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Trisha Yearwood: "Be careful who you hate..... (Original Post) Tanuki Jun 2023 OP
OK Trisha KS Toronado Jun 2023 #1
Actually KentuckyWoman Jun 2023 #25
Who you hate, you'll have to be in the next life peppertree Jun 2023 #2
My grandmother would have approved this message. She used to say similar things all the time. LoisB Jun 2023 #5
Aww. Thanks for sharing that. peppertree Jun 2023 #12
It is funny how strange life is. You would think the values of your great-grandmother would have LoisB Jun 2023 #16
Well said. And I like to think we see them again - or finally meet peppertree Jun 2023 #17
I think I don't believe in heaven or hell but I know I believe in another level of consciousness; a LoisB Jun 2023 #18
Something to look forward to, I guess peppertree Jun 2023 #19
But I don't wanna be a Nazi chowmama Jun 2023 #7
Well, that's revulsion - which is a perfectly reasonable reaction peppertree Jun 2023 #10
Thanks Trisha!!!! spanone Jun 2023 #3
Makes you stop and think. calimary Jun 2023 #4
I agree in principle. LoisB Jun 2023 #6
Kick. n/t Upthevibe Jun 2023 #8
Well, I hate Donald Trump, so there is no chance he's someone I love. nt SunSeeker Jun 2023 #9
Hahahahahahahahahaha!!! oldsoftie Jun 2023 #14
Yeah, but is your entire personality hating Donald Trump? Collimator Jun 2023 #23
Love Tricia and Garth. They're good Democrats, which probably isn't always easy given catbyte Jun 2023 #11
I believe many American families have a member or close friend who is gay FakeNoose Jun 2023 #13
Agreed Jilly_in_VA Jun 2023 #24
I like it, but the far-right, usually religious people, have a work around. Behind the Aegis Jun 2023 #15
No kidding. It's a pretty crapulous axiom. Aristus Jun 2023 #22
isn't that an oxymoron? SouthernDem4ever Jun 2023 #20
Go Trisha!! brettdale Jun 2023 #21

peppertree

(21,706 posts)
2. Who you hate, you'll have to be in the next life
Sat Jun 3, 2023, 01:00 PM
Jun 2023
Especially if you act on it.

So as to learn empathy for that person or those people.*

*Hate due to being a victim of someone's wrongdoing is a major mitigator - though forgiveness is still best.

peppertree

(21,706 posts)
12. Aww. Thanks for sharing that.
Sat Jun 3, 2023, 02:38 PM
Jun 2023

My two grandmothers weren't that way at all, sadly - and both ended up very unhappy.

But one of my great-grandmothers was. She lived to be 92 (would've lived longer, but for an inherited gall-bladder affliction), and was loved by everyone who knew her.

LoisB

(7,249 posts)
16. It is funny how strange life is. You would think the values of your great-grandmother would have
Sat Jun 3, 2023, 04:11 PM
Jun 2023

rubbed off. I only knew one of my grandmothers, the other died the year I was born. I like to think she was nice.

peppertree

(21,706 posts)
17. Well said. And I like to think we see them again - or finally meet
Sat Jun 3, 2023, 05:07 PM
Jun 2023

We'll know when the time comes, I suppose.

LoisB

(7,249 posts)
18. I think I don't believe in heaven or hell but I know I believe in another level of consciousness; a
Sat Jun 3, 2023, 06:12 PM
Jun 2023

spirit world if you like. Yes, we will find out if there is something and if there is nothing, we won't know.

chowmama

(416 posts)
7. But I don't wanna be a Nazi
Sat Jun 3, 2023, 02:23 PM
Jun 2023

or any other kind of fascist.

More seriously, I've never thought of hate as a separate emotion. I think it's a subset of fear. Hate is a name we have for a particular kind of fear. You never see hate without fear; haters feel personally threatened, rightly or wrongly, by the hated.

I'm not sure I actually fear fascists. I'm just really certain I want to do anything necessary to keep them from getting their way.

peppertree

(21,706 posts)
10. Well, that's revulsion - which is a perfectly reasonable reaction
Sat Jun 3, 2023, 02:35 PM
Jun 2023

If you, say, hated Germans or German-Americans - that would be a problem.

If a Ukrainian hates Putin and his entourage, he hates them for what they're doing.

That said, detached objection would probably be best - though it's easier said than done.

Collimator

(1,639 posts)
23. Yeah, but is your entire personality hating Donald Trump?
Sun Jun 4, 2023, 09:47 AM
Jun 2023





And Republicans say that Liberals can't make fun of themselves.

catbyte

(34,505 posts)
11. Love Tricia and Garth. They're good Democrats, which probably isn't always easy given
Sat Jun 3, 2023, 02:37 PM
Jun 2023

the general political leanings of many country music fans. Look what happened to the Dixie Chicks back in 2003 or so. Country music isn't my favorite genre, but I have bought music from them, Faith Hill, Tim McGraw, Willie Nelson, and The Chicks.

FakeNoose

(32,849 posts)
13. I believe many American families have a member or close friend who is gay
Sat Jun 3, 2023, 02:41 PM
Jun 2023

... and I'm including the Repuke families in that estimate too. Some families won't publicly acknowledge it out of fear or anger. But most Americans can see what the unfair prejudice and hatred towards gays has done to hurt their loved ones.

That's why I believe there will be little traction in this garbage that's being spouted by Lauren Boebert and Empty-Gee, among others. It's going to backfire on them, because I believe most Americans want the discrimination and hateful intolerance to end. Maybe Repukes don't have the nerve to stand up to the loudmouth assholes, but they will vote to protect their own friends and loved ones when the time comes.

Trisha Yearwood is perhaps illustrating quite vividly that ALL OF US probably know someone who is being harmed by the illegal and hateful discrimination of LGBTQ Americans.

Jilly_in_VA

(10,031 posts)
24. Agreed
Sun Jun 4, 2023, 11:51 AM
Jun 2023

And so many don't know it because that family member or friend is afraid of coming out to them.

Behind the Aegis

(54,037 posts)
15. I like it, but the far-right, usually religious people, have a work around.
Sat Jun 3, 2023, 03:07 PM
Jun 2023

"Hate the sin, love the sinner." I have heard that so many times, a bit of bile rose in my throat even writing it.

Aristus

(66,500 posts)
22. No kidding. It's a pretty crapulous axiom.
Sat Jun 3, 2023, 09:33 PM
Jun 2023

If anyone bleated that horseshit at me, I would simply point out that they’re just inventing a rationalization for their hatred.

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