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KentuckyWoman

(6,687 posts)
Sun May 14, 2023, 09:35 AM May 2023

I am not a mom, but I'm a "grandma".

I wanted children so bad. We tried tried and tried again. Almost died trying. Twice.

Now a few other grey hairs and I "adopt" kids who need grandma. Sometimes it wears me out but I would not have it any other way. These years as surrogate grandma have been amazing.

To you Moms and Grandmas. You have the best and worst job. Thank you for doing what you are doing.

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I am not a mom, but I'm a "grandma". (Original Post) KentuckyWoman May 2023 OP
Thank you!! You are a mother in every important sense. yardwork May 2023 #1
Every woman who spends time caring for and loving children is a mom and deserves cudos today. ratchiweenie May 2023 #2
Good words. Thanks. riversedge May 2023 #4
Happy Mother's Day MissMillie May 2023 #3
+++ Higherarky May 2023 #15
Happy Mothers Day KentuckyWoman!! barbtries May 2023 #5
KW, you are a beautiful person DeeDeeNY May 2023 #6
That's a wonderful thing to do!!!! Karadeniz May 2023 #7
And Happy Mom's Day to all Critter Moms. Duppers May 2023 #8
+++ Higherarky May 2023 #16
This Sneederbunk May 2023 #9
Having love to give, and having the opportunity to give it. What its all about. 70sEraVet May 2023 #10
Happy Mother's Day! Freddie May 2023 #11
Happy Mothers Day! You gave some kids the priceless gift of a Grandma! MLAA May 2023 #12
Don't forget about the Steps moreland01 May 2023 #13
+++ Higherarky May 2023 #17
You da BOMB, Gurl! Higherarky May 2023 #14
Being a mother, strengths and fears... StarryNite May 2023 #18

MissMillie

(38,560 posts)
3. Happy Mother's Day
Sun May 14, 2023, 09:53 AM
May 2023

There's nothing more sacred in this world than people choosing to care for other people.

DeeDeeNY

(3,355 posts)
6. KW, you are a beautiful person
Sun May 14, 2023, 11:00 AM
May 2023

I have 2 kids but will never have grandchildren with them. But I hope to some day adopt kids who need a grandma just like you.

Duppers

(28,125 posts)
8. And Happy Mom's Day to all Critter Moms.
Sun May 14, 2023, 11:15 AM
May 2023

Your hearts are big and my hat's off to you.

Cake for you 🍰.

70sEraVet

(3,504 posts)
10. Having love to give, and having the opportunity to give it. What its all about.
Sun May 14, 2023, 11:21 AM
May 2023

I'll bet youre a GREAT grandma!

Freddie

(9,267 posts)
11. Happy Mother's Day!
Sun May 14, 2023, 11:35 AM
May 2023

So many kids need a “grandma” like you!
My late sister-in-law, who I loved dearly, couldn’t have kids, went through an ugly divorce and after she married again she felt she was too old to adopt. But she was the best aunt and great-aunt anyone could have. She got through to my kids when they were troubled teens and wouldn’t listen to us. Always think of her especially on Mother’s Day.

StarryNite

(9,446 posts)
18. Being a mother, strengths and fears...
Sun May 14, 2023, 11:50 AM
May 2023

“Being a mother is learning about strengths you didn’t know you had, and dealing with fears you didn’t know existed.”
– Linda Wooten

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