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reflection

(6,286 posts)
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 10:46 AM Jul 2012

My RW boss received an $1100 refund check from our health insurance company

and he is pissed. He is reflexively anti-Obama about everything. I will give him credit however, when we argue about politics, he keeps it professional. He'll get mad, but he usually doesn't get personal. So we have some spirited conversations.

Our insurance carrier sent our company an $1100 refund check. This sent the boss into a tizzy. He started ranting about "free money doesn't exist," (whatever that means) and that the country was going bankrupt because of policies like this. I explained that the money was previously being kept by the health insurance company, which brought nothing to the table, and the ACA mandated there were caps on revenue, so now the excess flows back to him.

He was still upset. I finally fell back on the same canard that the RWers use when we complain about tax cuts. I said "send it back to the insurance company, or even the government debt relief fund, if it offends you so much." He said no, Obama would just waste it. I said, "Ok, send it to Romney's campaign. You're a big Romney guy." He responded with a weak "no."

So, he's going to keep it, but he hates it. Here we have it folks, someone who was reimbursed by an insurance company because they are being made to cap profits and divert that money to care. And he's still pissed. There is no reaching these people.

I'm typing fast and don't have time proofread, apologies for any typos, malapropisms, or general dumb-assery. I am not the greatest storyteller. Just wanted to share.

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My RW boss received an $1100 refund check from our health insurance company (Original Post) reflection Jul 2012 OP
If he's working for a living, odds are strong your boss is not a 1%er or even a 10%er. If you think coalition_unwilling Jul 2012 #1
The Insurance Company overcharged him and they're refunding the overcharge. SharonAnn Jul 2012 #41
He's going to be one day though!!! obxhead Jul 2012 #56
He's upset because he knows he's wrong about ACA NightWatcher Jul 2012 #2
+1 KeepItReal Jul 2012 #39
He's angry because he has been proven wrong (once again). ..the right wing fantasy world... rfranklin Jul 2012 #3
Bingo. He's been caught in a lie. savalez Jul 2012 #11
nothing you can do about people who wont take yes for an answer mopinko Jul 2012 #4
Does he pay your entire premium? Oilwellian Jul 2012 #5
I don't participate in my company's health plan reflection Jul 2012 #13
Please tell him to get off our our road and to not call our fire departments. onehandle Jul 2012 #6
Yippee!!! meaculpa2011 Jul 2012 #7
Single payer would be much better. SalviaBlue Jul 2012 #21
Single payer might be... meaculpa2011 Jul 2012 #38
Remind him that if it didn't go back to him it would be in the bank accounts of a corporate.... Scuba Jul 2012 #8
I'll take it if he doesn't want it. 4th law of robotics Jul 2012 #9
What's he doing talking politics on company time? begin_within Jul 2012 #10
I'll get right on that. LOL n/t reflection Jul 2012 #16
If I'm not mistaken DenverDad Jul 2012 #12
I've heard RWers assert that retirement benefits are klook Jul 2012 #20
Didn't Bush give everyone $300 of government money? savalez Jul 2012 #14
No, the Democrats did. ieoeja Jul 2012 #36
Since Bush took credit for it savalez Jul 2012 #44
a rebate is not free money pepperbear Jul 2012 #15
So ask him if he enjoys OVER-PAYING a vendor for something? Lex Jul 2012 #17
I have explained why small businesses don't like ACA here NNN0LHI Jul 2012 #18
That's a good read reflection Jul 2012 #37
He is aware that Bain owns hate radio? Blanks Jul 2012 #40
Keep it but he hates it...let me guess... tjwash Jul 2012 #19
No, actually he doles out raises and bonuses quite often. reflection Jul 2012 #35
You can't fix stupid. TeamPooka Jul 2012 #22
Ask him if he keeps his tax refund. Courtesy Flush Jul 2012 #23
Huh? LondonReign2 Jul 2012 #24
This is no mystery. Read post #18 for a complete answer to this NNN0LHI Jul 2012 #25
Is that provision in force yet? I bet dolts like this boss don't even know about it. SunSeeker Jul 2012 #31
Glad this idiot is not my boss Pakid Jul 2012 #26
We actually have 3 equal partners running the business. reflection Jul 2012 #34
How is a refund of money he paid somehow "free money"? arcane1 Jul 2012 #27
He's a business owner who HATES getting money? Proud Liberal Dem Jul 2012 #28
He should give it to you as a bonus CanonRay Jul 2012 #29
He'd rather receive Bush's free-for-nothing $300 rebates because it encourages us to buy more stuff. bulloney Jul 2012 #30
If his employees paid any part of the HC costs, they may be entitled to some of the rebate. spooky3 Jul 2012 #32
Maybe he's mad because... DaveJ Jul 2012 #33
A lot of people seem to be under the impression... Blanks Jul 2012 #42
Saw this on another site as well Tsiyu Jul 2012 #43
should tell him that only RW states get the money back because their legislatures are in bed with grantcart Jul 2012 #45
probably Angry for the same reason some are Angry Obama had Bin Laden Killed JI7 Jul 2012 #46
Yes, during the course of the conversation reflection Jul 2012 #48
Wow, your boss is an idiot. Zoeisright Jul 2012 #47
"the country was going bankrupt because of policies like this" Tennessee Gal Jul 2012 #49
"the country was going bankrupt because of policies like this" area51 Jul 2012 #50
Face it friends people like your boss is to embarrassed to admit Obama was right. They will southernyankeebelle Jul 2012 #51
"There is no free money" is right Gman Jul 2012 #52
Best answer yet.... crazylikafox Jul 2012 #54
Oh man... reflection Jul 2012 #57
Slip it in on him next week Gman Jul 2012 #59
He aint pissed because he got a check. He loves the money notadmblnd Jul 2012 #53
Why, of all the corporations he deals with kestrel91316 Jul 2012 #55
brainwashed fascisthunter Jul 2012 #58
No love is greater than that of the slave for his master. I believe Marx said that. Monk06 Jul 2012 #60
he sounds like a raving lunatic spanone Jul 2012 #61
 

coalition_unwilling

(14,180 posts)
1. If he's working for a living, odds are strong your boss is not a 1%er or even a 10%er. If you think
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 10:49 AM
Jul 2012

reaching him justifies the effort, you might plant some 'concentration of wealth' factoids into your conversations. No need to cast blame. The mere assertion that the 6 Walmart heirs control as much wealth between them as the bottom 30 million Americans should give any non-1%er pause, I would think.

SharonAnn

(13,772 posts)
41. The Insurance Company overcharged him and they're refunding the overcharge.
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 03:05 PM
Jul 2012

It's that simple.

They're only allowed to charge a certain percentage over the cost of what they cover.

They charged him too much.

 

obxhead

(8,434 posts)
56. He's going to be one day though!!!
Sat Jul 28, 2012, 11:05 AM
Jul 2012

One day he's gonna be rich and use those tax loopholes to screw people just like him!

NightWatcher

(39,343 posts)
2. He's upset because he knows he's wrong about ACA
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 10:50 AM
Jul 2012

And it's pissing him off. Enjoy your Happy Dance of the SelfRighteous today.

 

rfranklin

(13,200 posts)
3. He's angry because he has been proven wrong (once again). ..the right wing fantasy world...
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 10:50 AM
Jul 2012

does not exist any more than the "workers' paradise" that we used to hear about.

Oilwellian

(12,647 posts)
5. Does he pay your entire premium?
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 10:53 AM
Jul 2012

If not, you will probably get a refund on part of the percentage you paid as well.

Secretly, you have to know, your boss is loving his refund.

reflection

(6,286 posts)
13. I don't participate in my company's health plan
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 11:22 AM
Jul 2012

my wife has better insurance, and so I am on hers.

He is a decent guy, as right wingers go.

If I am able to change him, it will be in the way that a rock in a stream is changed by erosion. Slowly and deliberately. But truly, I think he is beyond help. He is ultra-religious, the sort that will help on a micro-level, one-to-one. I've seen him in action. But he has no macro view of these things.

In other words, he'll help individuals, but programs which help large groups of people are evil and counterproductive to him because they foster dependence, sloth and such. Unless they are programs which help corporations, those are ok.

(In fact, now that I type this, I need to point out that if corporations are people, then corporate welfare should be no different to him than personal welfare. I think I just had an epiphany. But he'll probably fall back on the 'job creator' line and 'no poor person ever gave me a job canard.)

onehandle

(51,122 posts)
6. Please tell him to get off our our road and to not call our fire departments.
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 10:58 AM
Jul 2012

'Free money doesn't exist.'

meaculpa2011

(918 posts)
7. Yippee!!!
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 11:09 AM
Jul 2012

My health insurance rates have gone up 40% in the past three years and have more than doubled in the past ten. Close to $1,500 per month for a family of four.

Now they're gonna send me $138... maybe.

meaculpa2011

(918 posts)
38. Single payer might be...
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 02:29 PM
Jul 2012

might be marginally better, but I doubt it.

What we need is to do away with health insurance entirely. The health insurance model, whether private or public, puts the power in the hands of the bureaucrats while providers remain driven by the need to maximize profits.

Single provider is the only way to take the profit out of healthcare.

If it works for the VA and NHS it can work for all.

My Dad gets all of his heathcare (including dental, hearing, eye care) through the VA and his treatment is extraordinary.

 

Scuba

(53,475 posts)
8. Remind him that if it didn't go back to him it would be in the bank accounts of a corporate....
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 11:12 AM
Jul 2012

... investors in London, Hong Kong and Tokyo.

DenverDad

(353 posts)
12. If I'm not mistaken
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 11:20 AM
Jul 2012

1. This isn't "free money". This is money that HIS company paid (or overpaid) to an insurance company, and is now being refunded.

AND

2. Because this refund comes from an insurance company and NOT the government, it won't bankrupt the nation and certainly won't add to the deficit.

klook

(12,154 posts)
20. I've heard RWers assert that retirement benefits are
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 12:38 PM
Jul 2012

"free money." some of them will never let reality kill their fantasies.

 

ieoeja

(9,748 posts)
36. No, the Democrats did.
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 01:57 PM
Jul 2012

Bush spent the election saying we should cut taxes because the economy was good. When the economy turned sour, he said we should cut taxes because the economy was bad.

Democrats only agreed to the tax holiday if we included a $300 pre-emptive tax refund. Bush agreed then made certain every check was emblazoned with "Bush Tax Cut".

All in all, one of the Democratic Party's stupidiest moves.


savalez

(3,517 posts)
44. Since Bush took credit for it
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 08:22 PM
Jul 2012

I still wonder how the OP's boss felt.

Bush spent the election saying we should cut taxes because the economy was good. When the economy turned sour, he said we should cut taxes because the economy was bad.


Yikes, that's some logic.

pepperbear

(5,648 posts)
15. a rebate is not free money
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 11:32 AM
Jul 2012

it's either a discount or it implies that one payed too much in the first place.

reflection

(6,286 posts)
37. That's a good read
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 02:06 PM
Jul 2012

and I think there is validity to it. But that's not this guy's hot button. He's just eaten up with the 'socialist' and 'you didn't build that' type stuff, whatever they tell him to hear on the local AM radio station, where we have RW talk radio from dawn to dusk. His stance is rooted purely in emotion, most of it loathing for Obama.

When Obama won in 2008, I brought in a bunch of donuts and offered him a glazed O as a peace offering, since we clashed a lot leading up to the election. He wasn't happy about that either but ate the donut. I think I see a pattern...

Blanks

(4,835 posts)
40. He is aware that Bain owns hate radio?
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 03:00 PM
Jul 2012

Of course hate radio doesn't like Obama; he doesn't own their sorry asses.

tjwash

(8,219 posts)
19. Keep it but he hates it...let me guess...
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 12:35 PM
Jul 2012

...he's the type of boss who will say "I screwed you on your performance eval, but I feel real bad about it"

reflection

(6,286 posts)
35. No, actually he doles out raises and bonuses quite often.
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 01:53 PM
Jul 2012

Like I said elsewhere in the thread, great at one-on-one relationships, horrible at seeing the larger picture. I definitely work for an unusual company.

Courtesy Flush

(4,558 posts)
23. Ask him if he keeps his tax refund.
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 12:53 PM
Jul 2012

If you over-pay your taxes, they give you the money back. If you over-pay your insurance premiums, same thing.

LondonReign2

(5,213 posts)
24. Huh?
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 12:59 PM
Jul 2012

So he is mad that a corporation can no longer enrich itself (as much) at his expense? He is siding with excess corporate profits over his own wallet? That doesn't make sense even for a right winger.

I think someone above nailed it: he is mad only because he was wrong about the ACA and now his nose is being rubbed in it.

SunSeeker

(51,550 posts)
31. Is that provision in force yet? I bet dolts like this boss don't even know about it.
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 01:17 PM
Jul 2012

I think this boss is just one of those Fox News brainwashed racist a-holes that reflexively hates anything connected with Obama.

But he did keep the check.

Pakid

(478 posts)
26. Glad this idiot is not my boss
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 01:09 PM
Jul 2012

If this fool own the business it a miracle that it still in business If he just runs it for someone else who have to wonder just how stupid they are to have hired this fool to run it!

reflection

(6,286 posts)
34. We actually have 3 equal partners running the business.
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 01:51 PM
Jul 2012

one is an extremely informed liberal, very far to the left.
one is a minimally informed conservative, very far to the right (this is the guy in the OP)
one is a completely politically uninformed conservative, VERY far to the right.
I admit they are all very nice people on a micro level. Good bosses. It's their macro policies that really highlight their differences.

It takes any two of them to make something happen. Surprisingly, most of the policy ends up being shaped by the liberal boss. His arguments are generally so airtight and well-constructed that they can't successfully be countered. And most of the employees gravitate to this guy as well. He is the unofficial alpha male of the three bosses.

The model works, surprisingly. We are turning great profits and by and large, most people are happy (except when the they get eeeeevil rebate checks in the mail. )

 

arcane1

(38,613 posts)
27. How is a refund of money he paid somehow "free money"?
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 01:10 PM
Jul 2012

I suspect, like many have already said, he's mad because an Obama policy actually benefited him

Proud Liberal Dem

(24,412 posts)
28. He's a business owner who HATES getting money?
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 01:13 PM
Jul 2012

Well, I'm sure the envelope has a return address and the insurance provider won't mind.

bulloney

(4,113 posts)
30. He'd rather receive Bush's free-for-nothing $300 rebates because it encourages us to buy more stuff.
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 01:16 PM
Jul 2012

This country has gotten so politically polarized that I think most people would cut off their noses to spite their faces if it was in line with their politics.

spooky3

(34,444 posts)
32. If his employees paid any part of the HC costs, they may be entitled to some of the rebate.
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 01:25 PM
Jul 2012

OP's boss needs to read the letter that accompanied the check.

DaveJ

(5,023 posts)
33. Maybe he's mad because...
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 01:47 PM
Jul 2012

He doesn't know how to evade taxes on the $1,100 check. Or perhaps it foils some other aspect of his accounting.

Blanks

(4,835 posts)
42. A lot of people seem to be under the impression...
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 03:10 PM
Jul 2012

...that taxes have been going up because even though they've gotten a raise they take home less money. Meanwhile their insurance rates are what have been increasing.

If be interested to know what percentage of people toil away angrily under that misconception.

Obviously your boss isn't in this category, but people are surprisingly stupid.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
43. Saw this on another site as well
Fri Jul 27, 2012, 03:41 PM
Jul 2012


Someone saying, "Just got a check from my insurance co and I am PISSED."

I can only assume they are pissed because:

A) They don't want to admit that the evil Kenyan Socialist Muslim Marxist could do anything economically to help the "job creators."

B) They know there will be a lot of happy people getting a little break in life due to this, and they're afraid they may vote for Obama because of it.

These are people who do not want a better nation, when you look at how they act. They only wish to be RIGHT about their fantasies and illusions and hatred. Who cares if people overpaid before, taking money out of our economy? Who cares if ACA makes insurance companies do what they're supposed to do?

You've really got to be nuts to think a rebate - extra cash - is something to be upset about. Proving - rightwingers are NUTSO.



grantcart

(53,061 posts)
45. should tell him that only RW states get the money back because their legislatures are in bed with
Sat Jul 28, 2012, 12:49 AM
Jul 2012

the state lobbyists who allow the health insurance companies to overcharge him, up until now.

In Texas 92% of the policies will be getting a refund.

In Hawaii none.

He's been ripped off for years.

JI7

(89,248 posts)
46. probably Angry for the same reason some are Angry Obama had Bin Laden Killed
Sat Jul 28, 2012, 12:56 AM
Jul 2012

they can't stand that Obama is right.

hahha, love the no to the romney campaign though.

reflection

(6,286 posts)
48. Yes, during the course of the conversation
Sat Jul 28, 2012, 08:19 AM
Jul 2012

He revealed that he is voting for Romney, even though, quote, "Mormons are nutjobs. Anybody but Obama, though."

All you can with a guy like that is continue to throw his knowledge balls. If he chooses not to catch them, so be it. Maybe someone around him will catch one or two.

Tennessee Gal

(6,160 posts)
49. "the country was going bankrupt because of policies like this"
Sat Jul 28, 2012, 08:33 AM
Jul 2012

Is it a United States government check? Of course not! It is a check from the insurance company. Therefore, that statement he made exhibits excessive stupidity.

One way to make a valid point with him would be to search for the profits made annually by that insurance company and show them to him. That company has been over charging and now that is being stopped. This is a good thing to any logical person.

area51

(11,908 posts)
50. "the country was going bankrupt because of policies like this"
Sat Jul 28, 2012, 09:46 AM
Jul 2012

Actually, our country is going bankrupt due to a huge military, black ops organizations, and multiple wars of choice.

 

southernyankeebelle

(11,304 posts)
51. Face it friends people like your boss is to embarrassed to admit Obama was right. They will
Sat Jul 28, 2012, 09:46 AM
Jul 2012

back pedal all they want. You answered him the right way. They never know what to say when you give them that type of answer. I bet though he'll save it for a rainy day.

Gman

(24,780 posts)
59. Slip it in on him next week
Sat Jul 28, 2012, 10:06 PM
Jul 2012

"you know, I've been thinking about what you said about no free money, and you're right..."

Maybe he'll think about it differently.

notadmblnd

(23,720 posts)
53. He aint pissed because he got a check. He loves the money
Sat Jul 28, 2012, 10:14 AM
Jul 2012

he's pissed because he was wrong. Wrong on all counts of his reasoning. Pissed because he believed all the BS sold to him. I'd bet your boss almost never admits that he is wrong about anything.

 

kestrel91316

(51,666 posts)
55. Why, of all the corporations he deals with
Sat Jul 28, 2012, 10:48 AM
Jul 2012

(you know, suppliers and such), does he choose THIS one to be unhappy about a refund with???

Any other company he deals with, if they admitted they overcharged and sent a refund, he'd be thrilled.

RWers are clinically insane.

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