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serrano2008 (363 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 04:25 PM Original message |
Is it every worth it to stay with an abusive spouse? NO! |
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drmeow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 04:26 PM Response to Original message |
1. I wish it was that easy. eom |
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espiral (143 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 04:29 PM Response to Reply #1 |
4. re: |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 04:46 PM Response to Reply #4 |
11. you obviously don't have a clue about this n/t |
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espiral (143 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 04:53 PM Response to Reply #11 |
17. Ad hominem attacks don't make very good debate tactics. n/t |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 05:02 PM Response to Reply #17 |
20. neither does not knowing what you are talking about n/t |
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Maru Kitteh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-14-09 03:46 AM Response to Reply #20 |
39. I DO know what I"m talking about and I totally agree with espiral |
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distantearlywarning (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-14-09 07:28 AM Response to Reply #20 |
41. I know what I'm talking about too, and I agree with him/her also. |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 06:04 PM Response to Reply #4 |
35. I'll pass on the attacks and try to expound upon what the poster should have said |
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drmeow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-14-09 01:58 AM Response to Reply #4 |
38. At the point we're talking about |
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polichick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 04:29 PM Response to Original message |
2. Supposedly there's a psychological component... |
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serrano2008 (363 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 04:34 PM Response to Reply #2 |
7. Right but staying continues the cycle... |
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polichick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 04:39 PM Response to Reply #7 |
8. I agree that the abused party should leave asap - I just don't think it's easy for some. |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 04:47 PM Response to Reply #7 |
13. you, too, obviously know nothing about this kind of situation in real life n/t |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 04:29 PM Response to Original message |
3. Theoreticals are easy....... |
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monmouth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 04:29 PM Response to Original message |
5. Absolutely not worth it.....n/t |
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BlueJazz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 04:30 PM Response to Original message |
6. Some Women don't know where to get Help and are afraid to do so. |
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Yavin4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 04:40 PM Response to Original message |
9. No Abusive Relationship Is Ever Worth It |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 04:45 PM Response to Original message |
10. you got kids? you got family in the area? can you support yourself? |
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bicentennial_baby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 04:46 PM Response to Reply #10 |
12. Thank you for that |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 04:48 PM Response to Reply #12 |
15. not a problem, you are welcome |
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WindRiverMan (693 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 05:47 PM Response to Reply #10 |
32. Damned straight!!! |
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Maru Kitteh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-14-09 03:48 AM Response to Reply #10 |
40. The so called "parent" who harms their children by staying with an abuser IS an ASSHOLE. |
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nichomachus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 04:47 PM Response to Original message |
14. That takes resources -- and a safe place |
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librechik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 04:49 PM Response to Original message |
16. A guy like that would chase you, find you , and kill you without even knowing why |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 04:56 PM Response to Original message |
18. Should have seen on Oprah today.... I was shocked at the teens on there |
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polichick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 05:01 PM Response to Reply #18 |
19. I heard on some show covering the Rhianna thing that 1 in 4 young women... |
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poverlay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 05:13 PM Response to Reply #19 |
24. I couldn't agree with you more. If someone did that to my daughter she'd bitchslap him with a |
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polichick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 05:23 PM Response to Reply #24 |
28. And who's raising these boys?!?!?!? |
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rvablue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 05:08 PM Response to Reply #18 |
22. Bad characterization of teens on Oprah and what they said |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 05:14 PM Response to Reply #22 |
25. i heard at least two kids who said that type of thing. |
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rvablue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 05:31 PM Response to Reply #25 |
30. It was one, I repeat, one girl who said that....once on a videotaped piece while she was at school |
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serrano2008 (363 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 05:04 PM Response to Original message |
21. Geez...you all are giving these people all the excuses they need to stay. |
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polichick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 05:12 PM Response to Reply #21 |
23. Not excuses, but a realization that there's more to it than just saying no... |
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sallylou666 (135 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 05:15 PM Response to Reply #21 |
26. Women need resources to leave |
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Juche (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 05:29 PM Response to Reply #21 |
29. It is not that easy |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 05:58 PM Response to Reply #21 |
34. "Just get in your car and drive anywhere" |
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Juche (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 06:27 PM Response to Reply #34 |
36. Damn, I'm sorry |
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serrano2008 (363 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 09:23 PM Response to Reply #34 |
37. Scout...I'm sorry that you're in this situation. |
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Juche (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 05:22 PM Response to Original message |
27. This issue is alot more complex than that |
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stray cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 05:36 PM Response to Original message |
31. its hard to be permanantly disabled and leave your health insurance and finanial livlihood behind |
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sandyj999 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-12-09 05:53 PM Response to Original message |
33. It isn't that simple unfortunately. |
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