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luvs2sing

(2,220 posts)
Sun Dec 19, 2021, 11:14 AM Dec 2021

Sad update..

Earlier in the week, I posted requesting that you wonderful people keep my friend,
Charlie, in your thoughts as he fought Covid. Sadly, last night, Covid won, and one of the beautiful souls of the world died. On top of Covid pneumonia, his body rejected his transplanted kidney. Nothing more could be done.

I knew Charlie through music, but there was much I didn’t know about him and am now learning as tributes pour in. Here’s what I do know. Charlie received a kidney transplant two years ago and became a transplant mentor to others. He was a social worker. In preparation for the kidney transplant, he lost over 200 pounds, had heart surgery, and had one leg amputated below the knee because of an infection that would not heal. Like a true son of The Bronx, his prosthesis was decorated with New York Yankees emblems, a fact that spurred a lot of teasing and good-natured arguing with those of us who hate the Yankees. He was a pillar of his small West Virginia community and a mainstay in the larger West Virginia arts scene with The Carpenter Ants and other groups. He was Muslim, his wife is Jewish, and his children identify specifically as “liberal Christian”. He never met a stranger, and everyone he met became part of his huge blended family.

What I didn’t know is that his interest in good nutrition and diet that had helped him lose 200 pounds and become healthy enough for a transplant turned into a passion for food and cooking. He was remodeling his kitchen and was going to go to culinary school after the holidays.

I don’t claim to know or understand where our souls go when we die, but wherever it is, it became a much happier and brighter place last night when Charlie Tee arrived.

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Sad update.. (Original Post) luvs2sing Dec 2021 OP
A beautiful tribute. Arkansas Granny Dec 2021 #1
My sympathy to you for the loss of a friend, you have written a wonderful tribute to his character ShazamIam Dec 2021 #2
+1 grantcart Dec 2021 #7
I'm so sorry for your loss. Nt helpisontheway Dec 2021 #3
So very sorry for your loss. You describe a caring, warm and loving person. Fla Dem Dec 2021 #4
I'm sorry about the loss of your friend, luvs2sing. calimary Dec 2021 #5
Condolences to you pandr32 Dec 2021 #6
So sorry. John Ludi Dec 2021 #8
🕯️I am so sorry for your loss irisblue Dec 2021 #9
I am so very sorry, luvs2sing. What a beautiful and loving tribute to a lovely soul. niyad Dec 2021 #10
Love to you and all those touched by Charlie's bright light. MLAA Dec 2021 #11
I'm very sorry for the worlds loss of Charlie. Kimber432 Dec 2021 #12
Peace Donkees Dec 2021 #13
As a You Tube music fanatic, I came across his music a few years ago. Jon King Dec 2021 #14
...and the Wheel turns. WheelWalker Dec 2021 #15
so sorry for you loss Celerity Dec 2021 #16
I'm so very sorry. onecaliberal Dec 2021 #17
It sounds as though Charlie went through a lot in his life, lived it well. Lonestarblue Dec 2021 #18
Rest in Peace, Charlie FakeNoose Dec 2021 #19
So very sorry... PCIntern Dec 2021 #20
My deepest condolences to you on the loss of a very special friend. virgdem Dec 2021 #21
May he rest peacefully forever in your heart.......nt Heartstrings Dec 2021 #22
(((hugs))) samnsara Dec 2021 #23
So very sorry for your loss, condolences to all that knew your friend Charlie..n/t SheilaAnn Dec 2021 #24
So sorry to hear that wendyb-NC Dec 2021 #25
What a wonderful person; so sorry for your loss.. appalachiablue Dec 2021 #26
He sounded like MFM008 Dec 2021 #27
Just want to say redirish45 Dec 2021 #28
I am so sorry for your loss mercuryblues Dec 2021 #29
Deepest condolences SheltieLover Dec 2021 #30
May the FSM embrace him. /nt Whatthe_Firetruck Dec 2021 #31
I'm sorry he didn't make it MustLoveBeagles Dec 2021 #32
So sorry for your loss. Mad_Dem_X Dec 2021 #33
Condolences on the loss of your dear friend. gademocrat7 Dec 2021 #34

ShazamIam

(2,577 posts)
2. My sympathy to you for the loss of a friend, you have written a wonderful tribute to his character
Sun Dec 19, 2021, 11:28 AM
Dec 2021

and value as a human and as your friend.

John Ludi

(589 posts)
8. So sorry.
Sun Dec 19, 2021, 11:55 AM
Dec 2021

A talented guy. I watched the live vid you posted before and was impressed by him. As a musician myself, I always feel a larger pang when the world loses a soul like this.

niyad

(113,636 posts)
10. I am so very sorry, luvs2sing. What a beautiful and loving tribute to a lovely soul.
Sun Dec 19, 2021, 12:01 PM
Dec 2021

Your DU family is here for you.

Jon King

(1,910 posts)
14. As a You Tube music fanatic, I came across his music a few years ago.
Sun Dec 19, 2021, 12:37 PM
Dec 2021

Just by chance came across his music and had it in my 'liked' videos. What a story, how he tackled his weight for his transplant and did everything he could. A true inspiration.

Lonestarblue

(10,116 posts)
18. It sounds as though Charlie went through a lot in his life, lived it well.
Sun Dec 19, 2021, 01:13 PM
Dec 2021

So sorry for the loss of your friend.

PCIntern

(25,612 posts)
20. So very sorry...
Sun Dec 19, 2021, 01:28 PM
Dec 2021

We went through similar circumstances during the AIDS epidemic. These are tragic losses for us as individuals and for the society.

wendyb-NC

(3,337 posts)
25. So sorry to hear that
Sun Dec 19, 2021, 04:03 PM
Dec 2021

You wrote a beautiful tribute to your friend, Charlie. What a loss for his family and friends and this world. He sounds like the kind of person, we need more of, in the world. Thanks, for the update, albeit heart breaking as it is. R.I.P. Charlie

appalachiablue

(41,182 posts)
26. What a wonderful person; so sorry for your loss..
Sun Dec 19, 2021, 06:05 PM
Dec 2021

Charlie had character, strength, talent and love to give which is so rare and special.

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