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cynatnite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 05:26 PM Original message |
I sent a 28-year-old man to prison for statutory rape of my 13-year-old daughter... |
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VMI Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 05:27 PM Response to Original message |
1. Rec. |
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Mz Pip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 05:30 PM Response to Original message |
2. I'd do the same thing |
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Avalux (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 05:30 PM Response to Original message |
3. Good for you. I have a 13 year old daughter right now. |
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cynatnite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 05:32 PM Response to Reply #3 |
6. I love his movies, but it doesn't erase what he's done...nothing will do that.... |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 05:39 PM Response to Reply #3 |
11. "...help her with a career..." is the only quibble I have |
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Avalux (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 05:42 PM Response to Reply #11 |
12. I have no argument with you there. |
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peace frog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 10:26 PM Response to Reply #12 |
71. He was an adult who drugged and raped a child |
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Ms. Toad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 07:17 AM Response to Reply #11 |
103. Nowhwere close to 99% of the time |
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bluescribbler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 10:00 AM Response to Reply #103 |
119. I was one of the 1 in 6 |
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Ms. Toad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 10:44 AM Response to Reply #119 |
125. Sorry to hear it. |
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bluescribbler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 12:55 PM Response to Reply #125 |
151. Yes, Dad acted appropriately, as did my Sister |
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Ms. Toad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 01:34 PM Response to Reply #151 |
158. As I'm sure you're aware now, |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 02:25 PM Response to Reply #103 |
167. I said "can" because it's probably possible.. Many Moms ignore their gut feelings |
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moriah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 05:37 PM Response to Reply #167 |
176. I hope your mother believed you. |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 05:41 PM Response to Reply #176 |
177. Nope.. |
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moriah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 06:10 PM Response to Reply #177 |
178. Not to offend you by insulting your deceased mother, but ... |
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Ms. Toad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 07:08 PM Response to Reply #167 |
186. Unfortunately, it isn't - and suggesting it is |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 05:30 PM Response to Original message |
4. good for you |
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customerserviceguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 07:26 AM Response to Reply #4 |
105. Two years is not nearly enough, though |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 05:31 PM Response to Original message |
5. I am very sorry about what happened to your daughter |
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cynatnite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 05:32 PM Response to Reply #5 |
8. I've seen 'em. That's why I posted this. n/t |
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spiritual_gunfighter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 11:08 AM Response to Reply #5 |
133. They certainly don't |
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madokie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 05:32 PM Response to Original message |
7. Yep I'd do the same thing |
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Ilsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 05:33 PM Response to Original message |
9. As a recovered victim, I feel for you and your child. I support what you did. |
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WeekendWarrior (849 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 05:35 PM Response to Original message |
10. No reason you should regret it. nt. |
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lillypaddle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 05:44 PM Response to Original message |
13. stay strong |
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corpseratemedia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 05:44 PM Response to Original message |
14. Some of the things I've read about what people think of 13 year old girls |
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dotymed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 04:16 AM Response to Reply #14 |
98. Exactly |
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Nuclear Unicorn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 05:46 PM Response to Original message |
15. I was talking to my dad yesterday... |
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moriah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 06:43 PM Response to Reply #15 |
20. Knowing my father would do the same thing was one of the reasons... |
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Ms. Toad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 07:41 AM Response to Reply #20 |
106. I am sorry for what you went through, |
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Nuclear Unicorn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 08:37 AM Response to Reply #20 |
112. Maybe you have some regrets but... |
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hedgehog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 11:27 AM Response to Reply #20 |
138. I think you bring up a very important point - in his mind, |
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moriah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 01:23 PM Response to Reply #138 |
156. I would tend to agree with you there. |
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mzmolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 02:18 PM Response to Reply #156 |
165. I'm going to go with calculated |
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Itchinjim (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 07:07 PM Response to Reply #15 |
24. When my older sister was ten years old, some guy tried to lure her into his car. |
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mzmolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 04:28 PM Response to Reply #24 |
174. I had several like experiences. |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 05:57 PM Response to Original message |
16. No reason you should! |
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glinda (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 06:23 PM Response to Original message |
17. When I was abducted and caused to not have children, at age 5, the fellow back then |
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Control-Z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 06:42 PM Response to Reply #17 |
19. I'm so sorry, glinda. |
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grantcart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 01:30 AM Response to Reply #19 |
88. move over |
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Morning Dew (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 07:17 PM Response to Reply #17 |
30. Oh, Glinda |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 07:36 PM Response to Reply #17 |
34. OMG! |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 08:33 PM Response to Reply #17 |
50. Gulp. |
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glinda (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 08:54 PM Response to Reply #50 |
62. It is OK. Thanks for all the reactions I think. Such a shock. Easy to mention it when not |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 08:56 PM Response to Reply #62 |
63. wink |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 10:47 AM Response to Reply #62 |
126. ... |
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Kajsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 11:15 AM Response to Reply #17 |
134. I am so sorry,Glinda! |
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LeftishBrit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 01:07 PM Response to Reply #17 |
153. I am so sorry - there are no words. |
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subcomhd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 06:24 PM Response to Original message |
18. that's fucked up |
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moriah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 06:44 PM Response to Reply #18 |
21. I'm assuming you believe the fact he only got two years was what was fucked up there? n/t |
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subcomhd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 06:45 PM Response to Reply #21 |
22. No. The fact the OPs daughter went through all of that. |
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Control-Z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 06:56 PM Response to Original message |
23. You did exactly what |
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Number23 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 07:07 PM Response to Original message |
25. You have my thanks and the thanks of parents everywhere, I believe. |
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Solly Mack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 07:08 PM Response to Original message |
26. K&R |
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LaPera (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 07:11 PM Response to Original message |
27. Suppose he was eighteen, would you of done the same? |
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moriah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 07:43 PM Response to Reply #27 |
38. I don't know about the OP, or her state's law, but here in Arkansas.... |
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LaPera (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 08:23 PM Response to Reply #38 |
47. Yeah sounds real sensible... |
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moriah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 09:28 PM Response to Reply #47 |
65. I wouldn't want an 18-year-old woman having sex with my 13-year-old son either.... |
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myrna minx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 10:17 AM Response to Reply #65 |
123. I'm so sorry that you had to read such a nasty reply, especially |
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Kajsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 11:22 AM Response to Reply #65 |
137. I agree with Myrna, |
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Jennicut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 09:45 PM Response to Reply #47 |
68. I was molested at 13 by my brother's best friend, who was 18. |
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myrna minx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 10:16 AM Response to Reply #47 |
122. This is such a nasty reply. Uncalled for. |
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Kajsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 11:19 AM Response to Reply #47 |
135. WTH? Did you even read her post |
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Hekate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 08:12 PM Response to Reply #27 |
44. But he wasn't. Why would you even ask that, under the circumstances? |
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cynatnite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 08:34 PM Response to Reply #27 |
51. This man that did this to our daughter could have gotten 10-15 years in prison... |
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LaPera (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 08:38 PM Response to Reply #51 |
53. No, I would of hunted him down like a wild dog and blown off his fucking head! |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 08:46 PM Response to Reply #53 |
56. Just by the way? |
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LaPera (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 08:49 PM Response to Reply #56 |
59. It is, just not in Trenton!! |
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cynatnite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 08:46 PM Response to Reply #53 |
57. That was our gut instincts, but we wanted to do the right thing... |
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LaPera (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 08:48 PM Original message |
However, I still don't understand why you chose to advertise this? |
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cynatnite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 08:52 PM Response to Original message |
60. I felt that too many people were dismissive of statutory rape here at DU... |
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LaPera (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 09:04 PM Response to Reply #60 |
64. I understand...but I do recall when I just turned 15 |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 02:50 AM Response to Reply #64 |
92. As you wrote, "I still don't understand why you chose to advertise this?" |
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renate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 08:50 AM Response to Reply #92 |
115. lol |
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myrna minx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 10:23 AM Response to Reply #92 |
124. LOL |
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LaPera (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 11:29 AM Response to Reply #92 |
139. LOL! Have a little perception my dear.... |
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AtheistCrusader (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 10:58 AM Response to Reply #53 |
131. Appeal to absurdity |
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145. You appear to be making a point that the treatment was heavy-handed or overbearing |
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161. You are predictable!! |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 06:14 PM Response to Reply #53 |
179. Would "HAVE" |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 09:42 PM Response to Reply #51 |
67. i like that. with that young, and teens being sexual, having a 4 yr age spread is good |
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moriah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 11:39 PM Response to Reply #67 |
78. Arkansas only has a 3 year spread in their definition of "rape", but ... |
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bluescribbler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 09:58 AM Response to Reply #78 |
118. This actually makes a lot of sense |
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Justyce (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 07:42 AM Response to Reply #27 |
107. An 18 and a 13-year-old? I would definitely have pressed charges. nt |
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justiceischeap (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 07:52 AM Response to Reply #27 |
108. There's something wrong with an 18 yr old who wants to have sex with a 13 yr old |
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sagetea (471 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 07:12 PM Response to Original message |
28. Your daughter is very lucky... |
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renate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 08:49 AM Response to Reply #28 |
114. how awful... how unfair |
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Arkana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 07:16 PM Response to Original message |
29. You're a better person than me. |
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michreject (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 07:22 PM Response to Original message |
31. It wouldn't be prison nt. |
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theothersnippywshrub (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 07:30 PM Response to Original message |
32. I am sorry he served only 2 years. The system failed you and your daughter. And all of us. |
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moriah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 07:30 PM Response to Original message |
33. Thank you for standing by your daughter. |
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aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 07:38 PM Response to Original message |
35. You did right by your daughter and everyone elses. |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 07:38 PM Response to Original message |
36. Good! |
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Autumn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 07:41 PM Response to Original message |
37. Good for you. I'm sorry that |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 07:46 PM Response to Reply #39 |
40. You are totally disgusting. Alerted. nt |
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tosh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 08:02 PM Response to Reply #40 |
41. Alert seconded. |
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Hekate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 08:07 PM Response to Reply #41 |
43. Done before I even saw you guys' two posts on the screen. He'll be gone soon leaving only his stench |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 08:23 PM Response to Reply #43 |
48. Totally repulsive. Is this what the faux talking heads produce? |
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tekisui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 08:28 PM Response to Reply #48 |
49. They seek the lowest common denominator, but find only the lowest. |
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Hekate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 08:06 PM Response to Reply #39 |
42. Enjoy your brief stay, Troll. nt |
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MichiganVote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 08:36 PM Response to Reply #39 |
52. Well she weren't looking for your raggedy rusted out ass that's for sure. |
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MichiganVote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 08:38 PM Response to Reply #45 |
54. We like to velcro some balls to the wall. Guess you're up for tonight Worthless. |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 08:42 PM Response to Original message |
55. Two years? |
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cynatnite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 08:48 PM Response to Reply #55 |
58. You think no one took it seriously? n/t |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 08:54 PM Response to Reply #58 |
61. I think 2 years |
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Leftist Agitator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 09:36 PM Response to Original message |
66. Would you have done the same if your daughter was 17? |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 09:48 PM Response to Reply #66 |
69. 17 would be under the age of consent in California. |
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cynatnite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 09:49 PM Response to Reply #66 |
70. She would have been more knowledgable and more mature at 17... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 10:28 PM Response to Reply #70 |
72. four years is a hell of a lot of time and growing up at that age. nt. |
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McCamy Taylor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 10:36 PM Response to Original message |
73. My grandmother was married at 13. For many 1000s of years, womanhood |
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Liquorice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 10:42 PM Response to Reply #73 |
75. My grandfather started working in the coal mine at 13. Bad times back then. I'm against |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 10:51 PM Response to Reply #73 |
76. For many 1000s of years, women were treated like breeding stock. |
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SemiCharmedQuark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 12:09 AM Response to Reply #73 |
80. The world's youngest mother was five years old. She started mensturatring at four. |
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proteus_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 01:44 AM Response to Reply #73 |
89. We live in a more enlightened age. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 02:53 AM Response to Reply #73 |
93. Times have changed, people have more time to age now, to learn, don't die so quickly |
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Control-Z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 03:31 AM Response to Reply #73 |
96. I'm at a loss for words. |
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dugaresa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 09:20 AM Response to Reply #73 |
117. Perhaps I was "behind" but at 13 I looked like an adult woman but I was a kid |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 10:05 AM Response to Reply #73 |
121. But things have changed, generally for the better, since then |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 10:48 AM Response to Reply #73 |
127. You know what? I'm not even surprised. |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 11:33 AM Response to Reply #73 |
141. Your Grandmother Was Married to a Man Who Took Responsibility For His Desire to Screw a 13 YO |
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geek tragedy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 12:21 PM Response to Reply #73 |
149. Yay for child rape, child marriage, and child labor!!! |
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Control-Z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 05:03 PM Response to Reply #73 |
175. 11 contrary responses to your comment so far and |
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eissa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 06:42 PM Response to Reply #73 |
182. What a stupid post |
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msanthrope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 06:52 PM Response to Reply #73 |
183. I'm smothering my daughter because I won't marry her off after |
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moriah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 06:52 PM Response to Reply #73 |
184. And less than 200 years ago, the average age of menarche was 15 and a half. |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 10:41 PM Response to Original message |
74. I admire you for your restraint. |
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MissDeeds (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 10:52 PM Response to Original message |
77. The bastard should have got life |
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lupinella (124 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-29-09 11:54 PM Response to Original message |
79. Our hearts go out to you |
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jaysunb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 12:16 AM Response to Original message |
81. I'm wondering how your daughter is these days. |
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cynatnite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 12:35 AM Response to Reply #81 |
84. She had a tough time for a little while, but she's done okay since then... |
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jaysunb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 01:20 AM Response to Reply #84 |
86. Good for you ALL ! |
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rustydad (753 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 12:18 AM Response to Original message |
82. And some times it is complicated |
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Vodid (99 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 02:37 AM Response to Reply #82 |
91. rustydad is right... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 10:50 AM Response to Reply #82 |
128. I'm sorry for your daughter... |
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TorchTheWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 12:27 AM Response to Original message |
83. Good! |
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Juche (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 12:42 AM Response to Original message |
85. Was he famous though? |
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bridgit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 01:28 AM Response to Original message |
87. hubby's youngest daughter was raped at 16 by a 27yr old AA man... |
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MNDemNY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 07:23 AM Response to Reply #87 |
104. Alcoholics Anonymous? |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 01:09 PM Response to Reply #104 |
154. something tells me no |
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MNDemNY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 01:25 PM Response to Reply #154 |
157. What do you suppose the relevance is? |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 01:38 PM Response to Reply #157 |
160. the poster identified |
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proteus_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 01:46 AM Response to Original message |
90. Proud to have been the 100th Rec. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 02:54 AM Response to Original message |
94. Best wishes to those who have had violence as sex put upon them. Grow up to those |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 02:56 AM Response to Original message |
95. I have a 28 year old son |
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dotymed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 04:05 AM Response to Original message |
97. At the least |
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malaise (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 04:36 AM Response to Original message |
99. You were 100% correct |
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CTLawGuy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 05:26 AM Response to Original message |
100. As you should have |
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marew (854 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 05:56 AM Response to Original message |
101. You absolutely did the right thing! Absolutely! Positively! |
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etherealtruth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 06:58 AM Response to Original message |
102. Good for you! |
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Rebubula (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 08:16 AM Response to Original message |
109. The Polanski case |
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Honeycombe8 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 03:10 PM Response to Reply #109 |
173. It was not just a crime against the victim. It was a crime against the state. |
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Katana (4 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 08:17 AM Response to Original message |
110. Hear, Hear |
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BigD_95 (728 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 08:21 AM Response to Original message |
111. He should |
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evenso (113 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 08:38 AM Response to Original message |
113. 2 years is too lenient |
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driver8 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 09:05 AM Response to Original message |
116. If someone raped my daughter, it would take all I had to stop me from killing him. |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 10:02 AM Response to Original message |
120. Of course |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 10:51 AM Response to Original message |
129. Well done, you. |
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liberal N proud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 10:56 AM Response to Original message |
130. As a father of two girls... |
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onlyadream (821 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 11:01 AM Response to Original message |
132. I have a 13yo daughter and I couldn't even imagine |
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BallardWA (64 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 11:20 AM Response to Original message |
136. I just have to divulge this in a safe place - |
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RevolutionStartsNow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 06:30 PM Response to Reply #136 |
180. Shocking, but then again not really |
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NavyMom (170 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 11:30 AM Response to Original message |
140. Good for you, my niece was molested for 14 yrs by her uncle |
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Control-Z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 06:34 PM Response to Reply #140 |
181. Welcome to DU, NavyMom. |
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H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 11:36 AM Response to Original message |
142. Good. |
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mistertrickster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 12:08 PM Response to Original message |
144. Good for you. You did the right thing. nt |
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cleverusername (93 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 12:21 PM Response to Original message |
148. Good job! |
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TheCoxwain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 12:21 PM Response to Original message |
150. Did the defense not ask you to recuse yourself? |
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LeftishBrit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 01:13 PM Response to Reply #150 |
155. I presume that she meant that she sent the man to prison by witnessing against him; not as a judge |
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LeftishBrit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 01:07 PM Response to Original message |
152. Sorry to hear about your daughter. |
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Vincardog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 02:10 PM Response to Original message |
164. YOU did that? I thought the DA had to |
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cynatnite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 02:41 PM Response to Reply #164 |
171. It wouldn't have happened if we hadn't pursued it... |
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Vincardog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 02:57 PM Response to Reply #171 |
172. good for you. If the bad man did something to your daughter he deserves every thing he gets |
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winyanstaz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 02:26 PM Response to Original message |
168. Good for you. You are a good mom. |
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Initech (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 02:28 PM Response to Original message |
169. Personally I think I'd resort to more extreme measures, like they did on "Sons Of Anarchy" |
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msanthrope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-30-09 06:57 PM Response to Original message |
185. Good for you. I hope your daughter is doing well now. n/t |
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