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live love laugh

(13,104 posts)
Sat Apr 11, 2020, 11:09 AM Apr 2020

Childhood friend's only son put on ventilator hour ago



He’s 38. Chicago. Admitted to VA hospital two days ago. Ran a temperature between 101-104 for at least four days. Thursday night she dropped him at the hospital after he complained of chest tightness now she’s self quarantined. They put him on oxygen only. He’s been face timing and calling even talked to his mom this morning. She said he sounded good. Then the doctor called about 9 AM saying he has pneumonia and being moved to a ventilator and ICU.

Send up prayers, thoughts.... positive energy

Our families are like kin. It’s doubly bad because I can’t physically comfort her nor she him.
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Childhood friend's only son put on ventilator hour ago (Original Post) live love laugh Apr 2020 OP
I am so sorry! GreenPartyVoter Apr 2020 #1
Sending positive vibes Ohiogal Apr 2020 #2
So sorry to hear this! SheltieLover Apr 2020 #3
oh no...please let your friend know shes got virtual hugs (((hugs))) samnsara Apr 2020 #4
This must be agonizing! So sorry. lark Apr 2020 #5
So Sorry. My brother is in ICU in Connecticut. Demsrule86 Apr 2020 #6
Really, so sorry. Where? That's where I am from Laura PourMeADrink Apr 2020 #15
He is in St. Vincent's in Bridgeport...they live in Bridgeport for more than 30 years. Demsrule86 Apr 2020 #19
Every good thought I can send you both! All that Laura PourMeADrink Apr 2020 #24
Thanks...they still don't have the test back but he is being treated for the embolisms ...with a Demsrule86 Apr 2020 #30
Hope he wins this fight malaise Apr 2020 #7
Horrible feeling for her to not have a shoulder to cry on or a hand to hold. KY_EnviroGuy Apr 2020 #8
😭😭😭 So heartbreaking. samplegirl Apr 2020 #9
I'm so sorry. He's so young. Sending my best wishes to you and your friend and her smirkymonkey Apr 2020 #10
sent up a prayer for his recovery. iluvtennis Apr 2020 #11
💕💕💕💕💕💕💕 MLAA Apr 2020 #12
Prayers up. littlemissmartypants Apr 2020 #13
Sending love, light and prayers Kimber432 Apr 2020 #14
So sorry to hear that Maeve Apr 2020 #16
Sending prayers for everyone sick, Ilsa Apr 2020 #17
Sending healing hugs gademocrat7 Apr 2020 #18
it's good he was in the hospital when he took that sudden bad turn. SunSeeker Apr 2020 #20
I'm sending prayers. Let's hope he can surpass the ventilator and make it. onecent Apr 2020 #21
Sending strength to your friend's son. ZZenith Apr 2020 #22
I am so sorry UpInArms Apr 2020 #23
sending good vibes Demovictory9 Apr 2020 #25
I am so sorry to hear that chillfactor Apr 2020 #26
Oh, I Am So Very Sorry DarthDem Apr 2020 #27
I blame BLOTUS MFM008 Apr 2020 #28
Sending positive thoughts and prayers. dewsgirl Apr 2020 #29

lark

(23,099 posts)
5. This must be agonizing! So sorry.
Sat Apr 11, 2020, 11:34 AM
Apr 2020

Not being able to be there must be so excruciating for you all. Hope you stay in close touch electronically so you can be there for them. I feel so sorry for the son being stuck in that situation with no loved ones to comfort him, I will never forget how bad it was for mom on a vent.

Hope the nurses are able to provide him some human care & comfort and that he lives to recover fully from this nightmare.

Demsrule86

(68,563 posts)
30. Thanks...they still don't have the test back but he is being treated for the embolisms ...with a
Sun Apr 12, 2020, 07:03 PM
Apr 2020

drug also used for Covid...still fighting. fingers crossed...in ICU.

KY_EnviroGuy

(14,490 posts)
8. Horrible feeling for her to not have a shoulder to cry on or a hand to hold.
Sat Apr 11, 2020, 11:43 AM
Apr 2020

We humans need the touch and to look others in the eye and hear their voice in person.

Perhaps there's a way you could send her a little something that allows her to touch something from you.

You folks will be in our thoughts, along with the thousands of others suffering alone.......

samplegirl

(11,477 posts)
9. 😭😭😭 So heartbreaking.
Sat Apr 11, 2020, 11:53 AM
Apr 2020

I have just one child she’s 38 and works at the prison.
I’m scared to death.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
10. I'm so sorry. He's so young. Sending my best wishes to you and your friend and her
Sat Apr 11, 2020, 11:56 AM
Apr 2020

son. Hoping for the best for all of you!

SunSeeker

(51,550 posts)
20. it's good he was in the hospital when he took that sudden bad turn.
Sat Apr 11, 2020, 01:54 PM
Apr 2020

When that happens, immediate incubation is needed. Fortunately he got it right away, and at 38, his chances are better than most in the ICU, though still not much better than 50%. A 17 year old with Covid-19 here in California was at home when he took that turn. By the time they got him to the hospital, he could not be saved.


Sending healing thoughts to your friend's son. ❤

onecent

(6,096 posts)
21. I'm sending prayers. Let's hope he can surpass the ventilator and make it.
Sat Apr 11, 2020, 01:54 PM
Apr 2020

This is sooo terrible. I would be a nut case if that happened to me.

UpInArms

(51,282 posts)
23. I am so sorry
Sat Apr 11, 2020, 09:56 PM
Apr 2020

I wish I could do more than just offer all my best and most fervent wishes for his full recovery

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