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hexola

(4,835 posts)
Wed Aug 1, 2018, 08:51 AM Aug 2018

CNN - I've had enough of the weepy grandfather who's kids were killed in the fire!!!

How much more will CNN exploit this story?

We had enough of it over the weekend - and here comes Camerota to fire it back up.

ENOUGH! We get it!

(I'll admit - I think A. Camerota SUCKS - bring back CC!)

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CNN - I've had enough of the weepy grandfather who's kids were killed in the fire!!! (Original Post) hexola Aug 2018 OP
"weepy grandfather who's kids were killed in the fire" ... marble falls Aug 2018 #1
I did!!! hexola Aug 2018 #3
If you've seen the same segment 20 times, might be time to turn off cable news once in a while. Ace Rothstein Aug 2018 #22
Wrong - this was an ALL NEW LIVE segment...this morning hexola Aug 2018 #26
wtf ? stonecutter357 Aug 2018 #2
The news its bad enough - no need to trot the grandparents out to cry on camera! hexola Aug 2018 #4
"trot the grandparents out to cry on camera" Shame on you. marble falls Aug 2018 #5
This is the second video segment they have produced hexola Aug 2018 #7
If anybody is "milking" anything, it is you wanting sympathy for your feelings. tonyt53 Aug 2018 #6
It's "whose." cwydro Aug 2018 #8
Might want to turn up the filter a notch, there. kcr Aug 2018 #9
I watched that and had the same thoughts underpants Aug 2018 #10
Thank You!!! hexola Aug 2018 #12
She did a good job pulling it back from him saying he could have done something underpants Aug 2018 #15
Then stop watching it. kwassa Aug 2018 #11
Not a good look, this post markses66 Aug 2018 #13
hex got it spot on underpants Aug 2018 #17
absolutely correct - extremely insensitive DrDan Aug 2018 #23
Needs to be out there MaryMagdaline Aug 2018 #14
You can do that without repeatedly exploiting their grief hexola Aug 2018 #16
I Agree RobinA Aug 2018 #32
I call this disaster porn and won't watch WhiteTara Aug 2018 #18
It's like putting a rape victim on live TV and saying "Tell us what happened..." hexola Aug 2018 #19
That is a very apt comparison. WhiteTara Aug 2018 #20
I'd imagine the people being interviewed agreed. cwydro Aug 2018 #27
wow - I assume you have an on-off switch, or a means by which you can change channels DrDan Aug 2018 #21
The Point is Not RobinA Aug 2018 #33
a man losing his wife and two grandchildren in the fire is not news - got it DrDan Aug 2018 #39
What an embarassing post. I'd recommend deleting it. FSogol Aug 2018 #24
Boomerang hexola Aug 2018 #25
Did you have the same reaction... ADX Aug 2018 #28
You're missing the point... hexola Aug 2018 #29
The empathy gene is in short supply in america today. Trust Buster Aug 2018 #30
OP might not be in america ! stonecutter357 Aug 2018 #31
Repeatedly Showing RobinA Aug 2018 #34
Utterly ridiculous. The majority of posters responding to this thread have no problem with the Trust Buster Aug 2018 #36
I Don't Think RobinA Aug 2018 #37
Im not fond of having my empathy taxed... hexola Aug 2018 #38
How compassionate of you mcar Aug 2018 #35
CNN has always been quick to stuff a mic into the face of the grieving Alea Aug 2018 #40
 

hexola

(4,835 posts)
3. I did!!!
Wed Aug 1, 2018, 08:56 AM
Aug 2018

My freaking sensitivity is worn out from the 20 times I had to see this segment over the weekend.

 

hexola

(4,835 posts)
26. Wrong - this was an ALL NEW LIVE segment...this morning
Wed Aug 1, 2018, 09:44 AM
Aug 2018

This happened 3 days ago and was covered over and over...mostly by way of a horrific live interview with the grandfather.

No need for a fresh live interview...gratuitous.

 

hexola

(4,835 posts)
4. The news its bad enough - no need to trot the grandparents out to cry on camera!
Wed Aug 1, 2018, 08:56 AM
Aug 2018

They milked this all weekend - enough!

 

hexola

(4,835 posts)
7. This is the second video segment they have produced
Wed Aug 1, 2018, 09:00 AM
Aug 2018

The first one pretty much told the story.

Do you really feel better listening to a man tell a story of listening to his grandson die?

Reporting it is bad enough...do you want to see the body?

 

tonyt53

(5,737 posts)
6. If anybody is "milking" anything, it is you wanting sympathy for your feelings.
Wed Aug 1, 2018, 08:59 AM
Aug 2018

Turn your TV back to Comedy Central or Nick, Jr. Compassion is one thing you know nothing about.

 

hexola

(4,835 posts)
12. Thank You!!!
Wed Aug 1, 2018, 09:12 AM
Aug 2018

The reporter on-the-scene who encountered this fellow was not wrong to do the story...but he said it was the hardest interview he's ever done.

I guess A Camerota thought that sounded nice - so she got them on again for a little more. That's the exploitative part...not cool.

underpants

(182,826 posts)
15. She did a good job pulling it back from him saying he could have done something
Wed Aug 1, 2018, 09:17 AM
Aug 2018

She diverted into being about the lack of evacuation orders.

He couldn't have done anything. I can't imagine but I can empathize where he is. Seems like a stand-up good guy and his wife helped to bring it back to another discussion.

There was no need for that interview. They have much more important things to deal with right now.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
11. Then stop watching it.
Wed Aug 1, 2018, 09:10 AM
Aug 2018

Watching too much cable news is not good for you, as it is highly repetitive. They generally beat real stories and non-stories and minor controversies into the ground.

MaryMagdaline

(6,855 posts)
14. Needs to be out there
Wed Aug 1, 2018, 09:16 AM
Aug 2018

Trump is ignoring California fires, children in cages

Let the rest of the country know what he is ignoring

 

hexola

(4,835 posts)
16. You can do that without repeatedly exploiting their grief
Wed Aug 1, 2018, 09:18 AM
Aug 2018

on live TV...once was enough - they got their sound bites.

I guess Camerota wanted to have live sad with them for her show...lame

RobinA

(9,893 posts)
32. I Agree
Wed Aug 1, 2018, 01:06 PM
Aug 2018

I don't even watch TV news AT ALL and I keep tripping over this story. It was on radio and in the paper. The FIRST time I ran across it I turned it down thinking it was too exploitive. The next day it was on the radio again. Then in the paper complete with pictures of the whole family. Let this poor man in peace or some family member please rescue him. ENOUGH!

WhiteTara

(29,718 posts)
18. I call this disaster porn and won't watch
Wed Aug 1, 2018, 09:28 AM
Aug 2018

I'm so sorry for all the people and animals and the forest. I just won't watch the exploitation of grief.

 

hexola

(4,835 posts)
19. It's like putting a rape victim on live TV and saying "Tell us what happened..."
Wed Aug 1, 2018, 09:32 AM
Aug 2018

Seems we generally don't do that...

Don't think Im splitting hairs here...

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
27. I'd imagine the people being interviewed agreed.
Wed Aug 1, 2018, 09:47 AM
Aug 2018

Turn off your tv; go take a walk.

Of all the things to be upset about...

DrDan

(20,411 posts)
21. wow - I assume you have an on-off switch, or a means by which you can change channels
Wed Aug 1, 2018, 09:37 AM
Aug 2018

is it too much to ask that you make use of those modern innovations?

"we"?????

RobinA

(9,893 posts)
33. The Point is Not
Wed Aug 1, 2018, 01:14 PM
Aug 2018

that someone objecting has to watch it. I turned my radio off the first time I heard this story, but - newsflash - that doesn't mean it stops happening. The problem is that the news is exploiting the situation, a human being facing a tragedy. Some people think it's fairly barbaric to feature crying Grandpops who just lost their families as ratings getters. The fire is the news, not upset family members.

DrDan

(20,411 posts)
39. a man losing his wife and two grandchildren in the fire is not news - got it
Wed Aug 1, 2018, 02:03 PM
Aug 2018

I am sorry your radio listening was interrupted. You did the right thing by turning it off. But I am not sure why you would be at all concerned that it was rebroadcast if your radio was off . . . but . . . I guess you were/are.

cold, insensitive, callous - those words come to mind.

 

ADX

(1,622 posts)
28. Did you have the same reaction...
Wed Aug 1, 2018, 09:47 AM
Aug 2018

...when CNN repeatedly played footage of the poor woman who lost 11 members of her family in that duck boat disaster a few weeks ago?

I don't remember you posting your outrage about it...

 

hexola

(4,835 posts)
29. You're missing the point...
Wed Aug 1, 2018, 09:54 AM
Aug 2018

When it comes to the duck boat - CNN had the one live event - that looked like a press conference or something...not something CNN had a hand in - they just covered it.

And no - that woman was surprisingly calm describing her last moments with her children - not as outrageous.

The issue here is - after repeatedly airing this horrific segment with the grandfather describing listening to his grandson die on his cell phone.

CNN - then makes sure they get the grandfather on live TV AGAIN this morning - so A. Camerota can have her moment of grief with them...shameful and unnecessary to cover this tragedy.

RobinA

(9,893 posts)
34. Repeatedly Showing
Wed Aug 1, 2018, 01:16 PM
Aug 2018

permutations of this story is empathy? I missed that somehow. To me, empathy would be turning off the friggin' camera.

 

Trust Buster

(7,299 posts)
36. Utterly ridiculous. The majority of posters responding to this thread have no problem with the
Wed Aug 1, 2018, 01:27 PM
Aug 2018

Coverage. CNN has the right to “turn on their cameras” whenever they want. They don’t need to seek your permission. You have the right to watch or turn the channel. #EMPATHY

RobinA

(9,893 posts)
37. I Don't Think
Wed Aug 1, 2018, 01:54 PM
Aug 2018

I argued that CNN didn't have the right to turn on their cameras. Having the right to do something and said something being the right thing to do are two totally different things. In fact, this discussion hasn't mentioned rights at all. It started with the OP disliking the media's constant badgering of this man and milking his grief. He or she was responded to by spurious comments about his or her level of empathy and concern. I was simply chiming in with my agreement with the OP and my lack of understanding as to how feeling that grieving people should not be badgered by the news media was showing a lack of empathy.

Argumentum ad populum, pfffft. A fallacy.

 

hexola

(4,835 posts)
38. Im not fond of having my empathy taxed...
Wed Aug 1, 2018, 02:02 PM
Aug 2018

I was empathetic the first time 3 days ago - after that, its just too much to listen to over and over.

And - this morning's live spot was totally unnecessary.

mcar

(42,334 posts)
35. How compassionate of you
Wed Aug 1, 2018, 01:22 PM
Aug 2018

BTW, interviews with the "weepy grandfather" who listened to his grandchildren and wife as they died, have been on CBS and, I assume, other news programs as well.

Alea

(706 posts)
40. CNN has always been quick to stuff a mic into the face of the grieving
Wed Aug 1, 2018, 02:15 PM
Aug 2018

and act like they're doing a public service. I'm surprised they stopped talking about trump long enough to do the interview at all.

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