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kentuck

(111,094 posts)
Sun Jan 7, 2018, 02:31 PM Jan 2018

A Simpler Time

I found this story from an old file on a backup disk I had when one of my computers crashed. It is one of my favorites and one that the Lexington-Herald liked. A lady called me all the way from Kentucky to thank me for writing. I really appreciated it.

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Lately I have been reflecting on the joys and hardships of growing up in Appalachia. Perhaps it is all a subconscious effort to escape the insanity of the "political" obsessions. Perhaps it is simply a desire to return to a simpler time.
I remember exploring the mountains -- looking for whatever the world would offer -- knees on the damp ground, drinking from the mountain streams. Chewing on the tender tips of the young sassafras branches... Searching the shady mountainside for bloodroot, ginseng, branchmint, mountain tea, yellowroot, and other herbs... I recall the haunting sounds of the hoot owls breaking the silence of the nights.

After supper, the family would sit on the front porch and reminisce about the days events. I retain the memory of the lightshow before the symphony. As the evening shadows lengthened and the air cooled, the lightning bugs would rise slowly from the earth one at a time until there seemed to be as many fireflies as stars in the sky. Then the crickets, frogs, and other creatures would begin their meditative symphony.

And I remember going fishing with Mammaw. First, we would get the seasoned cane poles from above the porch rafters and check for hooks and sinkers and a good line. Then we would look for the ideal place to dig up some worms. Usually, it was off the side of the house where Mammaw would throw out her dish water. A little bit of dirt in a Clabber Girl baking powder can, and soon we had enough bait to fish all day. With our cane poles and a can of worms, we would trek across the pastures and meadows until we found a good fishing hole. I recall how Mammaw would take a dip of her Bruton snuff and spit on her hook just before she would throw some big lunker of a nightcrawler to his doom. She would set her line on the bottom with hopes of catching the biggest catfish on Greasy Creek. Usually, she was successful. She was the best fisherman I ever saw.

Sitting in silence and meditating on the water, sometimes it would seem that the land was moving and the creek was standing still. On those days when the sun was hot and the fishing was slow, we would walk up the creek to an old country store. There is no smell more memorable than the apples, peaches, bananas, and other fruits and vegetables in a country store. Before we would head back down to the creek, we would get a cold bottle of Pepsi~Cola. Surely there was nothing more refreshing on God's green earth.

After a full day's fishing, we would pull our stringer of fish out of water, roll up the line on our cane poles, and head home for supper. Sometimes, the stringer would be so heavy to a little cotton-headed fellow like myself, that the tails of some of the fish would be dragging the ground. Neighbors along the way would compliment us on our catch. Once home, the fish would be cleaned and fried golden brown in the old cast iron skillet. Along with fried potatoes and corn bread, we had our supper, of which we were very grateful.

kentuck

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A Simpler Time (Original Post) kentuck Jan 2018 OP
Great story. Life was simpler, by far. MineralMan Jan 2018 #1
+1000 kentuck Jan 2018 #2
I've also handed out a few spinning rods and reels MineralMan Jan 2018 #4
Sunfish are a lot of fun to catch! kentuck Jan 2018 #5
Beautiful! Liberal Jesus Freak Jan 2018 #3
Thank you so much for posting this, kentuck. democrank Jan 2018 #6
What a memorable experience ! kentuck Jan 2018 #7
teach a kid to fish onethatcares Jan 2018 #8
I'm 76. I still remember the first fishI caught almost 70 years ago. trof Jan 2018 #9
Indeed. kentuck Jan 2018 #10

MineralMan

(146,307 posts)
1. Great story. Life was simpler, by far.
Sun Jan 7, 2018, 02:38 PM
Jan 2018

Not so simple, today, although...

There's a little 40 acre lake or pond about half a mile from my house in St. Paul, MN. During the Summer, I watch neighborhood children with fishing poles on their bicycles heading there. It's full of sunfish, crappies, and enough catfish to make it worth trying for them, too. Later, I see them coming home, with a stringer of fish to give to their mothers.

I sometimes fish there, myself. Usually, there are several kids fishing off the fishing pier built there by the city. I share hooks, line, bait, etc. with them, and show them ways to increase their catch. I'm the old white-haired, white-bearded neighbor who catches fish every time my hook hits the water. I'm happy to share both my catch and my knowledge with the kids.

Clearly, their mothers are frying up the catch for supper. That's a good thing.

The experience continues for some.

MineralMan

(146,307 posts)
4. I've also handed out a few spinning rods and reels
Sun Jan 7, 2018, 02:46 PM
Jan 2018

to the kids. When I see one who is fishing with some old broken equipment, I pass one of mine over to him or her. I pick the donation rods at garage sales for $5 or so, and have plenty of them to give away. I clean them up, get the spinning reels working properly, and spool them up with new line, a nice little bobber and a good hook for sunfish. Whenever I go there, I take a couple of spares with me, along with my nice, more expensive one.

"Here, kid. Use this one. It's yours," the old neighbor says...

Liberal Jesus Freak

(1,451 posts)
3. Beautiful!
Sun Jan 7, 2018, 02:44 PM
Jan 2018

I spent all my summers as a child in Eastern Kentucky with my grandparents. Sometimes I can still smell the inside of an old country store, the coal stove in their living room, and too many other memories to mention. Thanks for posting this

democrank

(11,094 posts)
6. Thank you so much for posting this, kentuck.
Sun Jan 7, 2018, 03:18 PM
Jan 2018

Your words were like a paintbrush which helped me recall our fishing hole,"The Moat", located beneath an old iron bridge in northern New England. We fished for hornpout and used mudworms gathered under the maple leaves beneath a rabbit cage. The cover on our old tin baitbox was bent and twisted so it required patience of a jigsaw puzzler.

Our hornpout was cooked in lard in a cast iron fry pan and drained on a paper bag. If we had a side dish it was cucumbers we borrowed from a neighbor's garden.

We had an outhouse, a cast iron pump in the kitchen sink, a huge galvanized container we dragged out for Saturday night baths. Our pantry had very little food but plenty of home brew, dandelion wine, and "pumpkin rum" in a giant crock. Parents were really proud of that stash.

Once a week our mother had us walk about two miles to the McAlister Farm to get eggs. We loved that trip because Mrs. McAlister always gave us a satchel of cookies for our walk home.

~A Simpler Time~




trof

(54,256 posts)
9. I'm 76. I still remember the first fishI caught almost 70 years ago.
Sun Jan 7, 2018, 06:02 PM
Jan 2018

It was a small bream.
A buddy's dad took us both to nearby Lake Purdy.
We used cane poles and dough balls for bait.
I was so excited I damn near lost the fish getting it off the hook.
I also found out that scaling fish was one of the messiest jobs there is.

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