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arbusto_baboso (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 03:07 PM Original message |
Would there be any interest in a DU polyamory group? |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 03:09 PM Response to Original message |
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Runcible Spoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 03:09 PM Response to Original message |
2. well- |
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arbusto_baboso (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 03:10 PM Response to Reply #2 |
3. Interesting. I was surprised that one didn't already exist. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 05:27 PM Response to Reply #2 |
24. i asked skinner a while ago. havent heard back |
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Occam Bandage (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 03:26 PM Response to Original message |
4. I have never met a self-described poly who was not actually |
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arbusto_baboso (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 03:30 PM Response to Reply #4 |
5. mmmmmmmkay. Thanks for playing. |
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ShareTheWoods (210 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 03:52 PM Response to Reply #4 |
6. Yeah, the same was said about homosexuals in the recent past |
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arbusto_baboso (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 04:08 PM Response to Reply #6 |
8. Precisely. |
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bigwillq (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 04:13 PM Response to Reply #6 |
10. Hello. |
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Political Tiger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 09:13 PM Response to Reply #6 |
42. Polyamory is a choice, homosexuality is not. |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 09:53 PM Response to Reply #42 |
51. Says who? |
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Political Tiger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 10:07 PM Response to Reply #51 |
54. Please! Don't insult my intelligence! |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 10:12 PM Response to Reply #54 |
55. I don't agree with you. |
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Political Tiger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 10:30 PM Response to Reply #55 |
56. Polyamory is not a form of sexual orientation. |
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hendo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 11:02 PM Response to Reply #55 |
58. Oh, honey it wasn't really cheating |
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Kalyke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 07:55 AM Response to Reply #58 |
89. Exactly what I was thinking. |
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Hanse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 12:41 AM Response to Reply #42 |
67. What about bisexuals choosing a homosexual relationship? |
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JackRiddler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 01:21 AM Response to Reply #67 |
69. Shhh! |
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Political Tiger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 01:58 AM Response to Reply #67 |
84. What about it? |
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Hanse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-03-09 12:18 AM Response to Reply #84 |
96. I'm pretty sure polygamy's illegal in most states. |
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Political Tiger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-03-09 02:51 AM Response to Reply #96 |
98. I thought we were talking about Polyamory? |
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JackRiddler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 01:19 AM Response to Reply #42 |
68. So? |
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Political Tiger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 01:43 AM Response to Reply #68 |
82. ???? |
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JanMichael (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 10:00 PM Response to Reply #42 |
94. You are correct...and so what? Boils down to the exact same |
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Goblinmonger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 03:56 PM Response to Reply #4 |
7. Here is a major reason why I like you. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 09:26 PM Response to Reply #4 |
45. 5? you are saying this is based on 5 people? |
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Chovexani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 12:21 AM Response to Reply #4 |
65. Hi, nice to meet you. |
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anigbrowl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 04:12 PM Response to Original message |
9. I doubt it, given that there isn't a BDSM group either |
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arbusto_baboso (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 04:14 PM Response to Reply #9 |
11. A BDSM group would be extremely narrow in its scope. |
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anigbrowl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 04:34 PM Response to Reply #11 |
12. Is that so |
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arbusto_baboso (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 04:48 PM Response to Reply #12 |
14. BDSM is not a "lifestyle" (whatever that means) for most of its practitioners. |
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anigbrowl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 05:20 PM Response to Reply #14 |
20. And yet that particular term has currency in that community (which was why I included it) |
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arbusto_baboso (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 05:24 PM Response to Reply #20 |
21. Well, I'm sure I could use more knowledge about the BDSM comunity. |
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anigbrowl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 05:28 PM Response to Reply #21 |
25. Sure, I know what you mean. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 05:34 PM Response to Reply #14 |
29. Well, actually it IS a "lifestyle" for most people in BSDM relationships |
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arbusto_baboso (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 05:38 PM Response to Reply #29 |
33. You're right, and I've since realized that. My apologies. |
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OwnedByFerrets (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 09:55 PM Response to Reply #29 |
53. Thank you for that truth! There is a reason its |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 05:20 AM Response to Reply #53 |
86. I'm not in a BDSM relationship, but I know many, many people are |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 05:36 PM Response to Reply #14 |
31. a lot of bdsm people have lifestyles based on it though i do think poly relationships |
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arbusto_baboso (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 05:40 PM Response to Reply #31 |
34. And it gets particularly complicated when things overlap... |
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Stinky The Clown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 11:09 PM Response to Reply #34 |
59. Not hard to imagine when, in fact, you know such people |
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Marrah_G (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 07:50 AM Response to Reply #34 |
87. I know a number of them |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 01:25 AM Response to Reply #14 |
72. That would be like having a sex toys group |
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fasttense (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 04:42 PM Response to Original message |
13. How exactly is this supposed polyester group anything like |
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arbusto_baboso (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 04:49 PM Response to Reply #13 |
15. You need to quit insulting poly people. (edited to expand reply) |
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FreeState (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 05:34 PM Response to Reply #13 |
30. Im GLBT and not insulted - I support all consenting adults in their relationships |
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arbusto_baboso (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 05:42 PM Response to Reply #30 |
35. Thank you! I've found most GLBT indiduals see the bigger picture here... |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 04:50 PM Response to Original message |
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blogslut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 05:03 PM Response to Original message |
17. The possibility of a sex-positive forum has been discussed |
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arbusto_baboso (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 05:07 PM Response to Reply #17 |
18. Yes, unfortunately. Like some of the responses I've received on this thread. |
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Runcible Spoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 07:38 PM Response to Reply #18 |
36. I wouldn't call the particular detractors on this thread GLBT supportive. |
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blogslut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 07:47 PM Response to Reply #18 |
38. As I told the DUer who suggested the forum |
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JackRiddler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 01:23 AM Response to Reply #17 |
70. What's wrong with a bit of sex chat? |
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blogslut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 01:43 AM Response to Reply #70 |
81. I don't mind |
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JackRiddler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 01:54 AM Response to Reply #81 |
83. Okay! |
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leftofthedial (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 05:13 PM Response to Original message |
19. poly want a forum? |
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Fire1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 05:24 PM Response to Reply #19 |
22. What IS it????? |
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arbusto_baboso (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 05:32 PM Response to Reply #22 |
27. Google is your friend. But the short answer is... |
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Fire1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 05:37 PM Response to Reply #27 |
32. Thanks. I googled AFTER I asked. My bad. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 05:25 PM Response to Original message |
23. i think my sexual minoritites forum was a good idea. however i havent heard back from skinner |
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arbusto_baboso (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 05:30 PM Response to Reply #23 |
26. Good. I added my note on your thread where you inquired about such a group. |
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Runcible Spoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 07:39 PM Response to Reply #23 |
37. Poke Skinner again. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 05:32 PM Response to Original message |
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Runcible Spoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 08:46 PM Response to Reply #39 |
40. I'm sorry you feel threatened by how consenting adults conduct their lives. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 08:59 PM Response to Reply #40 |
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Texasgal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 09:17 PM Response to Reply #41 |
43. Really? |
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Badlands Democrat (52 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 09:21 PM Response to Reply #43 |
44. Murder/suicide - the person would want to die. |
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Texasgal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 09:31 PM Response to Reply #44 |
48. Very different. |
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Badlands Democrat (52 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 09:33 PM Response to Reply #48 |
49. It would be a painless suicide. |
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Texasgal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 09:35 PM Response to Reply #49 |
50. The difference? |
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Stinky The Clown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 11:12 PM Response to Reply #50 |
60. He's yanking your chain ...... let it go |
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JackRiddler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 01:35 AM Response to Reply #60 |
77. Hmm, it occurs to me that he (she?) is also probably like, 14 years old. |
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Ghost in the Machine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 10:56 PM Response to Reply #49 |
57. Was *your* suicide painless?? |
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JackRiddler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 01:34 AM Response to Reply #49 |
76. Wow. Just wow. |
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LynnTheDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 11:17 PM Response to Reply #44 |
62. WTF???! |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 09:31 PM Response to Reply #43 |
47. I think is equating sex with ending a life regarding "acceptable". For some odd reason |
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JackRiddler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 01:30 AM Response to Reply #41 |
74. Wow. |
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Marrah_G (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 07:52 AM Response to Reply #41 |
88. omg- you did not just compare poly to murder.......... |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 09:27 PM Response to Reply #40 |
46. I will acknowledge lack of familiarity |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 09:54 PM Response to Reply #46 |
52. Just for the record... I know quite a few people in poly relationships. |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 01:38 AM Response to Reply #52 |
78. "Busy" is certainly right! That's why I quit when my political obsessions -- |
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Chovexani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 12:28 AM Response to Reply #46 |
66. I will never understand this line of reasoning |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 01:39 AM Response to Reply #66 |
79. I think you mean "nonconsensual nonmonogamy," no? n/t |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 09:53 PM Response to Reply #66 |
92. thoughtful response... |
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JackRiddler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 01:25 AM Response to Reply #39 |
71. You're right. We need to reintroduce stoning for adulterers and onanists. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 08:04 AM Response to Reply #39 |
91. at the point where they are not harming others and people give consent. |
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libodem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 11:12 PM Response to Original message |
61. . |
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leftstreet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-01-09 11:18 PM Response to Reply #61 |
63. .. |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 02:21 AM Response to Reply #63 |
85. . |
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Chovexani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 12:20 AM Response to Original message |
64. I'd be interested in it. |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 01:27 AM Response to Original message |
73. I stopped being a polyamorist in November 2000 |
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JackRiddler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 01:32 AM Response to Reply #73 |
75. Bush ruined your sex life? |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 01:41 AM Response to Reply #75 |
80. Meetings and campaigning take a lot of time. |
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formercia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 08:04 AM Response to Original message |
90. Already a member. |
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JanMichael (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 09:58 PM Response to Original message |
93. Wife and I would be totally supportive of this on DU |
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iris27 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-02-09 10:23 PM Response to Original message |
95. Absolutely...off to voice my support for the sexual minorities group too. |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-03-09 01:46 AM Response to Original message |
97. Isn't that what the Lounge is for? |
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1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-03-09 02:55 AM Response to Original message |
99. all of my relationships have always been poly... |
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