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Mike 03 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-12-09 06:54 PM Original message |
X-Posted from the Lounge. Dealing with a parent whose judgment is failing. |
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grasswire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-12-09 06:58 PM Response to Original message |
1. how does your mother feel about riding with him? (eom) |
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Mike 03 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-12-09 07:15 PM Response to Reply #1 |
12. She claims to not feel any fear at all, but she has been strangely unemotional lately. I think |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-12-09 06:58 PM Response to Original message |
2. Might it be illegal for him to drive on those meds? |
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Mike 03 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-12-09 07:16 PM Response to Reply #2 |
14. Yes, it is opiates. But they are prescribed by his doctors, and they know he has to |
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Laelth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-12-09 07:56 PM Response to Reply #14 |
28. In GA the test for a DUI is "impaired," and a prescription is irrelevant. |
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geckosfeet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-12-09 06:58 PM Response to Original message |
3. When my wife was sick and undergoing treatment, and in a very similar situation, |
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Mike 03 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-12-09 07:18 PM Response to Reply #3 |
16. Wow, that is helpful. So far, the hospital has not assigned anyone, but I think |
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shraby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-12-09 06:59 PM Response to Original message |
4. Confront him in a tactful way before anyone gets |
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notadmblnd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-12-09 07:00 PM Response to Original message |
5. Maybe talk to his Dr and ask him about dad driving? |
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ayeshahaqqiqa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-12-09 07:03 PM Response to Original message |
6. Tell him your Mom is afraid she will forget how to drive |
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Muttocracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-12-09 07:15 PM Response to Reply #6 |
11. now that's creative, and would make it a gift to her for him to let her drive. nt |
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ayeshahaqqiqa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-12-09 07:35 PM Response to Reply #11 |
25. I did this at one time |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-12-09 07:05 PM Response to Original message |
7. I feel for ya, man. |
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bkkyosemite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-12-09 07:23 PM Response to Reply #7 |
21. Have motor vehicles send your dad a letter for testing his driving ability..might work. |
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rwheeler31 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-12-09 07:10 PM Response to Original message |
8. Check roadwork in the area, tell him if you do not drop them off |
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FloridaJudy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-12-09 07:10 PM Response to Original message |
9. Discuss it with your father's doctor |
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ColbertWatcher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-12-09 07:12 PM Response to Original message |
10. Maybe you can think of something else for him to be responsible for? |
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Mike 03 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-12-09 07:19 PM Response to Reply #10 |
17. Yes, excellent advice. Thank you, man. NT |
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renate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-12-09 08:01 PM Response to Reply #10 |
29. that's such thoughtful and compassionate advice! |
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DURHAM D (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-12-09 07:16 PM Response to Original message |
13. We got my father to stop driving by pointing out the liability. |
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mainer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-12-09 07:17 PM Response to Original message |
15. My deepest sympathy. We had to take away my dad's car keys. |
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rwheeler31 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-12-09 07:19 PM Response to Original message |
18. How is his car running, could that be adjusted as a short term |
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bkkyosemite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-12-09 07:20 PM Response to Original message |
19. Tell the doctor you concerns and have him ask your dad if he is driving. |
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madaboutharry (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-12-09 07:23 PM Response to Original message |
20. I think you should have his doctors intervene. |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-12-09 07:25 PM Response to Original message |
22. you can't talk to the doctors without permission from your father. |
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madaboutharry (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-12-09 07:53 PM Response to Reply #22 |
27. That is not so. |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-13-09 05:46 AM Response to Reply #27 |
31. that's true. my husband thinks the doctors can take the license away. |
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Muttocracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-12-09 09:25 PM Response to Reply #22 |
30. Sounds like a very rough way to lose your dad |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-13-09 06:00 AM Response to Reply #30 |
32. it was. we found out about the cancer, and so did he, about two and a half to 3 weeks ago. |
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robinlynne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-12-09 07:28 PM Response to Original message |
23. This is something every single one of us has to go through sooner or later. |
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applexcore (496 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-12-09 07:33 PM Response to Original message |
24. I think I have your answer |
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NYC_SKP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-12-09 07:52 PM Response to Reply #24 |
26. At our DMV (California), my dad went in two months ago. |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-13-09 06:05 AM Response to Reply #26 |
33. of course they are not going to tell him he can't drive. a general question like that.... |
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