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Peacetrain

(22,875 posts)
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 11:38 AM Nov 2018

Disparage me if you must.. But my Christmas Tree is UP!!

As a child we NEVER put up our tree until about a week before Christmas.. It was always fresh.. and as a young adult, I was adamant that I would not put up a tree right after Thanksgiving.. and never ever use a faux tree..

Time moves on.. I become a parent, and stories about trees catching on fire, had me buying that fire resistant faux tree.. and it kept getting put up earlier every year..

I am now an older adult, and my child is 31.. and I was still complaining about the trees that go up so early especially right after Thanksgiving..

Well my friends, my faux tree is up and the lights are all lit, because I am celebrating our wonderful blue wave that took back the House..

I am celebrating.. with my tree and lights, and yes egg nog and brandy..

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Disparage me if you must.. But my Christmas Tree is UP!! (Original Post) Peacetrain Nov 2018 OP
I'm purging my closets so my tree is going up this weekend! : ) nt chowder66 Nov 2018 #1
My heart is just singing.. Peacetrain Nov 2018 #2
I'm not quite where you are yet but I do feel a lifting of stress - how weird, before the holidays! chowder66 Nov 2018 #8
I started feeling less stress the moment that we took back the house. pazzyanne Nov 2018 #30
I'll tell everyone who asks why it's up that it's in honor of the blue wave. : ) nt chowder66 Nov 2018 #46
If I had a faux tree... zanana1 Nov 2018 #3
ROFL!! Peacetrain Nov 2018 #10
Good for you! Crutchez_CuiBono Nov 2018 #4
Ahh celebrating with a reason Peacetrain Nov 2018 #15
No disparagement here, if you enjoy it treestar Nov 2018 #5
The blue tsunami inspired me to put the tree and lights on Peacetrain Nov 2018 #12
I need some joy in my life too. redstatebluegirl Nov 2018 #6
That was how I felt.. I am ready for a little joy myself Peacetrain Nov 2018 #9
Great! LyndaG Nov 2018 #7
Good for you!! Peacetrain Nov 2018 #13
I'm thinking lots of blue lights on the tree this year. StarryNite Nov 2018 #11
I said the same thing to my husband as he was winding lights around the tree Peacetrain Nov 2018 #14
There's been a return of enjoyment! eleny Nov 2018 #16
For you. Note the background. Crutchez_CuiBono Nov 2018 #17
When the war on Christmas starts... ret5hd Nov 2018 #18
There will be a lot of us in the "deserters' barracks". pazzyanne Nov 2018 #31
Enjoy your tree! displacedtexan Nov 2018 #19
whatever floats your boat... hlthe2b Nov 2018 #20
Beaut! We're in the process of moving... MerryBlooms Nov 2018 #21
I like your style. beveeheart Nov 2018 #22
Our Winter Holiday Tree goes up the day after Thanksgiving. MineralMan Nov 2018 #23
We have 3 wonderful cats and a green fake tree with colored twinkling lights. mithnanthy Nov 2018 #25
I guess we can't count on you to be a soldier in the war against Christmas Poiuyt Nov 2018 #24
Sorry, nope! pazzyanne Nov 2018 #32
If it is not too soon for QVC and HSN and EVINE... not_the_one Nov 2018 #39
Sorry, no. From another of my posts on this thread... pazzyanne Nov 2018 #43
I want to deck my house in lights AND plant a big war on xmas sign in my yard Politicub Nov 2018 #36
You go right ahead! In the little commercial village near our house, trees along the parkway are calimary Nov 2018 #26
I don't celebrate xmas, but hey, go for it mastermind Nov 2018 #27
It doesn't have to be a commercial freak show. pazzyanne Nov 2018 #33
It is indeed a commercial freak show, and I'm broke AF this year, but... Politicub Nov 2018 #37
I usually try to put my lighted window wreaths up right after Thanksgiving BumRushDaShow Nov 2018 #28
Good for you! Enjoy! I wish I could share in your happiness, but I'm in FL lunamagica Nov 2018 #29
I admit, I am feeling a LOT more jolly this year!!! Adrahil Nov 2018 #34
I've had the Christmas tree impulse, too! Politicub Nov 2018 #35
Well, at least you're not in the "before Halloween" group ... libdem4life Nov 2018 #38
you do what ever brings you joy! tiredtoo Nov 2018 #40
Sometimes lillypaddle Nov 2018 #41
Before Thanksgiving? Well, I suppose we should be glad you waited until after Halloween. Nitram Nov 2018 #42
If it makes you happy and doesn't hurt anyone, DO IT. Martin Eden Nov 2018 #44
This Jew says... Still In Wisconsin Nov 2018 #45
That's the spirit lunamagica Nov 2018 #48
Happy Festival of Lights!!! Peacetrain Nov 2018 #58
Disparge... tree up Nuffer Nov 2018 #47
I haven't done lights on the house for two years central scrutinizer Nov 2018 #49
... SammyWinstonJack Nov 2018 #51
Reaching out in spirit Peacetrain Nov 2018 #57
Whatever makes you happy is good enough for me. 912gdm Nov 2018 #50
K&R... spanone Nov 2018 #52
Bravo! Olafjoy Nov 2018 #53
Nice I did put a few things samplegirl Nov 2018 #54
Cool. I'd consider doing it too but... ecstatic Nov 2018 #55
We always do ours the day after Thanksgiving Luciferous Nov 2018 #56
Mine will go up but Raine Nov 2018 #59
I will not disparage you, certainly not. I will only parage you. grantcart Nov 2018 #60
For shame... cynatnite Nov 2018 #61
Have my outside lights up and lit.... Heartstrings Nov 2018 #62

Peacetrain

(22,875 posts)
2. My heart is just singing..
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 11:43 AM
Nov 2018

I have not felt this good about our politics in 2 years.. ready for a fresh start

chowder66

(9,067 posts)
8. I'm not quite where you are yet but I do feel a lifting of stress - how weird, before the holidays!
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 11:48 AM
Nov 2018

I think this win was needed to stop the collective accelerated aging of anyone who pays attention to our politics.

pazzyanne

(6,552 posts)
30. I started feeling less stress the moment that we took back the house.
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 01:34 PM
Nov 2018

It is amazing what regaining a little power can do for ones outlook on any situation. As for Christmas trees, we always put up faux trees in the basement rec room and a small Victorian theme tree in the living room. Our "real" tree went up in the family room about 10 days before Christmas eve. I love decorating for Christmas and approve strongly of using you tree to celebrate the blue wave.

Peacetrain

(22,875 posts)
12. The blue tsunami inspired me to put the tree and lights on
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 11:50 AM
Nov 2018

my way of smiling to myself ear to ear when I turn them on at night..

redstatebluegirl

(12,265 posts)
6. I need some joy in my life too.
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 11:46 AM
Nov 2018

We invited some students over this weekend to help put up the tree, have some hot cider and cookies. The kids seemed so excited when we asked if anyone wanted to help.

It has been a long year, I need some joy and my tree and trimmings give it to me. I am glad I'm not alone!

Peacetrain

(22,875 posts)
14. I said the same thing to my husband as he was winding lights around the tree
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 11:51 AM
Nov 2018

"We need a string of just blue ones"!!

ret5hd

(20,491 posts)
18. When the war on Christmas starts...
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 11:54 AM
Nov 2018

1) We will be sure to put you in the deserters barracks!

2) We should answer "Merry Christmas" with "All holidays matter!"

pazzyanne

(6,552 posts)
31. There will be a lot of us in the "deserters' barracks".
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 01:38 PM
Nov 2018

I never stopped saying "Merry Christmas", but that is just my stubborn streak showing, I guess. Meanwhile, back to celebrating the blue wave.

displacedtexan

(15,696 posts)
19. Enjoy your tree!
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 11:57 AM
Nov 2018

And make some wonderful new memories! It's really hard not to smile when we see people spreading joy and good will, no matter the time of year. Peace.

MerryBlooms

(11,769 posts)
21. Beaut! We're in the process of moving...
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 12:14 PM
Nov 2018

Our move-in date is mid December, so I have no idea if we'll have our tree up. We may just purchase a little table top live tree, just so there is a bit of a festive feeling.

Enjoy your tree and the warm feelings it brings.

mithnanthy

(1,725 posts)
25. We have 3 wonderful cats and a green fake tree with colored twinkling lights.
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 01:22 PM
Nov 2018

We have many beautiful cat ornaments and our cats never disturb the tree. They like to lay near it and last year we decided to leave the tree up all year because we all like the glow at night. It casts a peaceful and happy mood all year long, every night.

pazzyanne

(6,552 posts)
43. Sorry, no. From another of my posts on this thread...
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 02:36 PM
Nov 2018

"We do homemade gifts using our special talents. Everything from sewing to home baked goodies, to woodworking, to artistic items are exchanged. It is a celebration of our talents and creativity."

I don't do home shopping networks, never have and never will. I have a plan for where my money goes, and it does not go to home shopping networks.

Politicub

(12,165 posts)
36. I want to deck my house in lights AND plant a big war on xmas sign in my yard
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 01:54 PM
Nov 2018

Keeps 'em guessing.

calimary

(81,238 posts)
26. You go right ahead! In the little commercial village near our house, trees along the parkway are
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 01:28 PM
Nov 2018

already lit up for the season. And it's not Thanksgiving yet.

I'm considering putting some lights up now, too. Go ahead and do it, and call it "Celebrating the Mid-Terms!"

 

mastermind

(229 posts)
27. I don't celebrate xmas, but hey, go for it
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 01:31 PM
Nov 2018

To me, is nothing but another commercial freak show to fatten the profits of wall street darlings.

pazzyanne

(6,552 posts)
33. It doesn't have to be a commercial freak show.
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 01:42 PM
Nov 2018

We do homemade gifts using our special talents. Everything from sewing to home baked goodies, to woodworking, to artistic items are exchanged. It is a celebration of our talents and creativity.

Politicub

(12,165 posts)
37. It is indeed a commercial freak show, and I'm broke AF this year, but...
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 01:56 PM
Nov 2018

decorating the house for the holidays is how we celebrate the coming of winter.

Gifts will be in short supply this year. But Joy will be in our home in abundance.

BumRushDaShow

(128,922 posts)
28. I usually try to put my lighted window wreaths up right after Thanksgiving
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 01:31 PM
Nov 2018

and had originally planned to try red lights on them vs the blue that I have on them right now. But looks like I may end up keeping the blue on them again this year!

Politicub

(12,165 posts)
35. I've had the Christmas tree impulse, too!
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 01:52 PM
Nov 2018

I was thinking, why not do something crazy and put the tree up before Thanksgiving this year.

My husband wants to put the lights on the house early. Maybe we'll have some of our landscaping lit in beautiful blue.

 

libdem4life

(13,877 posts)
38. Well, at least you're not in the "before Halloween" group ...
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 01:59 PM
Nov 2018

even the "before Thanksgiving" crowd still catches it somewhat.

Love how it makes you feel...stand strong...pun intended.

Maybe if we left them up all year long, we'd continue that "Peace and Good Will" is the state of the land and not just the season. Unfortunately, it would have to be a faux tree.

Martin Eden

(12,864 posts)
44. If it makes you happy and doesn't hurt anyone, DO IT.
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 02:39 PM
Nov 2018

Nevertheless, Christmas season does NOT start until Santa makes his appearance in the Thanksgiving Day parade.

Just sayin'

Nuffer

(40 posts)
47. Disparge... tree up
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 02:43 PM
Nov 2018

There were six children in our 4 room house with an outdoor bathroom....my mom put our tree up one month before xmas...she loves xmas...she kept it up until the day after Santa showed to our delight...then out it would go..six kids in a 4 room house with a tree that took up too much space for a month was her way of instilling the wonder of xmas. I followed doing the same...so enjoy your tree and bah humbug to those who think you are not following proper protocol...scrooges all

central scrutinizer

(11,648 posts)
49. I haven't done lights on the house for two years
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 07:23 PM
Nov 2018

In 2016 my wife was dying from cancer. Coupled with the election, there was no cause to be celebratory. She died in 2017 and again I had nothing. But this year, my grief is manageable and white supremacists have been slapped down, so up go the lights.

912gdm

(959 posts)
50. Whatever makes you happy is good enough for me.
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 07:35 PM
Nov 2018

Im a 'few days after thanksgiving' guy myself, but to each their own.




and to the haters of your decision. it's not their decision when you want to start being festive.

Olafjoy

(937 posts)
53. Bravo!
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 08:06 PM
Nov 2018

Tree goes up next week but the evergreen scented things are plugged in🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄

ecstatic

(32,701 posts)
55. Cool. I'd consider doing it too but...
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 08:55 PM
Nov 2018

I don't know... Feeling a little lazy, though it would be cool to beat my neighbors this year.

Raine

(30,540 posts)
59. Mine will go up but
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 09:26 PM
Nov 2018

not till sometime after Thanksgiving. I don't like to rush the holidays, it makes it feel like time is going too fast.

grantcart

(53,061 posts)
60. I will not disparage you, certainly not. I will only parage you.
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 09:36 PM
Nov 2018

Not a disgruntled employee, only grunted and happily you will find that I am not dismembered but completely membered.

Not dishonest but honest and not tinguished but distinguished.

I am an honest, distinguished, membered, gruntled fellow who will NOT disparage you but give high parage for your Christmas celebrations

cynatnite

(31,011 posts)
61. For shame...
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 09:38 PM
Nov 2018

Trying to foist your Christmas spirit on the rest of us grinches.

Put on some holiday music and enjoy it.

Heartstrings

(7,349 posts)
62. Have my outside lights up and lit....
Sat Nov 17, 2018, 10:43 AM
Nov 2018

Tree goes up day after Christmas and stays up through Super Bowl...

Celebrate!

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