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riversedge

(70,285 posts)
Wed Sep 8, 2021, 08:27 AM Sep 2021

An Iowa teacher was placed on leave after sharing he is bisexual. His students staged a walkout.

As far as I can tell
it is a public high school. It is 2021. WTF!!



An Iowa teacher was placed on leave after sharing he is bisexual. His students staged a walkout.
https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2021/09/07/iowa-students-lucas-kaufmann-administrative-leave/5763775001/





Samantha Hernandez Sarah Kay LeBlanc
Des Moines Register

DES MOINES, Iowa — Cora Smith walked out of Winterset's High School Tuesday with a bisexual pride flag draped over her shoulders.

The 10th grader was among more than 100 students who walked out a in protest over the school district placing seventh-grade literacy teacher Lucas Kaufmann on leave.

Kaufmann was placed on leave last week following a presentation about himself to his class featured the LGBT Pride flag, according to a www.change.org petition. When asked by students, Kaufmann said he was bisexual.

Nearly 1,500 people have signed the online petition. "We're hoping that this will help Mr. Kaufmann," Smith said.

Winterset Community School District Superintendent Justin Gross confirmed Kaufmann was placed on leave after concerns were raised following his presentation, but declined further comment. State law prohibits employers from firing employees based on sexual orientation and gender identification, which Gross acknowledged.
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An Iowa teacher was placed on leave after sharing he is bisexual. His students staged a walkout. (Original Post) riversedge Sep 2021 OP
Winterset, Iowa madaboutharry Sep 2021 #1
Message auto-removed Name removed Sep 2021 #16
If there are LGBTQ students in his class who are afraid of coming out Aristus Sep 2021 #17
Message auto-removed Name removed Sep 2021 #21
ANTIFA Flags? Jim G. Sep 2021 #26
More uncomfortable than Nazi or Confederate flags? Aristus Sep 2021 #28
You Won't Get A Serious Reply From That One Jim G. Sep 2021 #33
Dang I missed it. Solomon Sep 2021 #56
Post removed Post removed Sep 2021 #36
Jim G. was right. You just showed your hand. Aristus Sep 2021 #38
Yup. BumRushDaShow Sep 2021 #40
That Was A Known RW Troll Jim G. Sep 2021 #43
You caught it before the rest of us... Aristus Sep 2021 #44
Good morning. mn9driver Sep 2021 #19
Why not? Happy Hoosier Sep 2021 #25
Message auto-removed Name removed Sep 2021 #34
Reading skills are important. mn9driver Sep 2021 #35
Message auto-removed Name removed Sep 2021 #41
I was addressing the politics of Madison County. madaboutharry Sep 2021 #27
K&R ck4829 Sep 2021 #2
So he did a presentation on *his* sexuality to his students? fescuerescue Sep 2021 #3
I didn't see anything about his presentation being about sex obamanut2012 Sep 2021 #5
Article says this LeftInTX Sep 2021 #29
lol whut WhiskeyGrinder Sep 2021 #6
I tend to agree--this was not something for the classroom. However...... DFW Sep 2021 #7
As long as no other teacher say or infer they are straight FreeState Sep 2021 #53
As a teacher I introduce myself to my classes dsc Sep 2021 #9
This message was self-deleted by its author pinkstarburst Sep 2021 #10
None of my teachers ever did any kind of "presentation" about themselves. Treefrog Sep 2021 #12
NOPE. Happy Hoosier Sep 2021 #30
Could you link the presentation that you saw? fescuerescue Sep 2021 #51
Hmm . . . Does that mean that straight teachers should never refer to their husbands/wives Ms. Toad Sep 2021 #54
Well it's awhile but no fescuerescue Sep 2021 #55
Straight people aren't even aware of how often they announce their sexuality, Ms. Toad Sep 2021 #58
The high note of this is that Bettie Sep 2021 #4
The students say it's important for gay kids to have a role model, SharonClark Sep 2021 #13
Winterset...home town of John Wayne... IowaGuy Sep 2021 #37
Not sure it's 2021 in Winterset Iowa. n/t Whiskeytide Sep 2021 #8
2021...you do understand that there is little protection for LGBTQ? In Ohio the legislature Demsrule86 Sep 2021 #11
Outrageous and sad. I would think that ... Whiskeytide Sep 2021 #14
I would think so too, but it doesn't. And consider this. In Ohio many of our public Demsrule86 Sep 2021 #15
I also think EndlessWire Sep 2021 #18
That's too bad, he was well-liked by his students. Wingus Dingus Sep 2021 #20
So what crossed the line in his presentation? Happy Hoosier Sep 2021 #23
Well, mentioning isn't presentation. Wingus Dingus Sep 2021 #24
Read again. Happy Hoosier Sep 2021 #31
Depends on what was said. If he focused any part of the Wingus Dingus Sep 2021 #32
This makes no sense to me. Happy Hoosier Sep 2021 #48
This message was self-deleted by its author pinkstarburst Sep 2021 #45
Fire up the lawsuit! Happy Hoosier Sep 2021 #22
So . . . what was in the presentation? Sympthsical Sep 2021 #39
Is it any wonder that this happened? Behind the Aegis Sep 2021 #42
Well said. WhiskeyGrinder Sep 2021 #47
You got that right! Happy Hoosier Sep 2021 #49
+1 MustLoveBeagles Sep 2021 #52
Right? Bettie Sep 2021 #57
I didn't even know there was a bisexual pride flag DavidDvorkin Sep 2021 #46
Pretty much everyone has one now. Behind the Aegis Sep 2021 #50

Response to madaboutharry (Reply #1)

Aristus

(66,446 posts)
17. If there are LGBTQ students in his class who are afraid of coming out
Wed Sep 8, 2021, 11:24 AM
Sep 2021

because they worry they'll be bullied, or at least not understood by their classmates, sure.

It's a way of putting a human face on what to many may be an abstract issue.

Looks like it worked, too. Such courage and empathy the students showed in support of their teacher. It's reasonable to assume now that they would do the same for their fellow students.

This is a plus, and should be viewed that way...

Response to Aristus (Reply #17)

Aristus

(66,446 posts)
28. More uncomfortable than Nazi or Confederate flags?
Wed Sep 8, 2021, 11:50 AM
Sep 2021

I'm not asking that just to be provocative. The rainbow and ANTIFA flags represent a net positive, whereas Nazi and Confederate flags represent an unequivocal negative. There's no both-siderisms here.

Response to Aristus (Reply #28)

Aristus

(66,446 posts)
38. Jim G. was right. You just showed your hand.
Wed Sep 8, 2021, 12:20 PM
Sep 2021

Confederate flag: independence, history, heritage; ANTIFA - Nazis, KKK.

Enjoy your stay...

I'm done...

Response to Happy Hoosier (Reply #25)

mn9driver

(4,428 posts)
35. Reading skills are important.
Wed Sep 8, 2021, 12:14 PM
Sep 2021

He didn’t drape a flag around his shoulders. That was one of his students in response to his suspension. Spending a lot of time in libraries helps with reading for detail, don’t you think?

Response to mn9driver (Reply #35)

madaboutharry

(40,218 posts)
27. I was addressing the politics of Madison County.
Wed Sep 8, 2021, 11:50 AM
Sep 2021

Not whether the teacher said anything personal.

But let us just say that he said he was heterosexual and had a wife or a girlfriend. Would he have been placed on leave? I think not.

fescuerescue

(4,448 posts)
3. So he did a presentation on *his* sexuality to his students?
Wed Sep 8, 2021, 08:48 AM
Sep 2021

That seems inappropriate no matter what flag he flies.

Especially since he teaches English. Not health.

obamanut2012

(26,111 posts)
5. I didn't see anything about his presentation being about sex
Wed Sep 8, 2021, 08:57 AM
Sep 2021

Can you link to that? Because that would be wholly inappropriate, and then he should be fired.

LeftInTX

(25,519 posts)
29. Article says this
Wed Sep 8, 2021, 11:50 AM
Sep 2021
Kaufmann was placed on leave last week following a presentation about himself to his class featured the LGBT Pride flag, according to a www.change.org petition. When asked by students, Kaufmann said he was bisexual.


Details aren't the best though because what kind of presentation was it? Was he doing a generic "get to know your teacher" that happened to include a flag? Context just isn't clear.

DFW

(54,436 posts)
7. I tend to agree--this was not something for the classroom. However......
Wed Sep 8, 2021, 09:00 AM
Sep 2021

Kudos to the students for supporting him, nonetheless!

The principal could have called the guy into his office for a quiet reprimand, and it would have sufficed. It's not like the teacher was looking for recruits.

FreeState

(10,576 posts)
53. As long as no other teacher say or infer they are straight
Wed Sep 8, 2021, 09:14 PM
Sep 2021

I’d agree with you. But we all know that’s not the case.

dsc

(52,166 posts)
9. As a teacher I introduce myself to my classes
Wed Sep 8, 2021, 09:12 AM
Sep 2021

and do tell them thing about myself. In my case that I am a recovering alcoholic and that I am in the Triangle Gay Men's Chorus. The sentient ones likely figure out the rest.

Response to fescuerescue (Reply #3)

 

Treefrog

(4,170 posts)
12. None of my teachers ever did any kind of "presentation" about themselves.
Wed Sep 8, 2021, 10:03 AM
Sep 2021

In elementary school, I remember seeing one of my teachers in a grocery store and being amazed lol.

My mother (who had been a teacher) thought that was hysterical, chiding me that teachers were people too.

I can't imagine why he thought it was appropriate to talk about his sexuality to his students.

Happy Hoosier

(7,376 posts)
30. NOPE.
Wed Sep 8, 2021, 11:50 AM
Sep 2021

He made a brief presentation about himself of which one small part mentioned, by inference, his sexuality.

He wasn't including diagrams.

Ms. Toad

(34,086 posts)
54. Hmm . . . Does that mean that straight teachers should never refer to their husbands/wives
Wed Sep 8, 2021, 10:36 PM
Sep 2021

Never have a picture of their spouse on their desk? Wear a wedding ring? Each of those announces - in school, in whatever class they are teaching, that they have sex with someone of the opposite gender.

If it is inappropriate for an LGBT person to disclose ther sexuality, it is equally inappropriate for a straight person to do so.

Just had my hair cut by a daughter's buddy high school buddy who was suspended 15 years ago for wearing an, "I love my girlfriend" T-shirt. A substantial portion of the class reacted the same way this class did, - they all planned to wear matching T-shirts. After being threatened with suspension they wore "Free Speech" shirts instead of shirts that matched my daughter's buddy's.

The principal who suspended her wore a wedding ring and had a picture of his wife on his desk. Which I pointed out to him when I promised him that if he suspended my daughter he'd have a legal fight on his hands.

Can't believe I'm still having this conversation.

fescuerescue

(4,448 posts)
55. Well it's awhile but no
Thu Sep 9, 2021, 08:19 AM
Sep 2021

No

None of my teachers ever did a presentation on themselves, their sexuality or their family. Especially in ENGLISH class!!

Occasionally I heard a reference to a husband or wife. But even that was pretty darn uncommon. In fact I'm trying to recall such a conversation and I'm coming up empty (of course high school was 30+ years ago)

Honestly, my teachers really did stick to teaching.


As for wedding rings. I have never heard of that being controversial for anyone. Now or back then.

The only time I've ever heard of someone getting upset over a wedding band is when it's worn when it shouldn't - such as operating machinery where such a practice is dangerous.

I suppose I could do some googling over wedding band protests, wedding band suspensions etc, but I'll just rely on my memory here.

But I'll say this. Yes. No teacher should be talking about their sexuality to their students. Straight or otherwise. It's just inappropriate.


Ms. Toad

(34,086 posts)
58. Straight people aren't even aware of how often they announce their sexuality,
Thu Sep 9, 2021, 10:03 AM
Sep 2021

And don't even notice when other straight people do it, But are outraged when LGBTQ people do exactly the same.
.
My point about wedding bands isn't that straight people are being suspended for wearing them -it is that they aren't, but that it is one more way straight people announce their sexuality - or even invite conversation about their sexuality, without even being aware of it. My spouse had her first wedding band stolen, because she removed it when she arrived at work out of fear she would be asked about her husband and have to choose between disclosing her sexuality and lying. She tucked it into the pocket of the sweater she kept on her chair when she arrived, and left it there by accident one night and it was gone the next morning.

I wore mine at work, As a public school teacher, and was frequently asked about my husband by both students and faculty.

Most people who have never had to think about hiding their sexuality talk about their own with great regularity without any awareness at all that they are even doing it - and are similarly unaware when others do it.

Bettie

(16,121 posts)
4. The high note of this is that
Wed Sep 8, 2021, 08:54 AM
Sep 2021

the students advocated for him.

In Winterset Iowa, a town of about 5,000. Red as can be.

The kids walked out over this. I think that is a ray of hope.

SharonClark

(10,014 posts)
13. The students say it's important for gay kids to have a role model,
Wed Sep 8, 2021, 10:05 AM
Sep 2021

especially in deep red Madison County. I'm sure this was ginned up by the right-wing rag mentioned in the article.

Demsrule86

(68,643 posts)
11. 2021...you do understand that there is little protection for LGBTQ? In Ohio the legislature
Wed Sep 8, 2021, 09:20 AM
Sep 2021

enacted a law that gives Medical professionals and insurance companies to refuse to give or in the insurance company's case have to pay for treatment of LGBTQ people. So in Ohio, it is OK to literally kill people like my daughter...It is not 2021 in a number of states.

"Ohio Gov. Mike DeWine, a Republican, signed a bill late last month that allows any medical provider to deny treatment to LGBTQ patients based on “moral grounds.” The measure comes months after Arkansas, South Dakota, and Montana enacted similar legislation, indicating a growing trend among Republican-controlled state legislatures.

The Ohio provision was tucked inside a 700-page document of amendments to the state’s two-year budget bill and remained largely unexamined until DeWine had signed it into law. The governor didn’t mention the change in a four-page summation of the amendments posted to his website."

https://fortune.com/2021/07/09/ohio-law-allows-doctors-to-deny-health-care-and-birth-control-to-lgbtq-patients.

Whiskeytide

(4,462 posts)
14. Outrageous and sad. I would think that ...
Wed Sep 8, 2021, 10:06 AM
Sep 2021

… having a moral objection to treating people due to their orientation would violate just about every oath taken by health care professionals.

I just don’t understand what is wrong with people.

Demsrule86

(68,643 posts)
15. I would think so too, but it doesn't. And consider this. In Ohio many of our public
Wed Sep 8, 2021, 11:11 AM
Sep 2021

hospitals have closed so there are many communities that have only Catholic hospitals...Catholics even some doctors and nurses are against abortion and LGBTQ as well. There is a law on the books now in Ohio that a woman can't go to a public hospital if she has medical issues due to an abortion. The doctor can be charged. This means that even in miscarriage a doctor must be certain abortion was not involved. It is a nightmare.

EndlessWire

(6,562 posts)
18. I also think
Wed Sep 8, 2021, 11:28 AM
Sep 2021

that it was inappropriate for the teacher to talk about his own sexuality, and that's even if he was teaching health class, which he wasn't. He seems to lack some discernment for what can be talked about, and what is better left to the parent, or at least some other point in time. There is nothing bold or daring about this. Not the time to raise the gay pride flag, either. Stick to your subject.

There was absolutely no reason to make an issue of this, unless some kid was giving out signs of impending suicide over their own situation. And then, a referral would have been more appropriate. If some kid had tried it, then a global response of acceptance may have been acceptable, but they aren't saying this is what happened.

Wingus Dingus

(8,059 posts)
20. That's too bad, he was well-liked by his students.
Wed Sep 8, 2021, 11:39 AM
Sep 2021

It's one thing to mention your partner (of same or opposite gender) in the course of classroom chatter, as my teachers sometimes did. Or to briefly acknowledge you're bisexual or gay or straight. Most kids can handle those facts, and you're not making a point of telling them all about it. Where he went wrong was making a presentation about it.

Happy Hoosier

(7,376 posts)
23. So what crossed the line in his presentation?
Wed Sep 8, 2021, 11:48 AM
Sep 2021

Where the FUCK is the logic of that? Would a straight teacher be suspended for making a point of mentioning they were straight?

FUCK THIS and FUCK anyone who supports this.

Wingus Dingus

(8,059 posts)
24. Well, mentioning isn't presentation.
Wed Sep 8, 2021, 11:49 AM
Sep 2021

Presentation means a focus on the topic, and prepared material. Mentioning is just a brief noting of a fact.

Happy Hoosier

(7,376 posts)
31. Read again.
Wed Sep 8, 2021, 11:51 AM
Sep 2021

The presentation was about himself in general. It's included a pride flag. When asked by students, he said he is bisexual. Where's the problem?

Are you advocating for a "don't ask, don't tell" policy?

Wingus Dingus

(8,059 posts)
32. Depends on what was said. If he focused any part of the
Wed Sep 8, 2021, 11:55 AM
Sep 2021

presentation on his orientation that was probably too much. My teachers never stood in front of class and talked about their orientation. We just mostly surmised it from "My husband is a dentist" or "My wife is in the hospital so I will be out this week".

Happy Hoosier

(7,376 posts)
48. This makes no sense to me.
Wed Sep 8, 2021, 02:43 PM
Sep 2021

Why should someone have to hide something as basic as that about themselves?

So we have to dance around fundamental aspects of ourselves out of fear of offending someone? NOPE.

Response to Happy Hoosier (Reply #31)

Happy Hoosier

(7,376 posts)
22. Fire up the lawsuit!
Wed Sep 8, 2021, 11:46 AM
Sep 2021

He better be getting paid, and he better not have his career prospects limited.

This is out-fucking-rageous.

Sympthsical

(9,097 posts)
39. So . . . what was in the presentation?
Wed Sep 8, 2021, 12:21 PM
Sep 2021

I googled around, but haven't been able to find anything other than a Pride flag was involved.

The Superintendent knows orientation is a protected class by law, so he'd have to have pretty good reason or else he'd be in for some shit. What is it he's claiming happened here?

These articles are surprisingly light on details. I always get a little suspicious when people and articles kind of talk around a situation and don't give a clear view of how everything got from A to B. I'm sure the reporter must know. Would they mind filling us in?

I'm a gay man at a position of authority at my job, so I'd be interested to know what exactly went down here.

Behind the Aegis

(53,976 posts)
42. Is it any wonder that this happened?
Wed Sep 8, 2021, 12:25 PM
Sep 2021

One simply has to look at comments in THIS thread to see why this happened.

People are wondering why this happening in 2021, but why is this happening HERE in 2021?!

DavidDvorkin

(19,485 posts)
46. I didn't even know there was a bisexual pride flag
Wed Sep 8, 2021, 02:20 PM
Sep 2021

Which I guess is indicative of how invisible bisexuals are.

Behind the Aegis

(53,976 posts)
50. Pretty much everyone has one now.
Wed Sep 8, 2021, 02:46 PM
Sep 2021

However, the bi pride flag has been around for over 20 years. It looks like this:

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