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I wear my mask in public for three reasons (Original Post) LetMyPeopleVote Jan 2023 OP
I wear a mask in crowded venues Elessar Zappa Jan 2023 #1
The CDC person on MSNBC today said everyone should return to wearing masks pnwmom Jan 2023 #44
This has been my pinned Tweet since last February MurrayDelph Jan 2023 #2
My thoughts also!! walkingman Jan 2023 #3
These are all great reasons to continue wearing a mask LetMyPeopleVote Jan 2023 #22
like it republianmushroom Jan 2023 #30
Right on! I'm with you. KPN Jan 2023 #48
Well said ... Sums up my reasons. 👍 electric_blue68 Jan 2023 #98
EXACTLY !!! Seinan Sensei Jan 2023 #122
I'm done. Almost 3 years is more than fair. jimfields33 Jan 2023 #4
This message was self-deleted by its author LuckyCharms Jan 2023 #6
Thanks! It took awhile. But I think we're getting better at this. jimfields33 Jan 2023 #7
Not in Rebl2 Jan 2023 #14
This message was self-deleted by its author LuckyCharms Jan 2023 #23
Okey-dokey Rebl2 Jan 2023 #43
I'm just honest about it. Obviously a super duper majority agree with me. jimfields33 Jan 2023 #67
Why don't you get a new mask? LuckyCharms Jan 2023 #68
My neighbor quit making them. jimfields33 Jan 2023 #70
Well, home made cloth masks do LuckyCharms Jan 2023 #73
Ok. Thank you! jimfields33 Jan 2023 #75
. LuckyCharms Jan 2023 #76
It is only a majority disagreeing with you on DU. Ace Rothstein Jan 2023 #71
That's true. DU has the best of the best. jimfields33 Jan 2023 #72
That's like bragging about not changing your underwear for three years Orrex Jan 2023 #91
I don't necessarily agree with you about masks, BUT BannonsLiver Jan 2023 #62
I find it cruel when people do that. A lot of us have suffered great loss and pain from Covid liberal_mama Jan 2023 #63
That's great. You do you. I don't see anyone here standing in your way. BannonsLiver Jan 2023 #65
I'm just saying that I don't think you'd be giggling if you had to pay the high price and grief that liberal_mama Jan 2023 #79
... Disaffected Jan 2023 #88
"Wear a mask if you want to" translates to "go fuck yourself" Orrex Jan 2023 #97
Had a Covid Christmas WA-03 Democrat Jan 2023 #24
I'm sorry, and I understand. LuckyCharms Jan 2023 #25
I think Rebl2 Jan 2023 #45
To quote Wanda Sykes... OldBaldy1701E Jan 2023 #114
"then" refers to time; "than" refers to comparisons Effete Snob Jan 2023 #9
Thank you. Changed it. jimfields33 Jan 2023 #10
Zero reasons for you. Marcus IM Jan 2023 #15
LOL LuckyCharms Jan 2023 #29
But, but, but... Hortensis Jan 2023 #18
The thing is, it isn't just about you oregonjen Jan 2023 #20
This message was self-deleted by its author LuckyCharms Jan 2023 #34
Yep oregonjen Jan 2023 #47
Thank God for that. jimfields33 Jan 2023 #69
Except time duration has nothing Disaffected Jan 2023 #21
Kinda does... Happy Hoosier Jan 2023 #64
It will become endemic at some point. Ace Rothstein Jan 2023 #74
I think it is already.... Happy Hoosier Jan 2023 #78
I think we need a waver for those who don't mask. Hope22 Jan 2023 #116
For as long as it takes IMO. Disaffected Jan 2023 #89
Wearing a mask in winter I_UndergroundPanther Jan 2023 #94
Lol, ok?? USALiberal Jan 2023 #31
Is virus aware that the clock has run out?🙄 we can do it Jan 2023 #36
Same Calculating Jan 2023 #39
I'm sorry it's so difficult for you. LuckyCharms Jan 2023 #40
i know you're being droll or sarcastic & good reply btw orleans Jan 2023 #49
Here's the way I look at it. LuckyCharms Jan 2023 #54
That's exactly how I feel too. My husband doesn't wear a mask so I have to live with a selfish liberal_mama Jan 2023 #58
. Orrex Jan 2023 #83
Yeah, that part is so devastating to me. I always thought it was mostly the republicans that were liberal_mama Jan 2023 #87
It's astounding Effete Snob Jan 2023 #117
So sorry that your husband is being selfish, and that you lost your dad in such an awful way! electric_blue68 Jan 2023 #99
I wish I could rec your post Orrex Jan 2023 #82
Thank you, Orrex. I can understand simple ignorance or LuckyCharms Jan 2023 #84
Wow... electric_blue68 Jan 2023 #100
Thank you, electric_blue68... LuckyCharms Jan 2023 #101
Oh, Hell! That's Perfectly Understandable! I wish the best good outcome for you sooner than later! electric_blue68 Jan 2023 #104
You mentioned your mother earlier... LuckyCharms Jan 2023 #109
thank you for sharing orleans Jan 2023 #103
Thank you for your OP yesterday. LuckyCharms Jan 2023 #105
I do not have your health issues, LC, and I know that I am lucky. But because YOU do, niyad Jan 2023 #106
Hmmm You coulda said "That's Mah People!" and smiled behind your mask. electric_blue68 Jan 2023 #107
Thank you. Filing that for future need. niyad Jan 2023 #110
😄 Glad to be of service! 👍 electric_blue68 Jan 2023 #111
I appreciate people like you. LuckyCharms Jan 2023 #108
I think that you and I would have wayyyyy too much fun together dealing with niyad Jan 2023 #112
Oh trust me, we would. LuckyCharms Jan 2023 #113
Well, I suppose if you're going to pick an arbitrary, ill-substantiated number, 3 is as good as any Orrex Jan 2023 #81
Some people (are definitely on the Uberselfish list!)... electric_blue68 Jan 2023 #102
Wow, I wasn't aware there was a time limit on dying. Ferrets are Cool Jan 2023 #119
It's really quite simple gratuitous Jan 2023 #5
That's very good! The "mind my own business" part! liberalla Jan 2023 #51
Me, too judesedit Jan 2023 #8
All the above, plus it hides most of my old ass mug. Traildogbob Jan 2023 #11
I wear a mask because it angers conservatives IronLionZion Jan 2023 #12
I wore my mask Dorian Gray Jan 2023 #80
We mask still XanaDUer2 Jan 2023 #13
I go Rebl2 Jan 2023 #19
This was the eye doctor XanaDUer2 Jan 2023 #41
Me too because multigraincracker Jan 2023 #16
I would change "humility" to "safety". LisaM Jan 2023 #17
+1. Safety for all is actually the only reason. Pinback Jan 2023 #53
I wear a mask any time I'm indoors and Alpeduez21 Jan 2023 #26
Great tweet! I wore a mask at the (crowded) grocery store two days ago, but I saw only a highplainsdem Jan 2023 #27
#4 My wife likes to keep hers on in the grocery store so no one can see her talking to TeamProg Jan 2023 #28
I still wear my mask because Javaman Jan 2023 #32
my sister and i had all the covid symptoms...the dr. said it wasn't covid so it must dawn5651 Jan 2023 #33
4. So people know I'm not a MAGAt. OMGWTF Jan 2023 #35
This is a great reason to wear a mask LetMyPeopleVote Jan 2023 #57
Yes! For our safety and for the safety of others and our nation. Hortensis Jan 2023 #37
I use reason #4 on MAGAs and it works. #4 - Foil every facial recognition program tracking you ZonkerHarris Jan 2023 #38
Admittingly I don't wear a mask anymore. But... Roc2020 Jan 2023 #42
A CDC rep was on MSNBC today urging everyone to go back to wearing masks pnwmom Jan 2023 #46
Wouldn't it be better just to have it on? These new variants are so contagious that a place liberal_mama Jan 2023 #52
I wear one for the same reasons sorcrow Jan 2023 #50
I wore one the other day for the first time since March. Ace Rothstein Jan 2023 #55
I Wear A Mask To This Day... GB_RN Jan 2023 #56
Outdoors? No. maxsolomon Jan 2023 #59
Never stopped wearing mine. GoodRaisin Jan 2023 #60
This doctor's response is perfect... LetMyPeopleVote Jan 2023 #61
It pisses off Trumpy assholes Sky Jewels Jan 2023 #66
I wear a mask to protect myself and my students indigovalley Jan 2023 #77
Has your school upgraded the HVAC Dorian Gray Jan 2023 #95
I don't get the opposition to wearing a mask DBoon Jan 2023 #85
My daughter (12) objects to wearing a mask all day at Dorian Gray Jan 2023 #96
A guy asked me why I still wear a mask and I said--So people don't think I'm a Republican. panader0 Jan 2023 #86
I weat it Meowmee Jan 2023 #90
One other reason to wear a mask I_UndergroundPanther Jan 2023 #92
because I AM NOT A SELFISH ASSHOLE Skittles Jan 2023 #93
Every little bit helps. lambchopp59 Jan 2023 #115
I have a 4th more personal reason. I cannot chance taking anything home to my sick wifey. Ferrets are Cool Jan 2023 #118
I wear one everywhere I go, indoors and outdoors. ificandream Jan 2023 #120
I haven't worn one in forever, but I started back up the other day. Native Jan 2023 #121
Kevin McCarthy is a good reason to wear a mask LetMyPeopleVote Jan 2023 #123
It is not safe to fly without a mask LetMyPeopleVote Jan 2023 #124

pnwmom

(108,980 posts)
44. The CDC person on MSNBC today said everyone should return to wearing masks
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 02:10 PM
Jan 2023

because the new variants are so contagious and resistant to antibodies from previous infections and from the vaccines.

Though the bivalent vaccines still help to prevent hospitalization and death.

MurrayDelph

(5,299 posts)
2. This has been my pinned Tweet since last February
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 12:20 PM
Jan 2023

I still wear a mask in public for three reasons:
1. I don't know if you have it and don't want to get it from you
2. No one can be 100% sure they don't have it and I don't want to give it TO you
3. I don't want anyone assuming I'm a Republican.

Seinan Sensei

(364 posts)
122. EXACTLY !!!
Tue Jan 3, 2023, 11:36 AM
Jan 2023

Especially number three.

I keep waiting for someone to confront me with anti-mask sentiment, but no one ever has.
Twice someone said something after I already walked several steps past them.
If that's the best they got, then fuck 'em.

Also, you cannot come into my workplace without a mask, so there's that.
I've had people kicked out for not masking-up.

Response to jimfields33 (Reply #4)

Rebl2

(13,523 posts)
14. Not in
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 12:40 PM
Jan 2023

some nursing homes and some hospitals. That is part of the reason I still wear a mask. I have a parent in a nursing home where cases are up. I also take chemo and other drugs that suppress my immune system.

Response to Rebl2 (Reply #14)

jimfields33

(15,823 posts)
67. I'm just honest about it. Obviously a super duper majority agree with me.
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 04:24 PM
Jan 2023

I saw two out of a thousand people with masks. Besides my mask I wear is getting gross after almost three years of wearing it. I have a beautiful dark blue mask and even the strings are browning. At one point, I was going to get a new mask but my neighbor stopped making them. I’ve worn this mask almost 1,000 days!

LuckyCharms

(17,444 posts)
73. Well, home made cloth masks do
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 04:31 PM
Jan 2023

not work very well anyway.

You can buy masks on Amazon, at most home improvement stores, drug stores.

If you want some new masks, and would like to PM me your address, I have plenty of masks, and I could send you a few, free of charge.

Ace Rothstein

(3,163 posts)
71. It is only a majority disagreeing with you on DU.
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 04:28 PM
Jan 2023

In the real world the vast majority on the same page as you.

Orrex

(63,216 posts)
91. That's like bragging about not changing your underwear for three years
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 07:01 PM
Jan 2023

And then complaining that you're done with underwear because yours is gross.

BannonsLiver

(16,396 posts)
62. I don't necessarily agree with you about masks, BUT
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 03:28 PM
Jan 2023

Still wearing most of the time but I just giggle whenever someone takes a crap in the middle of one of these “look at me” virtue show and tell threads. Endlessly entertaining.

liberal_mama

(1,495 posts)
63. I find it cruel when people do that. A lot of us have suffered great loss and pain from Covid
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 04:09 PM
Jan 2023

I lost my vaccinated/boosted dad from Covid just two months ago. Many people are suffering from long term health issues from their Covid infections.

I don't wear a mask because I want people to "look at me" and think I'm virtuous. That's absurd. I wear a mask because I am immune compromised and diabetic and I saw with my own eyes how Covid can totally destroy a person if it progresses to serious illness, even if they have all their vaccines. I want to avoid getting Covid and a mask is a great way to reduce risk.



liberal_mama

(1,495 posts)
79. I'm just saying that I don't think you'd be giggling if you had to pay the high price and grief that
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 04:36 PM
Jan 2023

some of us have. I envy you. It sounds like you didn't suffer the loss of someone that you dearly loved to Covid. Thousands of Americans are still dying every week of Covid.

Orrex

(63,216 posts)
97. "Wear a mask if you want to" translates to "go fuck yourself"
Tue Jan 3, 2023, 12:48 AM
Jan 2023

And it's 100% exactly the sentiment that I heard all over western Pennsylvania more or less from day one of the initial attempts at a mask mandate.

Today, the reported daily death count has dropped, but of course accurate counting is discouraged and all but impossible with at-home testing. Masks are a trivial inconvenience and a great idea for everyone except those who don't give a shit about anyone else.

It's disappointing and yet somehow unsurprising that some are so cavalier with other's lives, yet also so condescending and smug about it.

WA-03 Democrat

(3,050 posts)
24. Had a Covid Christmas
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 01:11 PM
Jan 2023

Never had it before. I had to start traveling for business and got really busy. I ditched the masks and regret it. I do not think the vaccines work for the latest variant. I am tried of wearing them but Covid sucks. I’ve been down for 2 weeks. Had every shot but wish now that I would have masked. Would it have protected me? Maybe but now all I know is my wife and I are now sick and wish we would have kept masking.

Rebl2

(13,523 posts)
45. I think
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 02:11 PM
Jan 2023

the shot helps keep you out of the hospital, but doesn’t keep you from getting it necessarily. Will keep up my masking since I visit a nursing home to see parent.

OldBaldy1701E

(5,134 posts)
114. To quote Wanda Sykes...
Tue Jan 3, 2023, 08:33 AM
Jan 2023

"Getting a vaccine does not mean you won't get COVID, it just means you wont DIE if you get it." (She was referring to those who seem to think that getting the first vaccine meant that you did not have to wear a mask or even worry about the disease anymore. Stupid to think that the vaccine was a sci-fi cure, but when you have experienced our modern educational model first hand...

 

Effete Snob

(8,387 posts)
9. "then" refers to time; "than" refers to comparisons
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 12:31 PM
Jan 2023

When you are comparing one thing to another, such as in this case comparing your inconvenience to the potential death of others, you want to use "than" instead of "then".

Marcus IM

(2,209 posts)
15. Zero reasons for you.
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 12:42 PM
Jan 2023

Of course. Screw reasons. We don't need no stinking reasons. We're Americans, dammit. Living in the free-est and greatest most envied country on earth. And THE BEST IS YET TO COME.


Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
18. But, but, but...
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 12:44 PM
Jan 2023

Well over a million dead.

Over a hundred thousand American still dying each year, but we've done our fair share to keep deaths down?

How about the next pandemic-capable disease(s), arriving any time but otherwise a sure thing?

Does this "fair" share cover the next one too?

The MAGA types are liable to start maliciously spreading it out of control before they even know how bad it is, making containment far more difficult than it has been in the past. Just sayin'...

oregonjen

(3,338 posts)
20. The thing is, it isn't just about you
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 12:47 PM
Jan 2023

You might be done, but there are so many people that are vulnerable.

Response to oregonjen (Reply #20)

Happy Hoosier

(7,314 posts)
64. Kinda does...
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 04:12 PM
Jan 2023

If Covid becomes endemic, do we just wear masks forever? The vaccines help protect and drastically reduce severity. The pain in the ass to risk ratio is very high right now IMO. YMMV.

Ace Rothstein

(3,163 posts)
74. It will become endemic at some point.
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 04:31 PM
Jan 2023

Wearing a mask is fine, trying to mandate the wearing of masks is not. There is a reason nobody was running on COVID restrictions during the midterms.

Happy Hoosier

(7,314 posts)
78. I think it is already....
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 04:36 PM
Jan 2023

A virologist friend of mine agrees. But don’t get me wrong… I fully support anyone who chooses to wear a mask if they feel the risk to themselves or others is great enough.

Hope22

(1,842 posts)
116. I think we need a waver for those who don't mask.
Tue Jan 3, 2023, 09:22 AM
Jan 2023

No mask, no going to the hospital when Covid bites them back. My senior family member in KY fell after Thanksgiving. The trip to the hospital found full gurneys in the ER hallways And no beds available upstairs. This person slept two nights IN the ER. On day three she was moved to outpatient recovery area to cue up for a bed upstairs. Day four she actually got a bed and god knows what all she exposed people to as she was parked throughout the hospital. Imagine being in the recovery room after a knee scope with a curtain between you and someone who had been exposed to who knows what after the ER. How many post op people ended up with a virus. The hospitals are still in gridlock and understaffed. We can at least do our best to stay out of them.

Disaffected

(4,557 posts)
89. For as long as it takes IMO.
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 06:12 PM
Jan 2023

There are many folks amongst us, due to medical conditions or perhaps children whose parents who are too ignorant to get them vaccinated, who do not derive a great deal of protection from the vaccines. As well, those who are vaccinated and healthy have no guarantees they will not be seriously affected by Covid (either short or long). Also, it is almost certain that new variants will develop and we may become infected before vaccines are available to handle it.

Personally, I don't get what the big deal is with wearing a mask. It's a minor inconvenience compared to the benefit it confers. They also BTW protect against other respiratory diseases such as colds and flu.

Dressing in warm clothing in winter is also an inconvenience but we do it because it makes sense - wearing a mask IMO is not that much different. Help yourself and help others while you are at it....

orleans

(34,060 posts)
49. i know you're being droll or sarcastic & good reply btw
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 02:33 PM
Jan 2023

however, and as you know, it's been difficult for ALL of us
and by "all of us" i mean those of us who continue to mask, social distance, use the hand sanitizer that lives in the car the moment we get out of the grocery store, or pump gas, etc.

yes, it is tiresome, bothersome, limiting in activities, limiting socially, a pain in ass (not to mention hot and annoying) when you wear that fucking mask at work.

it sucks actually.
it's been a real adjustment for us

it seems that either so many people have never heard of (or don't give a shit about)
the greater good
that mindset that has fallen by the wayside

obviously

i don't want to get covid
i don't want to unknowingly infect my daughter or granddaughter or anyone else i come in contact with (people i know, or strangers)

i can't imagine knowing/thinking i unintentionally killed someone because i was so over covid, or i had already put in enuf time being careful

i know it's a pain in the ass
i know it sucks...
but really
where is our social conscience ?


LuckyCharms

(17,444 posts)
54. Here's the way I look at it.
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 02:52 PM
Jan 2023

I'm a juvenile diabetic.

I have hypertension, that 4 different meds can barely control.

I take 16 prescription meds per day, plus 6 to 8 needles per day of two different kinds of insulin.

I have stage 3 chronic kidney disease, knocking on the door of stage 4.

I have an auto-immune skin disease.

My diabetes is so brittle that I get about 2 hours sleep a night, due to my glucose monitor sounding loud alarms for either a high or low glucose.

My brother was killed by this disease. We have the same genes, and he wasn't as sick as I am.

I want to go out, like everyone else does. And I do. But I view unmasked people as flying bullets that I need to dodge. So I wear a ridiculously well-fitted N95 and hope I don't get it, and hope I do not bring it home to my wife, who is also compromised.

My wife works with disabled adults. I hear stories every day about how some of these individuals are ending up on ventilators in spite of being vaxxed.

We both contribute to society. We both work our asses off, in spite of our illnesses.

When I hear people complaining about a mask, I think about the people of Ukraine, who literally have to walk TO ANOTHER COUNTRY with their clothes on their back, along with their children.

I've been messed with twice about wearing a mask, and I slapped them down verbally quickly. I get looks every time I go out with a mask. I get smirks.

When people say "I'm done", I think "I'm so done that I fantasize about someone getting physical with me over my mask, so I can fucking throttle them".

Yes, a mask is not pleasant. But there are worse things. I view unmasked people as I would someone who is trying to kill me. I view people saying "I'm done" as being weak, and uncaring towards others.

I have a lot of living left to do in spite of my health problems, and no son of a bitch is going to take that away from me. Sorry for the language, but I'm expressing exactly how I feel.

liberal_mama

(1,495 posts)
58. That's exactly how I feel too. My husband doesn't wear a mask so I have to live with a selfish
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 03:19 PM
Jan 2023

uncaring person who is constantly trying to kill me. It's a terrible thing. I can't believe there are so many people that have no compassion for others.

I lost my dad to Covid 2 months ago because of these anti-mask plague spreaders. I feel like he was murdered.

Even if someone is healthy and feels they will have a good outcome and avoid long Covid, surely they must have immune compromised and elderly people in their lives. Would they want to see them die in such a horrible way? And Covid is a horribly painful death. I will never be able to get the images of my father suffering so much in his final weeks.

Orrex

(63,216 posts)
83. .
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 04:45 PM
Jan 2023


Rather like Trump revealing the fundamentally racist, hateful nature of Republican voters, the COVID pandemic has revealed society at large as selfish and lacking in basic empathy.

liberal_mama

(1,495 posts)
87. Yeah, that part is so devastating to me. I always thought it was mostly the republicans that were
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 05:20 PM
Jan 2023

selfish people with no empathy. It's hard to come to grips with the realization that so many people are so lacking in compassion.

 

Effete Snob

(8,387 posts)
117. It's astounding
Tue Jan 3, 2023, 09:30 AM
Jan 2023

I have also re-calibrated my general notion of what sort of behavior can be expected of people in general, and it has little to do with professed ideals.

electric_blue68

(14,912 posts)
99. So sorry that your husband is being selfish, and that you lost your dad in such an awful way!
Tue Jan 3, 2023, 02:27 AM
Jan 2023

My folks are gone. Sad as that is but they'd have been very early centennials so they'd probably been gone anyway - though they have long life genes (early-mid 90's).

At least I don't have to worry about them catching it.

Good luck to you!

Orrex

(63,216 posts)
82. I wish I could rec your post
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 04:43 PM
Jan 2023

I know a survivor of pediatric cancer whose immune system is shot through absolutely no fault of her own.

Every time I hear someone pissing and moaning about the intolerable burden of masks, I wonder if they truly don't know how many people they put at risk simply by refusing to take minimal steps of consideration or caution.

I hope that they're simply ignorant rather than blindly selfish or deliberately cruel.

LuckyCharms

(17,444 posts)
84. Thank you, Orrex. I can understand simple ignorance or
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 04:50 PM
Jan 2023

lack of knowledge, but my gut feel is that many (most?) anti-maskers have no problem expressing their disdain for people who mask.

I don't know though, all of this is based on my observations only, which don't really mean much.

I do not judge ignorance...I'm ignorant of a million different things. It's the people who don't even try to understand the plight of the chronically ill that make me screw myself into the ceiling.

electric_blue68

(14,912 posts)
100. Wow...
Tue Jan 3, 2023, 02:35 AM
Jan 2023

I want to give you Kudos for your embrace of enjoying life the best you can despite all your health issues!

I hope some will ease up, stabilize etc.


(my mom got ill with severe asthma when I was about
5 1/2 yrs old improved some, then quite more 10+ yrs later but we always had to be careful not to give her our occasional colds.)

LuckyCharms

(17,444 posts)
101. Thank you, electric_blue68...
Tue Jan 3, 2023, 02:46 AM
Jan 2023

To be honest, I'm not doing very well. I've had severe diarrhea for about 3 months. I was scheduled for both an endoscopy and a colonoscopy for tomorrow, but it was canceled because I ended up in the ER at midnight a couple of weeks ago with diverticulitis, and you can't have those procedures done until at least 6 weeks after a diverticulitis diagnosis.

So I just keep telling myself that there are worse things...and it's true...there are a million worse things, and I have it good compared to a lot of people.

But that doesn't mean that I'm not a miserable SOB right now.

niyad

(113,347 posts)
106. I do not have your health issues, LC, and I know that I am lucky. But because YOU do,
Tue Jan 3, 2023, 02:54 AM
Jan 2023

I continue to wear that f'n mask. For you and your wife, and everyone with whom I come in contact. (although. . .there are one or two. . .). It seems like the very least I can do.

I have only had one person actually say anything to me, and it cracked me up. I was pulling up my mask as I was about to enter the grocery store. A woman smirked at me and trilled, "danger. danger. scared Democrats inside." My first instinct was to tell her to f*** off. But I figured she was expecting that. Instead, I just said, "Thank you. That means there are intelligent people in there." And just kept walking, my purse at the ready.

LuckyCharms

(17,444 posts)
108. I appreciate people like you.
Tue Jan 3, 2023, 03:07 AM
Jan 2023

And as far as interactions with others during the pandemic, I have a confession...

I take complete joy in embarrassing strangers who even LOOK like they are going to give me shit about my mask. I don't give them any crap for not wearing a mask, they shouldn't be giving me crap for wearing one.

As far an "non-strangers", I've had to tell a few friends "You're not vaxxed, you don't mask, and you hit the bars every night, so don't even think about coming near me until you wise up".

Orrex

(63,216 posts)
81. Well, I suppose if you're going to pick an arbitrary, ill-substantiated number, 3 is as good as any
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 04:40 PM
Jan 2023

If nothing else, the ongoing COVID pandemic reminds us that people are, at their root, selfish creatures who will fiercely dig in their heels if called upon to do anything that compromises their leisure or comfort.

It's funny how we're lately told that the only valid preventative measures are coincidentally the only one (vaccination) that requires no ongoing consideration or effort by the individual. But if it's even a minimal, trifling inconvenience? Bah! It can't possibly work!

electric_blue68

(14,912 posts)
102. Some people (are definitely on the Uberselfish list!)...
Tue Jan 3, 2023, 02:48 AM
Jan 2023

After nearly 3 yrs I'm kind of fed up with mask wearing,
and I will still continue to do so to protect myself and others.
Just the way it has to be for as long as it takes. I still have cut my outside, going somewhere activities by 85% - that's what I really am upset about.

I never learned how to drive do it's always Public Transit for which I'm truly grateful for...but it means exposure to So Many people now esp since they ditched me be mask Requirement on buses, not sure about the subways.

I live alone so I can be mask free in my apt. And when there are few people around outside. And I miss the (not when it's really crowded ) hustle & bustle of being out on the streets of NYC - Manhattan, some Brooklyn, and The Bronx.

gratuitous

(82,849 posts)
5. It's really quite simple
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 12:27 PM
Jan 2023

Which is why so many people are resistant - sometimes violently so - to taking a simple, effective and CHEAP countermeasure when they're out and about. I haven't been confronted yet, but I want to be ready with my response, which I've decided will be, "I'm getting on, and the mask helps me remember to mind my own business."

liberalla

(9,249 posts)
51. That's very good! The "mind my own business" part!
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 02:39 PM
Jan 2023

I never stopped wearing my mask. I just feel better having it on. When it comes up in conversation, I just say I have no problem wearing a mask. I'm perfectly comfortable having it on my face. Sometimes I can't resist commenting on people who had such a such a problem with it... I don't understand what the big deal is/was. It's simple and comfortable.

IronLionZion

(45,457 posts)
12. I wear a mask because it angers conservatives
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 12:36 PM
Jan 2023

I got lots of dirty looks in Florida over Christmas especially at the crowded Orlando airport. Tons of kids and respiratory viruses this winter so good luck.

XanaDUer2

(10,683 posts)
13. We mask still
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 12:37 PM
Jan 2023

We have all shots and boosters. We're often the only ones masked in our 2 stores. Messaging led me to believe that shots meant i didn't need a mask anymore. So, I caught it in a masks-optional doctor's office. Learned my lesson the hard way. Brought it home.

All my other doctors' offices requires masks.
I learned the hard way. Never going inside public places wo a mask on.

Rebl2

(13,523 posts)
19. I go
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 12:47 PM
Jan 2023

to a rheumatologist and the last time I was there, it was mask optional. I really don’t get it since many of the patients take drugs that suppress their immune systems. I would not be able to take Paxlovid because of weight requirement and I don’t weigh enough.

XanaDUer2

(10,683 posts)
41. This was the eye doctor
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 01:46 PM
Jan 2023

This was in August. I don't get it. I was idiotic to believe i no longer needed a mask. I brought it home to my SO , 70. And he had 2 courses of paxlovid. I still worry about him.

My friend says everyone was masked when he was there. So i have no clue what's going on now in that office.

LisaM

(27,813 posts)
17. I would change "humility" to "safety".
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 12:44 PM
Jan 2023

I think it makes a better point. Telling people you're "humble" is pretty much telling them you're not.

Pinback

(12,157 posts)
53. +1. Safety for all is actually the only reason.
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 02:47 PM
Jan 2023

A mask is a tool. Republicans and other selfish people have made masks (or lack thereof) a battle flag.

Alpeduez21

(1,751 posts)
26. I wear a mask any time I'm indoors and
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 01:14 PM
Jan 2023

It’s not my home. I don’t go to shows or restaurants.

I wear one cause I don’t want to give it or get it and then give it

highplainsdem

(49,004 posts)
27. Great tweet! I wore a mask at the (crowded) grocery store two days ago, but I saw only a
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 01:15 PM
Jan 2023

handful of people doing the same. Disheartening, especially given all the news stories about continued risks and hospitals near capacity.

TeamProg

(6,143 posts)
28. #4 My wife likes to keep hers on in the grocery store so no one can see her talking to
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 01:16 PM
Jan 2023

herself while deciding over which fruit and veggies to pick out.

dawn5651

(604 posts)
33. my sister and i had all the covid symptoms...the dr. said it wasn't covid so it must
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 01:24 PM
Jan 2023

have been that viral illness was making people sick especially kids....we were sick for 2 weeks and still have the cough once in a while...i have had all of the vaccines for covid that have been available to someone in my age group..5 so far.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
37. Yes! For our safety and for the safety of others and our nation.
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 01:38 PM
Jan 2023
Hubby and I are high risk of dying if we get it even though fully vaccinated, but hardly the only ones.

Currently @79% of Americans have been partly to fully (68%) vaccinated.

Vaccines are highly effective at keeping people from dying. YET, 6 out of 10 people of the far lower numbers who now die have been vaccinated. They need further protection. (As of course do the other 40% who still aren't vaccinated.)

P.S. There's no conflict that vaccines work great but that the percentage of those who die are vaccinated is rising. For one, there's a numbers-adjustment thing involved:

In 2020, 0% of the quarter million people who died were vaccinated. Obviously.

Today, with 79% vaccinated, although the numbers of deaths have plunged dramatically, since vaccines can't save everyone, some of those who die will now have been vaccinated, raising that percentage from the 0% vaccinated of 2020 to 60% of a far lower death toll.

Plus, that unfortunate 60% tends to be both vaccinated and higher risk. There are other reasons too.



Roc2020

(1,616 posts)
42. Admittingly I don't wear a mask anymore. But...
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 01:49 PM
Jan 2023

I always have one close by in the car or my pocket. And if the place looks shoulder to shoulder crowded, I don't hesitate to put it on

pnwmom

(108,980 posts)
46. A CDC rep was on MSNBC today urging everyone to go back to wearing masks
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 02:12 PM
Jan 2023

because the new variants are so contagious, and evade antibodies of previous infections and the vaccines.

The only glimmer of hope was that the bivalent vaccines still reduce the risk of hospitalization and death.

liberal_mama

(1,495 posts)
52. Wouldn't it be better just to have it on? These new variants are so contagious that a place
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 02:47 PM
Jan 2023

doesn't have to be shoulder to shoulder crowded for you to be at risk. My dad died of Covid 2 months ago and it's a horrible way to die.

sorcrow

(418 posts)
50. I wear one for the same reasons
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 02:35 PM
Jan 2023

In addition, if I pull up my mask and pull down my hat, most of my wrinkles are covered.

Best regards,
Sorghum Crow

Ace Rothstein

(3,163 posts)
55. I wore one the other day for the first time since March.
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 02:58 PM
Jan 2023

I had to have a MRI and masks were required at the facility.

GB_RN

(2,356 posts)
56. I Wear A Mask To This Day...
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 03:03 PM
Jan 2023

Not just for myself, but for my elderly parents (especially my mom who’s immunocompromised) and everyone else I don’t know about. It’s selfish not to.

maxsolomon

(33,345 posts)
59. Outdoors? No.
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 03:20 PM
Jan 2023

Indoors? Depends.

Not at work - everyone has to be vaccinated in the office, and we have to affirm our health status every day. Is that a non-zero risk? No, but I am comfortable with it, and it's been working for >18 months.

Groceries and other retail settings, yes. Always have. Although, since I just had Covid (Xmas Party in early December), I'm not contagious and I have temporary immunity.

Really, there needs to be a distinction made in posts like this - outdoor transmission is basically non-existent.

GoodRaisin

(8,924 posts)
60. Never stopped wearing mine.
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 03:22 PM
Jan 2023

Sometimes it feels all alone in doing so, but will continue just the same. I’m all vaxed up too. Nobody needs to worry about getting sick from me.

indigovalley

(113 posts)
77. I wear a mask to protect myself and my students
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 04:33 PM
Jan 2023

I am one of two teachers at my school who still wears a mask at work. I have Lupus so I don't need long COVID on top of it if I can help it. So the mask lessens the chance of me getting COVID. I know its not 100% protection but given that I am in large classes where students are often actively sick it wouldn't make sense to go completely without any protection at all for myself. I have a serious autoimmune disorder.. It amazes me that some people don't understand that and think I'm just scared of being sick or have a political agenda of some kind..

Also, the mask helps prevent me spreading COVID to students. If I were to come down with COVID, and since I work one on one in the classroom (special ed teacher) I could easily spread the virus to students. I wouldn't want to do that, particularly when there are also students I am in contact with who also have significant medical disorders. Its not a big deal to wear a mask in class--it really isn't

I also wear my mask in the cab I take to work and also in stores. I'm one of the few. Even my family doesn't want to hear about COVID anymore. They think I don't need a mask as I've been vaccinated. They think I'm odd for doing so.

My students actually get it. I was asked why I wear a mask at school and I told them I wear it for medical reasons to protect myself and they don't have a problem with it at all.

Dorian Gray

(13,496 posts)
95. Has your school upgraded the HVAC
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 10:26 PM
Jan 2023

to have proper air circulation?

My husband is a teacher. He keeps the window in his classroom open all year around to get air circulation, and he has a little store bought air purifier that I purchased for him to sit in his room. It was about $100. (Not cheap, but worth it.) He also has a small fan blowing on the other side of the room.

He stopped masking this year. (Had covid over the summer, so felt like it was low risk at the beginning of the year and felt like it was much easier to teach all day without the mask on. So he really considered how to get the air circulation going in the room.)

Even if you continue to wear your mask bc it's at your comfort level, there are other ways you can make the room safer for yourself and your students in addition to daily masking.

Good luck. Not easy teaching these days.

DBoon

(22,369 posts)
85. I don't get the opposition to wearing a mask
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 04:50 PM
Jan 2023

I still mask when indoors or crowds.

It is a minor inconvenience. The only problem I have is when I forget a mask at home.

In addition to preventing Covid, it also reduces the risk from other respiratory viruses. I've also found it greatly reduces allergies.

It does not hinder breathing or speaking distinctly. The only time I've needed to remove the mask to breathe is during very vigorous exercise.

It is no more objectionable than any other common sanitary practice, such as washing your hands or covering your mouth while sneezing.

Dorian Gray

(13,496 posts)
96. My daughter (12) objects to wearing a mask all day at
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 10:31 PM
Jan 2023

school then dancing/basketball with it on after school. It's tough to run around and be a kid with a mask on all day. So she doesn't. Her quality of life matters.

I am happy to put mine on when traveling on the subway or running into crowded stores. That's super easy. I work from home, so I don't have to wear it most of the day, anyhow. Wearing a mask in short bursts is much easier than talking all day with one on.

Meowmee

(5,164 posts)
90. I weat it
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 06:15 PM
Jan 2023

To protect myself, it will do that, my family and everyone else and to help stop new variants etc.- it has nothing to do with humility etc.It is an important component of protecting yourself and others, along with vaccination and sd.

I_UndergroundPanther

(12,480 posts)
92. One other reason to wear a mask
Mon Jan 2, 2023, 08:40 PM
Jan 2023

Allergies are less nasty
And the flu does not infect you so easily.
And if you get the flu you dont spread it as easily to others.

lambchopp59

(2,809 posts)
115. Every little bit helps.
Tue Jan 3, 2023, 08:39 AM
Jan 2023

I see so many who are still missing the point.
Where wearing a well fit N95 may protect yourself, the main idea of mass mask wear is limiting the pathogen count in enclosed public spaces.
TFG did immeasurable damage with his "I'm not gonna do it" defiance .

Ferrets are Cool

(21,107 posts)
118. I have a 4th more personal reason. I cannot chance taking anything home to my sick wifey.
Tue Jan 3, 2023, 09:37 AM
Jan 2023

She has no immune system, so I don't go out anywhere without my mask. Usually doubled.

ificandream

(9,373 posts)
120. I wear one everywhere I go, indoors and outdoors.
Tue Jan 3, 2023, 10:06 AM
Jan 2023

I've had COVID (since recovered), and it's not something I want again. i certainly don't want to spread it if it have it now. I'm also over 70, so I'm in the risk group. Finally, I also see it as a political statement to Repughs. Fuck you, assholes. I'm wearing this whether you like it or not. Actually, I hope you don't.

Native

(5,942 posts)
121. I haven't worn one in forever, but I started back up the other day.
Tue Jan 3, 2023, 11:10 AM
Jan 2023

Initially it was because I had a cold and someone we visited over Christmas tested positive for Covid. Just as i was about to go maskless again, I learned that our hospitals are at capacity. We have 3 good sized hospitals, and not a single bed was available when my neighbor needed one yesterday. She had to wait in the ER for 5 hours before one became available. Also reading about the NHS situation kinda freaks me out. That said, I'll still be chancing it at the gym because that's one thing I can't do with a mask.

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