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Earlier in the week, I posted requesting that you wonderful people keep my friend,
Charlie, in your thoughts as he fought Covid. Sadly, last night, Covid won, and one of the beautiful souls of the world died. On top of Covid pneumonia, his body rejected his transplanted kidney. Nothing more could be done.
I knew Charlie through music, but there was much I didnt know about him and am now learning as tributes pour in. Heres what I do know. Charlie received a kidney transplant two years ago and became a transplant mentor to others. He was a social worker. In preparation for the kidney transplant, he lost over 200 pounds, had heart surgery, and had one leg amputated below the knee because of an infection that would not heal. Like a true son of The Bronx, his prosthesis was decorated with New York Yankees emblems, a fact that spurred a lot of teasing and good-natured arguing with those of us who hate the Yankees. He was a pillar of his small West Virginia community and a mainstay in the larger West Virginia arts scene with The Carpenter Ants and other groups. He was Muslim, his wife is Jewish, and his children identify specifically as liberal Christian. He never met a stranger, and everyone he met became part of his huge blended family.
What I didnt know is that his interest in good nutrition and diet that had helped him lose 200 pounds and become healthy enough for a transplant turned into a passion for food and cooking. He was remodeling his kitchen and was going to go to culinary school after the holidays.
I dont claim to know or understand where our souls go when we die, but wherever it is, it became a much happier and brighter place last night when Charlie Tee arrived.
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Arkansas Granny
(31,536 posts)ShazamIam
(2,577 posts)and value as a human and as your friend.
helpisontheway
(5,008 posts)Fla Dem
(23,806 posts)calimary
(81,540 posts)You could be a lyricist for him - so eloquent.
pandr32
(11,635 posts)John Ludi
(589 posts)A talented guy. I watched the live vid you posted before and was impressed by him. As a musician myself, I always feel a larger pang when the world loses a soul like this.
irisblue
(33,038 posts)niyad
(113,636 posts)Your DU family is here for you.
MLAA
(17,342 posts)Kimber432
(74 posts)He sounds like he was a blessing to the world.
Donkees
(31,489 posts)Jon King
(1,910 posts)Just by chance came across his music and had it in my 'liked' videos. What a story, how he tackled his weight for his transplant and did everything he could. A true inspiration.
WheelWalker
(8,956 posts)Celerity
(43,615 posts)onecaliberal
(32,934 posts)Lonestarblue
(10,116 posts)So sorry for the loss of your friend.
FakeNoose
(32,833 posts)Charlie is singing with the angels now.
PCIntern
(25,612 posts)We went through similar circumstances during the AIDS epidemic. These are tragic losses for us as individuals and for the society.
virgdem
(2,129 posts)Heartstrings
(7,349 posts)samnsara
(17,651 posts)SheilaAnn
(9,711 posts)wendyb-NC
(3,337 posts)You wrote a beautiful tribute to your friend, Charlie. What a loss for his family and friends and this world. He sounds like the kind of person, we need more of, in the world. Thanks, for the update, albeit heart breaking as it is. R.I.P. Charlie
appalachiablue
(41,182 posts)Charlie had character, strength, talent and love to give which is so rare and special.
MFM008
(19,826 posts)Someone to know.
redirish45
(3 posts)May your friends soul RIP and may his memory be a blessing until you two meet again
mercuryblues
(14,550 posts)SheltieLover
(57,073 posts)May he cross gently & rest in power & music.