I graduated from university in the early 80's.
I went to a very competitive university, and participated in a difficult curriculum.
I had a large circle of friends, both men and women. As was common at that time, and probably now, all of us occasionally drank our faces off, usually in the campus pub. We also held jobs while attending classes. Along with several people in my circle, I worked up to 30 hours a week while taking a full load of classes.
I'm going to sound like a judgmental old man, but you see, we had neither the time, nor the inclination to "run trains" on women. I met some genuinely good and decent people while there. We drank occasionally to kill stress and to celebrate accomplishments. Since we also worked, we kind of realized that we could not afford to be hung over too often.
I was local to my university, and so were many of my friends. However, the majority of students that I knew were from a large east coast city. They attended the university on their parent's dime. They didn't have to work. And many of them did not have to work very hard at their coursework either, because many of them were very intelligent, if not bonafide geniuses. I guess you had to be since the school was so competitive. I had a leg up since I was local, and I also transferred from a 2 year school, where I received straight A's for all 4 semesters. Was it not for those two factors, I never would have been accepted at this school.
I formed a heavy bias at that time against the students from the city concerning their privileged lives. They were children of very successful parents. And they did not have to work. They would have parties several times a week in the dorms, that not many local people were invited to (I lived off campus, as did the people I associated with). They would tell stories of the sexual activity that occurred at these parties. The men would talk of their conquests with women. They were proud of all of this, and they considered themselves to be special. They did not recognize that they could not be living the life that they were had it not been for the wealth of their parents. Also, many of these people seemed not to care at all about other people, and the consequences of their actions. Even at that young age, I could recognize this intuitively.
A large percentage of these people (especially men) were fucking assholes then, and based on what is happening on the news today, I have no problems painting with a broad brush and saying that many of them are probably still fucking assholes.
I do not know anything about Kavanaugh's and Judge's background. Their backgrounds may be the opposite of what I am describing above. But here's what I do know...I know the type of people they are. BMOC's (big men on campus). God's gift to women. Fucking assholes.
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you disapprove of gang rape. So you can sleep easy tonight! 
