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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsI have one question for the parents of Dr. Nasser's victims?
And other adults close to Nasser, also?When these young girls went to them and said he was abusing them? They all looked away and they were told nothing was going happen and the girls needed to focus on the team! This man was responsible for what he did and so should the others who looked away! This should have been stopped the very 1st time it happened! My question is how can these people even look in themselves in a mirror and they are not responsible for the action of Nasser? I perplexed and bewildered of the moral values of America, especially when we now have a president who abuses those around and it's ok to look the other way?
cilla4progress
(24,731 posts)are the athletes able to forgive them?
mucifer
(23,542 posts)imanamerican63
(13,787 posts)the point is the did not listen to the girls when they were told of the situation!
mucifer
(23,542 posts)it was found to be a read medical procedure.
Apparently it is a very very rare procedure done only with parents consent.
nassar is very manipulative. I don't blame the parents. Many of them did speak up when they knew.
It's just not that cut and dry.
imanamerican63
(13,787 posts)The girls knew something was wrong and people should have listened and check things out then! I get your point, but we live in a society where it is not "my place" to do fix the problem.
Major Nikon
(36,827 posts)There's no reason to suggest any parent was a co-conspirator of Nassar. Many did come forward. Others just didn't know what was going on.
cilla4progress
(24,731 posts)All I know is the women have said, "if only one adult came forward" it could have saved so many from harm. Does this include their parents?
LisaL
(44,973 posts)He even convinced police and prosecutors he was doing legit medical treatments, up until recently.
Major Nikon
(36,827 posts)LisaL
(44,973 posts)report the abuse, yet Nassar convinced police he was doing legit medical treatment so nothing was done.
"Ten years before Thomashow told Michigan State University police in 2014, a girl and her parents told the Meridian Township (Mich.) Police Department that Nassar sexually assaulted her during a medical appointment. Nassar met with police and the girl's parents and told them what he did was medical."
https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation-now/2018/01/26/larry-nassar-michigan-state-university-investigation/1069151001/
LisaL
(44,973 posts)MrsMatt
(1,660 posts)I firmly believe those parents are now blaming themselves for being duped.
imanamerican63
(13,787 posts)But there were 150 victims. That is an awful long time to let this happen.
LisaL
(44,973 posts)Including prosecutors and police. He was reported more than one time, and only the last go around he got charged.
"On July 1, 2015, university police submitted a warrant request for a fourth-degree criminal sexual conduct charge, a misdemeanor. On Dec. 15, 2015, prosecutors denied the charges and said what Nassar did appeared to be "a very innovative and helpful manipulation," emails related to the denial of charges show. "
https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation-now/2018/01/26/larry-nassar-michigan-state-university-investigation/1069151001/
WhiskeyGrinder
(22,337 posts)When you're in an elite organization and your kid is hurting, and the doctor says what he's doing will make your kid stop hurting, it's very easy to believe that the discomfort your kid is telling you about is part of the legitimate treatment.
MrsMatt
(1,660 posts)lunatica
(53,410 posts)Plenty of people responded to you on this thread. Evidently enough was said that police talked to him and were told he did medical procedures.
Unfortunately many sexual predators are quite good at building good defenses around their predation. Like priests, doctors have authority. Theyre therefore powerful and can get away with their predation forever sometimes.
Sexual predators pick professions and activities that get them close to their prey, and they manipulate everyone into trusting them.
Phoenix61
(17,003 posts)IluvPitties
(3,181 posts)As we say in Spanish, "Create your fame and go to sleep."