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Buckeye_Democrat

(14,853 posts)
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 02:52 PM Nov 2020

Sister-in-law with Covid was hospitalized this morning.

She and my brother (who might have got infected by her since she had symptoms before he did) were seemingly doing okay the last few days, with minor fatigue being the main symptom.

Then she awoke this morning to tell my brother that she was struggling to breathe, so please contact a hospital.

Her blood oxygenation was in the 30's when she arrived there!


She was given oxygen and it soon increased to 90%. (That fast?!)

My brother said they used to have a finger oximeter at home, but they sold it last year during a garage sale. So he's currently relying on his own judgement in terms of fatigue and breathing difficulty for himself, but will order one online.

The far-greater severity struck her very fast! Hope she'll be okay. She's on the verge of retiring. No intubation, at least yet.

I didn't bother to ask if they'd went inside restaurants lately, but I know they've been restaurant addicts in the past.

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Sister-in-law with Covid was hospitalized this morning. (Original Post) Buckeye_Democrat Nov 2020 OP
I hope she improves soon brer cat Nov 2020 #1
This soothsayer Nov 2020 #2
She's lucky she didn't have a cardiac event with oxygenation that poor. BusyBeingBest Nov 2020 #3
It blew my mind when I heard that! Buckeye_Democrat Nov 2020 #4
It's not likely that it was an accurate reading, but BusyBeingBest Nov 2020 #6
I have CF Turin_C3PO Nov 2020 #41
Everyone should make sure they have a pulse oximeter..It was very difficult helpisontheway Nov 2020 #5
I ordered one back in March and... Buckeye_Democrat Nov 2020 #8
I bought one at Walgreen's late September nuxvomica Nov 2020 #15
This is crazy malaise Nov 2020 #7
He has it too. Buckeye_Democrat Nov 2020 #9
This is beyond scary malaise Nov 2020 #12
I mentioned her being infected last night... Buckeye_Democrat Nov 2020 #11
The SiL of a dear friend has it. He is a high school teacher (all virtual this year). He said that niyad Nov 2020 #22
I am stunned at how people think it won't affect them malaise Nov 2020 #30
I do know that he has been masked, in consideration of an at-risk family member. But niyad Nov 2020 #31
I'm the same way MustLoveBeagles Nov 2020 #49
This message was self-deleted by its author niyad Nov 2020 #24
Oh no. My heart goes out to you and your family. nt okaawhatever Nov 2020 #10
I'm So Sorry to Hear This! DarthDem Nov 2020 #13
Thanks! Buckeye_Democrat Nov 2020 #18
30s! barbtries Nov 2020 #14
I'm wondering if my brother misunderstood? Buckeye_Democrat Nov 2020 #17
it think the term is hypoxia. barbtries Nov 2020 #19
I'd read it's very dangerous in the 80's, so... Buckeye_Democrat Nov 2020 #26
I also read (or heard) a doctor talking some time ago moonscape Nov 2020 #48
No way it was 30. That's lethal, instantly. Laelth Nov 2020 #20
That's my suspicion too! Buckeye_Democrat Nov 2020 #27
I've survived long periods of time Turin_C3PO Nov 2020 #43
EVERY household should have a pulse oximeter. Inexpensive, easy way to check oxygen level. SaveOurDemocracy Nov 2020 #16
Figure out what is normal for you Boomer Nov 2020 #63
Hoping all goes well for your family! bluestarone Nov 2020 #21
People are surviving longer without intubation Warpy Nov 2020 #23
No plans for intubation yet. Buckeye_Democrat Nov 2020 #28
That's indeed what happened in her case. Buckeye_Democrat Nov 2020 #56
That's how I was treated along with dexamethasone JCMach1 Nov 2020 #61
That is the standard now. They only intubate people who are too exhausted to fight to breathe Warpy Nov 2020 #62
I am so sorry to hear this. May they recover quickly and completely. Remember that your DU niyad Nov 2020 #25
Thank you! Buckeye_Democrat Nov 2020 #29
That Quickly? JGug1 Nov 2020 #32
Brother should go directly to Walgreen or CVS to get an oximeter. No Vested Interest Nov 2020 #33
Considering brother is covid positive, he presumably shouldn't be out shopping. LisaL Nov 2020 #35
I ordered 3 from amazon before I got one that wasn't fake. LiberalArkie Nov 2020 #42
Yes, I am growing leery of online sales offers unless it is a well-known entity No Vested Interest Nov 2020 #51
Oh no! Thanks for letting us know, Buckeye_Democrat. calimary Nov 2020 #34
Thank you! Buckeye_Democrat Nov 2020 #36
I am so sorry to hear about this, Buckeye. crickets Nov 2020 #37
Healing vibes sent........nt Heartstrings Nov 2020 #38
Some phones have oximeters built in Loupe Garoue Nov 2020 #39
Smart watches, too. LisaL Nov 2020 #40
omg...that was fast. they will be in my prayers... cayugafalls Nov 2020 #44
Healing vibes on the way! 💗💗💗 SheltieLover Nov 2020 #45
Wishing your family a good recovery. gademocrat7 Nov 2020 #46
Sending thoughts that your family will recover completely and quickly. Dem2theMax Nov 2020 #47
I hope your brother and sister in law make a quick recovery MustLoveBeagles Nov 2020 #50
Thank you! (Update too.) Buckeye_Democrat Nov 2020 #52
Thank you for the update MustLoveBeagles Nov 2020 #54
I'm so sorry to hear about your family, Buckeye Dem. smirkymonkey Nov 2020 #53
UPDATE: The hospital wants to put her on a ventilator. Buckeye_Democrat Nov 2020 #55
ALSO LEARNED THAT... Buckeye_Democrat Nov 2020 #57
FINAL UPDATE FOR THIS THREAD. Buckeye_Democrat Nov 2020 #58
YEAH!!! cally Nov 2020 #59
Thanks! Buckeye_Democrat Nov 2020 #60

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,853 posts)
4. It blew my mind when I heard that!
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 02:59 PM
Nov 2020

Maybe my brother misunderstood? It's very dangerous in the 80's!

Perhaps they instead said it was reduced by that much?

Thanks to everyone for the well-wishes!

BusyBeingBest

(8,052 posts)
6. It's not likely that it was an accurate reading, but
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 03:03 PM
Nov 2020

her oxygen was certainly life-threateningly low for them to be considering intubating. Wishing your family the best.

Turin_C3PO

(13,991 posts)
41. I have CF
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 04:48 PM
Nov 2020

and I used to feel fine even when my oxygen was in the 70s. Of course, that's not near the same as 30s but it is possible to survive fairly low oxygen for short periods of time.

helpisontheway

(5,008 posts)
5. Everyone should make sure they have a pulse oximeter..It was very difficult
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 03:01 PM
Nov 2020

to get one during the spring. It took several weeks before I was able to get one delivered. Stores were out of stock and there were long delays on Amazon.

Hope your SIL will be okay..🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,853 posts)
8. I ordered one back in March and...
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 03:04 PM
Nov 2020

... there were several highly-rated brands unavailable by then.

I figured my brother and his wife still had one. She has asthma!

nuxvomica

(12,424 posts)
15. I bought one at Walgreen's late September
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 03:20 PM
Nov 2020

They had plenty at the time. I almost missed it because I was looking in Cold & FLu but they keep them in the Diabetes section.

malaise

(268,998 posts)
7. This is crazy
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 03:03 PM
Nov 2020

More and more DUers are posting about persons close to them coming down with Covid.
Hope she recovers and your brother is negative

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,853 posts)
9. He has it too.
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 03:06 PM
Nov 2020

Loss of smell, fatigue (minor so far), slight fever when it started, etc.

Neither of them have been coughing much at all, according to him.

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,853 posts)
11. I mentioned her being infected last night...
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 03:12 PM
Nov 2020

... in this thread, and she was supposedly doing much better than my sister's daughter-in-law... who also has it!

I only learned this morning that my brother is infected too! (Which I figured could easily happen since they're in the same home.)

https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=14556153

niyad

(113,303 posts)
22. The SiL of a dear friend has it. He is a high school teacher (all virtual this year). He said that
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 03:52 PM
Nov 2020

Since he has had only a slight fever this week, he planned to go hunting this weekend. My friend and I just shook our heads. Did I mention that he is a trumper?

malaise

(268,998 posts)
30. I am stunned at how people think it won't affect them
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 04:00 PM
Nov 2020

We've all been wearing masks from day one and are very, very careful when and where we go.

niyad

(113,303 posts)
31. I do know that he has been masked, in consideration of an at-risk family member. But
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 04:07 PM
Nov 2020

apparently still does not take it that seriously.

I have severe claustrophobia, yet I mask whenever I am out' mostly just to grocery store. If I can wear one, so can everyone else. Every time I hear "medical condition, I am tempted to ask, "what condition? Terminal stupidity?"

MustLoveBeagles

(11,609 posts)
49. I'm the same way
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 06:07 PM
Nov 2020

Before the pandemic I couldn't stand having anything on my face. When I first had wear a mask it was torture. I've since adapted and now it doesn't bother me. People need to suck it up.

Response to malaise (Reply #7)

barbtries

(28,794 posts)
14. 30s!
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 03:17 PM
Nov 2020

jeez that's scary. i've been advocating to family and friends for month to have an oximeter on hand. they're relatively inexpensive and readily available on amazon, though with the new wave coming on strong that might not last. So get yours now.

wow. i can't get over that read - that is someone who is literally starved for oxygen. so glad she got help in time, and hope her case doesn't get worse.

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,853 posts)
17. I'm wondering if my brother misunderstood?
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 03:21 PM
Nov 2020

I'm not in healthcare, so I'm not sure what to think. Maybe they instead said it was reduced by that much?

I exclaimed, "OH, NO!!" after he said it, and then he quickly said it raised to 90% after they put an oxygen mask on her.

barbtries

(28,794 posts)
19. it think the term is hypoxia.
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 03:46 PM
Nov 2020

and i recall seeing a dr talk about people with covid whose blood oxygen was "incompatible with life" and they were sitting there texting on their phones. so i don't know. i do know that if it was in the 30s she was in real danger.

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,853 posts)
26. I'd read it's very dangerous in the 80's, so...
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 03:55 PM
Nov 2020

... hearing it was supposedly in the 30's initially (if he didn't misunderstand) sounded like death to me.

He said that she was very pale and looked absolutely awful this morning, whispering that she needed help immediately.

She was supposedly doing great the last few days and figured a full recovery was around the corner, according to our sister who is usually the telephone communication hub for the family.

moonscape

(4,673 posts)
48. I also read (or heard) a doctor talking some time ago
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 05:30 PM
Nov 2020

about patients walking into ER with oxygen levels that in any other circumstance would mean death. The super low oxygenation with covid seems different, maybe becasue it comes on so quickly? That 30 could possibly be right and she was so lucky to get in quickly.

Hope everything goes well for your family.

Laelth

(32,017 posts)
20. No way it was 30. That's lethal, instantly.
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 03:49 PM
Nov 2020

Maybe “30% down,” i.e. 70%. That’s lethal for most, but maybe she’s a tough cookie.



-Laelth

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,853 posts)
27. That's my suspicion too!
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 03:57 PM
Nov 2020

That brother was never strong with numbers/math like me and our other brother.

Turin_C3PO

(13,991 posts)
43. I've survived long periods of time
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 04:51 PM
Nov 2020

with o2 in the low 70s. I have CF and used to be very stubborn about wearing oxygen until my doctor informed me that my heart was damaged due to prolonged hypoxia. A new drug came out and I don't even need oxygen anymore but, yeah, I was playing Russian Roulette.

SaveOurDemocracy

(4,400 posts)
16. EVERY household should have a pulse oximeter. Inexpensive, easy way to check oxygen level.
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 03:21 PM
Nov 2020

Normal reading is above 95, if it drops below contact your Doc. Typical reading is 97 - 98.

If you have lung disease or sleep apnea your reading may be as low as 90 without cause for concern if that's your normal.

Boomer

(4,168 posts)
63. Figure out what is normal for you
Fri Nov 27, 2020, 02:22 PM
Nov 2020

If everyone gets an oximeter BEFORE they get sick, they'll have a clear baseline for comparison. If that number starts dropping, be on alert.

One of my lungs is compromised, so the best I can get is a reading of 95-96, and it's usually around 93-94. Knowing this, I am doing my very best not to get covid. Given my age, weight and compromised lungs, I'm not a good candidate for recovery.

Warpy

(111,259 posts)
23. People are surviving longer without intubation
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 03:52 PM
Nov 2020

They realized by the beginning of last summer that early intubation was contributing to the death toll, that people weren't retaining CO2 and were capable of breathing spontaneously and just needed high flow oxygen.

That's how this disease hits, the symptoms feel mild and people might start to feel better and WHAM!

Most people only need a few days of high flow oxygen. I hope that's the case with her. Intubation is now more of a last resort, when people come in too exhausted to breathe on their own.

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,853 posts)
56. That's indeed what happened in her case.
Mon Nov 16, 2020, 11:32 AM
Nov 2020

My sister-in-law (mid-60's) had mild symptoms for days and assumed a full recovery was around the corner. Now the hospital wants to put her on a ventilator.

She called my religious sister from the hospital herself, sounding weak, and hoping it wouldn't be the last time they talked to each other.

Yet my sister's daughter-in-law (upper-20's), who separately got infected about the same time and who had much more severe symptoms right away, feels almost completely recovered now. (She's still isolating, of course.)

Warpy

(111,259 posts)
62. That is the standard now. They only intubate people who are too exhausted to fight to breathe
Tue Nov 17, 2020, 07:16 PM
Nov 2020

or who can't maintain adeqjuate oxygenation by other means.

Early intubation was contributing to lung injury in people who would likely have recovered better on high flow oxygen.

niyad

(113,303 posts)
25. I am so sorry to hear this. May they recover quickly and completely. Remember that your DU
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 03:55 PM
Nov 2020

family is here for you.

JGug1

(320 posts)
32. That Quickly?
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 04:07 PM
Nov 2020

Absolutely. When O2 is initiated, the PO2 will go up very quickly. That is as long as the lungs are not damaged, making exchange impaired.

No Vested Interest

(5,166 posts)
33. Brother should go directly to Walgreen or CVS to get an oximeter.
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 04:23 PM
Nov 2020

Do not wait to order online from Amazon or other company.
Pennywise, pound-foolish, especially with Covid in his family and household.

No Vested Interest

(5,166 posts)
51. Yes, I am growing leery of online sales offers unless it is a well-known entity
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 06:30 PM
Nov 2020

such as L.L. Bean, etc.
Have had non-delivery of ordered product or, if I'm lucky, delivery weeks after ordering from start-ups or scammers.

calimary

(81,265 posts)
34. Oh no! Thanks for letting us know, Buckeye_Democrat.
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 04:26 PM
Nov 2020

So we can at least keep a virtual vigil with you.

Here's a virtual hug:

And some more...

And just a few more...

crickets

(25,979 posts)
37. I am so sorry to hear about this, Buckeye.
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 04:37 PM
Nov 2020

I'm glad your brother got your SIL to the hospital in time, and I hope both of them improve and recover soon.

Loupe Garoue

(4 posts)
39. Some phones have oximeters built in
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 04:45 PM
Nov 2020

If he has a Samsung phone, there is an oximeter under Samsung Health. Maybe other phones too. It seems to work pretty well.

cayugafalls

(5,640 posts)
44. omg...that was fast. they will be in my prayers...
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 04:55 PM
Nov 2020

this is all so freaking bizarre and horrible...

when will it end with 70 million people who don't even believe it exists...

wishing for sanity to return to the US.

Dem2theMax

(9,651 posts)
47. Sending thoughts that your family will recover completely and quickly.
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 05:11 PM
Nov 2020

And for everyone looking for quality medical devices, this is the place I have used for years.

activeforever.com

Both of my parents had numerous health issues over the years. I can't tell you how many things I have purchased from this site. They are reliable and honest.

I purchased a rather expensive pulse oximeter close to 10 or 12 years ago. My father had pneumonia a lot, and I needed to know his oxygen level at all times. My father has since passed on. The pulse oximeter is still going strong.


Buckeye_Democrat

(14,853 posts)
52. Thank you! (Update too.)
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 06:54 PM
Nov 2020

Received an update from our sister, the telephone junkie.

My brother is feeling much better, so maybe he'll recover just fine? On the other hand, that's what we thought about his wife until this morning. Our sister urged him again to get a highly-rated oximeter with next-day delivery if possible.

My sister's infected daughter-in-law (in her 20's) sounds and feels much better, and she's the one who was extremely ill and seemingly more worrisome yesterday.

Meanwhile, my sister-in-law was transported from a branch hospital to their main hospital around here. They're going to give her convalescent plasma from recovered Covid patients. I'm aware that recent studies have shown it's not very helpful as was hoped months ago, but that's what they're doing for now.

Thanks again to everyone for the well-wishes!

I'm logging out again now.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
53. I'm so sorry to hear about your family, Buckeye Dem.
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 07:02 PM
Nov 2020

It must be very frightening for you that it has hit so close to home and so fast. I hope they all make a quick recovery and that you all stay healthy. Sending healing thoughts.

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,853 posts)
55. UPDATE: The hospital wants to put her on a ventilator.
Mon Nov 16, 2020, 11:16 AM
Nov 2020

I've seen the troubling statistics once a Covid patient's condition is bad enough to reach that stage.

My sister-in-law had VERY MILD symptoms, for multiple days, until yesterday morning. So please remain vigilant if you're unfortunate to get infected.

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,853 posts)
57. ALSO LEARNED THAT...
Mon Nov 16, 2020, 01:55 PM
Nov 2020

... my brother and his wife were avoiding restaurants and such. I assumed they could have gave into temptation in that way, given how they used to eat in restaurants very regularly. (Unlike me, who would do it about once a year even before the pandemic.)

The sister-in-law instead got sick after babysitting her young granddaughter (my grand-niece) when my niece was busy, and it was later learned that kids at her school were infected.

We don't know with certainty, and obviously nobody in the family wants to guilt-trip my niece over this situation.

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,853 posts)
58. FINAL UPDATE FOR THIS THREAD.
Tue Nov 17, 2020, 03:18 PM
Nov 2020

My sister-in-law will apparently survive!

She refused to be placed on a ventilator, and the hospital kept her on an oxygen mask instead.

At this point, I surely don't know all of the treatments for her besides the convalescent plasma.

Anyway, my brother said that she's sounding MUCH stronger and she's back to her typical grumpy behavior again. The doctors and nurses also seem to think she'll recover and be home again soon.

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