12:35 PM Response to Reply #58 |
73. Exactly. n/t |
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GeorgeGist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-01-07 08:12 AM Response to Original message |
60. For those who think the government... |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-01-07 09:08 AM Response to Reply #60 |
66. Who the fuck is talking about "spiritual union"? I'm talking aboout legal recognition. |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-01-07 12:01 PM Response to Reply #60 |
70. You're irrational if you think we're talking about spiritual unions. |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-01-07 12:03 PM Response to Original message |
71. What I don't get is why people want to have huge changes to current law |
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Alameda (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-03-07 11:05 PM Response to Original message |
75. civil union/marriage? |
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FyurFly (512 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-03-07 11:07 PM Response to Original message |
76. Equality for all n/t |
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