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Nevilledog

(51,121 posts)
Thu Feb 2, 2023, 04:06 PM Feb 2023

She friend-zoned him. He's suing her for $2.3 million over it.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/world/2023/02/02/singapore-rejected-man-sues-woman/

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https://archive.is/UGe35

A man in Singapore is seeking more than $2 million in legal damages against a woman who he said caused him trauma after she rebuffed his romantic advances and told him she saw him only as a friend.

The man, identified as drone racing executive K. Kawshigan in legal documents, alleged in a defamation lawsuit set to be heard in Singapore’s High Court next week that the woman’s rejection caused him “sustained trauma” and “reductions in his earning capacity.” The suit, which the woman is contesting, seeks about $2.3 million in damages for the alleged harm of being friend-zoned.

A separate case filed by Kawshigan in Singapore’s Magistrate Court was struck down last month for abuse of process, and the woman’s lawyers said Kawshigan was ordered to pay her legal costs. In that suit, he had sought nearly $17,000, alleging that the woman had breached an “offer” she made that included “offering room for [Kawshigan] to share inspiration, struggle and achievements” and “meeting up based on mutual availability, beyond coffee settings.”

The woman had argued that the suit seeking $17,000 was abuse of process because it was “brought for an ulterior purpose” to force her to “comply with his demands to, among other things, resume communications with him.”

The lawsuit illustrates a challenge faced by women around the world: That men sometimes feel entitled to their affection. “Women do not owe men their time or attention, much less their friendship, love, sexual activity or emotional labor,” Aware Singapore, which advocates for women’s rights and gender equality, said in a statement regarding the lawsuit. “Attempting to demand or coerce these things, via legal means or otherwise, can constitute harassment.”

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She friend-zoned him. He's suing her for $2.3 million over it. (Original Post) Nevilledog Feb 2023 OP
Jesus, asshole! No means no! It's not actionable. Aristus Feb 2023 #1
This is really a thing? getagrip_already Feb 2023 #2
The victim: dalton99a Feb 2023 #3
. Scrivener7 Feb 2023 #6
That incel can go to hell. ZonkerHarris Feb 2023 #4
Male entitlement writ large. Not too far off from men saying, "Your feelings Scrivener7 Feb 2023 #5
I need to get me a good lawyer. I could make a fortune if lawsuits like this pay off. Midnight Writer Feb 2023 #7
lol 😎 Cha Feb 2023 #10
For sure, now a lot of women are gonna want to go out with him. Irish_Dem Feb 2023 #8
Sounds like an incel. Elessar Zappa Feb 2023 #9
Wanted: Sex slave for litigious asshole. Will buy occasional coffee. No extras. Hermit-The-Prog Feb 2023 #11
Just when you thought male entitlement couldn't get worse.... Coventina Feb 2023 #12
I hope the jury makes him pay her $2.3 million. chowder66 Feb 2023 #13
Dear gawd what a pathetic loser. JanMichael Feb 2023 #14

Scrivener7

(50,955 posts)
5. Male entitlement writ large. Not too far off from men saying, "Your feelings
Thu Feb 2, 2023, 04:15 PM
Feb 2023

don't matter. You must have a baby."

And even if this just amounts to lawyer fees from this woman, that's a lot of money just to keep this disgusting creep off her.

JanMichael

(24,890 posts)
14. Dear gawd what a pathetic loser.
Thu Feb 2, 2023, 06:42 PM
Feb 2023

Now I doubt anybody would ever date him after this ridiculous display of stupidity.

He should probably go load up on ammo and become the incel superman he wants to be.

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