Actually, I'm not a Democrat; I'm a registered Independent, so I can vote in the Republican primary in my state and try to support the progressive Republican vs. the conservative Republican because, in my district, the Democratic candidate usually runs unopposed in the primary or not at all. But make no mistake, I am a Democrat in values and on most policy. That being said, my responses to your last post.
1. My post said McCain was involved in five incidents; I take issue with your use of the word "lost/crashed" because it assumes the fault of the pilot, and I think it's wrong to fault a pilot for "losing" a plane he's shot down in while flying over enemy territory with lots of anti aircraft weapons. In fact, since you didn't answer the question the first time, I'll ask it again: Is it your opinion that all pilots who are shot down by enemy fire should be disrespected for that fact? In addition, according to Wikipedia <
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Early_life_and_military_career_of_John_McCain>, the five "crashes" include (i) engine quit while landing; plane ran off runway into Corpus Christi Bay and sank; (ii) collision with power lines while flying too low in Spain; but plane and McCain "emerged intact"; (iii) flameout that caused training jet to crash from which McCain safely ejected; (iv) plane destroyed while on flight deck of USS Forrestal with McCain in it but not flying; and (v) shot down over Hanoi by enemy anti aircraft missile. While you can take issue with his flying record, and even bring up his apparent tendency to be reckless, the facts don't support your statement that he was responsible for crashing or losing five planes or that he was responsible for killing anyone on the Forrestal.
2. With respect to the Forrestal accident, please read the following post from a poster at <
http://www.f-16.net/f-16_forum_viewtopic-t-9883.html>; the thread discusses the "wet start" theory (more a wild ass rumor than a theory IMHO).
"I was on flight deck the morning of the fire and i can tell you that the story is a bunch of crap.McCain's skyhawk was on the port side facing outboard, nothing but sea behind him. the zunni came from a f4 phantom parked on the starboard, the saftey pins were removed,as was common practice before launch,and was change after the incident. an electrical malfunction triggered the firing control. alot of good people died ,and it seems a shame some jerk can make up a political story to stir the sad memories. thanks for letting me vent."
If you're still not convinced, try watching the video of the accident on You Tube <
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=chuiyXQKw3I>. If you watch the video, you'll notice McCain's plane is situated so the tail of his plane is facing the ocean, which makes it kind of hard to explain how a wet start (which involves starting a flame behind the plane) caused a rocket to ignite in front of his plane (since there was nothing behind his plane but ocean and sky). If you're still not convinced, pick up and read "Sailors to the End" which has a good explanation of what happened that awful day.
In short, to assert "if he was not a reckless asshole, the accident would not have happened" is just plain nonsense. By the way, this story has been debunked several times on DU, but it keeps coming up because McCain is the Republican nominee.
3. No, there aren't as many accounts of his cowardice as there are accounts of his bravery in captivity. A few websites take a dim view of McCain's time in prison, but the stories from more legitimate sources, including prisoners who spent the time with him, are far more prevalent and believeable. The only legitimate counter to the John McCain is a hero story is that many other prisoners with him suffered as much or more than he did and aren't not using that situation for political advantage. But the evidence is overwhelming that he demonstrated resilience and bravery rather than cowardice during his time in captivity. In my view, that doesn't qualify him for political office, much less the Presidency, but I disagree that a misleading account of his captivity ought to be used in opposition to his candidacy.
4. In your original post, you said "He is considered a hero because he was shot down; i.e., because he was a failure as a pilot." Then you immediately followed with "But his connections through his daddy and his drug-addict mistress (Barbie Stepford) kept him from suffering any consequences for his actions." I assumed the actions you were referring to were the actions you had described immediately before the sentence starting with "But....", the insinuation being that his father somehow prevented his torture, which isn't true. Regarding the circumstances of his divorce, his involvement in the Keating scandal, and the other issues you raise, those items are well known here in Arizona and the voters (most of whom are--or at least were) keep voting for him; I never have, not because of those issues, but the other shortcomings I've mentioned.
5. Nonsense. I've seen interviews with McCain's ex-wife and unless you've got some evidence to back up your assertion that she's an abused woman, I think you're just being gratuitously unfair. And I guess I'm just a bit more forgiving of people who fuck up their marriages (and by the way, McCain generally has not been one of those insufferable Republicans who preaches family values while not following them); he came back from the war after serving more than 5 years in captivity, had difficulties with his marriage, and then, more than five years later, met a much younger woman from a wealthy family, divorced his wife, and married the much younger woman. Unfortunate, yes. Unseemly, yep. Disgusting? I just don't go that far. But the real issue is whether this behavior should be part of a political campaign (and whether calling his wife a fuck toy is appropriate). And you and I just appear to have different views on that subject.
Regarding your final comments, I'm not sure you really believe all the stuff you wrote, or you just think it's fair game to take liberty with the facts because any avenue is appropriate if it involves beating the Republican nominee. If it's the former, I've done all I can to provide sources for what I believe are the facts; if it's the latter, then all I can say is that I think your defense of your position is sad, coming from a supposed Democrat. :)