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Danmel

(4,915 posts)
Wed Feb 24, 2021, 08:57 PM Feb 2021

My husband and son both have Covid

I tested negative but expect that to change when i go back in a couple of days.
Any prayers, vibes, wishes are gratefully accepted.
We've been as careful as possible since none of us can work from home.
And we all have vaccine appointments too, just need some supply.
I am so stressed out.

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My husband and son both have Covid (Original Post) Danmel Feb 2021 OP
Oh my ... Delphinus Feb 2021 #1
So sorry to hear this. I hope everything goes well and their recovery is uneventful. Frustratedlady Feb 2021 #2
Very important video about Vitamin & Covid Trust_Reality Feb 2021 #80
I've taken Vitamin D3 since the year before it hit. Frustratedlady Feb 2021 #81
Sending positive vibes from Boston way BlueNProud Feb 2021 #3
How awful, I hope its a mild case. Hang in there. ratchiweenie Feb 2021 #4
Sorry to hear, I hope your family has a quick and full recovery. Bluethroughu Feb 2021 #5
I can only offer my best hopes for full and complete recoveries UpInArms Feb 2021 #6
very best wishes rurallib Feb 2021 #7
Sorry to hear about your son and husband. I hope you can escape it. healthnut7 Feb 2021 #8
I hope they get well soon murielm99 Feb 2021 #9
I'm sorry. I hope you all do well. yardwork Feb 2021 #10
Big hugs to you! lunatica Feb 2021 #11
Wishing you all a full and speedy recovery. Your family will be in my prayers. 💕 SaveOurDemocracy Feb 2021 #12
While in the early stages (10 days) tell your doc you all want Monoclonal Antibodies ... Hekate Feb 2021 #13
Yes! Saw this Rachel show with Biden's Chief Scientist. Thanks for posting this info. nt iluvtennis Feb 2021 #25
Hoping for short and mild cases. onecaliberal Feb 2021 #14
Sorry. That sucks. Hang in there. ecstatic Feb 2021 #15
Best to you all, Danmel. sheshe2 Feb 2021 #16
... Nevilledog Feb 2021 #17
peace and love to you and yours. aikoaiko Feb 2021 #18
Ask your doctor about monoclonal antibodies. Our hospital is using them. Patterson Feb 2021 #19
Yes, our local hospital is using them for older patients and it makes a big difference. MLAA Feb 2021 #20
Very sorry, healing vibes to all. xo nt babylonsister Feb 2021 #21
As DUer Patterson posted MLAA Feb 2021 #22
I know it's easy to say, but please don't stress. CaptainTruth Feb 2021 #23
I'm so sorry to hear about your husband's and son's diagnosis, Danmel! LaMouffette Feb 2021 #24
Sending your son, husband, and you... ailsagirl Feb 2021 #26
Healing vibes coming your way. Hotler Feb 2021 #27
Positive vibes and good thoughts on the way. sarge43 Feb 2021 #28
Healing wishes and my sincere hope for mild cases. herding cats Feb 2021 #29
Have faith sarisataka Feb 2021 #30
You got it. MerryBlooms Feb 2021 #31
Oh sweetie I am so very sorry. mahina Feb 2021 #32
So sorry cate94 Feb 2021 #33
My thoughts are with you and your family blogslut Feb 2021 #34
For most people the symptoms are light. Hoping you all are most people. Kablooie Feb 2021 #35
I'd be stressed out as well malaise Feb 2021 #36
I'm so sorry. piddyprints Feb 2021 #37
All the best to your husband and son...and I hope you continue PittBlue Feb 2021 #38
I was very lax yesterday outdoors. SleeplessinSoCal Feb 2021 #39
Holding you all cilla4progress Feb 2021 #40
If you can locate previous posts, there have been excellent recommendations for supplements. Karadeniz Feb 2021 #41
We're all hoping the very best for you. BobTheSubgenius Feb 2021 #42
I am very sorry to hear this - may their recovery be swift. Marie Marie Feb 2021 #43
eep AllaN01Bear Feb 2021 #44
You're in our thoughts. Please up-date as you can. marble falls Feb 2021 #45
I am so sorry. Solly Mack Feb 2021 #46
all my wishes for you and your family to emerge from this unscathed overall, huge hugz Celerity Feb 2021 #47
I am so sorry to hear this, Danmel. crickets Feb 2021 #48
You are likely going to be just fine. SlogginThroughIt Feb 2021 #49
Do you have a vaccine appointment? BigmanPigman Feb 2021 #50
My son thinks he got it frim someone at work Danmel Feb 2021 #52
Very sorry to hear this, esp difficult news moonscape Feb 2021 #54
Sending vibes for healing and strength and endurance for all of you. Know that your DU family isr niyad Feb 2021 #51
Peace and strength to all of you. kairos12 Feb 2021 #53
I am so sorry. Both my daughter amd I had it and are better. It is scary. Drink lots of Demsrule86 Feb 2021 #55
You and your family will be in my prayers LetMyPeopleVote Feb 2021 #56
Prayers, of course! majdrfrtim Feb 2021 #57
See if you can get the most effective drug for prevention and treatment. MasonDreams Feb 2021 #58
This message was self-deleted by its author MasonDreams Feb 2021 #59
Here's a link to information about supplements MyMission Feb 2021 #60
here's the text regarding supplements Grasswire2 Feb 2021 #61
I know a few people who swear by quercetin ecstatic Feb 2021 #86
Take care of yourselves Generic Other Feb 2021 #62
It's very important to stay hydrated. StarryNite Feb 2021 #63
Take care. My son just had COVID and recovered. I hope your family does, too. I didn't catch it Liberty Belle Feb 2021 #64
How awful and scary for all of you lillypaddle Feb 2021 #65
So sorry, hugs to you all Meowmee Feb 2021 #66
I'm so sorry. stage left Feb 2021 #67
Stay stong. My best wishes on a complete recovery for your loved ones. oasis Feb 2021 #68
So far the boys seem to be doing well Danmel Feb 2021 #69
Please keep us updated on how they are doing wnylib Feb 2021 #84
best wishes for a good outcome for them. lark Feb 2021 #70
Sending some angels ur way (and prayers) bluestarone Feb 2021 #71
Monoclonal antibodies website karin_sj Feb 2021 #72
Sending good vibes. ananda Feb 2021 #73
Hope it's smooth sailing for both. I can sympathize, no one in my family BusyBeingBest Feb 2021 #74
I'm so sorry seta1950 Feb 2021 #75
Sending wishes for gldstwmn Feb 2021 #76
Hang in there, Danmel! calimary Feb 2021 #77
Sending Positive energy wendyb-NC Feb 2021 #78
Very informative video about Vitamin D & Covid Trust_Reality Feb 2021 #79
Checking in! marble falls Feb 2021 #82
Prayers and healing vibes... RevBrotherThomas Feb 2021 #83
wishing your family MFM008 Feb 2021 #85
So sorry. Sending thoughts for a fast and total recovery. appleannie1 Feb 2021 #87
I'm sorry you're going through this Danmel MustLoveBeagles Feb 2021 #88
You might want to talk with your doctor about Fluvoxamine. StevieM Feb 2021 #89

Frustratedlady

(16,254 posts)
2. So sorry to hear this. I hope everything goes well and their recovery is uneventful.
Wed Feb 24, 2021, 08:59 PM
Feb 2021

When I get a call from a family member having COVID, my heart sinks. However, they have all come through it fine. Good luck!

Frustratedlady

(16,254 posts)
81. I've taken Vitamin D3 since the year before it hit.
Thu Feb 25, 2021, 03:19 PM
Feb 2021

My physician prescribed it to help me with another issue and I continued on when I heard it was also good for Covid.

UpInArms

(51,283 posts)
6. I can only offer my best hopes for full and complete recoveries
Wed Feb 24, 2021, 09:08 PM
Feb 2021

For your family ... and my fervent hope that all goes as best as possible

murielm99

(30,739 posts)
9. I hope they get well soon
Wed Feb 24, 2021, 09:13 PM
Feb 2021

with no complications.

I understand why you are stressed. A friend of mine and her daughter and son had to quarantine downstairs while her husband recovered upstairs. Everyone ended up healthy and whole. I wish the same for you and your family.

SaveOurDemocracy

(4,400 posts)
12. Wishing you all a full and speedy recovery. Your family will be in my prayers. 💕
Wed Feb 24, 2021, 09:17 PM
Feb 2021

Please keep us posted.

Do you have family, friend, neighbor, co-worker...anyone you can ask to bring you supplies you need? Allow someone to do you a kindness.

Hekate

(90,681 posts)
13. While in the early stages (10 days) tell your doc you all want Monoclonal Antibodies ...
Wed Feb 24, 2021, 09:21 PM
Feb 2021

...especially if you have comorbidities like Diabetes, heart disease, or obesity.

From Rachel Maddow show 2-17-2021. It’s an infusion, not an injection or pill. It works. We all thought it was only for Trump and his cronies, but as it happens, 70% of the supply is going unused.

If your doc is unaware, do some research yourself.

Go to combatcovid.hhs.gov
for sites that have it — I assume they can ship to a hospital or clinic if one is not close.

Her show that evening kind of knocked my socks off, and I made sure to write this info down.

Best of luck to you all. Fingers crossed.

MLAA

(17,288 posts)
22. As DUer Patterson posted
Wed Feb 24, 2021, 09:33 PM
Feb 2021

monoclonal antibodies make a huge difference. My local hospital is set up to deliver them as outpatient treatment for older patients (not sure age clip). I know someone whose elderly patients got the treatment and their cases were milder than their younger daughter.

LaMouffette

(2,030 posts)
24. I'm so sorry to hear about your husband's and son's diagnosis, Danmel!
Wed Feb 24, 2021, 09:36 PM
Feb 2021

Hang in there, and you are indeed in my prayers! Wishing you the best!

ailsagirl

(22,896 posts)
26. Sending your son, husband, and you...
Wed Feb 24, 2021, 09:39 PM
Feb 2021

the greatest vibes ever. Do keep us posted.
🙏🏽 🤗🤞🏽

herding cats

(19,564 posts)
29. Healing wishes and my sincere hope for mild cases.
Wed Feb 24, 2021, 09:44 PM
Feb 2021

The Monoclonal antibodies mentioned above is the way to go if it's at all possible. It truly helps.

sarisataka

(18,652 posts)
30. Have faith
Wed Feb 24, 2021, 09:44 PM
Feb 2021

My wife, both of our kids and myself tested positive over a week ago. So far there has only been one trip to the hospital; my wife is diabetic so they wanted to check for pneumonia.

Treat the symptoms and if possible get an oximeter. It is a great tool to check on your respiratory condition.

mahina

(17,652 posts)
32. Oh sweetie I am so very sorry.
Wed Feb 24, 2021, 09:52 PM
Feb 2021

Wishing you all the best luck
Second in the poster above who said to ask for monoclonal antibody therapy. There’s a story the other day about how people think only some folks can get it but it is out there and I hope it’s available to you and your family. It really helps if you can get it.

PittBlue

(4,224 posts)
38. All the best to your husband and son...and I hope you continue
Wed Feb 24, 2021, 10:12 PM
Feb 2021

to test negative. My son, his wife and my two grandsons all had it a month ago...they have recovered nicely.

SleeplessinSoCal

(9,118 posts)
39. I was very lax yesterday outdoors.
Wed Feb 24, 2021, 10:22 PM
Feb 2021

I have to stiffen my resolve because by watching the news everything seems so much more like normal.

Getting the 2nd Moderna on Saturday. Even then we must remind ourselves to be super vigilant.

Karadeniz

(22,515 posts)
41. If you can locate previous posts, there have been excellent recommendations for supplements.
Wed Feb 24, 2021, 10:35 PM
Feb 2021

If I had Covid, I'd definitely supplement. All the best to all of you!

BobTheSubgenius

(11,563 posts)
42. We're all hoping the very best for you.
Wed Feb 24, 2021, 10:50 PM
Feb 2021

This CAN be nasty, but there's no reason to assume it will be for you. The vast majority of people that come down with it have nothing more than a bad case of the flu.

crickets

(25,979 posts)
48. I am so sorry to hear this, Danmel.
Wed Feb 24, 2021, 11:22 PM
Feb 2021

Speedy recovery to your husband and son and all the positive thoughts that somehow COVID missed you.

 

SlogginThroughIt

(1,977 posts)
49. You are likely going to be just fine.
Wed Feb 24, 2021, 11:25 PM
Feb 2021

I went through it with my and my 70 year old father. We both got it but nobody else got itZ Not my kids, nor my wife. And if you do get it, you will likely be fine. I had terrible body aches fir a couple days and some lasting exhaustion but other than that I mostly suffered boredom of being isolated from my family.

Wishing all the best for you guys!

BigmanPigman

(51,590 posts)
50. Do you have a vaccine appointment?
Wed Feb 24, 2021, 11:30 PM
Feb 2021

Since it seems that you got this from outside the home and you have all been careful so what may have gotten into your "bubble"?

Danmel

(4,915 posts)
52. My son thinks he got it frim someone at work
Wed Feb 24, 2021, 11:36 PM
Feb 2021

But who knows. My husband's coworkers are right wing loons who probably don't behave outside the office. But who knows?

moonscape

(4,673 posts)
54. Very sorry to hear this, esp difficult news
Wed Feb 24, 2021, 11:40 PM
Feb 2021

as the vaccine is within arm’s reach. Hope their cases turn out to be mild, and of course yous also should you test positive.

niyad

(113,302 posts)
51. Sending vibes for healing and strength and endurance for all of you. Know that your DU family isr
Wed Feb 24, 2021, 11:36 PM
Feb 2021

here for you. Please keep us posted.

Demsrule86

(68,565 posts)
55. I am so sorry. Both my daughter amd I had it and are better. It is scary. Drink lots of
Wed Feb 24, 2021, 11:49 PM
Feb 2021

Fluids. I drank gatorade, test your 02 and temp... hope you all feel better soon. Watch out for secondary infections. Hugs to you.

MasonDreams

(756 posts)
58. See if you can get the most effective drug for prevention and treatment.
Thu Feb 25, 2021, 01:28 AM
Feb 2021

I'm not a doctor but I'll give you some hints. The inventor of the drug got the Nobel prize for Medicine because of this drug. 3.7 Billion people, that's Billion with a B. , have taken this safe drug. Japan's top Doctor likes it for covid. NIH (USA) now says it is neutral about it for covid. A province of 200million in N. India is giving it a go. South Africa, Zimbabwe, Perth Australia. Paraguay it is being used. Egypt just finished a trial (good results) Meta analysis of trials data? All good. Google trial site news. Rural Peru stopped covid with it, Lima didn't have it and didn't avoid covid. In Belgium public health doctor says it could end the plague in six weeks. Bill & Malinda are funding more studies of it for covid treatment AND prevention.
Make an informed decision with your doctor. Covid can be prevented, nipped in the bud, and bring you back from deaths door. Then get the vaccine.

Response to Danmel (Original post)

MyMission

(1,850 posts)
60. Here's a link to information about supplements
Thu Feb 25, 2021, 01:46 AM
Feb 2021

So sorry you and your family are going through this.

Someone on this thread mentioned supplements. Here is a link that discusses several supplements that are recommended for both reducing covid symptoms, and boosting your immune system. They are easy enough to pick up or order and may be helpful, even if you get monoclonal antibodies.

https://www.uspharmacist.com/article/common-supplements-might-reduce-covid-severity

I'm a big advocate for vitamin D. Many people do not have enough, or have low normal levels. Empirical studies in several countries have shown those with lower levels face more severe complications and chance of mortality from covid.

I hope your family recovers quickly and without problems. Relax and stay positive. Most people do recover without incident, and many have had the virus with no symptoms. And they've made tremendous progress in treatment over the past year.

Grasswire2

(13,569 posts)
61. here's the text regarding supplements
Thu Feb 25, 2021, 01:49 AM
Feb 2021

For prophylaxis, the medical school recommends vitamin C (500 mg) and quercetin (250 mg-500 mg twice a day) with zinc (75 mg-100 mg per day), melatonin (0.3 mg-2 mg) each night, and vitamin D3 (1,000-4,000 IU per day). Famotidine (20 mg-40 mg per day) may be added to the mix. For patients with mild symptoms, EVMS recommends the same combination, with optional additions of ivermectin (150 ug-200 ug per kg as a single dose), and one low-dose or regular aspirin per da

ecstatic

(32,703 posts)
86. I know a few people who swear by quercetin
Thu Feb 25, 2021, 05:07 PM
Feb 2021

in conjunction with the items listed in the article (zinc, vitamin c, etc).

Liberty Belle

(9,535 posts)
64. Take care. My son just had COVID and recovered. I hope your family does, too. I didn't catch it
Thu Feb 25, 2021, 02:26 AM
Feb 2021

and neither did my husband, though we're in the same house.

We put a HEPA air filter in the bedroom and bathroom our son was using, which I think helped, and wore masks at home except when sleeping, eating, or working at my desk which is in a separate part of the house. Also I was guzzling anti-inflammatory drinks with ginger, turmeric, etc. as well as Vitamin C, zinc, etc -- everything I could think of to boost immunities.

A pulse oximeter (fingertip oxygen measure) is helpful to keep tabs on oxygen levels since low oxygen is a sign that it's time to get to a hospital but I hope that won't be needed.

COVID is scary but do remember that the vast majority of those who catch it will recover and many especially young people have only minimal symptoms. My son had only a low-grade fever and cough for about two days.

lillypaddle

(9,580 posts)
65. How awful and scary for all of you
Thu Feb 25, 2021, 04:32 AM
Feb 2021

Good vibes and wishes headed in your direction.

Keep us posted, we care.

Meowmee

(5,164 posts)
66. So sorry, hugs to you all
Thu Feb 25, 2021, 05:43 AM
Feb 2021

Take vitamin D, melatonin, vitamin C and lysine, z pack if you have symptoms. I hope you all recover asap and you don't have it. When I had it the first time no one caught it from me.

My father is at home recovering from it, he was in hospital for 2 weeks and then rehab for 1.5 weeks. They did absolutely nothing for the covid while he was there! Although I asked multiple times etc. One doc told me there is nothing to be done it is a virus! At first they said he either didn't have it or was asymptomatic but he kept testing positive. He finally had his first neg test done at home 38 days after the first positive test. He was exposed to it at the same ER the week before when he went in for a popped hernia.

Do not expect to get any special treatments unless your doc is a miracle worker. He did not have severe lung involvement but had other severe things going on. At one point his bp dropped and then O2 dropped to low 90s, they had him on oxygen for 24 hrs- O2 went to 100% on oxygen. He had high bp, some sort of heart involvement and many other issues. The first sign was overflow incontinence and possible uti- please be aware everyone, many people are presenting with only symptoms of uti but have covid and some develop severe overflow incontinence, which has not resolved, because the bladder is another area of the body that has cytokine inflammation from covid. Covid can be transmitted through urine as well.

I am sure I was getting it again from him, but my test was negative. It was going into my lungs again(had double covid pneumonia in April), I took zpack again. I was told I could get monoclonal antibodies but was not offered anything with a negative test and had to fight to get a z pack. Later my heart doc said zpack would help, which I already knew, because it has anti- inflammatory effects, I took it last time as well.

I had my first pfizer shot last week, I get the second in about 2 more weeks.

Danmel

(4,915 posts)
69. So far the boys seem to be doing well
Thu Feb 25, 2021, 10:10 AM
Feb 2021

They are each sequestered in an upstairs bedroom and i am downstairs. I bring them food, double masked and gloved, on paper plates, on s tray and run down stairs and sanitize the daylights out of everything. So far i feel ok and my temperature and oxygenation are good. Thanks for your continuing good wishes.

wnylib

(21,450 posts)
84. Please keep us updated on how they are doing
Thu Feb 25, 2021, 04:31 PM
Feb 2021

and how you are as well.

Sounds like you are doing the right things.

lark

(23,099 posts)
70. best wishes for a good outcome for them.
Thu Feb 25, 2021, 10:38 AM
Feb 2021

If neither is diabetic, they will probably not get too sick. One thing I learned from my nurse friend when I had it is the absolute importance of moving around and drinking at least 60 oz a day (not including coffee/tea/alcohol because those are diuretics). Check their oxygen frequently, especially if they feel any dizziness, shortness of breath or have difficulty breathing. Pulse oximeters aren't that expensive and are vital for this. If oxygen level goes below 90 and doesn't bounce right back in a few minutes, go to the hospital. Mine kept going down to 88, but it would bounce up within a couple of minutes and be back to good within a few more. Also, semi-liquid foods help add liquids, like jello, pudding, popsicles. Good luck.

That's exactly how it happened with us. Husband and son tested positive one week while I was negative and the next week I was positive too. They had regular flu-like symptoms, son better in 4-5 days, husband better in 7. I got the lung and heart issues and it took several weeks to get back to normal but no hospitalization was required.

karin_sj

(808 posts)
72. Monoclonal antibodies website
Thu Feb 25, 2021, 11:16 AM
Feb 2021

I was watching MSNBC last week and the doctor speaking (I forget who it was) was talking about how monoclonal antibodies really work to prevent Covid from getting worse and that he thinks more people should be treated with them. He gave this website:

CombatCOVID.hhs.gov

And this is the one to see if you qualify for treatment:

https://combatcovid.hhs.gov/i-have-covid-19/how-do-i-know-if-im-high-risk

Right now, it's mainly for people who are high risk, but you might check the link to see if you or any family members quality. They also have another link to click on that page for clinical trials for people that don't qualify as high risk.

Best of luck to you and your family. My prayers are with you.

BusyBeingBest

(8,052 posts)
74. Hope it's smooth sailing for both. I can sympathize, no one in my family
Thu Feb 25, 2021, 11:52 AM
Feb 2021

was able to work from home, although my husband's employer did vaccinate him. I think being trapped inside for hours with irresponsible/unmasked coworkers and the general public is the worst scenario, you don't have the option to avoid the virus when you have to eat and pay bills. Good luck to all of you.

calimary

(81,262 posts)
77. Hang in there, Danmel!
Thu Feb 25, 2021, 01:13 PM
Feb 2021

I’m so sorry you’re going through this.

Sending you lots of good vibes and green visualizations for health, renewal, and reinvigoration. Spring is on the way and there will be new growth and lots of new buds and shoots coming up.

wendyb-NC

(3,327 posts)
78. Sending Positive energy
Thu Feb 25, 2021, 01:49 PM
Feb 2021

, immune system, and wellness enhancing, hope filled, good vibrations to all of you. Take care.

StevieM

(10,500 posts)
89. You might want to talk with your doctor about Fluvoxamine.
Thu Feb 25, 2021, 08:14 PM
Feb 2021

It has shown outstanding results.

Here is an article on the drug. And I would definitely recommend watching the video as well.

https://www.nbclosangeles.com/investigations/ommon-anti-depressant-pill-shows-promise-in-fighting-covid-19/2516051/

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