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n2doc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 06:27 AM Original message |
Couple urges surrogate to abort Down syndrome baby |
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elocs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 06:29 AM Response to Original message |
1. My guess is that "3 ring circus" would not even begin to describe the situation. n/t |
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RobinA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 09:54 PM Response to Reply #1 |
68. I Was Thinking |
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Javaman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 07:58 AM Response to Original message |
2. Here comes the next "major news" item for faux news to spew out to their |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 08:00 AM Response to Original message |
3. Everything about this situation makes me ill. nt |
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smokey nj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 08:05 AM Response to Reply #3 |
4. Me too. |
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RainDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 08:10 AM Response to Reply #4 |
6. me three |
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cbdo2007 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 12:57 PM Response to Reply #6 |
10. I'm glad you were blessed to not have any problems with infertility... |
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shireen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 03:01 PM Response to Reply #10 |
12. +1 |
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RainDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 05:52 PM Response to Reply #10 |
18. No. I think the rich should not exploit women by renting their wombs |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 06:40 PM Response to Reply #18 |
41. I think consenting adults should be free to make their own reproductive decisions |
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Statistical (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-08-10 10:59 AM Response to Reply #18 |
80. So you are for the govt telling what a woman can (or can't do) with her reproductive capabilities. |
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RobinA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 09:58 PM Response to Reply #10 |
69. Nice, But.... |
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CBR (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 12:58 PM Response to Reply #6 |
11. I love the self-righteous who have never dealt with infertility |
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RainDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 05:47 PM Response to Reply #11 |
15. believe me, I have dealt with more than you probably ever will |
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CBR (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 05:52 PM Response to Reply #15 |
17. But YOU have not gone through infertility correct? |
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RainDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 05:54 PM Response to Reply #17 |
19. fine. we agree to disagree |
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CBR (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 05:57 PM Response to Reply #19 |
23. I could ask if you have experienced what I have but what is the point? |
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RainDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 06:12 PM Response to Reply #23 |
31. you're right. there is no point |
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CBR (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 06:16 PM Response to Reply #31 |
34. Insurance and I realize how lucky I am. nt |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 08:12 PM Response to Reply #34 |
61. Hugs.... |
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RainDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 09:29 PM Response to Reply #34 |
66. I apologize for my tone |
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Sheepshank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-08-10 11:07 AM Response to Reply #31 |
82. self delete |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 08:10 PM Response to Reply #17 |
60. I have FSGS. Pregnancy would kill me. |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 06:36 PM Response to Reply #15 |
39. Not everyone can adopt. |
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Sheepshank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-08-10 11:05 AM Response to Reply #15 |
81. self delete |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 05:56 PM Response to Reply #11 |
21. it must feel good to be martyr! n/t |
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CBR (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 05:59 PM Response to Reply #21 |
25. I am not a damn martyr just someone who tried for 6 years to have |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 06:07 PM Response to Reply #25 |
28. why is it something to be proud of? n/t |
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CBR (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 06:16 PM Response to Reply #28 |
33. Why isn't it? I am proud to be carrying my husband and I's child. nt |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 06:33 PM Response to Reply #33 |
38. so? why is that something to be proud of? whooo hooo, a woman is pregnant! n/t |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 06:37 PM Response to Reply #38 |
40. Being self-righteous, critical, and standing on a soapbox in judgment of other peoples choices |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 06:48 PM Response to Reply #40 |
43. you would know all about that Warren n/t |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 06:50 PM Response to Reply #43 |
45. Unlike some people, I'm pro-choice. |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 07:02 PM Response to Reply #45 |
47. you're not worth the effort Warren. n/t |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 07:03 PM Response to Reply #47 |
48. Translation: You know it's not there. |
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CBR (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 06:45 PM Response to Reply #38 |
42. Because my husband and I tried for years and went through a lot of pain. We are |
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Biker13 (609 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 08:59 PM Response to Reply #42 |
63. Congratulations! |
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Number23 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-08-10 03:43 AM Response to Reply #33 |
76. You are?? Congratulations! |
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cbdo2007 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 10:19 PM Response to Reply #25 |
72. Congrats!! My wife and I went through our own infertility ordeal.... |
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sohndrsmith (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 07:31 PM Response to Reply #11 |
56. I'm not sure I understand your argument (?). Having no experience with infertility myself, I do |
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tnlefty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 07:37 PM Response to Reply #11 |
57. Well I did, and also dealt with not so good pregnancy outcomes, |
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RobinA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 09:59 PM Response to Reply #11 |
70. So... |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 12:22 PM Response to Reply #3 |
9. Exactly. n/t |
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uncommon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 08:08 AM Response to Original message |
5. They can't force her to have an abortion, but she can't force them keep the baby either... |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 03:20 PM Response to Reply #5 |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 08:14 AM Response to Original message |
7. This is the sort of thing that happens... |
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n2doc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 12:17 PM Response to Original message |
8. kick n/t |
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saracat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 05:24 PM Response to Original message |
14. What a crock. The surrogate is a women who "rented" her womb |
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rug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 05:50 PM Response to Reply #14 |
16. At what point does the embryo cease to be property? |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 05:54 PM Response to Reply #16 |
20. when it becomes a person. n/t |
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rug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 05:56 PM Response to Reply #20 |
22. Which is when? |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 05:57 PM Response to Reply #22 |
24. the actual person whose body it's leeching off of, ie the pregnant woman |
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rug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 06:01 PM Response to Reply #24 |
26. So, ownership of the embryo passes from the donors to the surrogate at the moment of implantation? |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 06:06 PM Response to Reply #26 |
27. yes, it's in her body. n/t |
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rug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 06:08 PM Response to Reply #27 |
29. Who pays for it after it becomes a person? |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 06:10 PM Response to Reply #26 |
30. yes.. It's their DNA |
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rug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 06:14 PM Response to Reply #30 |
32. That would mean they retain ownership even after implantation. |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 06:27 PM Response to Reply #32 |
36. They do...except for the fact that the woman who is the "vessel" |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 07:12 PM Response to Reply #14 |
51. So if a man doesn't want a child does he have a right |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-08-10 03:56 AM Response to Reply #51 |
77. I certainly think the man has a right to his opinion |
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sohndrsmith (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 06:22 PM Response to Original message |
35. How? Why? How tragic. Anyone who has ever had the good fortune to have |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 06:33 PM Response to Reply #35 |
37. People who have to use extraordinary measures to have a child |
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sohndrsmith (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 08:17 PM Response to Reply #37 |
62. some Down's parents might argue that theirs *are* dream babies... |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 06:49 PM Response to Original message |
44. I wonder if everyone here yelling & screaming about what a travesty this is |
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sohndrsmith (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 06:55 PM Response to Original message |
46. Most people with Down's now live into their 50's - by the time this |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 07:04 PM Response to Reply #46 |
49. wow, now THERE'S a self-righteous post for you Warren. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 07:09 PM Response to Reply #49 |
50. The problem is, somebody else is carrying the child. |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 07:19 PM Response to Reply #50 |
53. She can't be forced to have an abortion, absolutely not. |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 07:18 PM Response to Reply #49 |
52. My point, exactly. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 07:20 PM Response to Reply #52 |
54. Actually it is inconsistent to suggest the bio parents |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 07:21 PM Response to Reply #54 |
55. I haven't seen anyone suggest the bio-parents should be able to force the surrogate to abort. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 08:01 PM Response to Reply #55 |
58. Since we agree that she can not be forced to have an abortion, |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 09:35 PM Response to Reply #58 |
67. I'm not sure what the legal ramifications and responsibilities are, re: Surrogates. |
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sohndrsmith (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 08:07 PM Response to Reply #49 |
59. wow, now THERE'S a presumptuous, unfair post for you Sgt. Friday. |
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wisteria (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 09:09 PM Response to Original message |
64. I say the couple who contracted with the surrogate should be responsible for the child- |
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tammywammy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 09:11 PM Response to Reply #64 |
65. +1 n/t |
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RobinA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-07-10 10:09 PM Response to Reply #64 |
71. Agreed |
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saracat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-08-10 12:41 AM Response to Reply #64 |
73. Apparently they are. They ordered one.It happens to be defective. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-08-10 01:10 AM Response to Reply #73 |
74. While it's in her body, it's her responsibility. |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-08-10 03:09 AM Response to Reply #74 |
75. Don't couples put babies up for adoption all the time? |
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saracat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-08-10 10:47 AM Response to Reply #74 |
79. Good argument but it can also be turned around on the woman who chose to be a "rent a womb'. |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-08-10 03:57 AM Response to Original message |
78. Why are people so sticky about having "Their" baby |
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cbdo2007 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-08-10 11:19 AM Response to Reply #78 |
83. You're right. Even people without infertility problems should adopt rather than trying to have their |
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