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demmiblue

(37,872 posts)
Fri May 27, 2022, 11:38 AM May 2022

Meghan Markle Visited Uvalde To Donate Food To Volunteers And Pay Tribute To The School Shooting...

Meghan Markle Visited Uvalde To Donate Food To Volunteers And Pay Tribute To The School Shooting Victims

"I had no idea who she was. She just was carrying on a conversation like her and I knew each other for years," a community center volunteer who spoke to the Duchess of Sussex told BuzzFeed News.



UVALDE, Texas — Meghan, the Duchess of Sussex, on Thursday visited Uvalde, Texas, where she donated food at a community center hosting a blood drive and laid flowers at a memorial for the victims of the elementary school shooting that killed 21 people, including 19 children.

BuzzFeed News spoke with volunteers at the Herby Ham Activity Center who accepted the duchess's donations. Photographers captured images of Meghan at the memorial site.

According to blood drive volunteers, Meghan, wearing a baseball cap and a black mask, quietly dropped by the community center's kitchen to drop off two "large" crates filled with sandwiches, beverages, and desserts for blood donors.

"I had no idea who she was. She just was carrying on a conversation like her and I knew each other for years," volunteer Gloria Contreras, 40, told BuzzFeed News. "We were just talking about, you know, the situation and what happened what we were doing here. I told her about us giving out water to the people and feeding them."

https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/kadiagoba/meghan-markle-uvalde-texas-school-shooting-memorial-blood


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Meghan Markle Visited Uvalde To Donate Food To Volunteers And Pay Tribute To The School Shooting... (Original Post) demmiblue May 2022 OP
This lady did this the right way LetMyPeopleVote May 2022 #1
Ill bet she had her Netflix crew in tow. BlackSkimmer May 2022 #6
Let us know when you find out.Let us know when you see her "I don't care" jacket & 4 inch heels, too Hekate May 2022 #10
I'm not in the least sure what she has to do with THAT woman. Though I can understand you see some BlackSkimmer May 2022 #23
Your claims as to this lady are simply sad and false LetMyPeopleVote May 2022 #88
from your comment CatWoman May 2022 #11
Aw, how sweet. BlackSkimmer May 2022 #24
I don't believe that lie which is published by the British tabloid press. NT CottonBear May 2022 #14
It's not a lie that she and Harry, who so DESPERATELY wanted privacy are now filming a Netflix BlackSkimmer May 2022 #25
So you actually know their show BuddhaGirl May 2022 #36
Well, first of all, I have NEVER seen a single show of the Kardashians. BlackSkimmer May 2022 #43
They are activists BuddhaGirl May 2022 #54
Nah, it won't be like the Kardashians. BlackSkimmer May 2022 #58
There is a pattern here LetMyPeopleVote May 2022 #105
Your posts are petty and hateful Sugarcoated May 2022 #145
Yep. CrackityJones75 May 2022 #225
Meghan Markle visits Uvalde memorial for victims of Texas school shooting LetMyPeopleVote May 2022 #101
Thank you for all of your positive posts MustLoveBeagles May 2022 #181
So do you put the Obama's in the same category? Bev54 May 2022 #50
+1 BuddhaGirl May 2022 #55
The Obamas have a reality show? BlackSkimmer May 2022 #56
You don't understand the concept of privacy in the USA. NT CottonBear May 2022 #80
They never said they wanted privacy. That's a lie. BlueLucy May 2022 #89
And even if they DID say that... NYC Liberal May 2022 #91
Exactly right! I honestly think people hate her because they wanted a prince to marry a white woman. BlueLucy May 2022 #93
I don't really care much about them one way or another NYC Liberal May 2022 #95
The irrational anger is an explicit expression of racism. CottonBear May 2022 #96
+1 betsuni May 2022 #97
Very well said. Thank you! nt BlueLucy May 2022 #107
You're welcome. CottonBear May 2022 #125
+10000000 thank you CottonBear Hekate May 2022 #111
You are we!come. I agree that it's exhausting. CottonBear Jun 2022 #252
You know, CottonBear, I think you put your finger on the racism disguising itself with classism... Hekate May 2022 #113
I agree, Hekate. CottonBear May 2022 #127
I'm far more on Twitter than DU Arazi May 2022 #120
I am also on Twitter as well and know about Bouzy's research. CottonBear May 2022 #123
I meant to respond to you directly in my post 123. CottonBear May 2022 #126
🌻 I think this is worth being an OP in a new thread, so it can be bookmarked if nothing else Hekate May 2022 #148
Thank you, CottonBear. sheshe2 May 2022 #195
You are most welcome. CottonBear Jun 2022 #253
+1 treestar May 2022 #115
Racists lost it when Obama became president & when Meghan married Harry. CottonBear May 2022 #124
+1 sheshe2 May 2022 #109
No. it's not a lie. Are you honest enough to stand corrected? Baltimike May 2022 #239
This article talks about them wanting privacy for the baptism of their baby BlueLucy May 2022 #241
From what I've read, I suspect you're right. calimary May 2022 #15
and sometimes a rose is just a rose CatWoman May 2022 #17
Yes, and never mind that her father just suffered a stroke, lives just two hours from her, yet she's BlackSkimmer May 2022 #28
How do you know she hasn't visited him? BuddhaGirl May 2022 #57
I believe she is estranged from her father ever since he sold tabloid pics of her Arazi May 2022 #59
The only reason I saw my own father just before he died was I needed to check on Mom... Hekate May 2022 #64
Agree with all of this Unwind Your Mind May 2022 #106
Are you reading gossip and lies from the British tabloids? CottonBear May 2022 #81
Well spotted Hekate May 2022 #85
Sorry love, I don't even read American tabloids. BlackSkimmer Jun 2022 #247
Of course I am familiar with The Times and its sister paper, The Sunday Times. CottonBear Jun 2022 #249
I doubt that man suffered a stroke at all. BlueLucy May 2022 #94
Who cares, she still brought food treestar May 2022 #116
Why would someone have to use private jets? Treefrog May 2022 #167
Where does he "constantly preach about environmentally responsible travel"? Hekate May 2022 #170
It is interesting how these haters treestar May 2022 #206
They've all flown commercial including H and M Arazi May 2022 #174
That's another part of it treestar May 2022 #205
Meghan gets too many death threats daily to travel commercial. BlueLucy May 2022 #213
LOL!! I call bs Baltimike May 2022 #238
I truly do not understand the non stop to the core hatred of Meghan Markle.. Peacetrain May 2022 #122
It's racism. The racists lost their minds over Meghan. CottonBear May 2022 #128
It is just the craziest reactions to her.. Peacetrain May 2022 #130
Well. sheshe2 May 2022 #199
Yep. People like to believe something sinister is always going on with a black woman. nt BlueLucy May 2022 #90
I think you missed the part of the article where it said she had a baseball cap and mask on... BeeBee May 2022 #20
If no one knew who she was, how were the pics taken? How was it reported? BlackSkimmer May 2022 #29
Living miles from Columbine at the time I visited the site in the days after the shooting. gldstwmn May 2022 #40
I didn't start the thread. nt BlackSkimmer May 2022 #46
Let me clarify for you. Great thread, your comments are petty. gldstwmn May 2022 #49
extremely petty CatWoman May 2022 #61
And her $30,000 worth of jewelry, kskiska May 2022 #70
Cool. The photo shows her with her bling? Hekate May 2022 #75
Disappointed. You were the first person to ever post on DU. CottonBear May 2022 #82
So? Is that the reason you hate her? BlueLucy May 2022 #108
Lol, just seeing this thread. Treefrog May 2022 #112
I suspect 30,000 is cheap mercuryblues May 2022 #202
And you really think she wore it to this event? Hekate May 2022 #210
I should have been more clear mercuryblues May 2022 #223
🌻Thank you for clarifying. This thread is so sick, I can't believe it's at DU. The combination of... Hekate May 2022 #226
Ummmmm, there's no mask in the picture questionseverything May 2022 #38
Christ on a bike. gldstwmn May 2022 #41
Posing in front of the cross.... No mask questionseverything May 2022 #48
This message was self-deleted by its author gldstwmn May 2022 #51
well, you've convinced me CatWoman May 2022 #63
She takes a private jet and her security crew to deliver 2 boxes of groceries questionseverything May 2022 #66
I fail to understand your "rationalization" CatWoman May 2022 #69
She certainly didn't sneak in questionseverything May 2022 #72
i don't understand CatWoman May 2022 #73
The first post refers to her doing this quietly questionseverything May 2022 #77
Having been passing by a food give away today people were very happy... electric_blue68 May 2022 #83
There's some nice boulangeries where she lives. Nice sandwiches. Hekate May 2022 #74
That's what I see too. Treefrog May 2022 #114
Those pictures made there way into dozens of newspapers and magazines questionseverything May 2022 #121
She had to be told she couldn't go into the crime scene. Treefrog May 2022 #135
"She had to be told"? Source please. Like I said: I don't follow them as closely as you seem to. Hekate May 2022 #172
That's what happens when AP and Getty are the sources Hekate May 2022 #173
Poses? treestar May 2022 #117
Who cares if she did? Honestly, PLEASE bring more sympathetic media attention Arazi May 2022 #22
I imagine you could easily find out one way or another. Torchlight May 2022 #26
We'll all know soon enough. BlackSkimmer May 2022 #30
I see. Torchlight May 2022 #34
Her haters will be watching it treestar May 2022 #118
Great. It will document what a horrific gun problem we have and maybe motivate gldstwmn May 2022 #35
What's unbelievable is that you BuddhaGirl May 2022 #39
Lol, I had no idea she had so many fans here. BlackSkimmer May 2022 #47
Not really a fan BuddhaGirl May 2022 #60
Of course we have no idea what you've done. But given the energy with which you tear down... Hekate May 2022 #78
What a kind post. phylny May 2022 #98
Thank you so much for your post, Hekate. sheshe2 May 2022 #110
It's pretty awful Hekate May 2022 #191
Thanks for your thoughtful and heartfelt post, Hekate. nt CottonBear May 2022 #129
Right up until that week I had dismissed Diana as a lightweight. Then I saw: she used what she had Hekate May 2022 #193
No, you'd be wrong. I quite liked Diana. BlackSkimmer Jun 2022 #246
Nasty comment without any evidence. Your comment right wing response. Trueblue1968 May 2022 #71
It's a full time thing, this bashing Sugarcoated May 2022 #151
So you don't see a difference Cuthbert Allgood Jun 2022 #250
Yes, the Duchess did.. it brought Cha May 2022 #176
I read that Matthew McConaughey is from Uvalde. sop May 2022 #2
Ugh. Thank goodness he didn't run for governor. tanyev May 2022 #5
Never mentioned the word gun. gldstwmn May 2022 #9
Both Sider. Grandstander. Lost all respect for him. nt Tommymac May 2022 #62
Wonder if he's still an NRAer? Cha May 2022 #182
Very sweet. Wingus Dingus May 2022 #3
She is a very thoughtful & empathetic person. CottonBear May 2022 #4
This reeks of attention hound. broiles May 2022 #7
Jesus CatWoman May 2022 #12
It was the snarky jacket & spike heels that was your first clue, yeah? Hekate May 2022 #13
Maybe it was the baseball cap and mask? n/t BeeBee May 2022 #18
Ah, nope. demmiblue May 2022 #16
Something also reeks of a very spiteful envy. Torchlight May 2022 #37
Is it green? gldstwmn May 2022 #45
Nope! Just wondering why her silence on Buffalo violasays May 2022 #133
You must follow her closely -- in the tabloids. Please, cite a source. Hekate May 2022 #137
Google is your friend -- and a source violasays May 2022 #139
I see that you are a Beto fan. So am I. Was he seeking publicity when he crashed Abbott's presser? panader0 May 2022 #65
Sure he was but it was to draw attention to policy that could save lives questionseverything May 2022 #68
Yes, but he is running for governor on a gun safety platform broiles May 2022 #79
You need to ask yourself why you hate her! BlueLucy May 2022 #92
Right!!!11!1! newdayneeded May 2022 #102
Hell NO it does NOT. You Read it Cha May 2022 #184
Then the flying monkeys online went crazy and criticized her for it. gldstwmn May 2022 #8
She has received death threats because she's a POC. CottonBear May 2022 #19
Truly. And she and Harry felt safer living here. gldstwmn May 2022 #33
I know, I was so embarrassed by what some of them were saying and writing about her. a kennedy May 2022 #31
They don't like her because Dear Leader doesn't like her. GoCubsGo May 2022 #87
"Flying monkeys online" captures the essence.... Hekate May 2022 #67
I love your characterization of the idiots attacking Meghan Markle for this act of kindness LetMyPeopleVote May 2022 #104
Jealous Assholes. Cha May 2022 #185
If I had money and a platform, I hope I'd go and draw some attention to the issue Arazi May 2022 #21
Geez. You'd think she lives off of NRA donations Captain Zero May 2022 #42
Agreed. So where was she in Buffalo? violasays May 2022 #132
You do realize there's a mass shooting almost every day right? Arazi May 2022 #178
She can't do anything right. People will criticize her for urging lawmakers to act or queitly paying In It to Win It May 2022 #27
+1 demmiblue May 2022 #32
I am honestly surprised Torchlight May 2022 #52
+1 BuddhaGirl May 2022 #44
Good for her Sunsky May 2022 #53
This is a heartfelt gesture on her part and I think both Harry and Megan are good people. llmart May 2022 #76
+1 MustLoveBeagles May 2022 #84
And Buffalo? violasays May 2022 #131
what about Buffalo? Are you saying it didn't affect her? How would you know? CatWoman May 2022 #134
Why are you yelling at me? violasays May 2022 #136
i wasn't aware I was "yelling" at anyone CatWoman May 2022 #141
Cool! Nothing more to be said then violasays May 2022 #143
She identifies as bi-racial. Please cite a source other than tabloids & right wing rags ... Hekate May 2022 #138
Psst. I also identify as biracial violasays May 2022 #140
so why didn't YOU go to Buffalo??? CatWoman May 2022 #142
Because I am a college student with limited funds whose mother has terminal ovarian cancer violasays May 2022 #144
regardless CatWoman May 2022 #146
*** Hekate May 2022 #147
neither do I CatWoman May 2022 #149
I just followed this line out curiousity and it is absolutely sick to try and somehow compare Peacetrain May 2022 #150
Unfortunately there's a whole bunch of hate and idiocy on this thread CatWoman May 2022 #153
+100000 BlueLucy May 2022 #236
***** Hekate May 2022 #154
Mahalo, Peactrain.. that's the heart of Cha May 2022 #187
Mahalo Cha!... Peacetrain May 2022 #212
Just So Grateful there are Kind Caring & Generous People like Cha May 2022 #227
Glad you cleared that up. mercuryblues May 2022 #224
Hmmm BuddhaGirl May 2022 #156
I know right? ecstatic May 2022 #240
+1 betsuni May 2022 #243
Kudos. I wonder if she gave the $175k donation to the victims ecstatic May 2022 #86
I love her. I don't care what anyone else thinks. Thanks for sharing this, demmiblue.❤ littlemissmartypants May 2022 #99
Same here MustLoveBeagles May 2022 #183
It's predictable.. some are just like that.. Cha May 2022 #189
I"m sure the tabloids and Piers Morgan have something to say. Boomerproud May 2022 #100
This makes me smile LetMyPeopleVote May 2022 #103
Tabloids consistently treat the two of them treestar May 2022 #119
Rt🤷‍♂️💖🤷‍♂️TY! Cha May 2022 #188
Wonderful Sugarcoated May 2022 #152
I am stunned at some of the pettiness and, yes, racism on this thread mcar May 2022 #155
I am stunned that anyone cares that much what a fairly unknown celebrity does Thtwudbeme May 2022 #157
You can always ignore it mcar May 2022 #161
Why thank you. I had NO idea after being on DU for two decades Thtwudbeme May 2022 #168
She needs to show empathy for her bed ridden father, and not take a publicist with her here. Baltimike May 2022 #158
how do you know she was accompanied by her publicist? CatWoman May 2022 #159
Why does she need to show empathy for someone who has treated mcar May 2022 #162
Treated her horribly? NOPE Baltimike May 2022 #164
Wow, you sure seem to know all about her and her family mcar May 2022 #165
as do you...since there is little defense for the indefensible Baltimike May 2022 #169
Ikr.. I hate that there are those Cha May 2022 #194
It shouldn't disappoint me, Cha mcar May 2022 #197
Oh it's a heartbreaking Disappointment. Cha May 2022 #198
Indeed it is. Making a PUBLICITY STUNT out of a tragedy is a travesty Baltimike May 2022 #200
NO, You're WRONG.. Bye. Cha May 2022 #201
LOL!! Oooooooo-kay. The truth matters even when it hurts. Baltimike May 2022 #208
Bless your heart mcar May 2022 #203
Thanks! The FACTS matter, and that was no incognito visit Baltimike May 2022 #207
What did she do that is so horrible to make you hate her? BlueLucy May 2022 #214
A swing!! A miss!! Baltimike May 2022 #216
And what did she lie about? BlueLucy May 2022 #217
a LOT!! Baltimike May 2022 #229
Meghan dealt with a lot of racism in that family as well as the tabloids. BlueLucy May 2022 #218
Post removed Post removed May 2022 #231
now Meghan's mother is a "criminal"???? CatWoman May 2022 #233
Swallowing the RW kool-aid much? Very impressive. Hekate May 2022 #242
you keep regurgitating a bunch of idiotic claptrap that simply isn't true CatWoman May 2022 #220
+1, uponit7771 May 2022 #244
.... CatWoman May 2022 #166
Thomas Markle now 'wishes' he hadn't betrayed Meghan Markle Cha May 2022 #192
It "won't be popular" because it's Cha May 2022 #190
What wasn't true was her claim that she never helped to write that tell all Baltimike May 2022 #196
She left it to Jason BlueLucy May 2022 #219
Nope. She called him "Daddy" to "pullat the heartstrings" Baltimike May 2022 #228
She's prepared and looks at all angles and scenarios.. BlueLucy May 2022 #234
Now you're just trying to have it both ways Baltimike May 2022 #237
Also the Oprah interview was removed from the internet. BlackSkimmer Jun 2022 #248
Just out of curiosity ... What exactly has Meghan Markle done to have your fur on end nonstop? Peacetrain Jun 2022 #251
Exactly BuddhaGirl Jun 2022 #254
It has me stumped! Peacetrain Jun 2022 #255
I know BuddhaGirl Jun 2022 #256
This thread reminds me of the Amanda Knox threads of long ago DU maxsolomon May 2022 #160
+1, uponit7771 May 2022 #245
Meghan Markle Said She Held Her Children "A Little Bit Tighter" After Learning About The Uvalde... demmiblue May 2022 #163
For Meghan LetMyPeopleVote May 2022 #171
Nice. Thumbs up. Hekate May 2022 #177
This thead has been an eye opener and not in a good way MustLoveBeagles May 2022 #180
It's been horrible & toxic Hekate May 2022 #186
Lol MustLoveBeagles May 2022 #179
💙Rt🤷‍♂️💖🤷‍♂️TY! Cha May 2022 #204
💖🤷‍♂️💖🤷‍♂️ Cha May 2022 #175
I m sure she knew she would catch a ton of negative flack. tavernier May 2022 #209
Reminds me of when Ivanka went to Poland Evergreen Emerald May 2022 #211
Meghan is not a RW nut. BlueLucy May 2022 #215
Well, you are half right. She is not right-wing Evergreen Emerald May 2022 #221
Everything I said is true. BlueLucy May 2022 #222
OMG this isn't Facebook! Why are all these trashy comments on here? FakeNoose May 2022 #230
There's no shortage of trashy people on DU. Mariana May 2022 #232
I'm taking note of who they are. BlueLucy May 2022 #235

LetMyPeopleVote

(155,525 posts)
1. This lady did this the right way
Fri May 27, 2022, 11:43 AM
May 2022

She did not make this into a media opportunity but honored the victims in a quiet and dignified manner

Hekate

(95,287 posts)
10. Let us know when you find out.Let us know when you see her "I don't care" jacket & 4 inch heels, too
Fri May 27, 2022, 01:04 PM
May 2022
 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
23. I'm not in the least sure what she has to do with THAT woman. Though I can understand you see some
Fri May 27, 2022, 01:30 PM
May 2022

things in common. That hadn't occurred to me. Good catch!

But ok.

We'll all find out eventually. Unless the show is cancelled before it sees life, which won't surprise me.

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
25. It's not a lie that she and Harry, who so DESPERATELY wanted privacy are now filming a Netflix
Fri May 27, 2022, 01:32 PM
May 2022

series, a reality show ala Kardashians.

That is true, sorry.

BuddhaGirl

(3,652 posts)
36. So you actually know their show
Fri May 27, 2022, 01:45 PM
May 2022

will be a trashy, entitled mess like the Kardashians?

How exactly do you know this, hmmm?

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
43. Well, first of all, I have NEVER seen a single show of the Kardashians.
Fri May 27, 2022, 01:52 PM
May 2022

So you obviously have more knowledge than I in regard to what kind of show it is. I've no idea.

All I know about the Kardashians is that supposedly their entire life is on TV. Anybody not living in a cave knows that much.

But Netflix has announced this private duo are doing a reality show. Really not that hard to find out.

Why do you think though, that these two who so desperately wanted privacy, are doing a show about their lives?

I find that curious.

BuddhaGirl

(3,652 posts)
54. They are activists
Fri May 27, 2022, 02:02 PM
May 2022

And have never made a secret about how they wanted to use their platform to do good in the world.

The entitled mess of the Kardashians show has been quite widely reported on for years. I have never seen the show.

Maybe H & M's Netflix show will draw attention to their activist causes? Why assume it will be like the Kardashians?

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
58. Nah, it won't be like the Kardashians.
Fri May 27, 2022, 02:07 PM
May 2022

Assuming it sees the light of day, it won't last a year.

My final comment. We're just going to have to agree to disagree. Or just disagree. Whichever works for you.

LetMyPeopleVote

(155,525 posts)
101. Meghan Markle visits Uvalde memorial for victims of Texas school shooting
Sat May 28, 2022, 07:33 AM
May 2022

The real world is a nice place. This was a real act of kindness



https://www.latimes.com/world-nation/story/2022-05-26/meghan-markle-visits-memorial-for-children-killed-in-uvalde-shooting

— Meghan Markle, the Duchess of Sussex, paid a visit to a memorial for the victims of the school shooting in Uvalde, Texas, on Thursday afternoon.

Accompanied by a bodyguard and wearing a baseball cap, white T-shirt and jeans, she looked down at crosses left to memorialize the 19 children and two teachers killed in the attack. Ignoring calls from reporters, she placed white roses tied with a purple ribbon at the cross for 10-year-old Uziyah Garcia.

Someone had written on the cross, “You will be missed.”

The boy’s father, Sergio Garcia, 35, of San Angelo, Texas, described Uziyah as an energetic, loving and gentle boy. Garcia hadn’t spend much time with his son over the last eight months, as the boy’s parents were in a custody dispute.
 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
56. The Obamas have a reality show?
Fri May 27, 2022, 02:05 PM
May 2022

News to me.

But just as a short answer. Hell no. The Obamas are both accomplished and successful people, who worked hard to become who they are.

I don't need to list their accomplishments here to point out how silly it would be to compare the Montecito mansion dwellers to people who have given as much to this country as the Obamas have.

Amazed that you would try to compare these two couples. There is absolutely no comparison, and honestly, I don't think they belong in the same conversation.

Time for me to trash this thread. Bringing the Obamas into it, really? Oh my.

BlueLucy

(1,609 posts)
89. They never said they wanted privacy. That's a lie.
Sat May 28, 2022, 12:15 AM
May 2022

They said they wanted to be free from the constant bullying Meghan was under in UK. Which yes, she 100% was under massive racist attacks some coming form Kensington Palace. That's the truth.

NYC Liberal

(20,353 posts)
91. And even if they DID say that...
Sat May 28, 2022, 12:24 AM
May 2022

"wanting privacy" doesn't mean becoming hermits with no contact with the outside world. A show that they produce and control the content of isn't the same as paparazzi stalking and harassing them everywhere they go.

BlueLucy

(1,609 posts)
93. Exactly right! I honestly think people hate her because they wanted a prince to marry a white woman.
Sat May 28, 2022, 12:26 AM
May 2022

They need to do some self reflection.

NYC Liberal

(20,353 posts)
95. I don't really care much about them one way or another
Sat May 28, 2022, 12:31 AM
May 2022

but some people seem to get irrationally angry about them -- or just her. I don't get it.

CottonBear

(21,615 posts)
96. The irrational anger is an explicit expression of racism.
Sat May 28, 2022, 03:26 AM
May 2022

Last edited Sat May 28, 2022, 07:51 AM - Edit history (1)

The poor woman was driven to the point of considering suicide while pregnant.

The British tabloids actually compared her newborn son to a chimpanzee and not a single member or representative of the royal family defended her.

The blatant, explicit, ongoing, and continuous racists attacks and lies were and are, horrific.

I am so disappointed to see racists trolling and bullying her here on DU.

Meghan is an American citizen and an ally to democratic, civil rights, feminist, and human rights causes that we support here on DU. She is using her platform to support and promote these causes, which is commendable. The Archewell Foundation donates money to causes and organizations that she and her husband support.

CottonBear

(21,615 posts)
125. You're welcome.
Sun May 29, 2022, 06:21 AM
May 2022

It is so disappointing to see the propaganda and hate here on DU.

Personally, as a woman and as the mother of a school age child, I completely understand why Meghan reached out to the community like she did this past week in Texas.

Hekate

(95,287 posts)
111. +10000000 thank you CottonBear
Sat May 28, 2022, 04:35 PM
May 2022

I am sick to death of arguing with (Post Removed) and others who can’t see that’s exactly what they’re doing.

CottonBear

(21,615 posts)
252. You are we!come. I agree that it's exhausting.
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 06:48 PM
Jun 2022

I am so disappointed that people believe and/or unknowingly parrot the racist tropes and lies.

Sigh...

Hekate

(95,287 posts)
113. You know, CottonBear, I think you put your finger on the racism disguising itself with classism...
Sat May 28, 2022, 05:03 PM
May 2022

It’s not just resentment of the presumed “haves vs. have-nots,” which gets ugly enough.
I think its time we DUers started calling out the racism in the way Meghan Markle is attacked here.

CottonBear

(21,615 posts)
127. I agree, Hekate.
Sun May 29, 2022, 06:36 AM
May 2022

I was shocked to see the trolls, bullies and haters come out in this thread. There are long time and OG DUers in this thread…it is appalling.

As a woman and the mom of a school age child, the events of the past week make me so fearful for my child’s safety and their future here in America.

Arazi

(7,056 posts)
120. I'm far more on Twitter than DU
Sat May 28, 2022, 07:06 PM
May 2022

And don’t follow the British Royal family at all but became aware of the racist smear campaign from Christopher Bouzy and his excellent misinformation tool BotSentinel.

He tracks misinfo campaigns online and his astonishing work has put real numbers and algorithms behind racism, misogyny, hate speech, RW disinfo campaigns on Biden, Kamala Harris, COVID etc AND Meghan Markle.

He originally started it to understand the powerful engines working to take down HRC and Kamala Harris, and discovered Meghan’s abuse along the way. He too had never given any thought to her until she came up as one of the prime online targets.

His work is fascinating.

Tl:dr you’re 100% correct she’s the target of a manufactured racist and misogynistic campaign by trolls similar to other famous women. It’s depressing as hell to see DUers taken in by it

CottonBear

(21,615 posts)
123. I am also on Twitter as well and know about Bouzy's research.
Sun May 29, 2022, 06:10 AM
May 2022

The coordinated smear campaigns on Twitter and in the tabloid media are appalling.

It’s Fox News level disinformation and propaganda which is echoed on pop culture websites (celebrity gossip sites and Royal fan sites) and on other social media such as Facebook.

I have to say that the Celebitchy website is probably the only gossip website where the racism is explicitly called out and the disinformation is debunked.

CottonBear

(21,615 posts)
126. I meant to respond to you directly in my post 123.
Sun May 29, 2022, 06:26 AM
May 2022

Thank you for letting others know about Christopher Bouzy and Bot Sentinel.

Hekate

(95,287 posts)
148. 🌻 I think this is worth being an OP in a new thread, so it can be bookmarked if nothing else
Sun May 29, 2022, 12:37 PM
May 2022

Thank you for the information.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
115. +1
Sat May 28, 2022, 06:39 PM
May 2022

There is some sort of transference or something - the things they accuse her of are over the top. I don't get why she inspires this in some people. Being black could be part of it, but being American might be, too. The British may hate the idea of a royal marrying an American.

CottonBear

(21,615 posts)
124. Racists lost it when Obama became president & when Meghan married Harry.
Sun May 29, 2022, 06:17 AM
May 2022

Meghan, Duchess of Sussex (née Markle) self-identifies as a bi-racial woman, but the haters and racists only see her as a black woman.

BlueLucy

(1,609 posts)
241. This article talks about them wanting privacy for the baptism of their baby
Mon May 30, 2022, 11:29 PM
May 2022

Did you even read the article?

calimary

(84,607 posts)
15. From what I've read, I suspect you're right.
Fri May 27, 2022, 01:09 PM
May 2022

In every case, according to multiple accounts, including people who know her, ANY gesture was strategically calculated, mainly designed to generate attention and favorable publicity.

Sheesh, just last night I was reading about that. A lot about that.

Sorry to be cynical. I get that way frequently, these days. I’d like to be able to accept it at face value, where motivations didn’t figure in.

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
28. Yes, and never mind that her father just suffered a stroke, lives just two hours from her, yet she's
Fri May 27, 2022, 01:34 PM
May 2022

not found the time to visit him.

And never mind, this environmental warrior chartered a private jet to go to Texas.

BuddhaGirl

(3,652 posts)
57. How do you know she hasn't visited him?
Fri May 27, 2022, 02:06 PM
May 2022

Not everything she does is in the news LOL

Well, probably the Daily Mail or some such rag purports to know!

Arazi

(7,056 posts)
59. I believe she is estranged from her father ever since he sold tabloid pics of her
Fri May 27, 2022, 02:09 PM
May 2022

Without her permission.

He’s a very shitty person by every account. She’s wise to keep her distance

Hekate

(95,287 posts)
64. The only reason I saw my own father just before he died was I needed to check on Mom...
Fri May 27, 2022, 02:27 PM
May 2022

… just after she had major surgery. He looked like such a sweet old man, too. Not everyone’s family is ideal.

As for Harry & Meghan and their desire for privacy — perhaps they’d just like to have it on their own terms. As Pope Francis said, “Who am I to judge?”

But hey, no mercy for the man whose own mother was hounded to death by the British tabloids and watched his wife go downhill in that environment.

Unwind Your Mind

(2,162 posts)
106. Agree with all of this
Sat May 28, 2022, 09:47 AM
May 2022

Especially the last part.

My own mother is nearing the end of her life. I will not be visiting her and no one else has a right to judge me for it. I have my reasons and they are mine.

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
247. Sorry love, I don't even read American tabloids.
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 10:56 AM
Jun 2022

I don't even know the names of the British ones, and I've a dual citizenship.

I do have a subscription to the Times (that's the LONDON Times) in case you don't know, which was bequeathed to me by my father.

Can you give me some names so I can check them out, since you seem to have knowledge of what they print?

CottonBear

(21,615 posts)
249. Of course I am familiar with The Times and its sister paper, The Sunday Times.
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 12:28 PM
Jun 2022

The British tabloid press includes News of the World, the Daily Mirror, the Sun, Daily Mail, Mail on Sunday.

The Mail Online is the website for the Daily Mail.

BlueLucy

(1,609 posts)
94. I doubt that man suffered a stroke at all.
Sat May 28, 2022, 12:29 AM
May 2022

Why should she see a man who has done nothing but trash her for years now. Is he not suing her for money along with that crazy half sister? They both just want to milk every dollar they can from tabloids even if it hurts Meghan. They're evil. Flat out evil.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
116. Who cares, she still brought food
Sat May 28, 2022, 06:42 PM
May 2022

she still helped.

She likely has to use private air travel. What complaints would you have if she traveled on an ordinary aircraft?

 

Treefrog

(4,170 posts)
167. Why would someone have to use private jets?
Sun May 29, 2022, 03:53 PM
May 2022

I wouldn’t know her if I saw her next to me. She’s certainly not wildly recognizable. I think I read William and his wife traveled commercial earlier this year.

Plenty of celebrities who I would recognize travel commercial. I think the problem with this particular person is that her husband is constantly preaching about environmentally responsible travel, is he not?

Perhaps people are pointing out that’s just a little bit hypocritical?

Hekate

(95,287 posts)
170. Where does he "constantly preach about environmentally responsible travel"?
Sun May 29, 2022, 06:23 PM
May 2022

I missed that — but then, I don’t follow them as closely as you do.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
206. It is interesting how these haters
Mon May 30, 2022, 06:44 AM
May 2022

spend so much time on her, and have the time to study photos of her (to make absurd conclusions that she was never pregnant and the like).

Arazi

(7,056 posts)
174. They've all flown commercial including H and M
Sun May 29, 2022, 06:33 PM
May 2022
https://www.express.co.uk/travel/articles/1529373/kate-middleton-prince-william-commercial-flights-royal-family-travel-secrets/amp

I have no idea if she flew private or commercial to Uvalde but she’s gotten death threats because she’s been maligned in the press and because of a racist coordinated smear campaign against her.

She gets to stay safe right? Or are you determined she must put herself out there in the way you demand even if it jeopardizes her life?



treestar

(82,383 posts)
205. That's another part of it
Mon May 30, 2022, 06:40 AM
May 2022

Always comparing them to the other couple, who are portrayed as wonderful, even where they do the same things the other is criticized for. You read they traveled commercial? Have they never traveled private?

What has he said about environmentally responsible travel - and why does private aircraft violate that principle? I recall the Obamas being criticized for that for taking more than one flight to Hawaii - Michelle and the girls left earlier on a separate AF1 flight - from the right wing, of course.

BlueLucy

(1,609 posts)
213. Meghan gets too many death threats daily to travel commercial.
Mon May 30, 2022, 11:40 AM
May 2022

Much more death threats than any celebrity.

Peacetrain

(23,640 posts)
122. I truly do not understand the non stop to the core hatred of Meghan Markle..
Sat May 28, 2022, 07:15 PM
May 2022

If she does not bow down even to that family of hers.. they just eviscerate her. It is beyond me.. she and her husband are here in the states.. this is a tragedy in our country.. and if she wanted to take an entire newspaper there to keep our eyes on the horror of it.. more power to her.. but she paid her respects.. just chill out about these people.. Let them have a life and raise their kids.. You have Wills and Kate to fawn over.. go for it .. woohoo... and all that good stuff.. just leave H and M be

CottonBear

(21,615 posts)
128. It's racism. The racists lost their minds over Meghan.
Sun May 29, 2022, 06:41 AM
May 2022

See Christopher Bouzy’s Bot Sentinel research and reporting on online hate, disinformation, and propaganda campaigns against women and, particularly, women of color.

Peacetrain

(23,640 posts)
130. It is just the craziest reactions to her..
Sun May 29, 2022, 09:57 AM
May 2022

I think racism is a factor for sure.. so is her being an American.. and the British press still blames Wallis Simpson for the abdication in '36, and for some unholy reason seem to want to take all that out on Meghan.. I wish to hell she would not go back.. it is just not worth it to either of them..but family is family and you do the best you can..If no one sees her, dollar to doughnuts they will be howling 24/7 that she has been forbidden to make an appearance.. If she makes an appearance.. she is upstaging the queen.. in between times her family will be screeching about how they have been abandoned (not for a second recognizing the unending attacks they do on her and Harry)... ( My personal opinion) they should never let their kids within a mile of those people (her Dads family).. users does not even begin to describe them.. its crazy.. but as an American she can express herself anyway she wants.. and Harry as her husband living in this country has the same right..

sheshe2

(88,147 posts)
199. Well.
Sun May 29, 2022, 08:45 PM
May 2022
“Peace and rest is best,” Samantha Markle, Thomas’ other daughter and the Duchess of Sussex’s half-sister, exclusively told Us Weekly on Tuesday about her father’s recovery. One day later, she accused Meghan, 40, of “negligence” regarding their dad’s care.

snip



Meghan and her father have been estranged for years. He was uninvited to her May 2018 wedding to Prince Harry after he admitted to staging paparazzi photos, which the Suits alum claimed in her and Harry’s CBS tell-all in March 2021 that he didn’t own up to at first.

“That, for me, has really resonated, especially now as a mother,” the duchess said of her father’s inability to come forward with the truth about the paparazzi images. “I look at [my son] Archie, I think about this child and … I genuinely can’t imagine doing anything to intentionally cause pain to my child. I can’t imagine it. So it’s hard for me to reconcile that.”


https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/thomas-markle-is-home-from-the-hospital-after-apparent-stroke/

Half sister Samantha seems to be milking this and making money on it. She is writing a book about her pushy sister.

Samantha, 57, stated on Dan Wootton Tonight that her younger half-sister should stop “watching and doing nothing” following their father’s health concerns. (He previously survived two heart attacks.) “If she can’t find it in her heart, or have the moral conscience to step forward, then shame on her,” the Diary of Princess Pushy’s Sister Part 1 author said, claiming their dad “doesn’t have a lot of time” left.

BlueLucy

(1,609 posts)
90. Yep. People like to believe something sinister is always going on with a black woman. nt
Sat May 28, 2022, 12:17 AM
May 2022

BeeBee

(1,076 posts)
20. I think you missed the part of the article where it said she had a baseball cap and mask on...
Fri May 27, 2022, 01:15 PM
May 2022

and nobody knew who she was.

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
29. If no one knew who she was, how were the pics taken? How was it reported?
Fri May 27, 2022, 01:35 PM
May 2022

Come on now.

She goes nowhere without her Sunshine Sacks publicity crew.

gldstwmn

(4,575 posts)
40. Living miles from Columbine at the time I visited the site in the days after the shooting.
Fri May 27, 2022, 01:49 PM
May 2022

It snowed and that somehow added to the atmosphere of sadness and loss. There was media in every direction as far as the eye could see and it wasn't like this memorial. You could walk right up to it. Their cars were still in the parking lot. There were photographers and cameramen interspersed with the mourners. That was in 1999. 23 years later with print media extinct and everything online, I cannot imagine the number of press there. I'm sure everyone got a photo of her.
This is a horrible time to get petty over the actions of a former member of the British royal family and is better left for a gossip site than here.

gldstwmn

(4,575 posts)
49. Let me clarify for you. Great thread, your comments are petty.
Fri May 27, 2022, 01:57 PM
May 2022

Last edited Sat May 28, 2022, 12:04 PM - Edit history (1)

 

Treefrog

(4,170 posts)
112. Lol, just seeing this thread.
Sat May 28, 2022, 04:46 PM
May 2022

I’m not a fan of those two.

You make a great point!

mercuryblues

(15,264 posts)
223. I should have been more clear
Mon May 30, 2022, 02:17 PM
May 2022

That it is a silly thing to bash her about. 30,000 wouldn't even cover the value of her wedding rings.

Hell. all the Meagan bashing going on in here is disgusting. The she is a phony because she did X but not Y. I used to support her then I read Z about her, now everything she does is bad. She needs to reconcile with her father that sold access to himself to the tabloids (his photos sold for over 100,000) When she wrote him a letter begging him to stop, he sold those too. Bla, blah, blah.

Hekate

(95,287 posts)
226. 🌻Thank you for clarifying. This thread is so sick, I can't believe it's at DU. The combination of...
Mon May 30, 2022, 02:35 PM
May 2022

… racism and misogyny that some have pointed out (CottonBear and Arazi) is appalling, and if Arazi is right it is a large and co-ordinated bot trolling effort to tear down Meghan M and Kamala Harris (at the intersection of racism and misogyny) and the old standby Hillary Clinton (pure misogyny).

As DUers we should know better than to be sucked in by such things.

Response to questionseverything (Reply #48)

questionseverything

(10,298 posts)
66. She takes a private jet and her security crew to deliver 2 boxes of groceries
Fri May 27, 2022, 02:34 PM
May 2022

Then she poses for a picture

Shrugs

CatWoman

(79,725 posts)
69. I fail to understand your "rationalization"
Fri May 27, 2022, 02:40 PM
May 2022

one would think she frequently travels by private jet. Did it land right in front of the school?

one would also think she always travels with a security crew. Wonder if she made the crew carry the groceries? Did they wrap a big pink bow around it? Snap the pictures???

2 boxes of groceries probably mean a hell of a lot to those citizens.

questionseverything

(10,298 posts)
72. She certainly didn't sneak in
Fri May 27, 2022, 02:44 PM
May 2022

If she would of given the money she spent it would of gone alot farther than a couple boxes of groceries

I just feel it’s too soon for photo ops

They haven’t even dna’d all the victims

CatWoman

(79,725 posts)
73. i don't understand
Fri May 27, 2022, 02:47 PM
May 2022

why would she have to sneak in?

it appears to me that you would find fault even if she did do the things you suggest.

questionseverything

(10,298 posts)
77. The first post refers to her doing this quietly
Fri May 27, 2022, 02:55 PM
May 2022

It is repeated throughout the thread, I don’t think that’s true

And of course her security carried the boxes

electric_blue68

(18,697 posts)
83. Having been passing by a food give away today people were very happy...
Fri May 27, 2022, 09:17 PM
May 2022

to be getting 2 boxes of food, including milk, and eggs I was told. 👍

questionseverything

(10,298 posts)
121. Those pictures made there way into dozens of newspapers and magazines
Sat May 28, 2022, 07:11 PM
May 2022

It seems a little early to me but maybe it’s just my midwestern upbringing

Honestly this distraction helped me stop crying/fuming for a bit the day it came out, so I am glad for that

 

Treefrog

(4,170 posts)
135. She had to be told she couldn't go into the crime scene.
Sun May 29, 2022, 11:47 AM
May 2022

She took a private flight and brought her own photographers. Did she visit Buffalo too?

Mind boggling to me.

Hekate

(95,287 posts)
172. "She had to be told"? Source please. Like I said: I don't follow them as closely as you seem to.
Sun May 29, 2022, 06:25 PM
May 2022

Arazi

(7,056 posts)
22. Who cares if she did? Honestly, PLEASE bring more sympathetic media attention
Fri May 27, 2022, 01:26 PM
May 2022

To the victims and ANYONE trying to help.

I’m not sure that talking point matters one bit. I’m glad she’s using her fame to spotlight the victims

gldstwmn

(4,575 posts)
35. Great. It will document what a horrific gun problem we have and maybe motivate
Fri May 27, 2022, 01:42 PM
May 2022

people to do things about it.

BuddhaGirl

(3,652 posts)
39. What's unbelievable is that you
Fri May 27, 2022, 01:49 PM
May 2022

are attacking someone who went there and brought assistance.

Tell me what YOU'VE done to help?

Petty much?

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
47. Lol, I had no idea she had so many fans here.
Fri May 27, 2022, 01:56 PM
May 2022

You've no idea what I've done.

What have you done?

We disagree on this person; why do you take it so personally? Why do you even care what I think?

BuddhaGirl

(3,652 posts)
60. Not really a fan
Fri May 27, 2022, 02:17 PM
May 2022

Just calling out tone-deaf pettiness about a well-known person, who imo is being attacked for trying to do some good after a horrific tragedy.

Hekate

(95,287 posts)
78. Of course we have no idea what you've done. But given the energy with which you tear down...
Fri May 27, 2022, 03:35 PM
May 2022

… Meghan and Harry, you’re kind of obligated to let us know.

As for being a “fan,” I just don’t like seeing people slimed for trying to get on with their lives with the resources they have. I don’t see them grinding the faces of the poor into the dirt. They have certain resources, which I certainly don’t — she knows the film industry, for one thing. He was brought up to do a stint in the military and perform charitable works and show up.

I also wasn’t a “fan” of Harry’s mum, but the way she died was public and horrible. In my life at the time I was doing a midlife stint in grad school, and keeping godawful hours. I’d come into the kitchen for another cup of coffee about 2am and turn on the little tv on the counter. One night, there was the death of Diana.

In the nights and days that followed, I learned more about her charitable work than I ever had before — and I realized something. The shy young woman who had once described her intellect as “thick as a brick” — the despairing woman who divorced a prince — the glamorous woman of means who could have spent her life jet-setting — somehow had found a way to do good in the world.

Diana used what she had: her charm, her warmth, her ability to bring many cameras to the scene. Mother Theresa’s orphans, children dying of AIDS, children losing limbs to landmines — all of them got a good turn in the spotlight and attention was paid to their causes thanks to her. And she meant it. The photo ops were for them.

You’re off this thread if I’m not mistaken, but I have a good idea of what you’ll say next time we meet. I’m sure you despise Diana, too. Frivolous woman who only went to finishing school and couldn’t hack it as a prince’s wife. Clothes-horse. Yadda yadda.

Screw that. Sure I have a soft spot for this little family. I look at Meghan and think: California career girl. I look at Harry and think: better use sunscreen in California, you redhead. And good luck to you both.







sheshe2

(88,147 posts)
110. Thank you so much for your post, Hekate.
Sat May 28, 2022, 03:48 PM
May 2022

I should be shocked by some of the comments, but I am not.

Hekate

(95,287 posts)
193. Right up until that week I had dismissed Diana as a lightweight. Then I saw: she used what she had
Sun May 29, 2022, 08:06 PM
May 2022

And she used it for the good of others. Nobody can do more than that. I ended up feeling very humbled.

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
246. No, you'd be wrong. I quite liked Diana.
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 10:48 AM
Jun 2022

I had many friends affected by the AIDS crisis, some in England. She did a lot of good. She had her problems, but who wouldn't stepping into that circus at such a young age?

She also was incredible with her landmine activism. She was gone too soon.

William is every bit her son. A good man, who has NEVER made a racist comment, unlike his brother. I won't list Harry's comments on other races, but there are more than many even know.

Hmm, so what will I say next time we meet? Did I fulfill your expectations?

Sugarcoated

(8,116 posts)
151. It's a full time thing, this bashing
Sun May 29, 2022, 01:00 PM
May 2022

Obsessive online hatred. It makes them feel better about their mediocre lives

Cuthbert Allgood

(5,192 posts)
250. So you don't see a difference
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 12:32 PM
Jun 2022

between not wanting people to push themselves into your lives and controlling the narrative and allowing people you pick into your lives? If they let a crew in to do a documentary, they are fair game? Seems gross.

Cha

(305,853 posts)
176. Yes, the Duchess did.. it brought
Sun May 29, 2022, 06:39 PM
May 2022

tears again.. human acts of kindness.🤷?♂️💖🤷?♂️💖

💙💛

sop

(11,584 posts)
2. I read that Matthew McConaughey is from Uvalde.
Fri May 27, 2022, 11:44 AM
May 2022

He put out a weak statement about everyone having to "do better."

CottonBear

(21,615 posts)
4. She is a very thoughtful & empathetic person.
Fri May 27, 2022, 11:57 AM
May 2022

She and her husband take meaningful actions personally and through their Archewell charity to effect positive change in the world.

The Archewell website main page has a statement from Harry & Meghan:

EACH OF US can CHANGE our COMMUNITIES. ALL OF US can CHANGE THE WORLD.

https://archewell.com/

CatWoman

(79,725 posts)
12. Jesus
Fri May 27, 2022, 01:06 PM
May 2022

can you tell me how so?

I can't, for the life of me, see where she tried to bring attention to herself.

Hekate

(95,287 posts)
13. It was the snarky jacket & spike heels that was your first clue, yeah?
Fri May 27, 2022, 01:08 PM
May 2022

Oh wait, that was Melania where the caged children were.

Torchlight

(4,251 posts)
37. Something also reeks of a very spiteful envy.
Fri May 27, 2022, 01:46 PM
May 2022

Not her though, as the wind's coming in from the west; can't quite put my finger on it.

violasays

(59 posts)
133. Nope! Just wondering why her silence on Buffalo
Sun May 29, 2022, 10:20 AM
May 2022

Since she is a Black woman and all. She said literally zero about the horrific shootings in Buffalo. They sure could have used that publicity and food.

violasays

(59 posts)
139. Google is your friend -- and a source
Sun May 29, 2022, 12:07 PM
May 2022

Google Meghan Markle Buffalo shooting as I did, and you get bupkis about the Buffalo shooting. You're welcome!

panader0

(25,816 posts)
65. I see that you are a Beto fan. So am I. Was he seeking publicity when he crashed Abbott's presser?
Fri May 27, 2022, 02:32 PM
May 2022

broiles

(1,403 posts)
79. Yes, but he is running for governor on a gun safety platform
Fri May 27, 2022, 03:40 PM
May 2022

So his appearance was called for. I think hers was "oh here's a photo opportunity"!

BlueLucy

(1,609 posts)
92. You need to ask yourself why you hate her!
Sat May 28, 2022, 12:24 AM
May 2022

You must believe all the RW lies about her told on twitter, facbook, etc...

 

newdayneeded

(2,493 posts)
102. Right!!!11!1!
Sat May 28, 2022, 07:40 AM
May 2022

She's definitely looking down her nose in that pic!

Can you be any more off? She's incognito, quietly showing her respects. All I see is class and grace.

gldstwmn

(4,575 posts)
8. Then the flying monkeys online went crazy and criticized her for it.
Fri May 27, 2022, 01:03 PM
May 2022

It was a beautiful gesture. I do not blame her and Harry one bit for not wanting to show pictures of their children.

CottonBear

(21,615 posts)
19. She has received death threats because she's a POC.
Fri May 27, 2022, 01:14 PM
May 2022

I’d say she understands the threat of gun violence more than many people in the US.

gldstwmn

(4,575 posts)
33. Truly. And she and Harry felt safer living here.
Fri May 27, 2022, 01:40 PM
May 2022

Their children will have to go to school someday. I believe her efforts are sincere.

a kennedy

(32,323 posts)
31. I know, I was so embarrassed by what some of them were saying and writing about her.
Fri May 27, 2022, 01:37 PM
May 2022

They do not like her…….

GoCubsGo

(33,162 posts)
87. They don't like her because Dear Leader doesn't like her.
Fri May 27, 2022, 10:59 PM
May 2022

Any time the subject of England or the Queen comes up, he bad-mouths her. Not sure what she ever did to earn that hate, other than marrying into royalty while black. Oh yeah, that...

Hekate

(95,287 posts)
67. "Flying monkeys online" captures the essence....
Fri May 27, 2022, 02:36 PM
May 2022

Sadly, we have our own coterie. It’s embarrassing.

ETA — monkeys are a “troop,” not a coterie.



LetMyPeopleVote

(155,525 posts)
104. I love your characterization of the idiots attacking Meghan Markle for this act of kindness
Sat May 28, 2022, 07:46 AM
May 2022

Thank you. I was also moved by this act of kindness


Arazi

(7,056 posts)
21. If I had money and a platform, I hope I'd go and draw some attention to the issue
Fri May 27, 2022, 01:24 PM
May 2022

And ensure I drew a bright line on where I stood and with whom.

I think it’s fine

Captain Zero

(7,579 posts)
42. Geez. You'd think she lives off of NRA donations
Fri May 27, 2022, 01:52 PM
May 2022

The way people here are talking.
Get off her ass.

violasays

(59 posts)
132. Agreed. So where was she in Buffalo?
Sun May 29, 2022, 10:19 AM
May 2022

Since, you know, the supermarket that was located in a food desert is now closed and the community there is begging for help with money and food.

Meghan Markle, who self-identifies as Black, though apparently she didn't do this at Northwestern University or for most of her acting career, ignoring a Black tragedy like Buffalo is disgusting, and that is why many feel Uvalde was a stunt.

Arazi

(7,056 posts)
178. You do realize there's a mass shooting almost every day right?
Sun May 29, 2022, 06:44 PM
May 2022

Are you demanding black celebrities act on every one?

Or just Meghan Markle?

Where’s Oprah? Or Beyoncé? Or Stevie Wonder?

Can they react to an event that speaks to them or are they required to react to them all? Or just Meghan?

In It to Win It

(9,765 posts)
27. She can't do anything right. People will criticize her for urging lawmakers to act or queitly paying
Fri May 27, 2022, 01:34 PM
May 2022

tribute to the victims or donate her time, money, or food.

She should be appreciated for giving her time, for being empathic and sympathetic, and for her willingness to act because she was moved by the unfortunate events. That's what we do. That's what we promote. We want everyone to be caring and giving, and reaching out to our neighbors and communities that need helping hands. Meghan Markle does that and people on OUR SIDE of the aisle and that think like us criticize her for doing the very thing we promote and wish more people would do.

Torchlight

(4,251 posts)
52. I am honestly surprised
Fri May 27, 2022, 02:00 PM
May 2022

to see how much childlike spite and silly pouting is directed at Ms. Markle. Grandad told me some years ago that we often show our character without ever realizing we did.

I guess that applies to the bad in our character as well as the good.

llmart

(16,331 posts)
76. This is a heartfelt gesture on her part and I think both Harry and Megan are good people.
Fri May 27, 2022, 02:54 PM
May 2022

If she was only interested in drawing attention to herself all the time, she'd never have left the spotlight in the royal family behind to move here with Harry. She'd have gotten as much attention as the late Princess Diana got, which turned out very badly for her now, didn't it?

I applaud her gesture.

violasays

(59 posts)
131. And Buffalo?
Sun May 29, 2022, 10:17 AM
May 2022

People are angry because Meghan Markle, who identifies as Black, has said zero about the Buffalo massacre. No flowers, no food, nothing. Yet, she does a photo op in a town that has nothing to do with her?

She's a mother. Cool. She's also Black. Her complete disregard for the Buffalo victims is disgusting and I say this as someone who is, except for the white prince husband, exactly like her but younger, the biracial daughter of a Black woman and a white man.

CatWoman

(79,725 posts)
134. what about Buffalo? Are you saying it didn't affect her? How would you know?
Sun May 29, 2022, 10:35 AM
May 2022

and who are these "angry people"?

and why should Markle give a flying fuck?

I don't recall her saying anything about Buffalo or Texas.

She just showed up and offered support.


I'm black. I'm a mother. And a grandmother. Buffalo surely sickened and floored me.

However, for some reason, this Texas shooting shattered me even more.

And when I read the particulars, it haunted me to the extreme. Can you imagine those children being so brutally shot and riddled with bullets that the parents couldn't even identify them?

I simply don't think you have the right or the ability to tell anyone how to react to any particular public tragedy.

My baby brother lives in Houston and my first thought was of the safety of his grandchildren.

violasays

(59 posts)
136. Why are you yelling at me?
Sun May 29, 2022, 11:50 AM
May 2022

Yell at Markle. She's the one who made it about herself by going to Uvalde. Did you go to Uvalde? I doubt it. Neither did I. Because it was not about me. She went to Uvalde. It is fair for me and other Black people to question why if she could go to Uvalde, why she couldn't go to Buffalo or at least donate food and money as she did in Uvalde. But then again, we're talking about a woman who said she was "Maltese" in college and referred to monoracial Black women as "Nappy by Nature" because of their natural hair styles.

If you don't care, fine. We as Black people are a monolith. But I am Black, too, and this is my opinion. Markle is a fraud and her Uvalde stunt proved it.

CatWoman

(79,725 posts)
141. i wasn't aware I was "yelling" at anyone
Sun May 29, 2022, 12:09 PM
May 2022

I was simply responding to your "logic".

You're right -- I don't care for all your assumptions, hyperbole and whataboutisms.

violasays

(59 posts)
143. Cool! Nothing more to be said then
Sun May 29, 2022, 12:17 PM
May 2022

Would appreciate your blocking me so I don't have to deal with any more of your head buried in the sand. I will follow suit. Have a good one!

P.S. ... Gen Z is not really all that impressed by the monarchy, so the weird love of Markle by Gen Xers and Boomers is ... kind of wild.

Hekate

(95,287 posts)
138. She identifies as bi-racial. Please cite a source other than tabloids & right wing rags ...
Sun May 29, 2022, 11:55 AM
May 2022

… for your statements.

violasays

(59 posts)
140. Psst. I also identify as biracial
Sun May 29, 2022, 12:08 PM
May 2022

Like Markle, I have a Black mother and a white father. I have spoken about that several times here. Not sure what your point is. Also, answered your source question above. Again, you're welcome!

violasays

(59 posts)
144. Because I am a college student with limited funds whose mother has terminal ovarian cancer
Sun May 29, 2022, 12:21 PM
May 2022

I'd prefer to spend my mother's last moments with her, thanks. Also, I'm not a Duchess who is rich and who inserted herself into a tragedy that has nothing to do with her while ignoring a tragedy involving people she claims to be a part of.

Also, I donated what I could to charities that are helping to run food pantries in Buffalo and signed a card of condolence sent to Buffalo by my college's Black Student Union. Thanks for asking!

CatWoman

(79,725 posts)
146. regardless
Sun May 29, 2022, 12:23 PM
May 2022

you gave the impression that biracial people should have dropped everything and hauled it to Buffalo

Hekate

(95,287 posts)
147. ***
Sun May 29, 2022, 12:34 PM
May 2022

Actually, viola made a big thing about Meghan identifying as Black and somehow not doing the right thing, until I pointed out she identifies as biracial. Now viola — is biracial, too. But Meghan is still not doing the right thing.

I don’t give a rip how people self-identify, btw.


Peacetrain

(23,640 posts)
150. I just followed this line out curiousity and it is absolutely sick to try and somehow compare
Sun May 29, 2022, 12:57 PM
May 2022

two national tragedies to bash someone.. what is wrong with people?

CatWoman

(79,725 posts)
153. Unfortunately there's a whole bunch of hate and idiocy on this thread
Sun May 29, 2022, 01:18 PM
May 2022

you have people entering the Duchess' head and speaking for her and about her actions, inactions, motives, etc.

I've never seen anything like it.

Hekate

(95,287 posts)
154. *****
Sun May 29, 2022, 01:36 PM
May 2022

Arazi in post 120 has some interesting info about bot-driven misogyny/racism campaigns that I hope…

… they will post separately so it can be bookmarked.

It helps make sense of the toxicity in this thread, which is kind of making me sick to my stomach. CottonBear put her finger on the racism inherent in the attacks on Meghan (which are similar to the attacks on Kamala Harris) — and now we can see better what’s going on.

Cha

(305,853 posts)
187. Mahalo, Peactrain.. that's the heart of
Sun May 29, 2022, 07:47 PM
May 2022

the matter. Using two Tragedies to bash Meghan, the Duchess of Sussex, for not being at one.

It's Despicable.

💙💛


Peacetrain

(23,640 posts)
212. Mahalo Cha!...
Mon May 30, 2022, 11:37 AM
May 2022

Very odd isn't it.. suspiciously odd.. almost like certain parties have an agenda.. and decided to use MM as a weapon.. makes you want to go HMMMMMMMMMM doesn't it..

Cha

(305,853 posts)
227. Just So Grateful there are Kind Caring & Generous People like
Mon May 30, 2022, 02:45 PM
May 2022

the Duchess of Sussex in the World!

💙💛

mercuryblues

(15,264 posts)
224. Glad you cleared that up.
Mon May 30, 2022, 02:22 PM
May 2022

I was about to ask you if your real name was Samantha Grant Markle.

BuddhaGirl

(3,652 posts)
156. Hmmm
Sun May 29, 2022, 01:50 PM
May 2022

"People are angry because Meghan Markle, who identifies as Black, has said zero about the Buffalo massacre. No flowers, no food, nothing. Yet, she does a photo op in a town that has nothing to do with her?"

Just WHO are these *people*?

The Daily Mail? The Telegraph? The Sun? Or some other RW trash tabloid?

ecstatic

(34,519 posts)
240. I know right?
Mon May 30, 2022, 10:39 PM
May 2022

Complete and utter nonsense, but it reminds me of the blind seething hatred for Hillary Clinton. Similar illogical rage.

ecstatic

(34,519 posts)
86. Kudos. I wonder if she gave the $175k donation to the victims
Fri May 27, 2022, 10:50 PM
May 2022

That guv assbot referenced earlier?

treestar

(82,383 posts)
119. Tabloids consistently treat the two of them
Sat May 28, 2022, 06:54 PM
May 2022

completely differently, on a double standard. One gets praised for doing the same thing the other gets criticized for. It's completely obvious.

mcar

(43,620 posts)
155. I am stunned at some of the pettiness and, yes, racism on this thread
Sun May 29, 2022, 01:40 PM
May 2022

DU, we can do better than this.

 

Thtwudbeme

(7,737 posts)
157. I am stunned that anyone cares that much what a fairly unknown celebrity does
Sun May 29, 2022, 02:01 PM
May 2022

She was pretty much an unknown actress in some cable TV series....I never even knew who she was until Prince Harry married her.

I only know about William and Harry because I always felt so sorry for them when their Mom was killed in the car accident.

This whole thread is kind of like wondering what Lee Greenwood had for lunch today- or as Lewis Grizzard wrote, "two mules fighting over a turnip...who cares?"

mcar

(43,620 posts)
161. You can always ignore it
Sun May 29, 2022, 02:53 PM
May 2022

There are loads of OPs on DU that I pass by. It's not incumbent on us to read every one.

 

Thtwudbeme

(7,737 posts)
168. Why thank you. I had NO idea after being on DU for two decades
Sun May 29, 2022, 04:39 PM
May 2022

that was an option.

Gosh darn, I'll surely take advantage of your advice from now on.

Baltimike

(4,441 posts)
158. She needs to show empathy for her bed ridden father, and not take a publicist with her here.
Sun May 29, 2022, 02:36 PM
May 2022

I know this won't be popular, but she smacks of a grifter, and this smacks of virtue signaling.

Sorry, but you can't preach compassion and not have any for your own family.

CatWoman

(79,725 posts)
159. how do you know she was accompanied by her publicist?
Sun May 29, 2022, 02:42 PM
May 2022

i only see sentiments like that on rw rags.

And what's between her and her dad is her business.

mcar

(43,620 posts)
162. Why does she need to show empathy for someone who has treated
Sun May 29, 2022, 02:58 PM
May 2022

her horribly?

She didn't take a publicist with her.

Sorry, but you can't preach compassion and not have any for your own family.


Really? There are many people who cut ties with abusive, bigoted or MAGA families - we read about it all the time here on DU. I believe those people can show and encourage compassion even though they are estranged from their families.

You've really set quite a high bar for this one person.

Baltimike

(4,441 posts)
164. Treated her horribly? NOPE
Sun May 29, 2022, 03:01 PM
May 2022

Nice try. No dice.

I was all about Meghan Markle until I saw the Oprah interview. There were so many lies, it was cringe worthy.

mcar

(43,620 posts)
165. Wow, you sure seem to know all about her and her family
Sun May 29, 2022, 03:03 PM
May 2022

to have made such judgments.

Baltimike

(4,441 posts)
169. as do you...since there is little defense for the indefensible
Sun May 29, 2022, 06:18 PM
May 2022

She straight up LIED...repeatedly. Demonstrable, provable lies.

She even helped to write the book they swore they had nothing to do with.

Cha

(305,853 posts)
194. Ikr.. I hate that there are those
Sun May 29, 2022, 08:15 PM
May 2022

taking this opportunity to bash Duchess Mehan when she's honoring the those massacred at the school in Uvalde Texas.

She's actually brave because you know she knew this would happen.. it's so predictable.

💙💛

Baltimike

(4,441 posts)
200. Indeed it is. Making a PUBLICITY STUNT out of a tragedy is a travesty
Sun May 29, 2022, 08:47 PM
May 2022

Last edited Mon May 30, 2022, 07:14 AM - Edit history (1)

She may have worn jeans, but she was surrounded by black suits. Oh, and her publicist is there too. Here is the visit:

Baltimike

(4,441 posts)
207. Thanks! The FACTS matter, and that was no incognito visit
Mon May 30, 2022, 07:13 AM
May 2022

regardless of her wardrobe choice that day.

BlueLucy

(1,609 posts)
214. What did she do that is so horrible to make you hate her?
Mon May 30, 2022, 11:47 AM
May 2022

Not tolerate the racism in UK coming from both the tabloids and some in the royal family? Is that why you hate her?

Baltimike

(4,441 posts)
216. A swing!! A miss!!
Mon May 30, 2022, 11:59 AM
May 2022

The color of her skin does not inoculate her from the content of her character.

She LIED, and lied REPEATEDLY. Even if you are dealing with racism, and I am a minority myself, it does NOT excuse straight up LYING, and this visit, as I have shown through the link of it, was a publicity stunt and a virtue signalling exercise.

Why do you keep defending a liar? Why do you think the Obamas distanced themselves from them? From BOTH of them.

Also, for the record, I think her father is a grifter too, and she is a chip off of both of her parents block.

BlueLucy

(1,609 posts)
217. And what did she lie about?
Mon May 30, 2022, 12:07 PM
May 2022

You mean you believe the tabloids? How did Obama distance himself? You talk to Obama? Or.. like all the other right wing nuts you are assuming since they were not invited to his birthday he distanced himself? Obama but his birthday bash from 400 to 100 die to COVID.

It's easy to get 100 just in staff.

Baltimike

(4,441 posts)
229. a LOT!!
Mon May 30, 2022, 05:17 PM
May 2022

The Obamas ACTIONS told you where they stand. One could get to one hundred 'just with staff' but many notables from Cali were there...including John Legend and his wife, who was in the midst of some bad pr mistakes.

She LIED repeatedly during that Oprah interview up to and including that "I will call him Daddy to pull at the heartstrings" when it suited her. Mind you, all of that photographer bs was already over with.

You can let her piss on your boots and tell you it's raining. I stood corrected after I saw all of that cringe, and when Tyler Perry had to throw them out of his house?

Sheeeeeew

NOPE!!!!

Response to BlueLucy (Reply #218)

CatWoman

(79,725 posts)
220. you keep regurgitating a bunch of idiotic claptrap that simply isn't true
Mon May 30, 2022, 12:13 PM
May 2022

where do you get this nonsense?

Have you bothered to read post 163?

It debunks all the right wing lies you keep posting.

Baltimike

(4,441 posts)
196. What wasn't true was her claim that she never helped to write that tell all
Sun May 29, 2022, 08:38 PM
May 2022

absolutely awful.

BlueLucy

(1,609 posts)
219. She left it to Jason
Mon May 30, 2022, 12:13 PM
May 2022

They were moving from Kensington to Frogmore in the middle of a family feud she signed off on allowing Jason to work with Scoobie dude on writing it.

BlueLucy

(1,609 posts)
234. She's prepared and looks at all angles and scenarios..
Mon May 30, 2022, 08:49 PM
May 2022

Hillary Clinton also does this. She's overly cautious about everything she writes because it gets scrutinized. Big Fucking deal!

Baltimike

(4,441 posts)
237. Now you're just trying to have it both ways
Mon May 30, 2022, 10:05 PM
May 2022

either she was manipulating her father, or she got him out of her life, yadda yadda.

Nice try. No dice. Why do you keep defending a liar?

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
248. Also the Oprah interview was removed from the internet.
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 11:02 AM
Jun 2022

Last edited Wed Jun 1, 2022, 02:15 PM - Edit history (1)

By Oprah.

And it's easy to find out why.

Peacetrain

(23,640 posts)
251. Just out of curiosity ... What exactly has Meghan Markle done to have your fur on end nonstop?
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 01:05 PM
Jun 2022

Other than not being a "English Rose"..just exactly what has MM done to stir you lot up.. been a pedophile? ( oops wrong Royal).. murdered someone? robbed a bank? can't quite get why all the pissing up a rope




BuddhaGirl

(3,652 posts)
254. Exactly
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 07:33 PM
Jun 2022

The MM petty hate is puzzling.

The poster you replied to has tossed out eyeroll-worthy and hyperbolic allegations but claims not to read American or British tabloids. Just the types of trashy outlets you see such b.s. in

Peacetrain

(23,640 posts)
255. It has me stumped!
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 07:48 PM
Jun 2022

I mean if she had done something. But apparently just the fact she exists has some people apoplectic

BuddhaGirl

(3,652 posts)
256. I know
Wed Jun 1, 2022, 08:21 PM
Jun 2022

It's sad to see the trollish behavior. Another poster characterized it as possible racism disguised by classism.

maxsolomon

(35,358 posts)
160. This thread reminds me of the Amanda Knox threads of long ago DU
Sun May 29, 2022, 02:46 PM
May 2022

low-count posters who've already decided to think the worst, and cannot be dissuaded.

demmiblue

(37,872 posts)
163. Meghan Markle Said She Held Her Children "A Little Bit Tighter" After Learning About The Uvalde...
Sun May 29, 2022, 02:59 PM
May 2022
Meghan Markle Said She Held Her Children “A Little Bit Tighter” After Learning About The Uvalde School Shooting

The director of the Uvalde community center where the Duchess of Sussex donated food told BuzzFeed News how Meghan’s visit unfolded.

On Thursday, Meghan quietly visited the Herby Ham Activity Center, which hosted an emergency blood drive to help victims of the shooting. Director Sue Rankin told BuzzFeed News that late in the morning on Thursday, a member of the duchess's security team walked into her office and told her that Meghan was in Uvalde.

“She wanted to come by and just see everything that was going on with the blood drive and to help. Her whole thing was she wanted to help,” Rankin said. “She was going to be incognito, he told me that she was going to be wearing a T-shirt and ripped blue jeans and a hat and a mask and no one was going to — he didn’t want anyone to know who she was because she did not want the press attention.”

...

Rankin also shot down internet speculation that Meghan visited the center with an accompanying camera crew or personal photographer.

“It was not a photo op,” she said. “I reiterate: Meghan did not bring any cameras with her. She didn’t bring any reporters.”

In fact, she said, Meghan had expressed a desire to stay at the center for more time, but she and her security team left when Texas gubernatorial candidate Beto O’Rourke arrived with a crew of news reporters in tow.

https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/kadiagoba/meghan-markle-uvalde-interview-volunteer-secret-visit

Hekate

(95,287 posts)
177. Nice. Thumbs up.
Sun May 29, 2022, 06:43 PM
May 2022

One of the haters in this thread accused her of wearing $30,000 of jewelry to Uvalde. I was hoping they’d at least post a photo of her in her bling — it goes so well with jeans and a T-shirt, you know. But no such luck.

This is one of the most toxic threads I can recall on DU, full of nearly-unrestrained misogyny and racism, thinly disguised as outrage at a rich woman.


MustLoveBeagles

(12,694 posts)
180. This thead has been an eye opener and not in a good way
Sun May 29, 2022, 07:21 PM
May 2022

I thought we were all better than this here.

tavernier

(13,284 posts)
209. I m sure she knew she would catch a ton of negative flack.
Mon May 30, 2022, 07:32 AM
May 2022

But she has a good heart and needed to try to help in some tiny small way. And the gesture was no one’s business but her own.
There were other people who brought flowers, wrote letters, baked a casserole, all to show the families that they cared. I don’t see them being spat on for their kindness.

BlueLucy

(1,609 posts)
215. Meghan is not a RW nut.
Mon May 30, 2022, 11:53 AM
May 2022

Meghan is one of us and if you don't like her give your reasons. Kate and William adorn their walls with racist paintings and blackamoor lamps...revealed when Obama went to visit. Google it. The UK tabloids and some on the family were bullying her to the point she was suicidal while pregnant. She left. Is that why you hate her? You need to check yourself.

Evergreen Emerald

(13,095 posts)
221. Well, you are half right. She is not right-wing
Mon May 30, 2022, 01:25 PM
May 2022

No one said I hated her. Perhaps you need to check your own damn self.

FakeNoose

(36,005 posts)
230. OMG this isn't Facebook! Why are all these trashy comments on here?
Mon May 30, 2022, 05:17 PM
May 2022

I've just reached the decision that I'm going to trash every thread that has "Meghan Markle" in the title.

It's not that I dislike her or have anything against the Duke & Duchess of Sussex. No!

This kind of gossip has no place here. I left Facebook because I was sickened by this garbage.

We are better than this.

Over and out

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