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Happy Anniversary to us with 51 years of marriage today. (Original Post) usaf-vet Nov 2021 OP
Congratulations on your milestone... lapucelle Nov 2021 #1
many congratulations to you! markie Nov 2021 #2
Congrats. Don't sweat the small stuff. twodogsbarking Nov 2021 #3
That's wonderful!!! BComplex Nov 2021 #4
Happy Anniversary! gademocrat7 Nov 2021 #5
Congrats!! Celerity Nov 2021 #6
CONGRATULATIONS to you and your beloved. pazzyanne Nov 2021 #7
Congratulations!!! Trueblue Texan Nov 2021 #8
Congratulations! Bluethroughu Nov 2021 #9
Wonderful! Tucker08087 Nov 2021 #10
Congratulations. sinkingfeeling Nov 2021 #11
Happy! Bmoboy Nov 2021 #12
Hang in there! usaf-vet Nov 2021 #23
what they said. onethatcares Nov 2021 #13
Good one! LOL usaf-vet Nov 2021 #22
we're on our second 51 onethatcares Nov 2021 #26
.. Demovictory9 Nov 2021 #14
Congratulations..54 years is no small fete..enjoy your day together.. asiliveandbreathe Nov 2021 #15
Your welcome! usaf-vet Nov 2021 #19
Happy Anniversary! redwitch Nov 2021 #16
Happy Anniversary! Thtwudbeme Nov 2021 #17
Got you beat:) Alien Life Form Nov 2021 #18
Same to you fellow vet. 1969 was my discharge year. Got married the next fall. usaf-vet Nov 2021 #20
Yes it just might work out! :) Alien Life Form Nov 2021 #33
Congrats! SheltieLover Nov 2021 #21
Congrats! Nice to know others manage longterm insanity as well Maeve Nov 2021 #24
Happy anniversary! And Happy Thanksgiving! calimary Nov 2021 #25
Congratulations! Luciferous Nov 2021 #27
Happy Anniversary and Happy Thanksgiving FakeNoose Nov 2021 #28
Wow! I'm 26 years at the same job and that's only half of that time. TheBlackAdder Nov 2021 #29
Congratulations! cate94 Nov 2021 #30
Happy Anniversary! Haggard Celine Nov 2021 #31
Congratulations! brer cat Nov 2021 #32
Happy Anniversary! MLAA Nov 2021 #34
COngratulations! Bettie Nov 2021 #35
Congratulations! 🎉 electric_blue68 Nov 2021 #36
Congrats malaise Nov 2021 #37
Happy anniversary, great post Retired Engineer Bob Nov 2021 #38
That is a milestone plus one DFW Nov 2021 #39
Congrats and Many More! LeftInTX Nov 2021 #40
When did the Cape Cod Time do the series. If it wasn't obvious from my OP the wife and I are there. usaf-vet Nov 2021 #42
Dated Nov 2020 LeftInTX Nov 2021 #43
Here: LeftInTX Nov 2021 #44
Thank You for the website. I printed it out and will make for interesting reading. usaf-vet Nov 2021 #45
Happy anniversary, guys. Love your choices back then. Hortensis Nov 2021 #41

onethatcares

(16,168 posts)
13. what they said.
Thu Nov 25, 2021, 09:12 AM
Nov 2021

and remember, the second 51 are easier cause all the wrinkles have been ironed out during the first 51.



Congrats

onethatcares

(16,168 posts)
26. we're on our second 51
Thu Nov 25, 2021, 09:48 AM
Nov 2021

of a marriage my folks/her folks and everyone else that knew us said was not going to last 51 days.

"It was a teenage wedding, and everybody wished them well. C'est la vie" say the old folks, goes to show you never can tell"

boy, were we surprised.

again, congrats

asiliveandbreathe

(8,203 posts)
15. Congratulations..54 years is no small fete..enjoy your day together..
Thu Nov 25, 2021, 09:18 AM
Nov 2021

As a 6th grader, we learned the story of the pilgrimage to a new world.. our class trip was to Plymouth Rock and the mayflower..early summer of late fifties..it was a time you could reach out and touch the rock..they had to lower it some years ago, out of reach of those who would chip at it..

A visit to Plymouth and the Pilgrim village should be on everyone's bucket list, if going to be in the area..and, of course, the Mayflower..just stand below deck, and take in your surroundings..not your everyday cruise. Wonderful how the locals have preserved the village..

Miles Standish Monument stands out as well..for a kid of 10-or 11, I remember how high the circular staircase was, much fun to climb..

My last trip back was in '98 for my daughters wedding..brought a friend from AZ who had never been to New England..we traveled over 2500 miles during a 3 week visit, having used a cottage rental in E Dennis as base..from Provincetown, to Marthas Vineyard (yes, jeep on ferry)..north to Salem, up to Portand ME..down to taking in Fanuel Hall in Boston..my friend loved the authentic dress, and feast prepping (mid Oct visit) at Plymouth most of all - (she was an elementary school teacher) - ..congrats again..and thanks for tapping into one of my fondest memories..

Alien Life Form

(370 posts)
18. Got you beat:)
Thu Nov 25, 2021, 09:27 AM
Nov 2021

52 years of marriage here. Married on 4th of July 1969 ..and also USAF vet! Also live in that area...Rhode Island to be exact..
Congrats and Happy Thanksgiving to you and all here!




usaf-vet

(6,186 posts)
20. Same to you fellow vet. 1969 was my discharge year. Got married the next fall.
Thu Nov 25, 2021, 09:36 AM
Nov 2021

My wife was still in college. That's why we picked Thanksgiving. Just enough time to get married have a few days for a honeymoon then she went back to school and I went back to work.

Doesn't sound like a great way to start but 51 years later seems like it might work.

Maeve

(42,282 posts)
24. Congrats! Nice to know others manage longterm insanity as well
Thu Nov 25, 2021, 09:44 AM
Nov 2021

Hubby and I have made it 45 years so far without killing each other...

TheBlackAdder

(28,193 posts)
29. Wow! I'm 26 years at the same job and that's only half of that time.
Thu Nov 25, 2021, 10:11 AM
Nov 2021

.

My boss just retired and said he's been doing the same thing for 35 years and he can't see returning to it, even as a consultant.

Kudos! Best wishes for having that magic that people dream of as kids when they think of getting married!

You guys made it work!

.

Bettie

(16,105 posts)
35. COngratulations!
Thu Nov 25, 2021, 10:57 AM
Nov 2021

It is wonderful to have that person beside you who makes the good things in life better and the bad things easier to bear.

38. Happy anniversary, great post
Thu Nov 25, 2021, 04:52 PM
Nov 2021

I have a hard time understanding why folks desire to deny our collective past; the good, bad, and ugly. Germany seems to have the right attitude towards addressing their past. School kids must visit a Holocaust museum, reparations have been made amongst other things.

LeftInTX

(25,316 posts)
40. Congrats and Many More!
Sat Nov 27, 2021, 09:49 AM
Nov 2021

Cape Cod Times did an in-depth series. However I'm on my phone, so it's in the ether. Otherwise, I would share.

usaf-vet

(6,186 posts)
42. When did the Cape Cod Time do the series. If it wasn't obvious from my OP the wife and I are there.
Sat Nov 27, 2021, 12:00 PM
Nov 2021

usaf-vet

(6,186 posts)
45. Thank You for the website. I printed it out and will make for interesting reading.
Sat Nov 27, 2021, 01:15 PM
Nov 2021

Now for the rest of the story. As Paul Harvey used to say.

My wife spent 35 years digging out the data to prove her grandmother's folklore story that they were direct descendent of the Mayflower. She established the connection in 2017.

We have always known that history books were only telling one side of the story.

Forty some years we moved to Wisconsin to be near family. We did not know that the move would put us in between two Ojibwa Tribal Reservations. The historical stories from this are not very different from those of the Wampanoaugs Tribal members on Cape Cod. The tribal elders here are working had to save their history and their tribal language.

I do not know if tribes from New England regions suffered the disgraceful history of having their young people sent off to boarding schools where the intent was to take the Native American language and heritage away from the children. The results were tragic.
One source that tells the actual history of these boarding schools:

Boarding School Season Brenda. J. Child 1995

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0803264054/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1

Recently regional news stories are reporting the discovery of graves of hundreds of young native kids that died in those schools.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
41. Happy anniversary, guys. Love your choices back then.
Sat Nov 27, 2021, 11:09 AM
Nov 2021

This TG included a couple who married just a few years ago in their early 70s (instead of the early '70s). On a ship with everyone in pirate costume, and of course all actual history banished. Kinda different, but also a happy couple.

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