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mailman82

(399 posts)
Thu Sep 27, 2012, 03:14 PM Sep 2012

Today is an Anniversary for me!

It is not one I celebrate,but one I reflect on. It is 43 years ago today my life changed! I was a Marine in Viet Nam we were getting ready to move out after an all night and part of the morning fire fight. We had just left our fight holes when three mortars landed blowing many of us into the air. I never heard them coming. When I hit the ground I tried to get up,I could not hear the smell of gun powder filled my nose and mouth. I could not stand my legs were broken my boots were full of blood. I felt no pain. there were many of my Marines wounded or dying. Two were already dead. The corpsman got to me when he could,he said it wasn't that bad. He lied. After several operations aboard the hospital shop I was medivact home. I would spend the next two and a half years in the Great Lakes Naval Hospital.
It a time ago! Life was not easy in the following years. Four marriages, a fight with alcoholism. But I will soon be 65,sober 27 years and very close with my children.
My life did not turn out the way I planned that is because what planned wasn't supposed to be my life!
Thank for listening!

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Today is an Anniversary for me! (Original Post) mailman82 Sep 2012 OP
Here is a secret, we medics, we lie nadinbrzezinski Sep 2012 #1
Thank you! nadinbzezinski mailman82 Sep 2012 #3
Well, I'm not sure 'Happy' Anniversary is proper... Wait Wut Sep 2012 #2
Wow! LeftofObama Sep 2012 #4
Congratulations and thank you! madmom Sep 2012 #5
I'm glad you made it through. Arkansas Granny Sep 2012 #6
Glad you've made it so far. Nam was a nightmare. sinkingfeeling Sep 2012 #7
I'm glad you made it, brother pinboy3niner Sep 2012 #8
there's a LOT to admire in your post! renate Sep 2012 #9
Glad you're still around to tell about it. lpbk2713 Sep 2012 #10
Congratulations. Your life is what it was going roguevalley Sep 2012 #11
.... spanone Sep 2012 #12
Your post stirs emotions in me LiberalAndProud Sep 2012 #13
A true testament to the human spirit. JNelson6563 Sep 2012 #14
THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE! Shanti Mama Sep 2012 #15
 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
1. Here is a secret, we medics, we lie
Thu Sep 27, 2012, 03:17 PM
Sep 2012

when we have somebody who is critically injured. We do it, because if we tell you the truth, you might give up right there and die.

I am glad he lied to you, and I am glad you are here Marine.

Welcome home.

Wait Wut

(8,492 posts)
2. Well, I'm not sure 'Happy' Anniversary is proper...
Thu Sep 27, 2012, 03:19 PM
Sep 2012

...but, glad you made it back, both from Nam and your own hell. You've fought a lot of battles. Congratulations on your strength, courage and the love of your children!

LeftofObama

(4,243 posts)
4. Wow!
Thu Sep 27, 2012, 03:27 PM
Sep 2012

I'm glad you're home and congrats on the 27 years sober. You are a brave brave man in every sense of the word!

Arkansas Granny

(31,540 posts)
6. I'm glad you made it through.
Thu Sep 27, 2012, 03:33 PM
Sep 2012

Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans.
John Lennon, "Beautiful Boy"

pinboy3niner

(53,339 posts)
8. I'm glad you made it, brother
Thu Sep 27, 2012, 03:46 PM
Sep 2012

Welcome home! And Semper Fi from an Army Infantry vet (101st Abn., RVN '69-'70).

renate

(13,776 posts)
9. there's a LOT to admire in your post!
Thu Sep 27, 2012, 04:15 PM
Sep 2012

I'm sorry for what you and your buddies went through. You were just 21. Way too young to suffer the pain and losses that nobody should ever have to suffer at any age.

Good for you for getting through the dark times--I'm so happy for the wonderful life you have now!

roguevalley

(40,656 posts)
11. Congratulations. Your life is what it was going
Thu Sep 27, 2012, 06:59 PM
Sep 2012

to be and now you have a lifetime of wisdom and experiences behind you. I am proud of you to reach this part of your journey.

Shanti Mama

(1,288 posts)
15. THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE!
Thu Sep 27, 2012, 08:31 PM
Sep 2012

You brought tears to my eyes.
I have friends and acquaintances who fought in Vietnam, most of whom suffered the emotional toll you did. A few were also physically wounded. I'm sure you know that you are most definitely not alone.

Congratulations on making the most of your life and having the great strength to get to the place you're in today!

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