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Are you happy...? (Original Post) myohmy2 Apr 2022 OP
Very. LakeArenal Apr 2022 #1
As a rule, yes I am. Dial H For Hero Apr 2022 #2
I am always upbeat, I don't take my problems to bed... every day is a new day.. secondwind Apr 2022 #3
I'm the same.we get one life. A journey we can make with optimism or not. BlackSkimmer Apr 2022 #11
I fail to see why a progressive Democrat is unhappy...we have a Democrat in the White House and Demsrule86 Apr 2022 #4
is markie Apr 2022 #5
Why are you unhappy? Ocelot II Apr 2022 #6
Shocker, I know, but I'm a happy person. Solly Mack Apr 2022 #7
Yep Faux pas Apr 2022 #8
A lot of us are unhappy and disturbed about the past 5 years especially, and the crap we are KPN Apr 2022 #9
Who's unhappy? Gidney N Cloyd Apr 2022 #10
Sometimes, like while I'm at work. Buckeye_Democrat Apr 2022 #12
huh? CrackityJones75 Apr 2022 #13
Yeah, I'm happy. RaDaR63 Apr 2022 #14
No, I am not happy or unhappy. My life is good, but Ukraine there is Ukraine, marie999 Apr 2022 #15
Hopeful, rather. MineralMan Apr 2022 #16
What does being a Progressive Democrat have to do with your query? Mystifying post. Hekate Apr 2022 #17
I know! Are regular Democrats thought to be happier than progressive Democrats? betsuni Apr 2022 #19
I'm VERY unhappy AntivaxHunters Apr 2022 #18
 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
11. I'm the same.we get one life. A journey we can make with optimism or not.
Sun Apr 17, 2022, 01:01 PM
Apr 2022

Depression over world events or politics is debilitating.

Demsrule86

(68,696 posts)
4. I fail to see why a progressive Democrat is unhappy...we have a Democrat in the White House and
Sun Apr 17, 2022, 11:27 AM
Apr 2022

hold both houses of congress albeit by a small amount. We have had some good legislation and we will have more if we work our tails off. I am a progressive Democrat and am excited about sending John Fetterman a progressive to the Senate from PA...that will be a great accomplishment.

markie

(22,758 posts)
5. is
Sun Apr 17, 2022, 11:35 AM
Apr 2022

being a progressive Democrat making you unhappy?

being a progressive Democrat makes it difficult to be okay with the world today and makes me somewhat a malcontent









Solly Mack

(90,788 posts)
7. Shocker, I know, but I'm a happy person.
Sun Apr 17, 2022, 11:42 AM
Apr 2022

Sure, there are things that sadden me, disgusts me, anger me and can make me feel overwhelmed but I'm happy with my life and with my family.

Not being happy with world events, and I'm not, doesn't mean I'm unhappy as a whole.

There are people I'd love to beat the living shit out of and people I think the world would be better off without.

But that doesn't change a beautiful sunrise or sunset or the gloriously delightful antics of my four cats and three dogs.

Or the pleasure I take in turning out a tasty dish.

Or from reading a book.

Or from listening to music.

Or talking with my sisters.

I get a good cry in every now and then about all the wrong in the world and then I go about the business of living - of doing something, no matter how small, to try and help. Even when it seems hopeless.

KPN

(15,662 posts)
9. A lot of us are unhappy and disturbed about the past 5 years especially, and the crap we are
Sun Apr 17, 2022, 12:42 PM
Apr 2022

now seeing daily. I would refer you to an OP posted by H2OMan just yesterday (I think) in which he so eloquently described what helps him remain happy in these disturbing times.
Link: [link:https://www.democraticunderground.com/100216600674|

For me, I find peace in the same way, and also in being busy, but mainly by believing in good and the notion that good eventually prevails over evil.

Hope you can find some peace in your daily life as well.

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,858 posts)
12. Sometimes, like while I'm at work.
Sun Apr 17, 2022, 01:14 PM
Apr 2022

Last edited Sun Apr 17, 2022, 01:57 PM - Edit history (2)

Where I do repetitive work in a department where I've witnessed supervisors telling coworkers to stop talking. Then those same supervisors have the gall to talk to each other in our midst about silly things, like one of them saying he just watched a funny YouTube video that the other one recommended. Then they'll discuss what they found most funny.

I was diagnosed with cancer on my eyeball recently (with an ocular cancer doctor recommending removal of the eyeball), but I'm honestly less disturbed by that than the behavior that I described above. And if the cancer kills me (which seems unlikely at this point), then I'll just die like every other living thing on this world. Death is the ultimate equalizer. **

If I put all of the injustices around the world on my shoulders, then I'd be unhappy most of the time. I can only do so much, such as trying to be fair and kind to the people that I personally encounter. (Which is apparently a struggle for many others that I've met.)

** The narcissist is triple scared of death as compared to the average person. Look at it this way. Narcissists want to be on top of the one who is already on top of the person on top. Death does not discriminate. The powerful and the wealthy along with the poor and starving die just like everybody else does. All awards, trophies, money and other possessions will go to someone else or will be thrown away or worse yet forgotten. Since death is inevitable, that brings the narcissist down to a level playing field with everybody else. And that scares him/her to death.
https://psychcentral.com/blog/discoveries/2018/05/narcissists-7-weaknesses-reveal#6

 

RaDaR63

(89 posts)
14. Yeah, I'm happy.
Sun Apr 17, 2022, 02:31 PM
Apr 2022

I have wonderful friends and family. I try not to get upset over things I have no control over. It's not worth letting those things harsh my buzz.

I'm sorry to hear you're not happy.

 

marie999

(3,334 posts)
15. No, I am not happy or unhappy. My life is good, but Ukraine there is Ukraine,
Sun Apr 17, 2022, 02:40 PM
Apr 2022

not just Ukraine but all the other wars and of course, climate change. We have just as much chance of slowing down climate change as we have ending all these wars.

MineralMan

(146,334 posts)
16. Hopeful, rather.
Sun Apr 17, 2022, 02:41 PM
Apr 2022

If we can just elect more Democrats to Congress, progressive measures will pass for the President to sign. Until then, all I can be is hopeful. But, I'm an optimist, so...

betsuni

(25,660 posts)
19. I know! Are regular Democrats thought to be happier than progressive Democrats?
Sun Apr 17, 2022, 06:58 PM
Apr 2022

Which came first, being unhappy or being a progressive Democrat? What's a progressive Democrat anyway -- same as a regular Democrat but with half the calories and extra pessimism? Are progressive Democrats more sensitive than regular Democrats? Is that why it sounds like a group therapy session: "Hello, I'm a progressive Democrat and I'm unhappy"? I wonder if it's something about being disappointed with "broken promises." I've waited for answers to the mystery and ... there are none. I am unhappy about that...

 

AntivaxHunters

(3,234 posts)
18. I'm VERY unhappy
Sun Apr 17, 2022, 03:40 PM
Apr 2022

I won't say too much but we can start how my mom died because of Covid.
And that's just the beginning..............

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