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mix (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 12:45 PM Original message |
Poll question: How do you react when you hear: That's gay. |
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rocktivity (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 12:47 PM Response to Original message |
1. I always say |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 10:55 PM Response to Reply #1 |
130. Free Speech TV has some great ads about this. |
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unapatriciated (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 12:00 PM Response to Reply #1 |
157. My husband has said the same thing. |
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unapatriciated (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 12:00 PM Response to Reply #1 |
158. My husband has said the same thing. |
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BeeBee (480 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 12:48 PM Response to Original message |
2. "Gay is not an insult" |
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unpossibles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 01:45 PM Response to Reply #2 |
44. me too - which also means that it depends on the source for me |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 02:22 PM Response to Reply #2 |
53. Yup! |
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RayOfHope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 06:43 PM Response to Reply #2 |
106. Thank you for this. I've not ever had a great, short, to the point comeback. Now I do n/t |
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HuckleB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 12:29 AM Response to Reply #2 |
136. +1,000,000,000,000!!! |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 06:48 AM Response to Reply #2 |
141. that is what son said when some kid called another such a "girl" |
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mikelgb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 12:49 PM Response to Original message |
3. I'm going to have to quote Senator Vitter on this one: |
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zipplewrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 12:51 PM Response to Reply #3 |
5. 50/50 chance |
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mix (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 12:54 PM Response to Reply #5 |
8. Is this a generational thing? |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 01:04 PM Response to Reply #5 |
23. Then it's being used ironically. But it's not okay for straights |
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mix (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 12:51 PM Response to Reply #3 |
6. For example, provide a context, if you would, when it is acceptable. nt |
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JuniperLea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 01:03 PM Response to Reply #3 |
22. What context is acceptable? |
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cleanhippie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 01:05 PM Response to Reply #22 |
24. Is there any context you would find acceptable? |
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JuniperLea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 01:19 PM Response to Reply #24 |
33. I can't think of a one... that's why I'm asking this poster who said it depends on context... |
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mwooldri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 01:27 PM Response to Reply #33 |
162. See my post #161. |
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unpossibles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 01:48 PM Response to Reply #22 |
46. it's actually come up among friends, all of us some form of GLBTQ |
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JuniperLea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 02:35 PM Response to Reply #46 |
55. How do you feel about a straight person using the term in that context... |
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jberryhill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 04:18 PM Response to Reply #55 |
78. Then does that mean you have come up with an example of an acceptable context? |
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JuniperLea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 04:37 PM Response to Reply #78 |
79. No, read again... |
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jberryhill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 05:46 AM Response to Reply #79 |
139. Well, quite obviously.... |
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unpossibles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 12:36 AM Response to Reply #55 |
137. I think it depends on the person, honestly |
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mwooldri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 01:25 PM Response to Reply #22 |
161. If your name happens to be Gay, or ... |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 12:50 PM Response to Original message |
4. i supervise a lot of young adults at work and hear it often, but i never let it slide |
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mix (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 01:00 PM Response to Reply #4 |
16. The answer I love is "It just means happy!" |
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JamesA1102 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 12:53 PM Response to Original message |
7. Someone is talking about Glee nt |
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mix (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 12:55 PM Response to Reply #7 |
12. I don't have a TV and I am only vaguely aware of the show. |
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CraftyGal (602 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 02:37 PM Response to Reply #12 |
56. you din't what you ar missing! Awesome show. |
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Common Sense Party (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 12:54 PM Response to Original message |
9. About the same as "That's so retarded." |
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Brickbat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 12:55 PM Response to Original message |
10. I always say something. |
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cbayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 12:55 PM Response to Original message |
11. I say something - always. Just like I do when someone uses the word retarded or |
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lightningandsnow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 12:55 PM Response to Original message |
13. I give people the death stare and say "excuse me?" |
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mix (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 12:57 PM Response to Reply #13 |
14. love the death stare technique |
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Rhythm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 06:06 PM Response to Reply #13 |
101. That's me as well... though the "Excuse me?" often comes across with an extra exclamation point |
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OregonBlue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 12:57 PM Response to Original message |
15. My eight year old grandson said it and I was stunned. I asked him if he knew what it meant and of |
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Stinky The Clown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 01:00 PM Response to Original message |
17. My replies are complicated and with some nuance |
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Arkana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 01:00 PM Response to Original message |
18. I reply "You're retarded." |
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mix (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 01:01 PM Response to Reply #18 |
19. Thoughtful. nt |
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independent_voter (283 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 01:21 PM Response to Reply #18 |
37. but then you're just passing the carpet lump to the developementally disabled |
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elias7 (913 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 06:51 PM Response to Reply #37 |
108. No, I think Arkana is using irony to point out the outmodedness of the expression |
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grantcart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 10:57 AM Response to Reply #108 |
152. awkward when brilliant snark has to be explained its just so |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 01:02 PM Response to Original message |
20. Depends on the context but I never let it slide by. My mom was a Southern belle and |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 01:10 PM Response to Reply #20 |
26. That works THE best when the person wears glasses. |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 01:31 PM Response to Reply #26 |
40. I can't wear contacts and must always wear my specs. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 01:02 PM Response to Original message |
21. I always speak out. n/t |
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rucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 01:22 PM Response to Reply #21 |
38. +1 |
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muffin1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 01:09 PM Response to Original message |
25. To use the word in that way is an insult. |
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mix (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 01:10 PM Response to Reply #25 |
27. depressing and astonishing at the same time |
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Behind the Aegis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 01:18 PM Response to Reply #25 |
31. "It's pretty depressing (and telling)...." |
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mix (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 05:17 PM Response to Reply #31 |
89. 42% "just" nt |
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Behind the Aegis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 05:22 PM Response to Reply #89 |
90. Any wonder why homophobia is such a damn problem. Sad and disgusting, isn't it? |
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mix (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 05:29 PM Response to Reply #90 |
93. It has always been a problem, |
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chocolate ink (45 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 02:38 PM Response to Reply #93 |
169. say what.. |
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mix (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 04:11 PM Response to Reply #169 |
170. I wonder why this slur has become so prevalent. |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 01:12 PM Response to Original message |
28. It makes me wince |
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MrScorpio (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 01:14 PM Response to Original message |
29. It all depends on who says it and the context in which it was said |
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muffin1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 01:39 PM Response to Reply #29 |
41. Do you have any examples |
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MrScorpio (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 01:44 PM Response to Reply #41 |
43. Sure! Got one right here: |
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muffin1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 01:48 PM Response to Reply #43 |
47. I haven't been able to watch a youtube for the last week or so |
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MrScorpio (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 01:53 PM Response to Reply #47 |
48. No prob. It's Bryan Safi's show "That's Gay" on Current TV |
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muffin1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 02:16 PM Response to Reply #48 |
51. If a gay man wants to use that word |
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MrScorpio (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 02:52 PM Response to Reply #51 |
65. LIke I said before and then demonstrated, it's all about source and context... |
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Touchdown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 04:38 PM Response to Reply #65 |
175. I agree with this. |
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Hosnon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 02:47 PM Response to Reply #41 |
62. Well...it *could* be used to simply describe a particular scene. |
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Raster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 02:39 PM Response to Reply #29 |
57. You are correct. It does depend on the context. Just like the "N" word. |
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MrScorpio (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 02:57 PM Response to Reply #57 |
66. Exactly. That's another example |
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mix (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 05:33 PM Response to Reply #66 |
94. Language is complex, but when using slurs--sexual or racial |
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MrScorpio (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 05:38 PM Response to Reply #94 |
95. That is so very true nt |
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ecstatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 01:15 PM Response to Original message |
30. I don't hear that around here |
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independent_voter (283 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 01:18 PM Response to Original message |
32. same way i feel when i hear 'FAIL' |
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JuniperLea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 01:21 PM Response to Reply #32 |
36. I do believe you are spot on! |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 01:19 PM Response to Original message |
34. I usually say something like "No way. That would make it cool." |
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quinnox (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 01:20 PM Response to Original message |
35. I only see it on the internet |
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VMI Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 01:22 PM Response to Original message |
39. "Its just an expression" gets that many votes here? |
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Cirque du So-What (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 02:08 PM Response to Reply #39 |
49. They're certainly reticent about it too |
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HopeHoops (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 01:43 PM Response to Original message |
42. Mixed bag. A lesbian at a bar (recently) had a shirt that said "Homophobia Is Gay". |
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Egnever (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 01:48 PM Response to Original message |
45. While it bugs me... |
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jumptheshadow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 01:28 AM Response to Reply #45 |
138. It has everything to do with homosexuality |
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mix (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 01:29 PM Response to Reply #138 |
163. +1 nt |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 02:11 PM Response to Original message |
50. Teenagers |
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DainBramaged (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 02:20 PM Response to Original message |
52. I react the same way as when I hear religious beliefs bashed..... |
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mix (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 09:37 PM Response to Reply #52 |
122. For example? nt |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 02:27 PM Response to Original message |
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muffin1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 05:51 PM Response to Reply #54 |
97. Wait, wait, wait... |
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Rhythm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 06:15 PM Response to Reply #54 |
102. So what part of civil rights equality for GLBTs is a problem for you? n/t |
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blonndee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 06:20 PM Response to Reply #54 |
103. Things are changing...no thanks to people like you. |
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independent_voter (283 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 06:40 PM Response to Reply #103 |
105. you may not thank me for the change, but my help may be valuable in stioping things from reversing |
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blonndee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 11:50 PM Response to Reply #105 |
131. You're right. |
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mkultra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 11:05 PM Response to Reply #131 |
180. and thus progress is made |
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Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 02:41 PM Response to Original message |
58. Anything that comes from South Park is bad for our culture. |
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Swamp Rat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 02:44 PM Response to Original message |
59. I usually respond with: "So, you like it?" |
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MrScorpio (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 03:39 PM Response to Reply #59 |
75. Take "I Feel Pretty" from West Side Story |
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geek tragedy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 02:45 PM Response to Original message |
60. It makes me think the speaker is a juvenile punk. nt |
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Hosnon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 02:45 PM Response to Original message |
61. Depends on the context. If a gay person uses it or a friend of a gay person uses it (in a friendly |
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independent_voter (283 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 03:04 PM Response to Reply #61 |
68. I think that's a dangerous game |
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Hosnon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 03:05 PM Response to Reply #68 |
69. I agree... hence my last sentence. nt. |
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independent_voter (283 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 03:06 PM Response to Reply #69 |
71. sorry, i read it to quickly nt |
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closeupready (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 02:48 PM Response to Original message |
63. I find it offensive, and if it's someone not so close as a friend, I cease relations with them. |
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TK421 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 02:50 PM Response to Original message |
64. Well...I remember that expression being used growing up when it |
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Hosnon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 03:08 PM Response to Reply #64 |
72. The main definition I come across these days is something close to "lame". nt. |
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TK421 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 03:12 PM Response to Reply #72 |
73. It could be taken as that, yes n/t |
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Obamanaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 03:43 PM Response to Reply #72 |
76. It won't be long before "lame" is added to the 'do not use' list, because |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 02:59 PM Response to Original message |
67. My gay friends are the only ones who ever say that |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 03:06 PM Response to Original message |
70. "Is that what it is? It's GAY? Is that right? It's GAAYY?" |
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Smashcut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 03:26 PM Response to Original message |
74. I wonder if the "it's just an expression" people realize its effect on gay youth? |
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Roon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 03:48 PM Response to Original message |
77. I have a niece who tells me I am her favorite uncle |
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stevenleser (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 04:47 PM Response to Original message |
80. It offends me and I usually say something. n/t |
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Behind the Aegis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 04:51 PM Response to Original message |
81. "It's just an expression." |
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muffin1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 06:00 PM Response to Reply #81 |
99. I really wonder about this place sometimes. |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 04:55 PM Response to Original message |
82. If friends or close acquaintances uses it |
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Initech (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 05:04 PM Response to Original message |
83. I actually heard gay guys using that expression the other day. It was pretty funny actually. |
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mix (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 05:09 PM Response to Reply #83 |
85. Context and the speaker matter. |
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Initech (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 07:43 PM Response to Reply #85 |
119. Oh I'm not denying that at all. |
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Hekate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 05:06 PM Response to Original message |
84. I don't hang around with teenagers or adults with arrested development |
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SargeUNN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 05:15 PM Response to Original message |
86. I can't accept it and the claim it means nothing is weak |
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nomorenomore08 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 05:15 PM Response to Original message |
87. Roll my eyes (or some equivalent gesture). |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 05:17 PM Response to Original message |
88. I flinch, lose all respect for the person saying it, |
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Hekate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 05:22 PM Response to Original message |
91. I like to quote Joanie Caucus from Doonesbury, 1976 ... |
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Rebubula (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 01:58 PM Response to Reply #91 |
167. Awesome |
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Hekate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 06:39 PM Response to Reply #167 |
176. Time was when Mr H would read the morning funnies and say that Doonesbury was way off base... |
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MellowDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 05:23 PM Response to Original message |
92. Fully depends on the context... nt |
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anAustralianobserver (440 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 05:40 PM Response to Original message |
96. Usually negatively, but what about if I call myself gay in a context like this: |
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frogmarch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 05:53 PM Response to Original message |
98. I've never heard anyone say it except |
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Rhythm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 06:02 PM Response to Original message |
100. Am i seeing this right? About half of the respondents actually said "It's just an expression'?! |
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hughee99 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 06:28 PM Response to Reply #100 |
104. It sounds like a decent number of respondents |
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Rhythm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 06:55 PM Response to Reply #104 |
111. It is avery, very rare thing to hear it from the folks in the GLBT community here... |
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hughee99 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 10:37 PM Response to Reply #111 |
126. I have a few friends who say it, |
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Rhythm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 07:15 PM Response to Reply #100 |
114. And for the record, i react the same way to assholes who use "can i jew you down?" |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 06:44 PM Response to Original message |
107. I say something on the order of |
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CBR (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 06:53 PM Response to Original message |
109. I haven't heard it in a really long time. If GLBT think it is offensive |
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jumptheshadow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 06:55 PM Response to Original message |
110. I cannot believe that 77 people said "it's just an expression." |
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Gabi Hayes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 07:03 PM Response to Reply #110 |
113. that's really gay. but seriously, folks. I work in a school, and I hear it a few times a year. |
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Gabi Hayes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 07:18 PM Response to Reply #113 |
115. these are good: |
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Nikia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 07:01 PM Response to Original message |
112. A guy at work said that the work boots looked so gay |
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JohnnyCougar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 07:21 PM Response to Original message |
116. Last person I heard use this was gay himself |
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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 07:25 PM Response to Original message |
117. It's not so much getting "offended" |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 07:28 PM Response to Original message |
118. I tell them that they might be offending the person who gives them their grade |
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phylny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 07:51 PM Response to Original message |
120. I don't know anyone who uses that expression n/t |
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mix (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 09:26 PM Response to Reply #120 |
121. I hear it every day as an educator at a rural NM school. |
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jdp349 (372 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 09:51 PM Response to Original message |
123. I try and discern what they meant by the use of the phrase |
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mitchtv (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 10:08 PM Response to Original message |
124. I find it ugly, tho I've never had the misfortune to be |
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liquid diamond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 10:16 PM Response to Original message |
125. I hear kids say it sometimes. |
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VMI Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 10:46 PM Response to Original message |
127. The results of this poll should tell the admin everything they need to know about whats wrong here. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 10:54 PM Response to Reply #127 |
128. I used to believe people were exaggerating |
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Safetykitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 12:20 AM Response to Reply #127 |
135. Amazing, is it not? |
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Rhythm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 07:24 AM Response to Reply #127 |
142. Indeed it does... |
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muffin1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-13-10 12:21 PM Response to Reply #142 |
189. You said it. |
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donco6 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 08:23 AM Response to Reply #127 |
144. But it won't. n/t |
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Starry Messenger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 09:07 AM Response to Reply #127 |
148. It should, but it won't. n/t |
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QC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 01:00 PM Response to Reply #127 |
160. What makes you think they would care? |
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racaulk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 04:27 PM Response to Reply #127 |
173. It speaks volumes about the environment here, doesn't it? |
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johnaries (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-11-10 10:54 PM Response to Original message |
129. I've actually had people say " 'ghey', not 'gay', There's a difference." |
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Safetykitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 12:05 AM Response to Original message |
132. So it's just an expression? How about the "no homo" thing, you know, |
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ibegurpard (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 12:10 AM Response to Original message |
133. it's so fucking irritating |
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HuckleB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 12:16 AM Response to Original message |
134. I reply, "You're right. Whoever tried Gerry-rig that had no clue." |
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jumptheshadow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 08:09 AM Response to Reply #134 |
143. So I am assuming... |
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HuckleB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 10:55 AM Response to Reply #143 |
151. That's a rather bizarre assumption to make. |
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jumptheshadow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 04:19 PM Response to Reply #151 |
171. No it's not |
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HuckleB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 04:20 PM Response to Reply #171 |
172. Yup. |
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jumptheshadow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-13-10 05:17 AM Response to Reply #172 |
187. Pal... |
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HuckleB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-13-10 12:23 PM Response to Reply #187 |
190. Now you're changing the topic of this subthread. |
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Greyhound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 05:48 AM Response to Original message |
140. It would offend me and I definitely would speak out, but I'm (thankfully) old |
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Radical Activist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 08:36 AM Response to Original message |
145. I've had to argue this with people several times. |
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MineralMan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 08:55 AM Response to Original message |
146. It's very rare that I hear it said. The people I'm around |
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tammywammy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 09:14 AM Response to Reply #146 |
149. I don't hear it often either |
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JNelson6563 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 08:57 AM Response to Original message |
147. I like to say |
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lunatica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 09:18 AM Response to Original message |
150. I don't argue with Middle School kids |
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grantcart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 10:58 AM Response to Reply #150 |
153. I make sure that I am not about to be hit by an out of control skateboard. |
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AlinPA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 11:00 AM Response to Original message |
154. I've never heard it, but it is offensive. |
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political_Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 11:10 AM Response to Original message |
155. I cringe because it is horrible. |
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Pool Hall Ace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 11:50 AM Response to Original message |
156. I say, "How do you know it's gay? Did it come out?" |
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QC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 12:53 PM Response to Original message |
159. 42% think that is OK. That certainly explains a lot about this place, doesn't it? n/t |
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Behind the Aegis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 01:30 PM Response to Reply #159 |
164. It does. |
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QC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 01:43 PM Response to Reply #164 |
166. Well, everyone agrees that racism is bad, but homophobia is more a faux pas, |
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Behind the Aegis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 02:04 PM Response to Reply #166 |
168. I think there is some truth with what you say. |
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mitchtv (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 10:20 PM Response to Reply #168 |
178. your post made me feel gypped |
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DireStrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 01:39 PM Response to Original message |
165. Mixed feelings. |
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TNLib (683 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 04:34 PM Response to Original message |
174. For the most part it is just an expression but I do think it's also an insensitive expression |
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fascisthunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 06:44 PM Response to Original message |
177. ok... I'm Blown Away with How People Voted... "an expression"? |
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Bluebear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-13-10 01:16 AM Response to Reply #177 |
184. DU 2010 style. |
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cbdo2007 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 11:03 PM Response to Original message |
179. I don't mean to offend, but whenever I see those pick-up truck balls hanging down... |
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Zax2me (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Oct-12-10 11:12 PM Response to Original message |
181. It's played.... |
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old mark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-13-10 12:15 AM Response to Original message |
182. my last boss used to say that, as well as calling people "ree-tards" |
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Bluebear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-13-10 01:14 AM Response to Original message |
183. "It's just an expression." - the new DU in a nutshell. |
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AsahinaKimi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-13-10 05:03 AM Response to Original message |
185. I run a chat room on IMVU. I have made it known.. |
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jumptheshadow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-13-10 05:14 AM Response to Reply #185 |
186. Very cool |
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AsahinaKimi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-13-10 05:28 AM Response to Reply #186 |
188. You don't have to thank me, |
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jumptheshadow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-13-10 07:29 PM Response to Reply #188 |
191. I thought about your response all day |
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McCamy Taylor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-13-10 07:32 PM Response to Original message |
192. I think "Boy, South Park sure has been a social force in America!" |
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hollowdweller (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-13-10 07:44 PM Response to Original message |
193. It was a popular slur when I was in Jr High in the 1970's |
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Sparkly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-13-10 07:46 PM Response to Original message |
194. 43% said "It's just an expression," on DU? Are you kidding me?? |
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