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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsJust what is the antiabortion crowd's plan for supporting pregnant people?
https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/2022/01/21/roe-wade-abortion-march-for-life/A note to all the participants of Fridays antiabortion March for Life rally, taking place in Washington:
I hope youre preparing to make condoms rain from the sky. Buckets of them. Craploads, hurled from the cargo holds of the biggest planes you can find. Also, birth control pills. I hope every time a teenager opens their locker at school she finds 60 packs of Yaz.
I hope youre ready for your odious brave new world. I presume each and every one of you is planning to adopt several kids. Those chia seed-size embryos that you insist on calling pre-born children eventually will be born to parents who never wanted to be parents, and someone will need to step up to the plate. Since adoption has been your solution, youre up, slugger. Surely you can spare the extra $233,000 that the U.S. Department of Agriculture in 2015 estimated it takes to raise a child from birth to age 18. (If the cost sounds steep, one of your crisis pregnancy centers might be willing to toss in a box of Huggies.)
Truly, we cant wait to see all the work you personally have been doing to reduce unwanted pregnancies, besides lurking outside of Planned Parenthood and shouting at people who are trying to get Pap smears. (Have you been doing that work?)
ck4829
(35,069 posts)Ray Bruns
(4,093 posts)NONE.
Hulk
(6,699 posts)...once the mother gives BIRTH...they are done with them.
Pro-BIRTH...👿
Walleye
(31,017 posts)Im sure they will be picking on poor people women of color, young women, and making them prove they didnt have an abortion. And the fascists will feel so self-righteous about it
ck4829
(35,069 posts)Solly Mack
(90,764 posts)Wounded Bear
(58,648 posts)republicans?
Freddie
(9,265 posts)Millions in wrongful death suits from the grieving families of women who died in childbirth when they didnt want to be pregnant? Millions more in medical expenses to women who are harmed in childbirth?
And of course men had nothing to do with it, right?
moose65
(3,166 posts)In reality, the so-called "pro-life" politicians don't give a shit about abortion. If their wives, sisters, daughters, mistresses, or whores need an abortion, they will make sure it happens.
They've used this as a political tool for so long, to trick the faithful into voting for them. They couldn't care less about any children born as a result of an abortion ban. Once a child is born, it's of no use to them politically.
Ilsa
(61,695 posts)they should also plan and pay for. It really makes a difference.
ck4829
(35,069 posts)Yes, it's empowering. Yes, we should. Yes, it will make a difference. Yes, the benefits will far outweigh the costs.
But...
If you want comprehensive sex-ed; you're a monster, you want teens to be promiscuous, you want to teach elementary schoolers to have sex, and now you're a part of the Cabal that Q-Heads are always talking about.
I'm starting to think that we need to take drastic, no, extreme measures against the right and Republicans.
Walleye
(31,017 posts)Not just sex education. But education to give them opportunities and independence
Fortinbras Armstrong
(4,473 posts)They claim that using contraceptives is sinful.
I need hardly mention that the people who came up with this doctrine are unmarried men. The argument in the encyclical on contraception, Humanae Vitae is crap. They say that "natural law" holds that the "proper end" of sexual intercourse is procreation, and they also say, "All Catholics must accept that the magisterium (i.e., "teaching office" -- from the Latin magister, "teacher" of the Church is competent to judge what the natural law is." In other words, their allegation, given without any support whatsoever, is true because they say it's true. It's a variant of the logical fallacy of the argument from authority, made worse in that the authority is themselves.
sarcasmo
(23,968 posts)pandr32
(11,581 posts)He was supposed to return almost 2 millennia ago, and still--generation after generation people have convinced themselves 'Jesus' will still come back.
Meanwhile, prayer sure delivers much needed help. We have so much evidence. It does appear to placate the person who prays, though. After all, they prayed to the divine rather than doing something concrete to help.
Females forced to carry babies to term will result in a whole lot of babies having to grow up in miserable conditions. Anyone who is familiar with social work already knows there are more horrors than can properly be monitored and attended to. Human misery proliferates right here in our country.
no_hypocrisy
(46,089 posts)Either the child is embraced by all or a woman should have the final say on whether she is compelled to reproduce.
WhiskeyGrinder
(22,329 posts)no_hypocrisy
(46,089 posts)Rebl2
(13,498 posts)2naSalit
(86,580 posts)Indentured servitude, basically.
Misogyny rules, like Shiria Law, is what they are after.
They only try to disempower those whom they fear.
Fortinbras Armstrong
(4,473 posts)See the society depicted in The Handmaid's Tale as desirable.
Tommymac
(7,263 posts)They could care less what happens to human beings.
They only care about things still in the womb.
MuseRider
(34,108 posts)Oh sorry. Just remembering the good old days.
"Baby (a quaint way of infantilizing your prego girlfriend), not MY problem. Do I even really know you?"
Illegal abortions will be occasionally called out but not ever dealt with, even when they kill the young "hussy" because if they don't do that they end up being a working mother (a horrible mother) to vilify as a horrible mother or pitifully poor enough to become a hooker to support whatever babies have been so wonderfully brought into this kind of world.
Yea, good post. We need to keep reminding people of what it was like. In this kind of world it is hard to win.
"You should have known better!" Yup, true there, so how do they know better? "We cannot teach you about that at SCHOOL!" OK, then where besides all the incorrect things they get at school from their friends who also know nothing? My mother never said one single word about anything. So............
WhiskeyGrinder
(22,329 posts)the more opponents of abortion organize against the argument. They focus on criminalizing people who get abortions and people who perform them. They focus on converting people to the gospel so they won't have premarital sex and then have Christian marriages tht grow families. They develop retreats/"camps" where pregnant people can go and live -- provided they play along with the curriculum, of course, which involves plenty of gospel and giving up the baby. They make offers to adopt on the spot outside clinics.
None of these does anything for someone who simply doesn't want to be pregnant anymore. Asking opponents "what do YOU do to prevent abortion" makes it sound like abortion is something that should be prevented, adding to the stigma around it. It's a bad argument. If people want to organize adoptions or support for pregnant people, whatever. In the meantime, I'll work to ensure that people who want abortions can get them.
Thunderbeast
(3,406 posts)This movement gains much of it's power out of neurotic parents who deny that their daughters grow up with sexual desires. Rather than having frank and honest conversations with their children about their bodies and the reality of adulthood, it is much simpler to hang the cudgel of pregnancy and STDs over ther heads as a punishment for "sinful" acts.
There are countless reasons to counsel our children to delay sexual relationships to a time when brain development catches up to puberty. There are complex emotions to navigate when our children face these choices.
Without the added consequence of early motherhood, the perceived consequences of having sex diminish in a conversation reduced to: "CHASTITY GOOD; SEX BAD! If you have intercourse you are doomed to be a shamed harlot burdened with a child for the rest of your life."
A boy, of course, is threatened with the economic reality of child support, but in our society does not wear the same Scarlet Letter.
luvtheGWN
(1,336 posts)But seriously -- I notice that more than half of the marchers and protestors at abortion clinics are men. If only all males who've reached puberty were mandated to have vasectomies (which are reversible) then there would be no need for abortion clinics. When the male is ready to have children, and his partner is too, then the vasectomy is reversed.
Why is the pressure to not conceive ALWAYS put on the female? It's a power thing, I believe. It's also an excuse to downgrade the morals of the female -- again, a power thing.
Fortunately, it was decided many years ago to NOT have any laws regarding abortion in Canada. And sex education is taught in elementary schools.
plimsoll
(1,668 posts)I believe the men were punished as well, granted not as severely, but still public shaming and stocks as I recall.
They were also very pro sex, but within a marital relationship. So not as openly hypocritical as our purity police
ShazzieB
(16,389 posts)Anti-sex for women who aren't married to a cis man, anyway. (Women married to men HAVE to have sex. It's their wifely duty, after all.)
Seriously, I'd like to have a dollar for every comment I've heard from the anti-choicers along the lines of, "If you don't want a baby, just keep your legs together!"
ibegurpard
(16,685 posts)They are ENRAGED that people can escape the "consequences" of the illicit and unsanctioned sex that they deny themselves because of their religious beliefs.
IronLionZion
(45,433 posts)with children. Children are a punishment.
Wild blueberry
(6,626 posts)CrispyQ
(36,461 posts)"Right-to-life," "pro-life," they're both empty phrases for self-righteous busy-bodies to feel morally superior to people they don't like. Once you put life in a hierarchy & say this life has more value than this life, the whole "right-to-life" argument loses its validity. And we put life in a hierarchy all the time. Humans over all other life. Men over women. Cat & dogs over other animals. The zealots aren't really arguing "right-to-life," they're arguing for their hierarchy of life to be recognized over other people's hierarchy of life.
And the politicians? The women in their lives will always be able to obtain a safe abortion.
usaf-vet
(6,181 posts)Then crickets....!
CrispyQ
(36,461 posts)ShazzieB
(16,389 posts)Especially Kavanaugh with a bottle of beer in each hand!
Skittles
(153,160 posts)they're just a bunch of fucking hypocrites
Fla Dem
(23,656 posts)yaesu
(8,020 posts)as they are forcing their religious beliefs on us via state and soon, federal law. No one is pro abortion but all should be pro choice.
gab13by13
(21,323 posts)bottomofthehill
(8,329 posts)If you are rich, you go someplace an have your abortion, if you are poor, like the Salem Witches, Stockades. Maybe a good public stoning or two.
uponit7771
(90,335 posts)plimsoll
(1,668 posts)The answer is not a damn thing, duh.
This is from the magical thinking crowd. The what then question? They haven't gotten there, but they'll tut tut and wag fingers. If they have money they'll take their kids to foreign spas, just like the good old days. If they're poor they'll go to the back street, or carry the child to term and either live in poverty or put the child into the foster system. There won't be enough parents to adopt those children, because the notion that there would be was just more magical thinking.
The interesting thing is that the path they've chosen, individual states decisions means that some states will have legal abortions, others won't. How they'll prevent people from crossing state lines will be interesting, interstate commerce actually being in the constitution and all.
Bettie
(16,095 posts)but, frankly, they will be coming for birth control next.
Well, unless they decide to go after marriage equality.
But, they won't do anything to help pregnant people.
They are fetus fetishists....they care about people until they are born.
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niyad
(113,284 posts)paleotn
(17,912 posts)Jon King
(1,910 posts)I was a bit surprised at first how relatively little the outcry and response was to these horrible laws. But we always overestimate what the 30% swing voters who decide elections actually care about. If it does not effect them personally that day, they could care less.
No Biden-Harris did not have a progressive mandate to improve civil rights and help the poor. The swing voters just thought Trump messed up with Covid and that negatively affected their lives. It had nothing to do with Biden for the 30% swing voters.
And the Repugs will also mess up if they get a big sweep in the midterms. They will breathlessly state how the American people gave them a mandate.....I suppose to investigate Hunter Biden's art. But no, its has nothing to do with them. The swing voters just think the price of groceries is too high.
Both sides will always misread the room and think issues important to their 35% base matter to swing voters, but they never do.
Iggo
(47,552 posts)Kablooie
(18,632 posts)There are plans to overthrow Griswold v Connecticut which would allow states to outlaw all contraceptives. Even condoms. They want sex to be for procreation only. If its done for pleasure you must risk the punishment of an unwanted birth.
Jon King
(1,910 posts)Come on now, abortion is one thing because the 30% swing voters just do not care because it does not effect them in their minds. Do you really, really think any politician would try to overturn the free use of contraceptives? It would be 100% unenforceable and absolute political suicide in all but perhaps 10 Congressional districts in the US.
Kablooie
(18,632 posts)SCOTUS finally ruled in 1965 that it couldnt be made illegal but their arguments were a little convoluted in order to get a constitutional argument.
It may not be overturned but it is on their agenda.
bronxiteforever
(9,287 posts)Major Nikon
(36,827 posts)They aren't even really anti-abortion. They are really pro-forced-birth with the idea being they can regulate their warped ideas of morality by focusing on the consequences of deviating from it.
Metro135
(359 posts)If the STATE is going to mandate that a woman give birth to a child . . .
Then the STATE better pony up the $233,000 it will take to raise that child.
relayerbob
(6,544 posts)'bout sum sit up
Dan
(3,554 posts)Upthevibe
(8,042 posts)NNadir
(33,516 posts)TygrBright
(20,759 posts)Texin
(2,596 posts)ibegurpard
(16,685 posts)They don't give a shit about unborn babies or people in general. It's about their outrage at people escaping the "consequences" of illicit and unsanctioned sex.
Texin
(2,596 posts)The system that is already dysfunctional, and puts kids at risk in the homes of people that should never have been allowed to "foster" a pack of rabid rats. And all at the expense of taxpayers in the states.
IronLionZion
(45,433 posts)After keeping them from completing school, make sure to make them feel guilty for the rest of their lives for having kids too young or while single or whatever.
XanaDUer2
(10,662 posts)LiberalFighter
(50,912 posts)CaptainTruth
(6,589 posts)I swear I believe that is part of their long-term agenda, at least for the few smarter more devious more powerful GOP politicians who manipulate their ignorant supporters.
For those Rethugs it's a win-win-win. It fires up support from their base because it deals a blow to abortion rights, it supports their voter suppression agenda by preventing some of the "wrong" people from voting, & it advances their "rich white 'Christian' male" supremacy agenda by subjugating women.
None of those things exists in a vacuum, they are all linked.
WhiskeyGrinder
(22,329 posts)the person who performs it.
Missn-Hitch
(1,383 posts)Have you ever looked out into the world and thought, "You know what this world needs? More people"?
There will be 20 million more miracles brought into the world every year.
Mad_Machine76
(24,412 posts)when Newt Gingrich suddenly became nostalgic for the return of Orphanages.
But, really, most of them seem to have just subscribed to the "Underpants Gnomes" theory of banning abortion.
1. Ban abortion
2. ???????????
3. ???????????
4. Profit!!!