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TalenaGor

(1,104 posts)
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 05:55 PM Nov 2020

just got a call from the nursing home- mom's positive

They've had a major outbreak in The nursing home.... They had been doing really well with only a couple of cases all year long but apparently it's gotten out of control in there now...

They moved her into quarantine as of now she's feeling really tired and has a low-grade fever....

Of course I can't see her and as of right now I can't even talk to her but I'm working on that.....

This sucks

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just got a call from the nursing home- mom's positive (Original Post) TalenaGor Nov 2020 OP
I'm sorry Bettie Nov 2020 #1
ty 💜 TalenaGor Nov 2020 #2
I'm sorry. KarenS Nov 2020 #3
That's awful. I hope she can pull through. CaliforniaPeggy Nov 2020 #4
Oh, no. My heart goes to you and to her. Squinch Nov 2020 #5
I am so sorry, Talena. sheshe2 Nov 2020 #6
Sorry to hear - Ms. Toad Nov 2020 #7
Sorry to hear it. Hoping for the best soothsayer Nov 2020 #8
Sending 💕💕💖💖💕💖❤️ MLAA Nov 2020 #9
This has to be the worst thing imaginable to a family... CTyankee Nov 2020 #10
Sorry TEB Nov 2020 #11
Sending vibes your way. mobeau69 Nov 2020 #12
Sorry she is positive Meowmee Nov 2020 #13
i'm so sorry to hear this. barbtries Nov 2020 #14
thank you yes they have been doing a stellar job all year long TalenaGor Nov 2020 #40
I'm extremely sorry. sinkingfeeling Nov 2020 #15
DU hearts are with you, TG. blm Nov 2020 #16
I'm sorry to hear this MustLoveBeagles Nov 2020 #17
thank you all...I appreciate the support!! TalenaGor Nov 2020 #18
That really does suck! Sending Positive Energy ⚡️ Both Your Way and Her's! TheBlackAdder Nov 2020 #19
krum AllaN01Bear Nov 2020 #20
So sorry, I hope she has the lightest possible case. JudyM Nov 2020 #21
I'm so sorry. 😢 Hope she has a mild case. Praying for a speedy recovery..🙏🏽Nt helpisontheway Nov 2020 #22
My heart goes out to you mercuryblues Nov 2020 #23
I'm so sorry. Hoping for the best irisblue Nov 2020 #24
It does suck TexasBushwhacker Nov 2020 #25
Sending positive thoughts to you and your mom zeusdogmom Nov 2020 #26
I'm sorry. We have had the luxury of keeping my mom at home AllyCat Nov 2020 #27
So sorry for you malaise Nov 2020 #28
Sending good vibes to you and your mom. SunSeeker Nov 2020 #29
I empathize debsy Nov 2020 #30
This is my nightmare... So sorry you're dealing with it. Holding you in the Light for strength. n/t TygrBright Nov 2020 #31
Wishing You The Best TG ProfessorGAC Nov 2020 #32
I'm sorry to hear this. rustysgurl Nov 2020 #33
I got that call, it's an awful feeling. Prayers for your mother's full and pnwest Nov 2020 #34
I hope it stays a mild version. KentuckyWoman Nov 2020 #35
Oh man, that sucks. So so sorry. The same thing recently happened to by older brother. No way to FailureToCommunicate Nov 2020 #36
I hope she recovers, ain't nothing like a mom. n/t angstlessk Nov 2020 #37
Hugs to you and your family. lunatica Nov 2020 #38
So sorry to hear that. Wellstone ruled Nov 2020 #39
Had a dear 82 yr old friend Jarqui Nov 2020 #41
I'm so sorry! That really sucks! denvine Nov 2020 #42
It more than sucks!!! BigmanPigman Nov 2020 #43
Noooooo mahina Nov 2020 #44
Very sorry to hear this. orangecrush Nov 2020 #45
Deep breath tavernier Nov 2020 #46
Sorry to hear about your mom cheezmaka Nov 2020 #47
Sending her a prayer... And now you can't see her. This is flat pathetic... Karadeniz Nov 2020 #48
I am so sorry to hear this. It does indeed suck. Hoping for a mild case and quick recovery. Your niyad Nov 2020 #49
That's got to be hard to take. I am so sorry you and she have to go through this. marble falls Nov 2020 #50
Yikes. So sorry to hear that. TigressDem Nov 2020 #51
Keep us posted please leighbythesea2 Nov 2020 #52
... Nevilledog Nov 2020 #53
That truly does suck. BobTheSubgenius Nov 2020 #54
I'm sorry 😣 ❤️ live love laugh Nov 2020 #55
Yes, it does suck! Heartstrings Nov 2020 #56
I'm sorry. area51 Nov 2020 #57
Aw, TalenaGor - I'm sorry about your unhappy news. calimary Nov 2020 #58
I'm so sorry! sdfernando Nov 2020 #59
Sincere sympathy ZERTErYNOthe Nov 2020 #60
UPDATE- as of now she is symptom free but still positive TalenaGor Nov 2020 #61
Sending good vibes malaise Nov 2020 #62
So sorry for your loss... TrishaJ Dec 2020 #63

Ms. Toad

(34,069 posts)
7. Sorry to hear -
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 06:11 PM
Nov 2020

as predicted, this week seems to be the week lots more people have first hand connections with COVID.

Hope she recovers, quicky!

CTyankee

(63,911 posts)
10. This has to be the worst thing imaginable to a family...
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 06:22 PM
Nov 2020

I'm so sorry for you and your family. Hope you can talk with her soon.

Meowmee

(5,164 posts)
13. Sorry she is positive
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 06:32 PM
Nov 2020

I thought they were being more careful at nursing homes now. I hope she recovers soon

barbtries

(28,789 posts)
14. i'm so sorry to hear this.
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 06:38 PM
Nov 2020

this fucking virus.

nursing homes it seems have been left behind. are they following protocols, can they keep people on staff, do they have and use the proper PPE?

I hope she has a mild case, recovers completely, and that you get a way to see and talk to her soon.

TalenaGor

(1,104 posts)
40. thank you yes they have been doing a stellar job all year long
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 07:37 PM
Nov 2020

they would call everyone periodically and let them know the status .... Whether there were any cases, precautions they were taking...They had only had a couple of cases all this time and they quickly moved them to a quarantine area..... But there is apparently a sudden outbreak and several people have it now 😱

TexasBushwhacker

(20,185 posts)
25. It does suck
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 06:59 PM
Nov 2020

It's usually a worker bringing it in from outside rather than transmission among the residents. I'm sorry.

AllyCat

(16,183 posts)
27. I'm sorry. We have had the luxury of keeping my mom at home
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 07:01 PM
Nov 2020

For now. Cannot imagine what it will be like when we have to move her. I hope you can find a way to visit soon and that your mother recovers well.

debsy

(530 posts)
30. I empathize
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 07:09 PM
Nov 2020

I am so sorry any of us have to go through this.

My 90-year old father was diagnosed with COVID on 11/16 (tested on 11/12). He had been under hospice care for a few months for extreme weight loss but seemed to be getting better. He fell on 11/18. The EMTs said he had hypoxia (oxygen level was under 90%) which is likely why he fell. He wound up in the hospital in a lot of pain. Since he was already a hospice patient, was inoperable due to many factors (not the least of which was his age), and he did not want any extraordinary measures taken, he was given palliative care to keep him comfortable. We FaceTimed and spoke to him on the phone but that is so impersonal. He died without any of us there to comfort him in the full COVID unit of the hospital on Wednesday.

Try and make sure your mom doesn't try and walk or at least has someone with her if she does. Hopefully, she will recover from the COVID. She might not recover from a related fall.

Best wishes for her full, safe recovery.

Debsy


ProfessorGAC

(65,010 posts)
32. Wishing You The Best TG
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 07:11 PM
Nov 2020

My BiL is in an assisted living place here in town.
They've had several cases, but very spread out over time, and more staff than residents.
Let's hope for the best.

rustysgurl

(1,040 posts)
33. I'm sorry to hear this.
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 07:17 PM
Nov 2020

Praying for you and your Mom, and hoping she pulls through with very few symptoms.

pnwest

(3,266 posts)
34. I got that call, it's an awful feeling. Prayers for your mother's full and
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 07:27 PM
Nov 2020

speedy recovery. My heart goes out to you.

FailureToCommunicate

(14,013 posts)
36. Oh man, that sucks. So so sorry. The same thing recently happened to by older brother. No way to
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 07:32 PM
Nov 2020

visit or "be there" for him.

Covid sucks

Trump sucks

Republicans suck

 

Wellstone ruled

(34,661 posts)
39. So sorry to hear that.
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 07:34 PM
Nov 2020

Spouse just minutes ago received a text from her BIL's Nursing Home contact person,saying they are notifying all the residents contact people as to five new positive cases today and that four staff people are in quarantine. This whole damn mess could have been avoided had each and everyone wore a mask both in the facility as well as outside. Mentioned this before,two to the staff never wore a mask within the community at all. In fact,both said it was a hoax.

Jarqui

(10,123 posts)
41. Had a dear 82 yr old friend
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 07:42 PM
Nov 2020

with other health issues that made her high risk in that situation a few weeks ago.

She pulled through.

Hang in there.

All the best.

denvine

(799 posts)
42. I'm so sorry! That really sucks!
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 07:43 PM
Nov 2020

Sending positive thoughts that your mother has a quick recovery with no lasting effects! I hope you get to talk to her soon.

tavernier

(12,383 posts)
46. Deep breath
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 08:10 PM
Nov 2020

We are here for you.

So much has been discovered in past few weeks and months and people are surviving.

niyad

(113,279 posts)
49. I am so sorry to hear this. It does indeed suck. Hoping for a mild case and quick recovery. Your
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 10:09 PM
Nov 2020

DU family is here for you. I

leighbythesea2

(1,200 posts)
52. Keep us posted please
Sun Nov 29, 2020, 12:54 AM
Nov 2020

It's such a worrisome situation--am glad you deem her tough tho.
My friends dad had @ age 80 an came thru fine, so everyone reacts so differently. Hang in there.

BobTheSubgenius

(11,563 posts)
54. That truly does suck.
Sun Nov 29, 2020, 01:15 AM
Nov 2020

All my very best wishes to you, your mom, and whoever else there is. I'm very sorry.

calimary

(81,222 posts)
58. Aw, TalenaGor - I'm sorry about your unhappy news.
Sun Nov 29, 2020, 03:28 PM
Nov 2020

Damn.

It didn't have to be this way. I hope you can at least see each other through the window, or something. Even that little bit of a reach-out might cheer her.

So much about this DID. NOT. HAVE. TO. HAPPEN.

sdfernando

(4,935 posts)
59. I'm so sorry!
Sun Nov 29, 2020, 05:35 PM
Nov 2020

Hope she makes a full recovery and doesn’t get too sick.

My Dad is in a home as well. He turned 93 in August. That was the last time I’ve been able to see him. I worry so much but the home is doing a great job!

ZERTErYNOthe

(199 posts)
60. Sincere sympathy
Sun Nov 29, 2020, 06:58 PM
Nov 2020

I haven't seen my family since Mid-March, when I moved my father in to assisted living. My father was diagnosed with Covid-19 a few weeks ago and hospitalized, but thankfully never needed supplemental oxygen. He has since been moved to a nursing/rehab unit, and is doing well. At first, after moving there, he didn't remember much - his children, his wife (he spent 60+ years with her). I think it was Covid fog. Two weeks later he is much better and remembers us. His younger brother, not so much. He was diagnosed after my dad, was doing well, and within 12 hours was dead. Had a Vimeo memorial service.

They were both in a really great organization, one that has also been controlling things very well, and still are, but have a few cases, which happened to impact us personally.

Sorry for making this about me, but my intention is to let you know that others have gone though this and empathize with you. I truly do, and send my love your way. While there is loss (like my uncle) there is also hope (like my father).

Please keep us up to date, and know that more people than you know are sending love and prayers your way.

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