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ccharles000 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 06:44 AM Original message |
Poll question: Is it just as wrong for a woman to have sex with a underage boy as it is with a man and a girl? |
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WillParkinson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 06:49 AM Response to Original message |
1. Anyone who says it is not wrong... |
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jeff30997 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 06:57 AM Response to Reply #1 |
4. I totally agree. |
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ccharles000 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 07:44 AM Response to Reply #1 |
15. yup |
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Toasterlad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-17-09 08:11 PM Response to Reply #1 |
99. Like It Or Not, There IS a Double Standard. |
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MrModerate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 06:50 AM Response to Original message |
2. People of whatever gender are ready to have healthy sexual contacts . . . |
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jeff30997 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 06:56 AM Response to Reply #2 |
3. "underage boys don't get pregnant" |
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monmouth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 06:58 AM Response to Reply #3 |
7. They get "bragging rights.".....n/t |
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jeff30997 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 07:21 AM Response to Reply #7 |
14. I knew a girl in highschool... |
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MrModerate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 07:06 AM Response to Reply #3 |
8. Who no reasonable person would think could consent to a sexual act . . |
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RC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 08:24 AM Response to Reply #3 |
18. Not true. It has been documented that 6 year olds have gotten pregnant. |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 01:03 PM Response to Reply #3 |
49. Usually. |
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ccharles000 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 01:07 PM Response to Reply #49 |
52. I never knew that a 5 year old could give birth. |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 01:13 PM Response to Reply #52 |
59. A monster. |
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jeff30997 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 03:54 PM Response to Reply #49 |
71. You are absolutely correct.Usually. |
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ccharles000 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 06:57 AM Response to Reply #2 |
5. I would have to disagree with you... |
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MrModerate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 07:07 AM Response to Reply #5 |
10. Complete agreement. My issue is when that development takes place . . . n/t |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 07:10 AM Response to Reply #5 |
11. when my son was 16 he had a relationship |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 07:44 PM Response to Reply #11 |
75. Really? |
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izquierdista (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 08:14 AM Response to Reply #5 |
16. Then what is an adult? |
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ccharles000 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 08:57 AM Response to Reply #16 |
21. I think an adult is someone who is at least 18 |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 01:19 PM Response to Reply #21 |
61. which is clearly arbitrary |
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fasttense (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 06:58 AM Response to Reply #2 |
6. Unless of course that woman is his mother. |
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MrModerate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 07:16 AM Response to Reply #6 |
12. While I have no personal experience, I suspect that incest generally . . . |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 08:41 PM Response to Reply #12 |
82. I see it the other way around. Incest is because of unhealthy family relationships |
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MrModerate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-17-09 06:19 PM Response to Reply #82 |
93. "Healthy" is relative. Perhaps a better way to say it would have been . . . |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 09:33 AM Response to Reply #2 |
25. What if it's an underage boy and an older man? |
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TheBigotBasher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 10:42 AM Response to Reply #25 |
29. I agree with the point Haruka is making here. |
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MrModerate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 02:27 AM Response to Reply #25 |
101. A tougher call . . . |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 08:30 AM Response to Reply #101 |
102. So both are bad, but the gay scenario is worse... |
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MrModerate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 06:42 PM Response to Reply #102 |
103. Basically, yeah, given that heterosexual relationships and homosexual relationships . . . |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 10:26 PM Response to Reply #103 |
105. Yeah, that doesn't really make any sense at all |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 01:11 PM Response to Reply #2 |
56. Underage boys can become fathers, though... |
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JI7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-17-09 06:48 PM Response to Reply #2 |
97. so what if the older man uses a condom ? would that make it more ok ? |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 07:07 AM Response to Original message |
9. I don't think that it's necessarily wrong for either gender |
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jeff30997 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 07:17 AM Response to Reply #9 |
13. I couldn't agree more. |
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mwooldri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 08:33 AM Response to Reply #9 |
20. The law says "no, it's not right". |
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ccharles000 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 09:16 AM Response to Reply #9 |
22. You make a good point |
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rucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 08:19 AM Response to Original message |
17. Technically it's just as bad... |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 08:28 AM Response to Reply #17 |
19. There also is the perception that the party being penetrated |
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TheBigotBasher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 11:00 AM Response to Reply #19 |
30. It is the issue of power not penetration. |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 12:51 PM Response to Reply #30 |
42. You don't think there's a perception of penetration = power???? Honestly? |
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TheWraith (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 09:18 AM Response to Original message |
23. Yes, it is... which is not to say that it's always wrong. |
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ConcernedCanuk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 09:31 AM Response to Original message |
24. I voted no for more than one reason |
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Chemical Bill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 09:36 AM Response to Original message |
26. I learned in a workshop... |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 12:57 PM Response to Reply #26 |
47. I'm glad for you that you don't consider yourself |
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Chemical Bill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 07:02 PM Response to Reply #47 |
72. Well... |
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mmonk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 09:40 AM Response to Original message |
27. Absolutely. |
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ccharles000 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 10:24 AM Response to Reply #27 |
28. I agree |
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bobbert (548 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 11:15 AM Response to Original message |
31. I voted no |
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Berry Cool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 11:24 AM Response to Reply #31 |
32. Boy, some people can use a lot of pseudoscientific crapola to dress up their double standards, |
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bobbert (548 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 11:44 AM Response to Reply #32 |
34. no, it's based on chemical release due to evolution |
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Brooklyns_Finest (747 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 01:10 PM Response to Reply #32 |
55. It is |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 07:46 PM Response to Reply #32 |
77. exactly, and it is always the women who lose in the double standard |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 08:32 PM Response to Reply #77 |
80. yes... and it is all so dishonest and in our face dishonest, yet |
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bobbert (548 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 08:45 PM Response to Reply #80 |
83. funny, my physiology prof was a woman |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 08:56 PM Response to Reply #83 |
86. what a bunch of crap |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 07:44 PM Response to Reply #31 |
76. Must be nice to be a male and have all that power of not caring |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 08:33 PM Response to Reply #76 |
81. tit for tat. hubby and i just |
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bobbert (548 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 08:57 PM Response to Reply #81 |
87. There's a reason men want to go to sleep after sex and women want to 'cuddle' |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 09:00 PM Response to Reply #87 |
88. another stupid that hubby and i laugh about. lets pin something else on the genders |
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bobbert (548 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 09:19 PM Response to Reply #88 |
90. OK, not everyone is alike |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-17-09 12:06 AM Response to Reply #90 |
91. that would be why |
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DU GrovelBot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 11:24 AM Response to Original message |
33. ## PLEASE DONATE TO DEMOCRATIC UNDERGROUND! ## |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 11:45 AM Response to Original message |
35. Oh Goody FLAMEBAIT |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 11:47 AM Response to Reply #35 |
36. how is this flamebait? people here are having a civil discussion |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 12:10 PM Response to Reply #36 |
37. Oh Goody the gatekeeper........ and sensible folk will avoid the FLAMEBAIT so it looks "civil" |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 12:16 PM Response to Reply #37 |
38. again, how exactly is this flamebait? |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 12:48 PM Response to Reply #38 |
41. Have at it. |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 12:55 PM Response to Reply #41 |
46. you aren't making sense. YOU are the one who blasted this as flamebait |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 01:05 PM Response to Reply #46 |
51. let it go cali. unless you need one more excuse to get your hooks in and drip venomous insults. |
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proteus_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 12:33 PM Response to Original message |
39. I voted yes. |
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notesdev (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-17-09 07:36 AM Response to Reply #39 |
92. Emotional ages |
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Maru Kitteh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 12:40 PM Response to Original message |
40. Abso-FLIPPIN-lootely! And they should be charged and prosecuted equally |
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depakid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 12:53 PM Response to Original message |
43. Anyone not recognizing that there are gender differences here |
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Brooklyns_Finest (747 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 12:53 PM Response to Original message |
44. Double standard |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 01:01 PM Response to Reply #44 |
48. wasnt that nice he "gifted" one of his girls to you..... |
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Brooklyns_Finest (747 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 01:20 PM Response to Reply #48 |
62. Was I supposed to say no? |
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ccharles000 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 01:33 PM Response to Reply #62 |
64. I would have said no. |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 01:05 PM Response to Reply #44 |
50. ugh. sexist claptrap. |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 01:07 PM Response to Reply #50 |
53. there's yer flame, see how that works? draws "really nasty sexist claptrap" & those who've seen this |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 01:13 PM Response to Reply #53 |
58. bzzzt. wrong again, dear. first of all |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 01:31 PM Response to Reply #58 |
63. Hypocritical? Like pretending ANY thread about sex, esp. with a stupid premise like that, won't get |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 02:46 PM Response to Reply #44 |
69. Interesting. I have several male friends who lost their virginity |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 07:41 PM Response to Reply #69 |
74. . |
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Kaleva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 12:54 PM Response to Original message |
45. I certainly wouldn't have bitched but it's against the law |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 01:08 PM Response to Original message |
54. first, "under age" is not under 18 |
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Nevernose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 01:11 PM Response to Original message |
57. Here's a boy whose life was pretty screwed up by a pretty young teacher: |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 01:16 PM Response to Original message |
60. It's about self control. |
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cherish44 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 01:38 PM Response to Original message |
65. Yes it's very wrong |
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Sparkly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 01:58 PM Response to Original message |
66. I have the unpopular "no" view. |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 02:10 PM Response to Original message |
67. Children who have reached sexual maturity are still children and any adult, |
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madmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 02:26 PM Response to Original message |
68. Look at the maturity level. It is widely believed/known that girls mature faster than boys, so |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 03:54 PM Response to Original message |
70. Equal protection: it's not just a good idea, it's the law. n/t |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 07:02 PM Response to Original message |
73. absolutely yes |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 07:47 PM Response to Original message |
78. Of course it is. |
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chrisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 07:56 PM Response to Original message |
79. I don't claim to know. |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 08:47 PM Response to Original message |
84. YES!!! Anyone who thinks otherwise is a sexist jerk who needs a kick in the head. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 08:52 PM Response to Original message |
85. wayyyy back I was taught to only have sex with men I was ready to be tied to, since could be pg |
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demokatgurrl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-16-09 09:17 PM Response to Original message |
89. It's always wrong to take advantage of someone |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-17-09 06:35 PM Response to Original message |
94. Yes |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-17-09 06:38 PM Response to Original message |
95. it's a male fantasy, perpetuated in movies and other media. "just as wrong" is the question? |
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dustbunnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-17-09 06:45 PM Response to Original message |
96. Yes, it's just as wrong. And it's also different, with less stress on the boy - |
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book_worm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-17-09 06:51 PM Response to Original message |
98. 19% of Duers are nuts. |
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Toasterlad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-17-09 08:45 PM Response to Original message |
100. Of Course Not. |
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mntleo2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 07:14 PM Response to Original message |
104. Sex with underage kids is betrayal ... |
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