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KoKo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-26-09 05:46 PM
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If Your Teens Can't Shop Anymore...Where do the go to Release that Teen Angst?
Edited on Thu Mar-26-09 05:49 PM by KoKo
http://www.cleverdude.com/content/dead-stores-dead-malls-unruly-teens-in-your-hometown/
Dead Stores = Dead Malls = Unruly Teens in Your Hometown!
Posted by Clever Dude | December 17, 2008 .

CNN just published a story about the decline of malls threatening communities, but they left out an important side effect of malls closing.

Before I tell you (or you guess from the title), I’ll recap the article. It talks about the huge number of stores closing in malls, thus threatening the mall’s overall stability, even causing many to close. But when a mall closes, it’s hard to start it back up. Consider that you need to reoccupy it with dozens of new stores and at least one or two major anchor stores.

The author ponder whether America is “Over-stored” and the market is just correcting itself, much like during the housing boom earlier this decade. Personally, I think developers got greedy and ignored what competitors were doing just on the other side of town. They didn’t think that perhaps there weren’t enough people in the community to support two, three or five malls at once. They had blinders on and were only looking at their own profit, while disregarding the reality that it was a short-term number.

I still see this happening with housing and office developments. We’re in the worst housing and economic crisis in decades, yet developers are still building giant condo complexes, office parks and apartment buildings. I just can’t see how there’s still a market, yet they keep building…and then complain when no one is buying.

But back to the original point, let’s discuss the side effect of closing malls that the author left out:
Local teens need someplace to go!

Back when I was a teen, I hung out at our local mall with my friends. It was the thing to do because, if you lived in central PA or any other semi-rural area in the country, the mall was the only place to go. Well, that and the movies, which were probably at the mall too.

We would go to people watch, pretend to hit on girls (I was too fat and dorky to actually approach a girl), play at the arcade and just generally lounge around and goof off. We would just walk back and forth through the mall for hours every day during the summer.

In recent trips to the malls in my hometown and my current home, I noticed that teens still “cruise the mall”, but not as much as when I was young because of the advent of the internet. But for all those little podunk towns where the mall is still the main gathering place for kids, where will they go if the mall closes?

In my mid-teens, a new mall opened up about a mile away from the original mall. It was a longer walk for me to get to, but it quickly because the place to go. The old mall quickly fell to the wayside. The new mall had Boscov’s, BonTon, Sears and even Walmart (on the outskirts), while the old mall had, well, Kmart. Luckily we had a backup mall when the old one shut down, but today’s kids might not have that luxury.

If the economy continues its downward spiral, malls will become ghost towns, attracting only dollar store bargain shoppers and those old people in pink sweatpants who walk at 6am. Teens won’t want to hang out with grandma at Kmart, so they’ll have to find somewhere else to go.

And where will they go? Yep, you guessed it. They’re coming to your house.

http://www.cleverdude.com/content/dead-stores-dead-malls-unruly-teens-in-your-hometown/
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Missy Vixen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-26-09 05:51 PM
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1. Now this is interesting.
We don't have teenagers, but we know some.

I'll be interested to ask them where they "hang out". We live in a small town; most of the teens here hung out on Main Street till the merchants chased them off. The thing that's interesting (at least to me,) is that as a teen, I had a lot more unsupervised stretches of time than today's teens do, even if my mom didn't work outside our home.
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county worker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-26-09 05:51 PM
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2. When I was a teen we went to the park to play baseball in the summer.
Edited on Thu Mar-26-09 05:53 PM by county worker
We went to the pool or lake also. Or we hung out on the front porch with a bunch of friends. That was pre mall of course.

Sometimes we would put on plays etc. No daytime TV, no internet, no malls. OK time for the old greaser to shut the fuck up!
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WorseBeforeBetter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-26-09 07:03 PM
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10. Move over, Gramps!
Edited on Thu Mar-26-09 07:06 PM by WorseBeforeBetter
We were at the pool, ice rink, community center, on our bikes, playing tennis, babysitting, and eventually working part-time jobs at the mall. Pretty healthy, now that I look back on it...
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monmouth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-26-09 05:51 PM
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3. At the risk of being flippant, and I love your post btw, maybe, maybe
they could read a book, do some extra homework and like, become a little more aware of what's going on in the world. Maybe read a newspaper before they're no longer in print. I know it sounds boring, but I was made to read the paper, my joy was the crossword. I do understand your post and of course, teens need a place to go. Too bad a rec place, a skating rink or some other establishment isn't available for them.
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daninthemoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-26-09 06:00 PM
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4. they are going to smoke pot!!!! build bigger prisons to replace malls
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zazen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-26-09 06:27 PM
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5. malls should give free rent to school systems to set up tutoring internet cafes
Edited on Thu Mar-26-09 06:27 PM by zazen
I wish the one across the street here in Cary would do that. As much as I dislike the mall consumption culture that became the only social venue for teenagers, developmentally, they do need a public square. It used to be a church, or a town market or fair, or square dance, but here we are, and now it's become FACEBOOK. I don't mind a little of that--but I'm not sure if it's so good for them to learn important social skills through texting and posting photos, even if it does keep the transmission of pheromones down.

I wish the schools, or nonprofits related to them, could open up a some social spaces where they could congregate, spend some pocket money on overpriced lattes or sandwiches to generate a little business, and offer some tutoring and safe internet access. Mall security should stay so it wouldn't get abused. Something like that would actually bring more parents into the mall to potentially shop at the other stores, at least for fast food.
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Igel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-26-09 06:30 PM
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6. How strange.
We hung out at our parents' places; there were organizations that provided an outlet (scouts, schools, churches); we had access to basketball and tennis courts, baseball diamonds and football/soccer/lacrosse fields. We could go biking or bowling--cheaper than movies, at the time.

When parents went on vacation, each of their kids frequently got to take a friend along.
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Uben Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-26-09 06:32 PM
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7. Are you kidding me?
Basketball, tennis, baseball, football, and soccer all take physical activity! Do you want our kids to die of a heart attack?


/sarcasm
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Lone_Star_Dem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-26-09 06:35 PM
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8. Oh, noes!!!
This means certain parents may have to start thinking of ways to keep their teens busy in a constructive manner again!

The horror!

Meh, we didn't have a mall in our area and I managed to keep my daughter occupied and out of trouble. Maybe I should write a book about the experience to help guide these parents in the right direction.
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azmouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-26-09 06:47 PM
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9. Obligatory "We didn't even have malls when I was growing up" post...
Edited on Thu Mar-26-09 06:48 PM by azmouse
Nope. I lived way out in the country and didn't have a car so...
we stayed home and watched tv and read books and did homework.

I'm amazed I survived....
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