Sat Apr 11, 2020, 10:09 AM
live love laugh (10,402 posts)
Childhood friend's only son put on ventilator hour ago![]() He’s 38. Chicago. Admitted to VA hospital two days ago. Ran a temperature between 101-104 for at least four days. Thursday night she dropped him at the hospital after he complained of chest tightness now she’s self quarantined. They put him on oxygen only. He’s been face timing and calling even talked to his mom this morning. She said he sounded good. Then the doctor called about 9 AM saying he has pneumonia and being moved to a ventilator and ICU. Send up prayers, thoughts.... positive energy Our families are like kin. It’s doubly bad because I can’t physically comfort her nor she him.
|
30 replies, 4619 views
![]() |
Author | Time | Post |
![]() |
live love laugh | Apr 2020 | OP |
GreenPartyVoter | Apr 2020 | #1 | |
Ohiogal | Apr 2020 | #2 | |
SheltieLover | Apr 2020 | #3 | |
samnsara | Apr 2020 | #4 | |
lark | Apr 2020 | #5 | |
Demsrule86 | Apr 2020 | #6 | |
Laura PourMeADrink | Apr 2020 | #15 | |
Demsrule86 | Apr 2020 | #19 | |
Laura PourMeADrink | Apr 2020 | #24 | |
Demsrule86 | Apr 2020 | #30 | |
malaise | Apr 2020 | #7 | |
KY_EnviroGuy | Apr 2020 | #8 | |
samplegirl | Apr 2020 | #9 | |
smirkymonkey | Apr 2020 | #10 | |
iluvtennis | Apr 2020 | #11 | |
MLAA | Apr 2020 | #12 | |
littlemissmartypants | Apr 2020 | #13 | |
Kimber432 | Apr 2020 | #14 | |
Maeve | Apr 2020 | #16 | |
Ilsa | Apr 2020 | #17 | |
gademocrat7 | Apr 2020 | #18 | |
SunSeeker | Apr 2020 | #20 | |
onecent | Apr 2020 | #21 | |
ZZenith | Apr 2020 | #22 | |
UpInArms | Apr 2020 | #23 | |
Demovictory9 | Apr 2020 | #25 | |
chillfactor | Apr 2020 | #26 | |
DarthDem | Apr 2020 | #27 | |
MFM008 | Apr 2020 | #28 | |
dewsgirl | Apr 2020 | #29 |
Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Sat Apr 11, 2020, 10:19 AM
GreenPartyVoter (71,344 posts)
1. I am so sorry!
![]() |
Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Sat Apr 11, 2020, 10:19 AM
Ohiogal (26,407 posts)
2. Sending positive vibes
Strength for all of you.
|
Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Sat Apr 11, 2020, 10:28 AM
SheltieLover (54,092 posts)
3. So sorry to hear this!
Healing vibes on the way!
![]() ![]() |
Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Sat Apr 11, 2020, 10:32 AM
samnsara (16,818 posts)
4. oh no...please let your friend know shes got virtual hugs (((hugs)))
Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Sat Apr 11, 2020, 10:34 AM
lark (21,812 posts)
5. This must be agonizing! So sorry.
Not being able to be there must be so excruciating for you all. Hope you stay in close touch electronically so you can be there for them. I feel so sorry for the son being stuck in that situation with no loved ones to comfort him, I will never forget how bad it was for mom on a vent.
Hope the nurses are able to provide him some human care & comfort and that he lives to recover fully from this nightmare. |
Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Sat Apr 11, 2020, 10:41 AM
Demsrule86 (65,359 posts)
6. So Sorry. My brother is in ICU in Connecticut.
Response to Demsrule86 (Reply #6)
Sat Apr 11, 2020, 11:58 AM
Laura PourMeADrink (40,753 posts)
15. Really, so sorry. Where? That's where I am from
Manchester. He will recover. Sending hope your way.
|
Response to Laura PourMeADrink (Reply #15)
Sat Apr 11, 2020, 12:51 PM
Demsrule86 (65,359 posts)
19. He is in St. Vincent's in Bridgeport...they live in Bridgeport for more than 30 years.
Response to Demsrule86 (Reply #19)
Sat Apr 11, 2020, 10:42 PM
Laura PourMeADrink (40,753 posts)
24. Every good thought I can send you both! All that
matters now...people we love.
|
Response to Laura PourMeADrink (Reply #24)
Sun Apr 12, 2020, 06:03 PM
Demsrule86 (65,359 posts)
30. Thanks...they still don't have the test back but he is being treated for the embolisms ...with a
drug also used for Covid...still fighting. fingers crossed...in ICU.
|
Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Sat Apr 11, 2020, 10:42 AM
malaise (252,822 posts)
7. Hope he wins this fight
![]() |
Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Sat Apr 11, 2020, 10:43 AM
KY_EnviroGuy (14,171 posts)
8. Horrible feeling for her to not have a shoulder to cry on or a hand to hold.
We humans need the touch and to look others in the eye and hear their voice in person.
Perhaps there's a way you could send her a little something that allows her to touch something from you. You folks will be in our thoughts, along with the thousands of others suffering alone....... ![]() |
Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Sat Apr 11, 2020, 10:53 AM
samplegirl (9,895 posts)
9. 😭😭😭 So heartbreaking.
I have just one child she’s 38 and works at the prison.
I’m scared to death. |
Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Sat Apr 11, 2020, 10:56 AM
smirkymonkey (63,221 posts)
10. I'm so sorry. He's so young. Sending my best wishes to you and your friend and her
son. Hoping for the best for all of you!
![]() |
Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Sat Apr 11, 2020, 10:58 AM
iluvtennis (17,846 posts)
11. sent up a prayer for his recovery.
![]() |
Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Sat Apr 11, 2020, 10:58 AM
MLAA (13,826 posts)
12. 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Sat Apr 11, 2020, 11:12 AM
littlemissmartypants (19,822 posts)
13. Prayers up.
Stay encouraged, live love laugh.
❤ lmsp |
Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Sat Apr 11, 2020, 11:48 AM
Kimber432 (74 posts)
14. Sending love, light and prayers
I am so very sorry.
|
Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Sat Apr 11, 2020, 12:02 PM
Maeve (41,395 posts)
16. So sorry to hear that
Yes, the distancing makes it worse.
![]() |
Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Sat Apr 11, 2020, 12:35 PM
Ilsa (60,621 posts)
17. Sending prayers for everyone sick,
Exposed, and recovering.
![]() ![]() ![]() |
Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Sat Apr 11, 2020, 12:46 PM
gademocrat7 (9,809 posts)
18. Sending healing hugs
and positive energy. Take care.
|
Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Sat Apr 11, 2020, 12:54 PM
SunSeeker (48,726 posts)
20. it's good he was in the hospital when he took that sudden bad turn.
When that happens, immediate incubation is needed. Fortunately he got it right away, and at 38, his chances are better than most in the ICU, though still not much better than 50%. A 17 year old with Covid-19 here in California was at home when he took that turn. By the time they got him to the hospital, he could not be saved.
Sending healing thoughts to your friend's son. ❤ |
Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Sat Apr 11, 2020, 12:54 PM
onecent (6,096 posts)
21. I'm sending prayers. Let's hope he can surpass the ventilator and make it.
This is sooo terrible. I would be a nut case if that happened to me.
|
Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Sat Apr 11, 2020, 08:43 PM
ZZenith (3,809 posts)
22. Sending strength to your friend's son.
Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Sat Apr 11, 2020, 08:56 PM
UpInArms (50,535 posts)
23. I am so sorry
I wish I could do more than just offer all my best and most fervent wishes for his full recovery
![]() |
Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Sun Apr 12, 2020, 03:03 AM
Demovictory9 (29,764 posts)
25. sending good vibes
![]() |
Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Sun Apr 12, 2020, 03:39 AM
chillfactor (7,110 posts)
26. I am so sorry to hear that
My prayers sent his way. Much much too young to be in such distress.
![]() |
Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Sun Apr 12, 2020, 04:08 AM
DarthDem (5,138 posts)
27. Oh, I Am So Very Sorry
Sending all my best wishes and prayers to him and your friend.
![]() ![]() |
Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Sun Apr 12, 2020, 07:23 AM
MFM008 (19,694 posts)
28. I blame BLOTUS
For every death and every illness of this pandemic.
|
Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Sun Apr 12, 2020, 12:09 PM
dewsgirl (14,946 posts)
29. Sending positive thoughts and prayers.
![]() |