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BoWanZi (502 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 02:40 AM Original message |
How do we fix teenagers these days? |
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Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 02:47 AM Response to Original message |
1. Maybe she is the exception to the rule, do you really know her friends |
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BoWanZi (502 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 02:56 AM Response to Reply #1 |
3. I agree on the consoling |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 07:21 AM Response to Reply #1 |
36. I've also never met |
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Ken Burch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 02:53 AM Response to Original message |
2. I suppose the only thing you can do |
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BoWanZi (502 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 03:12 AM Response to Reply #2 |
6. Acceptance of defeat, that sums it up perfectly. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 06:55 AM Response to Reply #2 |
30. i think that is exactly it. |
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mymomwasright (135 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 02:57 AM Response to Original message |
4. Daughter was the same way... |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 03:06 AM Response to Original message |
5. Maybe if you told her to stop acting like a guest on the Maury show she'd shape up. |
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BoWanZi (502 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 03:13 AM Response to Reply #5 |
7. Ya know, she would probably think that was awesome, to be a guest on the Maury show. :( |
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proteus_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 03:26 AM Response to Reply #5 |
8. JVS.......You are NOT the father! |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 03:30 AM Response to Reply #8 |
10. YES YES! I KNEW IT! I WAS 115% SURE THAT BABY WASN'T MINE. I AM THE GREATEST OF ALL TIME |
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proteus_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 03:26 AM Response to Original message |
9. Fishy. |
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dionysus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 07:59 AM Response to Reply #9 |
46. you mean the future welfare queen wanting a Cadillac was a bit of a tip-off? |
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OneGrassRoot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 08:08 AM Response to Reply #46 |
49. ;) n/t |
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EmeraldCityGrl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 03:34 AM Response to Original message |
11. You are over invested in this girl. What is a seventeen year old |
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BoWanZi (502 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 03:48 AM Response to Reply #11 |
14. She became attached to my wife during the summer. |
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EmeraldCityGrl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 03:52 AM Response to Reply #14 |
15. Those are some redeeming qualities |
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polly7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 07:10 AM Response to Reply #15 |
33. That's what struck me too. |
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Count Olaf (256 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 11:32 AM Response to Reply #14 |
74. One teenager at a time...perhaps she has been sent to you for a reason |
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notesdev (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 03:42 AM Response to Original message |
12. Teach her some reality maybe |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 03:46 AM Response to Original message |
13. Wow! That's unbelievable! |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 04:09 AM Response to Reply #13 |
16. I second that emotion. |
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proteus_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 04:27 AM Response to Reply #13 |
17. Like I said. |
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HughBeaumont (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 06:57 AM Response to Reply #13 |
31. Sounds like coded poor-hatin', anti-soshulism conservatalk. |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 04:59 AM Response to Original message |
18. it's so sad to see this mentality in kids. they don't think things through. |
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mstinamotorcity (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 04:59 AM Response to Original message |
19. A lot of our children have |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 07:19 AM Response to Reply #19 |
34. "your home may be her oasis in a desert of fear." excellent post |
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polly7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 07:57 AM Response to Reply #19 |
45. Awesome post. +1000 n/t. |
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melm00se (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 05:00 AM Response to Original message |
20. I am going to say a dirty word |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 05:07 AM Response to Original message |
21. *** |
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Madam Mossfern (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 05:08 AM Response to Original message |
22. Welcome to my world |
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SmileyRose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 06:05 AM Response to Reply #22 |
23. I live where there's a whole school district full of them. |
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polly7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 07:49 AM Response to Reply #23 |
41. Would inviting more inspirational speakers help with these children? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 06:28 AM Response to Original message |
24. i see it. it is the kids with no hope. kids lost any kind of hope or dream a long time ago |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 06:40 AM Response to Original message |
25. I don't know. I'm still working on fixing my middle schooler. :^( Good luck |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 06:44 AM Response to Reply #25 |
26. what is your middle schooler doing |
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Warren Stupidity (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 06:45 AM Response to Original message |
27. Tell her to get off your lawn. nt. |
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alcibiades_mystery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 06:49 AM Response to Original message |
28. This post is bullshit |
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HughBeaumont (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 06:59 AM Response to Reply #28 |
32. Wouldn't be the first time they've attempted it. |
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polly7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 07:21 AM Response to Reply #28 |
35. I believe it, I had a similar experience with a girl here. She came to |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 07:28 AM Response to Reply #28 |
38. i dont see it in my world. i do see it in my brothers world. if i did not have the opportunity |
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dionysus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 07:59 AM Response to Reply #28 |
47. +50 |
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Arkansas Granny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 08:30 AM Response to Reply #28 |
52. I wouldn't call bullshit on this. This could be a story about one of my |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 08:35 AM Response to Reply #52 |
53. i see it too. i have a 21 yr old niece, two babies, two daddies, |
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Arkansas Granny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 08:55 AM Response to Reply #53 |
56. I keep hoping that things work out for this granddaughter. She's a bright girl |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 09:25 AM Response to Reply #56 |
58. again, agree. |
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alcibiades_mystery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 10:51 AM Response to Reply #52 |
68. Ay yay yay..see post 67 |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 09:30 AM Response to Reply #28 |
60. No offense, but you need to get out more. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 09:35 AM Response to Reply #60 |
62. did you have |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 09:42 AM Response to Reply #62 |
64. I was a trailer park outcast. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 09:43 AM Response to Reply #64 |
65. glad to hear |
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alcibiades_mystery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 10:50 AM Response to Reply #60 |
67. I have no doubt that people *like this* exist |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 01:40 PM Response to Reply #67 |
89. Fair enough. |
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IdaBriggs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 11:06 AM Response to Reply #28 |
71. Let me introduce you to my niece. |
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alcibiades_mystery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 11:52 AM Response to Reply #71 |
79. Oy vey... |
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Skidmore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 06:50 AM Response to Original message |
29. You can't fix teenagers until you fix the adults in society. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 07:26 AM Response to Reply #29 |
37. since kids first focused on tv i would monitor what they watch. people tell me tv didn't effect kid... |
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Jim__ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 07:32 AM Response to Original message |
39. Fix them? That's a bad term. |
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mstinamotorcity (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 10:17 AM Response to Reply #39 |
66. You are right-Fix them |
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dkf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 07:38 AM Response to Original message |
40. Maybe she is more self aware than you think and realizes with her probable level of education |
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pgodbold (953 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 07:50 AM Response to Original message |
42. Thank goodness I have no children. You can't fix prideful dumbass disease. Get her out of your house |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 08:04 AM Response to Reply #42 |
48. eeeeew. i am glad you dont have children, too. nt |
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mstinamotorcity (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 09:36 AM Response to Reply #42 |
63. You can't |
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ThomWV (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 07:55 AM Response to Original message |
43. It sounds to me like you're reciting Reagan's "Welfare Queen" meme with slight variation. |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 07:56 AM Response to Original message |
44. That is so sad it makes me want to cry and scream all at once. |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 08:23 AM Response to Original message |
50. I call Bullshit on this. This "person" sounds like a RW stereotype. |
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polly7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 08:50 AM Response to Reply #50 |
54. No, imo this person sounds like everyone who believes they have nothing |
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Gaedel (802 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 08:54 AM Response to Reply #50 |
55. I don't necessarily see that, Odin |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 09:32 AM Response to Reply #50 |
61. I'd say the same thing if I didn't know people just like her. |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 11:07 AM Response to Reply #50 |
72. I know a few.... |
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NNN0LHI (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 08:23 AM Response to Original message |
51. At least she has the good sense to want a union made American car |
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mainer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 08:58 AM Response to Original message |
57. It's not just teenagers. It's adults too. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 09:28 AM Response to Reply #57 |
59. ah, this is going to be another unpopular. i tell my kids, our generation started it. |
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Count Olaf (256 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 11:46 AM Response to Reply #57 |
78. yes, how are we going to fix the adults that have set their bad examples |
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krabigirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 10:52 AM Response to Original message |
69. I knew girls like that back in the 90s. Not much has changed..just the car brands. |
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TransitJohn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 10:56 AM Response to Original message |
70. The Ludovico technique |
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BoWanZi (502 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 11:16 AM Response to Original message |
73. Why are people doubting me? I'm not lying or fibbing about any of this |
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Count Olaf (256 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 11:37 AM Response to Reply #73 |
76. don't take it personally |
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Roon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 11:32 AM Response to Original message |
75. My little sister got pregnant in her senior year in high school |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 11:38 AM Response to Original message |
77. I have a foster daughter who hit most of those buttons. |
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BoWanZi (502 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 11:59 AM Response to Reply #77 |
80. I wonder if she is fibbing herself about some of her stories |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 01:06 PM Response to Reply #80 |
83. It sounds to me like she's desperately trying to get attention. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 12:00 PM Response to Reply #77 |
81. the dinner table at night of conversation.... |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 01:25 PM Response to Reply #81 |
84. Yeah, she's doing really well. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 01:39 PM Response to Reply #84 |
87. i hate having company, doing the cooking and stuff. but has become a big thing |
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yella_dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 12:10 PM Response to Original message |
82. The TV's been teaching her this her whole life. |
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ProudDad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 01:32 PM Response to Original message |
85. Forgive me for mentioning the macrocosm |
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ProudDad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 01:35 PM Response to Original message |
86. Gee, lots of superficial "blame the victim" on this thread... (n/t) |
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ecstatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 01:39 PM Response to Original message |
88. Take "Teen Mom" off the air? |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 02:11 PM Response to Original message |
90. Perhaps we realize that other people aren't ours to "fix" |
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