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EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:28 PM Feb 2019

If you have to answer whether you're the one in blackface or the one in KKK regalia, maybe ...

Last edited Sat Feb 2, 2019, 02:09 AM - Edit history (1)

you shouldn't be Governor.

I understand all of the rationales being given for Northam not to resign - I've been grappling with this myself. I supported and campaigned for Northam and was thrilled when he won. And I don't think people should necessarily be punished forever for behavior or the past

But this is different. Northam never disclosed this, never made an effort to publicly atone for or rectify this behavior. If this hadn't come out today, he would not be talking about it and would have continued to keep this on the downlow.

Not only is this a moral issue, but it also makes me question his political judgment. Why did he not disclose this to his own campaign so that it could be dealt with? Why did he continue moving forward with this ticking time bomb in his past - one with easily documented proof - and leave himself open to having this blow up in his face? This suggests to me that he doesn't have the judgment or the basic common sense to hold this office.

I've been trying all afternoon and evening to give him the benefit of the doubt but this is a bridge too far.

He needs to go.

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If you have to answer whether you're the one in blackface or the one in KKK regalia, maybe ... (Original Post) EffieBlack Feb 2019 OP
Your title really drills it down to its essence. JDC Feb 2019 #1
I think we should listen to what black folks want to happen. His apology blows and he's gotta go.nt UniteFightBack Feb 2019 #2
+1 irisblue Feb 2019 #3
I agree underpants Feb 2019 #4
I also hope there are consequences RandySF Feb 2019 #5
That's a separate issue EffieBlack Feb 2019 #15
K&R. This is what it comes down to for me, in a lot of these cases -- the lack of common sense. WhiskeyGrinder Feb 2019 #6
I tuned into this late today. I don't know much about Northam. yardwork Feb 2019 #7
Or the MAGA kid on the National Mall. Blue_true Feb 2019 #32
Are you people kidding me? It was 35 years ago in the South. bitterross Feb 2019 #8
Pretty sure there are plenty of people out there who were in med school 35 years ago in the south, WhiskeyGrinder Feb 2019 #10
and of course, everyone at that age never makes mistakes... marked50 Feb 2019 #16
Dressing in a racist costume is bigger than a mistake. WhiskeyGrinder Feb 2019 #31
Error, misjudgement, foolishness, disparagement marked50 Feb 2019 #52
Dressing in a racist costume is racist. WhiskeyGrinder Feb 2019 #62
My point has been made- Racism is determined by someones life - not by some indiscretion- judgments marked50 Feb 2019 #67
At least get the facts right fountainofyouth Feb 2019 #13
It was 1984 in Virginia EffieBlack Feb 2019 #18
I lived the 80s in the South bitterross Feb 2019 #22
I think it's obvious he's very different now. And if he were the local store owner or truck driver EffieBlack Feb 2019 #27
+1 nitpicker Feb 2019 #81
If you are the lead story on the BBC News at 3 am nitpicker Feb 2019 #82
Are you from the south? DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #19
Yes, I am from the South. bitterross Feb 2019 #24
I was a grad student at FSU in 1984 DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #26
I was in the military around that time, and something like that would never have been accepted. rusty quoin Feb 2019 #78
It wasn't just a stupid thing he did, rusty fender Feb 2019 #38
It was not a "High School Yearbook" whopis01 Feb 2019 #84
I Agree Dave in VA Feb 2019 #9
If I looked at my past and had to explain or apologize for the things that I had done that may have marked50 Feb 2019 #11
If you posed in blackface or as a Klansman as an adult, and then decided to run for governor EffieBlack Feb 2019 #23
Have you apologized for all your transgressions to everyone you have transgressed, regardless of marked50 Feb 2019 #34
If I had engaged in and proudly displayed hateful racist behavior and THEN decided to run for office EffieBlack Feb 2019 #35
And he has, it appears. marked50 Feb 2019 #39
After he got caught. DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #47
And all anyone needs to do is judge his sincerity marked50 Feb 2019 #55
If he was sincere he would let the people of VA know of his behavior before running for office. DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #58
Are we now required to hold all our Democrats to a Sainthood that I doubt most of us could achieve? marked50 Feb 2019 #64
No. We can just expect them not to mock the pain black people feel. DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #66
I would agree if he continued(s) to mock black people marked50 Feb 2019 #68
He couldn't do it openly or he would have been kicked out of the military and medicine. DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #70
Why would anybody pose in "blackface" or as a "Klansman" in the first place. Civil Rights isn't a still_one Feb 2019 #36
Personal redemption on these things comes from many pathways marked50 Feb 2019 #59
That's the world in 2019, whether you like it or not. MadDAsHell Feb 2019 #74
Much is the reason you'll never be elected to any Dem position beyond the municipal LanternWaste Feb 2019 #85
It looks like we need to vet our candidates a little better. njhoneybadger Feb 2019 #12
When I was young marked50 Feb 2019 #29
I happen to agree with you njhoneybadger Feb 2019 #53
Thank you marked50 Feb 2019 #61
Age is very relevent. This happened in the 80's. The country had gone through the Civil Rights still_one Feb 2019 #57
What if this came out on the eve of his gubernatorial election? DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #50
Exactly roscoeroscoe Feb 2019 #79
Not a good look. sheshe2 Feb 2019 #14
I agree angrychair Feb 2019 #17
Yes, fortunately, Lt Gov Justin Fairfax is a bonafide progressive. DinahMoeHum Feb 2019 #28
+10000000000. N/T angrychair Feb 2019 #30
The children look exactly like younger versions of their parents. deurbano Feb 2019 #43
They really do stopwastingmymoney Feb 2019 #77
They really are! deurbano Feb 2019 #80
This is a very excellent analysis, EffieBlack. madaboutharry Feb 2019 #20
They couldn't have forced me into either when I was 8. akraven Feb 2019 #21
As I've posted before Jarqui Feb 2019 #25
Your point about his judgement just tipped me. Did he not think it would be found? Amaryllis Feb 2019 #33
I'm sorry gay texan Feb 2019 #37
Perhaps he didnt even think about it until it surfaced, which in itself is problematic. Amaryllis Feb 2019 #40
I agree with your assessment n/t gay texan Feb 2019 #41
I couldn't have said it better myself. Dem2theMax Feb 2019 #45
The word that keeps coming into my mind is hubris. littlemissmartypants Feb 2019 #42
well said. iluvtennis Feb 2019 #44
Extremely well put! Anon-C Feb 2019 #46
I recognize that social mores change over the decades Generic Brad Feb 2019 #48
Damn right. He could have brought it forward years ago, like Beto O'Rourke did with his pnwmom Feb 2019 #49
How did that Al Franken resignation work out for us? world wide wally Feb 2019 #51
Ralph Northam isn't Al Franken EffieBlack Feb 2019 #56
But it is 35 years ago... People grow up world wide wally Feb 2019 #60
He was already grown up. Codeine Feb 2019 #72
Definitely a fucked up thing to do.... No argument there world wide wally Feb 2019 #73
It worked out quite well, since it was justified Tarc Feb 2019 #76
From the South. I think most people, especially someone with a college education, knew what was Hoyt Feb 2019 #54
I would hope people would forgive me for making/laughing at racist jokes 35 years ago, but Lisa0825 Feb 2019 #63
Thank you EffieBlack Feb 2019 #65
Good questions from Chris Hayes and Soledad O'Brien EffieBlack Feb 2019 #69
I have a question about standards. WeekiWater Feb 2019 #71
We don't need Dixiecrats in the party, that should have died out ages ago Tarc Feb 2019 #75
Nobody likes to be wrong, and nobody likes to lose. Captain Stern Feb 2019 #83

RandySF

(59,225 posts)
5. I also hope there are consequences
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:34 PM
Feb 2019

for the Republican official who essentially called a Vietnamese-American legislator a foreigner.

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,432 posts)
6. K&R. This is what it comes down to for me, in a lot of these cases -- the lack of common sense.
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:36 PM
Feb 2019

I can't imagine knowing that this photo was out there, and just...not worrying about it or thinking it might be an issue at some point? It just looks like hubris, really.

And as someone who campaigned for Franken and met him several times, I understand your grappling. It's hard and so very frustrating.

yardwork

(61,706 posts)
7. I tuned into this late today. I don't know much about Northam.
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:38 PM
Feb 2019

I do know that dressing up in minstrel blackface or klan regalia would have been considered incredibly racist - and disgustingly privileged and just plain ignorant - by anyone I knew in the late 1970s or early 1980s.

Just dressing up that way showed a profound lack of judgment. Putting it on his yearbook page shows profound stupidity.

It's the same kind of smirking privilege we see in Brett Kavanaugh.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
32. Or the MAGA kid on the National Mall.
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:06 AM
Feb 2019

I felt that Northam should stay, but am being convinced more that unless African Americans that have known him over 35 years rush forward to defend him, he is a goner.

Randy mentioned the republican that said basically racist stuff about a Vietnamese-American. Initially I was put off by her answer, but after turning it in my head some, Effie is right, it is a seperate issue. The Republican Party must deal with that individual. Our standard is that a person that showed gross racial insensitivity at an age when they should not have must go, even if they changed. The same goes for homophobia and sexism or ignoring sexual harrassment or violence when in a position to set a standard that such a thing will not happen, and if it does, the guilty party(ies) will pay.

 

bitterross

(4,066 posts)
8. Are you people kidding me? It was 35 years ago in the South.
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:40 PM
Feb 2019

It was wrong, of course. But are you fucking kidding me? You want to dispose of a good person because they were stupid in their high school yearbook.

Do you not realize the fact that it made it into the year book in the first place says a hell of a lot about the environment in which he grew up.

Why don't you give the man some credit for changing and overcoming the racism and bigotry of the environment in which he grew up?

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,432 posts)
10. Pretty sure there are plenty of people out there who were in med school 35 years ago in the south,
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:43 PM
Feb 2019

who grew up in that environment, who DIDN'T post stupid things in their med school yearbook and would have been great candidates.

marked50

(1,368 posts)
52. Error, misjudgement, foolishness, disparagement
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:24 AM
Feb 2019

Whatever term you want to use. Mistake is the simple one -with little judgment

marked50

(1,368 posts)
67. My point has been made- Racism is determined by someones life - not by some indiscretion- judgments
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:47 AM
Feb 2019

on that basis are easy. I dressed as Hitler once but really don't think I am a Fascist or Anti-semite

fountainofyouth

(409 posts)
13. At least get the facts right
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:44 PM
Feb 2019

It was his medical school yearbook and he was 25. For someone that age, as late as the 1980s, to feel comfortable putting this picture in a yearbook page that represents his life ... that's not great!

 

bitterross

(4,066 posts)
22. I lived the 80s in the South
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:49 PM
Feb 2019

The yearbook is a reflection of how the environment was then. I'm not saying it was right. I'm just saying you seem awfully quick to rule out forgiveness and the possibility he's changed.

I'm not asking you to forgive his stupidity. I'm asking you to see the possibility he's different now.

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
27. I think it's obvious he's very different now. And if he were the local store owner or truck driver
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:55 PM
Feb 2019

that would be enough.

But he's more than that. The people of Virginia put him in the highest office in the state. He owes them more than. To just be better than he was a a young man. he owes them disclosure and honesty. He failed them badly. No one is saying he should go to jail or be tarred and feathered.

He just shouldn't get to keep the job he was got under false pretenses.

nitpicker

(7,153 posts)
81. +1
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 04:06 AM
Feb 2019

in 1977 in VA, the Democrats ran an old-line segregationist for Attorney General. A lot of people split their tickets and voted for Marshall Coleman.

This was the time period where IMO the southwestern end of "northern Virginia" ended at Fairfax City, but still this happened.

((By the early 1990, the southern end of "dividing line" had switched to the Occoquan, and voters in the Woodbridge area were represented by moderate Rs. Now, it can be argued the line is pushing towards the Rappahannock. Out west, Wexton got elected.))

nitpicker

(7,153 posts)
82. If you are the lead story on the BBC News at 3 am
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 04:09 AM
Feb 2019

Not just the headlines, but the first featured story-

You may be in trouble.

This even beat out the INF mess for top billing.

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,711 posts)
19. Are you from the south?
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:47 PM
Feb 2019

I grew up in the south. I was in junior high school in 1970 when Volusia County, Florida schools were being desegregated pursuant to a court order. All my teachers to a one taught us prejudice was wrong.

By 1984 everybody knew black face was fucked up.

 

bitterross

(4,066 posts)
24. Yes, I am from the South.
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:50 PM
Feb 2019

All my teachers taught us prejudice was wrong too. That didn't mean all the racist people automatically stopped being racist. In fact, my class was the first class to be de-segregated in my school district. If anything, that made the racists even more racist.

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,711 posts)
26. I was a grad student at FSU in 1984
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:54 PM
Feb 2019

I assure you there was nobody in black face in that yearbook. That was the year of Jesse Jackson's historic run for president and Doug Wilder's run for lieutenant governor.

I actually think the black face is worse than the Klan regalia. What hate one must have for black people to think they look like that.

 

rusty quoin

(6,133 posts)
78. I was in the military around that time, and something like that would never have been accepted.
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 02:17 AM
Feb 2019

There were lots of southerners there of course, and that kind of thing didn’t happen, at least in the open.

I don’t know why the school let him do it. I also think it was just plain dumb of him not to put it out there before running. I’m not sure whether or not he has evolved. But it’s now too late for him.

 

rusty fender

(3,428 posts)
38. It wasn't just a stupid thing he did,
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:13 AM
Feb 2019

it was a racist, disgusting abominable thing he did. The guy has got to go

whopis01

(3,523 posts)
84. It was not a "High School Yearbook"
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 10:33 AM
Feb 2019

He was not a high school student at the time.

He graduated from high school.

He went to college and graduated from college.

After graduating college he went to medical school.

This was done during his final year in medical school. The same year he entered the Army as an officer.

Quit pushing the lie that this was a “high school yearbook”.


Dave in VA

(2,039 posts)
9. I Agree
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:40 PM
Feb 2019

Dr. Northam must realize that he is no longer in a position to lead the commonwealth of Virginia, but he must go and allow Lt. Governor Justin Fairfax to lead.

marked50

(1,368 posts)
11. If I looked at my past and had to explain or apologize for the things that I had done that may have
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:44 PM
Feb 2019

not been appropriate or wise I would be spending my entire life doing nothing of value to anything except my epitath.

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
23. If you posed in blackface or as a Klansman as an adult, and then decided to run for governor
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:50 PM
Feb 2019

You would have the common sense, not to mention the common decency, to make sure you publicly acknowledged it, addressed it and, yes APOLOGIZED AND for it before you jumped out into the race.

marked50

(1,368 posts)
34. Have you apologized for all your transgressions to everyone you have transgressed, regardless of
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:07 AM
Feb 2019

politics? Do you know what those may have been when they happened? Have you realized them and made changes in your life to make amends? Where are your errors that could be exposed to condemn you in the future? As I have posted, what do you think Martin Luther King, Jr would say about this?

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
35. If I had engaged in and proudly displayed hateful racist behavior and THEN decided to run for office
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:08 AM
Feb 2019

you're damned right I would apologize for it.

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,711 posts)
58. If he was sincere he would let the people of VA know of his behavior before running for office.
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:29 AM
Feb 2019

It was a reckless act.

still_one

(92,396 posts)
36. Why would anybody pose in "blackface" or as a "Klansman" in the first place. Civil Rights isn't a
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:09 AM
Feb 2019

joke. Too many people have fought and died for it.


 

MadDAsHell

(2,067 posts)
74. That's the world in 2019, whether you like it or not.
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 01:41 AM
Feb 2019

Either you were perfect until this point, or you weren't and u fked.

He weren't. He gone.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
85. Much is the reason you'll never be elected to any Dem position beyond the municipal
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 05:05 PM
Feb 2019

Not everyone spent their youth being an idiot, and thus can better and more efficiently focus on the here and now.

(is "may have not been appropriate or wise" the hip and trendy way of saying 'idiot' these days?)

njhoneybadger

(3,910 posts)
12. It looks like we need to vet our candidates a little better.
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:44 PM
Feb 2019

I just can't imagine him thinking this would never come out.

marked50

(1,368 posts)
29. When I was young
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:58 PM
Feb 2019

I had a part in a play where I was an African American servant. I said that I was a "n" word to my father in giving him a description of that part. This was a term that I had from my peers. My father set me straight. And I have never used that term again , I think at that time I realized what it really meant. Now why would I want to think that someone else may come to that realization, regardless of their age, and not change their view or beliefs. I would not think that what I had done in the past should be a determinate of what I have since demonstrated and what I am capable of in the future.

still_one

(92,396 posts)
57. Age is very relevent. This happened in the 80's. The country had gone through the Civil Rights
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:27 AM
Feb 2019

Movement, where churches were bombed, and people died.

]
The fact that he was making a racist "joke" with that photo is not because he was naïve at the time. He was an adult going to Medical School. That he was a doctor makes this even worse in some respects

A doctor was recently fired from the Cleveland Clinic after her anti-Semitic social tweets.

It is way past that people need realize there are consequences for one's actions


In the end it will be the people of Virgina that determine what happens, and no doubt they will let their feeling be known







roscoeroscoe

(1,370 posts)
79. Exactly
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 02:28 AM
Feb 2019

He's stupid to think he should have run. Arrogant? White privileged? Anyway, dumb.

This guy can't be effective going forward, he's a walking punch line. He should face facts. Give it up gracefully.

sheshe2

(83,898 posts)
14. Not a good look.
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:45 PM
Feb 2019

Not a good look at all. This, as some are saying, is not Democrats eating their own, it about right and wrong. Racism and sexism should never be a part of our party. Whether they put on black face or perhaps wrote an essay about rape, this is not who we are.

To compare this to Franken, as some posts have, is wrong, as was his ousting in my opinion. He should have stayed and fought the bogus accusations.

madaboutharry

(40,220 posts)
20. This is a very excellent analysis, EffieBlack.
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:48 PM
Feb 2019

Thank you for your post.

I agree with how you discussed this as a moral issue and demonstrates poor judgment.

akraven

(1,975 posts)
21. They couldn't have forced me into either when I was 8.
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:48 PM
Feb 2019

Now I'm 64, and they'd have a much harder time forcing me.

This isn't "youthful hijinks" it's straight out racism.

Jarqui

(10,130 posts)
25. As I've posted before
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:52 PM
Feb 2019

We were fighting racism in grade school in 1964

He was 15 years older, twenty years later.

In 1984, he was published in those KKK photos in his medical yearbook

In 1981, he was published with the nickname "Coonman" in his Virginia Military yearbook

"Coonman" needs to resign. We cannot tolerate a stain like this on leadership when racism continues to hurt so many in the country. Virginia deserves better and they should be supported. What Republicans do is not a model for our behavior. We're better than this.

Amaryllis

(9,525 posts)
33. Your point about his judgement just tipped me. Did he not think it would be found?
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:07 AM
Feb 2019

Did he not think it would be that important if it were found? Or did he just not think of it at all until it was posted because it didn't make enough of an impression on him that he even remembered it? Whichever, it indicates poor judgment and lack of common sense; both necessary to be an effective leader.

gay texan

(2,471 posts)
37. I'm sorry
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:12 AM
Feb 2019

As much of a hardcore diehard liberal I am, I cant accept this. As one who believes that a person can redeem themselves of past transgressions, it requires you to be upfront about your past mistakes. You cant run from them, you have to face them head on.

The fact that this was lying in wait, and now published tells me that he knew it was going to surface sooner or later.

I hate that its come to this. I believe he is sincere in his apology, but in these times where we are under intense scrutiny and pressure, we must be rid of baggage.

littlemissmartypants

(22,805 posts)
42. The word that keeps coming into my mind is hubris.
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:17 AM
Feb 2019

He's just too confident. The same confidence that got him through med school, that gave him the confidence to run for office, that same confidence that allowed him to believe that the rules of privilege would excuse his racist behavior, hubris, held his hand and walked him across a bridge too far.

If he had recognized his racist behavior in med school as wrong, maybe he would have issued a preemptive apology for unacceptable immature, racist, past behavior before running for office, but he didn't.

He crossed the line into hubris and didn't see the error or a need for apology.

I know everything about him I need to know.

It's a shame that he never seems to have had the self awareness to recognize that hubris was his enemy. He brought himself down like a player in a tragic drama by his own design.

He failed us and he failed himself. Perhaps without hubris and with better friends he may have had a chance to change his ways and right his racist wrongs.

But now it's too late.

Generic Brad

(14,275 posts)
48. I recognize that social mores change over the decades
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:22 AM
Feb 2019

But that was still considered racist and unacceptable in 1984.

pnwmom

(108,994 posts)
49. Damn right. He could have brought it forward years ago, like Beto O'Rourke did with his
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:23 AM
Feb 2019

college transgressions. (I bet lots of people can't even remember what O'Rourke's confessed to, because he was able to get it out and put it behind him.)

I lived in Virginia in that time period, so I know that behavior cannot be excused by the locale or by the era. This wasn't 1950 Mississippi. This was 1984 in a medical school in Virginia -- and these future doctors were smart enough to KNOW this was wrong.

 

Codeine

(25,586 posts)
72. He was already grown up.
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 01:15 AM
Feb 2019

It’s not like this happened when he was a spotty teenager, he was finishing up fucking medical school. He was a grown-ass man, and an intelligent one, in the 1980s. I will hold him to an adult standard.

And it’s not like this was just some random bit of dumb-shittery — it required effort and planning and costumes and makeup. That bespeaks some fucked-up mental workings.

world wide wally

(21,754 posts)
73. Definitely a fucked up thing to do.... No argument there
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 01:23 AM
Feb 2019

I don't know much about his history for the past 30 years and I'm just hoping for the best.

Tarc

(10,476 posts)
76. It worked out quite well, since it was justified
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 01:45 AM
Feb 2019

People are accountable for their own actions.

Anything else?

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
54. From the South. I think most people, especially someone with a college education, knew what was
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:26 AM
Feb 2019

right or wrong by 25 years of age with respect to offensive behavior like this. In high school, they’re still swayed their parents to a large extent. I’d give them a break. But this ain’t high school.

Northam could of handled this long ago by just saying he went to a southern military school and made some mistakes in that toxic environment, but he’s committed to what’s right now and his record proved it.

Lisa0825

(14,487 posts)
63. I would hope people would forgive me for making/laughing at racist jokes 35 years ago, but
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:36 AM
Feb 2019

... dressing in blackface or a Klan costume is on another level, not to mention his racist nickname.

I would be slamming him were he a Republican, so I can't give him a pass just because he's a Democrat.

 

WeekiWater

(3,259 posts)
71. I have a question about standards.
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 01:09 AM
Feb 2019

First, I want to say I appreciate how you point out that it would probably be different for you if he came out with this earlier in his career and made his apology. That’s what makes the stretch a bit too far for me.

Now to my question on standards. How does a man who was confronted well into his political career, after an essay he wrote surfaced that clearly outlines a woman’s yearning to be raped(and men masturbating to the thought of rape), move on to get millions of votes in a Presidential primary and get re-elected for his senate seat? Don’t forget, said person even endorsed Northman’s opponent in the primary.

I haven’t posted much about this. I appreciate your insight. Here is one of my few comments on the matter.

https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=11761156


Captain Stern

(2,201 posts)
83. Nobody likes to be wrong, and nobody likes to lose.
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 07:25 AM
Feb 2019

I agree with you.

I've heard most of the reasons that people have given for giving Northam a pass on this, and I've even tried to come up with some of my own. It's just not working for me.

To be honest, I'd have loved for that picture to be one of a sitting republican governor. But it's not. It's one of somebody on our team.

I don't necessarily think someone should be punished forever for their past behavior either, but I definitely don't think other people should be punished for somebody else's past behavior. And punishing ourselves is exactly what we would be doing by going to the wall for this guy. The republicans would get a lot of mileage out of that.

I believe Northam is not the same man today that he was when that picture was taken. I think his apology was sincere. I think that he's probably a good man today. But, sometimes you just have to cut a guy loose..even if he's a good man.

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