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Demovictory9

(32,456 posts)
Sun Apr 11, 2021, 08:45 PM Apr 2021

North Carolina wedding venue turns away gay couple



A same sex couple were turned away from a popular North Carolina wedding venue after it refused to host a gay wedding due to its 'strong Christian beliefs'.

McCae Henderson and Ike Edwards booked into Highgrove Estate in Fuquay-Varina on the suggestion of a friend, and after noticing there were only spaces for the name of the 'bride' and 'groom' on the online form wrote in the notes that they were 'groom and groom'.

Two days later received a reply refusing them because 'our owner has unfortunately chosen not to participate in same-sex weddings at this time', and offering them alternative venues.

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Highgrove said they have already seen a backlash, with at least one couple cancelling their wedding, and at least one threat to the business that had been reported to police.

'The backlash is sad, it's been aggressive, hateful and designed to cause fear,' the owners said.

'What they are asking is for us to believe just like them and they will leave us alone.

'We stand by our beliefs in the sanctity of marriage and that is not going to change. We wish (McCae Henderson and Ike Edwards) to find the very best venue and that their special day is wonderful.'

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9459591/Christian-owners-North-Carolina-wedding-venue-turn-away-gay-couple.html
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OAITW r.2.0

(24,468 posts)
1. Want to be a homophobe? Reap the consequences.
Sun Apr 11, 2021, 08:49 PM
Apr 2021

Eat your cancellations like a good Christian with deeply help beliefs.

badhair77

(4,218 posts)
2. Christian values?
Sun Apr 11, 2021, 08:52 PM
Apr 2021

Does that mean they won’t allow Jewish weddings? I’m a Christian and I would attend a gay wedding. Hope they find a nice venue. Also hope others cancel their reservations and let them sit with lots of openings.

Mariana

(14,856 posts)
11. I bet they allow divorced people to marry there.
Sun Apr 11, 2021, 10:17 PM
Apr 2021

Christ taught that, in most cases, divorced people who remarry are committing adultery.

I hate hypocrites.

Cha

(297,212 posts)
14. Yeah, ,that Blared out at
Mon Apr 12, 2021, 02:16 AM
Apr 2021

me..

Bullshit Values is what they are.

My Sister is a True Christian and actually lives in Asheville, NC of course would go to a Gay Wedding at the Grove Park Inn or anywhere.

Funtatlaguy

(10,875 posts)
3. I love the last lying line...."their special day is wonderful ".
Sun Apr 11, 2021, 08:57 PM
Apr 2021

Just be honest.
Say that they believe that their religion allows for them to discriminate against gay couples.

LonePirate

(13,420 posts)
4. Much like in the past 232, religion is being used as an excuse not to follow the law.
Sun Apr 11, 2021, 08:58 PM
Apr 2021

These Highgrove people need to be jailed. Religion cannot be used as an excuse to murder someone. It should not be used to practice illegal discrimination.

roamer65

(36,745 posts)
5. Start taking it out on the anti-vaxxers.
Sun Apr 11, 2021, 09:10 PM
Apr 2021

Nothing like some good ‘ol RETRIBUTION. Most of them are religious nuts.

Maru Kitteh

(28,340 posts)
6. Fuquay-Varina? NOT SURPRISED IN THE LEAST. I used to live in Willow Spring.
Sun Apr 11, 2021, 09:12 PM
Apr 2021

(4 miles away) So, yeah. I can see that.

GodlessX

(40 posts)
12. Not surprised either
Mon Apr 12, 2021, 01:38 AM
Apr 2021

Small world! I lived there when I was married
about 25 years ago before it got “big”, lol. My
former in-laws lived in Willow Spring and still do.
Having my Uber-Christian in-laws only 4 miles
away was too close for my comfort.

keithbvadu2

(36,802 posts)
9. Would they marry a 'Christian' couple where one has been divorced and probably going to commit adult
Sun Apr 11, 2021, 09:51 PM
Apr 2021

Would they marry a 'Christian' couple where one has been divorced and probably going to commit adultery in the new marriage?

Jesus was very, very specific on the limits of divorce.

vercetti2021

(10,156 posts)
13. Beliefs over profit?
Mon Apr 12, 2021, 01:52 AM
Apr 2021

See like it bothers me in two ways. Being fucking a fake Christian. But also losing out on money too. God these people are stupid as fuck

Solly Mack

(90,766 posts)
15. Renting out a venue does not mean you have to believe as someone else believes.
Mon Apr 12, 2021, 04:02 AM
Apr 2021

That's a bullshit response.

As is "the sanctity of marriage" response.

Cloaking your bigotry in slogans and platitudes doesn't make it any less bigotry.





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